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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

People have happily told me that they have screenshotted and tributed my pics, once it's on the net its on the net, nothing I can do about it apart from control what I post and send to people.

That goes for words as well

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Unfortunately it isnt worry it is fact. People do share pictures with others not just here. Thats why i nolonger have pictures on my profile. Why i only accept FR from people i have met. Why i don't exchange pictures unless there is definite chance of meeting. Burned too many times, hard to trust and for that you just get abuse.

Simple rule if you don't want anything shared (even without your permission) don't post it.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If people want to share my stuff on here go ahead...makes no difference to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, why do you think it all got locked down hahaha.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We wouldn't trust that many people on here ,as we know v well people will bend the truth to get a meet/chat etc.

We 're happy to share our face pics when we've chatted with someone & not yet had any issues ,but obviously we know it goes on with members sharing others faces in group chats etc.

I think you just have to try and use your common sense ,if something doesn't feel right don't go there.

We don't do face pic Friday now (due to people apparently sharing others faces).

We don't have any graphic shots with our faces on etc.

Miss

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I trust some. I don’t trust all. Go with your gut, Pickle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't worry about it but I think it would be naive to think that stuff isn't shared and people don't gossip.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and I trust very few internet people. I've been kicking around cyberspace for too long

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I trust everybody until they show they not trustworthy

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I know my face has been shared because they couldn't believe how beautiful I was and had to show all of their friends.

I would not share photos from Face pic Friday threads.

If they wanted other people to see them they would show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't trust myself on here let alone anyone else....however I really don't care, you reep what you sow, if you're on here then expect the worst

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Unfortunately not, it takes a lot for me to trust someone these days

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Trust no one I don’t show my face on here, either in public or friends only pics. No face, no case lol. I only have pics on my profile that I think are nice and wouldn’t be too panicked if they were shared. If I was to get chatting with someone, I may send a face pic further down the line but generally not with anyone from my local area in case they happened to share with someone I know.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I don't worry about people sharing photos on here. I don't post anything that I'd be concerned about.

Elsewhere? If people want to be dicks, they will. You can't control that.

Trust is easily lost with some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t trust people to not share pics or messages on here so I’m very careful who I send what to

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Pics deffo get shared or taken and put elsewhere! Happened to me! Does it bother me? Not to any degree no! Bit peeved but once u put stuff on line u have no control where it might end up x

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I trust no one.

Anywhere.

Ever.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind? "

I'm not bothered if messages and pictures are shared its a compliment for me.

I have one friend in the swinging scene that we share generic details of speaking with others but not specific details such as name and pictures.

I don't see a problem with that but anything invasive is unfair to the others that I would be speaking to.

If a person is ignorant and inconsiderate then they would be the ones to do as you mentioned OP

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

In life if you don't trust and are not respectful how do you expect it back return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I'd want to show my face public or DM to get that hurdle cleared early on. That said I'm reluctant to, as if I have been duped by a fraudster, someone will have my face to share as theirs. As others have said, gut feeling and only share what I don't care might be shared further.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Search deep in your heart OP and you’ll find the answer

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

I don't trust a single person on here. Why would I?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have most of our veri’s on display so it’s kind of sharing who we’ve interacted with but we would never share pics that others have sent us direct.

If they are a mutual friend then we’d share some information, like what they are like but we wouldn’t gossip about someone.

Who knows if there’s gossip groups - it’s not something we’d want to be a part of or care about.

We aren’t here to change peoples opinions about us - we are here to make connections that lead to fun times…

K

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not really but I don’t share anything or tell anyone anything or show or leave veris so nothing to worry about really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never put face pics up only one up there is one done for verification

If it’s out there admin and site owner can expect 5-10 in the pokey for brake the law

Anything sed in message I would say public so what gossip is there none

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs "

Ugh. I've seen a few warnings about this now. I've set all face pics to private as a result

J

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It doesn’t really worry me if people share my stuff, slag me off or sing my praises, make up gossip or any of that. If people aren’t prepared to make up their own mind about me then they’re not worth meeting.

I don’t share other peoples pics or stuff with others, that wouldn’t feel right (certainly if it was private/friend only pics). I’m sure there are times when I chat with people from fab about fab, but I don’t mention names, unless they’re a mutual friend.

Fab is a social circle by and large, so you’re bound to discuss people and activities, as long as it isn’t done maliciously (which is avoidable) I see no harm.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

Ugh. I've seen a few warnings about this now. I've set all face pics to private as a result

J"

It was private inboxes that were shared unfortunately

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

Ugh. I've seen a few warnings about this now. I've set all face pics to private as a result

J

It was private inboxes that were shared unfortunately

Mrs "

That’s illegal simple go to the cops they injoy they stay at the government behest or put on a register

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm fully aware about the gossip mongers on here. I've been shown screenshots. I don't care no. They can't hurt me. But I trust very very few people here.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind? "

I don't care. I like how I look in my pics. Worse case scenario is that a pic from here gets leaked online somewhere but then it's just like, "oh no people saw me looking hot, anyway..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a female of a couple for a long time.

It was flirty & sometimes more than that with the odd picture sharing.

She asked a few times for a face pic but I'm quite new to this and didn't feel comfortable.

Months went by when her hub seemed to get jeleaous pretending to be her saying my cock was small & that she felt sorry for me then blocked me for no reason!!

So glad I didn't share my face pic & due to that probably never will!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs "

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

No…we don’t share anything from here with people we know, so don’t expect others to do so, and assume the same respect is a given.

But we’ve no control over whether they do or don’t, so it’s not worth worrying about really.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not."

Oh they’ll be reading it. I’m so sure I’d bet my house on it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not."

I doubt it some people have zero respect or remorse she probably doesn't care what impact it would have on those who sent messages/pics.

Mrs

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not.

Oh they’ll be reading it. I’m so sure I’d bet my house on it. "

But as to remorse? Oh sweet summer child.

I saw another topic here where a poster said that karma will catch up with certain people. The just world philosophy isn't one I buy into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not.

I doubt it some people have zero respect or remorse she probably doesn't care what impact it would have on those who sent messages/pics.

Mrs "

Are they still on the forums?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not.

I doubt it some people have zero respect or remorse she probably doesn't care what impact it would have on those who sent messages/pics.

Mrs "

Pretty much this, you can’t stop people being arseholes so let them get on with it. I wonder sometimes whether they realise that the “superior” feeling they gain from this makes them “inferior” people. Anyway, “nice tits” (to be fair I haven’t looked but all tits are nice so just doing that in advance).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

Ugh. I've seen a few warnings about this now. I've set all face pics to private as a result

J"

Same I’ve got rid of all pics with my face in or too much of my face. And I probably won’t do face pic Friday anymore but will gladly start the thread for those that wish to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I trust randomers I don’t know off an internet fuck site!?

Hmmm, hold on give me a few minutes to ponder this one over a bit, OP…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Search deep in your heart OP and you’ll find the answer "

I think I finally get you.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I don't worry about it but I know it happens, we were given the heads up about members of the fora sending face pics in telegram group chats, it's a bit out of order really & I'd be furious if I found out but worrying about it won't get me anywhere.

Just a shame there's people who think it's ok to share private conversations and photos, especially on such a site where anonymity is expected and welcomed, you get the skanks with zero consideration in all walks of life though.

Mrs

I wonder if those who read this and know they are guilty have any twinges of remorse or not."

I'd say not.

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

I'm not sure I trust some women,off line let alone on here, going off past experiences especially with women!!!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Search deep in your heart OP and you’ll find the answer

I think I finally get you. "

I got you a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send a face pic of me and my girl, it's one where we are clothed and doing something, like at a restaurant or in the park etc.

It'll be one that I have on my social media, so if anyone ever leaked it or sent it around and people i know saw it, I could just say they got it from insta etc.

"Someone must just be pretending to be me on that filthy sex site for degenerates" haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Search deep in your heart OP and you’ll find the answer

I think I finally get you.

I got you a long time ago "

Yeah whatever Rex

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

I've been sent my own pictures from from here on another site by someone trying to get a meet.

Low self esteem so tend to get hooked by stuff too easy.

Also had someone on here message my first name and address and block me. Very cool

But I'm dumb when I'm horny, so here we are

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm more diligent with my NSFW photos. But equally, if someone choses to share them... in fairly open about being engaged with my sexuality and trying to like my body. So if someone does, I'm the victim. That being said, I'm not sending fanny photos to just anyone.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I trust very few on here.

I have been proved wrong before when I did,and that person shared my info and pics with others on here. Did it annoy me yes it did as she had zero right to do that.

I have been in groups where peoples info including real names and photos were shared so I left and don't join any groups anymore.

I've no interest in other people's info or their pics,if someone wants me to know that they themselves will tell me. Unfortunately info being shared is seen as currency by some and a way to stay popular. People would be stunned to know who some of these people are as well. But not my circus and not my monkeys.

But as long as people play into the whole gossiping etc it will continue.They should remember though that those that share others info will at some point share theirs as well.

I keep my circle small on here and will continue to do so .

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We are extremely careful with what we send and us a strong reason not to have our face photos on public show.

We do have some friends though that we do trust and know our conversations and photos are kept private. We trust them enough to know that they would ask first for our permission before divulging any information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I trust randomers I don’t know off an internet fuck site!?

Hmmm, hold on give me a few minutes to ponder this one over a bit, OP… "

Having now pondered it for a bit, I’ve reached a conclusion.

No.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"If I send a face pic of me and my girl, it's one where we are clothed and doing something, like at a restaurant or in the park etc.

It'll be one that I have on my social media, so if anyone ever leaked it or sent it around and people i know saw it, I could just say they got it from insta etc.

"Someone must just be pretending to be me on that filthy sex site for degenerates" haha."

Why are you even sharing pics of a woman from a single guys profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've already been reverse image searched so people on here already know my IRL name and where I live (Kinda creepy but eh its 2023 anyone can do that). As for sharing with friends and family, my friends and parents already know I'm on here so theres no worries there.

I just hope I don't get physical mail to my actual address tho, that really creeped me out (Only happened twice thankfully).

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I trust very few on here.

I have been proved wrong before when I did,and that person shared my info and pics with others on here. Did it annoy me yes it did as she had zero right to do that.

I have been in groups where peoples info including real names and photos were shared so I left and don't join any groups anymore.

I've no interest in other people's info or their pics,if someone wants me to know that they themselves will tell me. Unfortunately info being shared is seen as currency by some and a way to stay popular. People would be stunned to know who some of these people are as well. But not my circus and not my monkeys.

But as long as people play into the whole gossiping etc it will continue.They should remember though that those that share others info will at some point share theirs as well.

I keep my circle small on here and will continue to do so ."

That's awful you had your stuff shared, I've heard about so called groups too sharing info and some of the "popular" peeps too, they need bringing down a peg or two! Totally feels like a school ground at times this place.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't trust anyone until they prove they're trustworthy is my mantra. No face pics at all here.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind? "

Well NOW I am worried.

Can everyone on the forum that i sent 'that' pic of me, please delete it?

I can trust you all to do that, can't I?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Those I trust on here I really trust but that is a very tiny number.

Those I don't trust I really don't trust.

All of the sharing and networking without consent mentioned by others above and in other threads by me really does happen and by people who use every tool they have to divert and distract from what they are doing.

It wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if one of the biggest culprits was to pop into this thread to say how disgusted they are that these sort of things go on.

They probably would have commented already but they're busy filing their latest screenshots and updating their records.

That may sound really flippant but I'm speaking from personal experience rather than hearsay.

I don't agree with sharing anyone's details or pics even in a positive way to say how amazing they are.

I know of guys who have been contacted by women because they met their friends and they know their real names.

None of those guys ever gave permission for pics they shared privately to be passed on and I wonder why some women think it is acceptable to do it while spouting off in the forums about men doing likewise in various groups.

I have been approached by complete strangers at socials who recognised me from my pic in the presocial chatgroup.

Strangely enough I hadn't been invited to that group and wouldn't have posted a facepic even if I had been.

Every single thing I have done through fab in the last 3 years has been right here on a public forum. There have been no external chatgroups and very few private messages.

Do I care that there are women out there so annoyed that I have turned them down or refused to support their latest drama who feel the need to talk about me in a negative way or share my info? Hell no I don't.

Will I ever lower myself into the gutter they have crawled from by telling others who they are and warning them off? Nope.If intelligent adults are stupid enough to be blinded by these creatures and are happy to enable them that's on them and I'm not here to babysit anyone.

Those I trust know I don't say things for effect on here and their opinions are the only ones that count.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Can everyone on the forum that i sent 'that' pic of me, please delete it? "

I missed it, can someone send me a copy?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I missed it, can someone send me a copy?"

I’M KIDDING.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind?

Well NOW I am worried.

Can everyone on the forum that i sent 'that' pic of me, please delete it?

I can trust you all to do that, can't I?

"

I've just hit myself in the head several times to delete my memory of meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't really thought about it til recently, actually was in conversation with 2 women on the same evening on here when later that night I noticed they both added new verifications of each other from a recent social , got the feeling then I was being tag teamed , but not in the way I'd like,so I just deleted both chats and left it there

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Very few. People can be a bit arsey about face pics not being on display but unless I'm guaranteed a meet it's a massive no, and we all have reasons for being on here which should be respected. I've been told of instances where men have identified where a fab member works and they've turned up in carparks or outrightly asked them when they've been in shops or hotels where people work which is a huge no. I don't even name the men I meet to other users because to me it's a bastard's trick. Privacy on here is paramount. Some can afford to be a bit more open than others. And it isn't just down to secret relationships but for things like jobs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever known one person well enough on here to trust him utterly and completely. I speak with a few others who I have a lot of faith in too but I wouldn't know them well enough to be certain.

I definitely don't trust others, but that isn't always in a bad way if that makes sense. I just wouldn't open up or share too much info with them that I didn't want told to others. I wouldn't like if someone sent my face pics to others but as long as it wasn't done to be a cunt then fine. I don't like it, but I'll get over it kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind? "

I never share my fab life/meets with my friends so they don’t see anything. I guess some people might. I try to stick to talking to only people who are verified by meeting in person in the hope they are reliable and discreet/discrete. I forget the correct spelling. I do communicate the importance of discretion.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Trust, yes. Different people have different and varied levels of my trust.

The random fab masses. No. I don't trust them at all. The forum in general, also no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust, yes. Different people have different and varied levels of my trust.

The random fab masses. No. I don't trust them at all. The forum in general, also no. "

I hear that

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others?"

Yes.


"Do you care if they do?"

I would be negligent if I didn't.


"What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?"

I'm ok if they are paraphrased but not written verbatim or screen captured, within context. I would prefer if they weren't shared, especially when I'm doing a character assassination of someone who has been racist or mocking disabled people and so forth.


"Does this ever cross your mind?"

Often. I don't trust anyone except those with whom I've shared bodily fluids, tea & cake & cocktails, their private phone number...

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng


"Can everyone on the forum that i sent 'that' pic of me, please delete it?

I missed it, can someone send me a copy?"

The message was definitely read. I just assumed that it was too extreme for you and freaked you out. Noone will be able to forward it now though as everyone will have deleted it. Because they are trustworthy.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng


"

Well NOW I am worried.

Can everyone on the forum that i sent 'that' pic of me, please delete it?

I can trust you all to do that, can't I?

I've just hit myself in the head several times to delete my memory of meeting you "

You are not the first to have done this. Preferable to keeping the memory of who I am.

I am Amber81 btw. Hello. You will need to go hit yourself on the head again.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I don't agree with others sharing my pics obviously who knows whose seeing them. But I also understand once it's up on the Internet it's out THERE. Regardless of my view there's nothing I can do to stop sharing apart from controlling what I share so yeah I'm cautious of IT. Especially after being burned recently found one of my pics on some dodgy fake hook up site again I can't do anything about it except watch what I share

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I'll share my face with those I feel I can trust, i do FPF and will accepct pics in the inbox, doesnt mean I'll send back though

His however you have to be a very trusted person to see him as he's had a bad experience of someone seeking him out off fab, so if you get to see his face you're privileged. He's also been spoken about by people and that also makes him very wary of showing his face or even meeting people.

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's ever really occurred to me that others could be doing that and from recent posts, I think I may be a bit naive/liberal with regards to what I'm putting out there, especially as I really don't want people I might know seeing I'm on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can share on any social media Instagram fbook what's app snap chat etc etc

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

I'm not really worried if I show my face,the chances of anybody using my face is probably nil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really worried if I show my face,the chances of anybody using my face is probably nil."

Seconded

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"do you worry that people will share your pictures with others? Do you care if they do? What about messages? Do you think they’re shared?

Realistically I think they all are shared with friends. Even if it’s in a positive way. - oh look at this guy I’m chatting to, isn’t he lovely etc blah blah blah.

Does this ever cross your mind?

"

They get shared on general dating sites for sure (largely by women - or those women that do it - as they are more communicative and less embarrassed or furtive this way - some even do it to help others), but not on Fab though surely?

Not unless it's other Fab friends!

pt

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I know what to expect. There's a slight difference.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I know what to expect. There's a slight difference."

100% this

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I dont trust anyone anywhere

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By *ikkicdukTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't trust myself, what makes you think I'd trust you xxx

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I count money when it comes out of the cash machine so it is safe to say that is a strong no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I send a face pic of me and my girl, it's one where we are clothed and doing something, like at a restaurant or in the park etc.

It'll be one that I have on my social media, so if anyone ever leaked it or sent it around and people i know saw it, I could just say they got it from insta etc.

"Someone must just be pretending to be me on that filthy sex site for degenerates" haha."

Haha yes. Naughty pics show no face so if it’s leaked, it’s only boobs, who cares! Half the world (literally) has then. Face pics are clothed and the same stuff that would be on Facebook, Tinder or Insta so doesn’t matter of it leaks.

I personally don’t share anyone’s pics unless they have given me permission too - but I am under no illusion others share pics. Once you post it it’s out there. Personally, don’t care, it’s only sex, most natural thing in the world!

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