FabSwingers.com forum: What brings you back?

By *ogo1189 OP Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

Following on from the question of “why did you join”. A lot of people said that it wasn’t what they expected but they kept coming back.

Why? Was fab what you were expecting? What keeps you coming back? Are you an on and off user? How could it improve?

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

A buy one, get one free offer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saggy tits

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Chatting shit on the forums and meeting at organised socials keep me here

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

At the moment I've no idea

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the "Smash or Pass" threads that keep reeling me back in

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’d say forums are quite fascinating but that’s about it.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’d say forums are quite fascinating but that’s about it."

I have to agree, it’s the forums and little else at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I needed my inbox full of cock pics. Otherwise I’d never know what a cock looks of in this lifetime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums. I like the silliness, the occasional thoughtful thread and being able to discuss sex openly.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Following on from the question of “why did you join”. A lot of people said that it wasn’t what they expected but they kept coming back.

Why? Was fab what you were expecting? What keeps you coming back? Are you an on and off user? How could it improve?"

Habit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since discovering the Lounge I have not left, but over the past 10+ years I have left many times. The reason I came back each time is "cos I am an addict". Is there such a thing as Fabaholics Anonymous or are you going to direct me one of the centres that the stars (such as Russell Brand or Tiger Woods) go to for their sex addiction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I needed my inbox full of cock pics. Otherwise I’d never know what a cock looks of in this lifetime.

Ah ha, the old convent school girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? The forums. We like going to clubs but we don’t need a fab profile to do that, although it does help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly? The forums. We like going to clubs but we don’t need a fab profile to do that, although it does help."

FATTIIIIII

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly? The forums. We like going to clubs but we don’t need a fab profile to do that, although it does help.

FATTIIIIII

Cannot believe the got him

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

The fun of the forums, obviously not those threads that for no inexplicable reason become mean and nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tons of meets which end in amazing mind blowing sex

Back to life, back to reality and I’m back for the forums and possible meets/socials

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

The sheer entertainment of the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, its a point of musing for a lot of us.

Habit probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly? The forums. We like going to clubs but we don’t need a fab profile to do that, although it does help.

FATTIIIIII

Cannot believe the got him"

Barca knocked us back for him last season

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Free platinum membership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since discovering the Lounge I have not left, but over the past 10+ years I have left many times. The reason I came back each time is "cos I am an addict". Is there such a thing as Fabaholics Anonymous or are you going to direct me one of the centres that the stars (such as Russell Brand or Tiger Woods) go to for their sex addiction?

funny as.. I believe we are all addicted to sex. I more though of the illusionary now you see it now you do not. As I had it now I do not. It is hard work just to initiate conversation.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Revenge - only joking. Or am i

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

The fora as a whole.

The main thing is the people. The friendships I've made, unexpectedly. The socials. There's a lot of good to be found on here and it's nice to focus on the positives. When it gets to the point I'm actively not enjoying it I take some time away

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

For me it is the erudite forums and the generally inclusive nature of all the discussions within said locale.

Plus the sex. Mainly the sex. In fact only the sex to be honest

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I come back because of the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Following on from the question of “why did you join”. A lot of people said that it wasn’t what they expected but they kept coming back.

Why? Was fab what you were expecting? What keeps you coming back? Are you an on and off user? How could it improve?"

I've never left.

I was tempted recently given a specific incident that tainted my view about how people portray themselves and I tract with others.

But then I thought no.

Why let one person get to me so much that they force me off site. Its just one person after all. Despite them still being here its easy to ignore and avoid them and to scroll on by what they write. Most, if not the majority are fundamentally different, so why not embrace their input and company instead.

So I'm going nowhere, in the hope that the good times return. Who knows. I may even get as lucky as I once did and find another partner on here.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came back for cock, after getting a type of cock I didn't want and wasn't aiming for.

Trouble is it's hard to find cock in a sea of cocks.

I enjoyed the forums too for a while, till people started being cocks.

It's all about the cock.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Took a sabbatical, modified my mindset and being cautious about who I interact with. Came back, blocked the players, idiots and stirrers. Not here to piss about or be pissed about.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've left and returned 3 times and each time was with a renewed energy to improve rather than repeat previous experiences.

In the last 3 years the forums are the only part of the site I've used. I don't search profiles and I don't message.

I've been very lucky to find a fwb who is an amazing and supportive friend first and foremost.

I spend less than an hour a day on here and a big part of why I'm still here is that I know there are a select few who wish I wasn't here because I don't bend the knee.

I enjoy taking part in the forums.

The fact that it annoys some is just an added bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this point I really don't know why I'm still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made an account and had it for about 4-5 hours and just got hundreds of messages and dick pics, so I deleted it.

Came back because I was told how to filter messages on here etc, and then discovered the lovely forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this point I really don't know why I'm still here "

Cos you are 'The Great Wonko' and you entertain us. Plus if you can survive trips to Croydon, you can stay a little longer on Fab (no where near as scary)

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

I just like popping into the forums now and again to see what the what is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly? The forums. We like going to clubs but we don’t need a fab profile to do that, although it does help.

FATTIIIIII

Cannot believe the got him

Barca knocked us back for him last season

He's not even on the bench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums and looking at sexy pics

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