FabSwingers.com forum: Men in couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering how the male half of couples are fairing.

I realised yesterday that it's been about 10 months since I played with another woman. In that time Penny has played with or been fucked by 12 different cocks and been fingered by 3 different women (She's fab straight)

So how balanced is your play? Do you only get jiggy if you are both getting some strange or like us, you just go with the flow and take the opportunity's presented to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And The story of men on Fab continues…..

Even couples have more statuses along the killings of ‘looking for a woman tonight!’ Or ‘no men!’ Etc.

I’m not in a couple, so I dont know. But it fairs to say I think that nothing changes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And The story of men on Fab continues…..

Even couples have more statuses along the killings of ‘looking for a woman tonight!’ Or ‘no men!’ Etc.

I’m not in a couple, so I dont know. But it fairs to say I think that nothing changes.

All are welcome on this thread Woody! You make a valid point, I think sometimes single guys look at coupled guys with envy, the reality is that yes we have it easier but it certainly isn't the free for all that many envisage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most importantly, how do you feel about it OP?

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"And The story of men on Fab continues…..

Even couples have more statuses along the killings of ‘looking for a woman tonight!’ Or ‘no men!’ Etc.

I’m not in a couple, so I dont know. But it fairs to say I think that nothing changes.

Absolutely this! We only meet together but there has been a lot more men for Alyson than women for me, but then we've had a fair few mfm's and only really one ffm....with a few couples here and there as well

So just because us guys have gorgeous Mrs's, doesn't always mean we're inundated....but it's cool, it's always worth it when it does happen

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We haven't actually met anyone through this profile apart from socially but it would depend on what we agreed to at any particular time.

If we were to meet a single guy then the next meet would be with a single woman or vice versa.

We have no interest in just taking whatever opportunity presents itself and just like on our single profiles we don't meet just for the sake of it.

If it isn't mutual or balanced it doesn't happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most importantly, how do you feel about it OP?

I'm very relaxed on the whole thing, I do love watching Penny enjoy herself but it was just something that popped into my head. I think Penny is more conscious of it than me as she feels she is getting all the fun.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We would need more cock to balance it out!

When we joined Jo had absolutely no interest in other men so the first few years it was just women.

We try to get a nice mix now (when we get the chance!)

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Suppose it depends on what your looking for from fun hubby loves mfm fun as he loves showing me off and sharing me with others xx

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

It’s the same situation with us, OP. Michelle gets the lions share of the attention. I’m very happy with that as I adore watching her play. We’re both very relaxed and will go with the flow - if she gets all the attention from men, women (or both), that cool. If I get to play, that’s cool too. As long as we both come away buzzing - that’s the most important thing.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We only meet together so it's always balanced.

Mrs

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We only meet other couples and always together.

Saying that since joining the site we’ve only played with two other couples. (One we didn’t meet on here)

I’d say it’s fairly balanced for us though.

Kink (f)

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We only meet together, but we did have a run of meets with men. Some were bi so equal fun for everyone and some weren't and I was centre of attention. It's not that we aren't looking for couples or single ladies it's just 4 way attraction/ladies are harder to find. Also a lot of our free dates have been weeknights recently, rather than weekends and I think that makes a difference as to who can be available. Luckily Mr enjoys seeing me being spoilt .

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I think it depends on the dynamics of the couple we only meet bi couples and bi men and always meet together so we don’t have any of those issues …

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

Does OP not join in or has wife separate account ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do too bad, both my wife and I use separate accounts for our solo fuckventures.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Most importantly, how do you feel about it OP?

This is probably the same for us. Our play together nowadays is always mfm. We’ve played with couples in the past but it’s not easy finding couples and to be honest hubby isn’t really interested in getting involved in fab so it was me doing most of the work. He says he prefers mfm anyway as he likes seeing me enjoying myself and having two men. It’s me who overthinks this though and feels guilty that it is more about my enjoyment than his. I want him to get as much from this as I do but I don’t think it bothers him so much.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In my experience, couples say that they just tend to meet single men for the wife because the dynamics of getting four people to like each others in a couple/couple situation is often too hard and many hubbies really just enjoy knowing that their wife is enjoying herself.

Pretty much every husband in a couple I have met has said they get really turned on watching and the post meet sex is brilliant for both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult. Many of the messages we get are as if my man does not exist.

We are on here as a couple because that is what we are and we always meet together.

The trouble is meeting another couple where you are all happy and no one is doing it for the team.

In all honesty the people we meet tend to be at the larger socials where we can chat and see faces.

Meeting the right people on here is almost impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not met as a couple for the best part of a year (even then that was in a club situation away from fab). We haven't used this account for meets singular either, we never have until Danish deleted her single profile and uses this one instead (she hasn't met anyone yet, seems quite happy with her FB at the moment)

I have a single account for meets myself but you know the story for single men on here, it's been quite dry but after 9 odd years, I've accepted that lol.

Doughnut

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

"In my experience, couples say that they just tend to meet single men for the wife because the dynamics of getting four people to like each others in a couple/couple situation is often too hard and many hubbies really just enjoy knowing that their wife is enjoying herself.

Pretty much every husband in a couple I have met has said they get really turned on watching and the post meet sex is brilliant for both of them."

its about right and i dont mind we have met with guys the last few times and we dont meet that often

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By *r Blue 87Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

So we (BluebellRacer) don't play very regularly, normally 2 or 3 club nights a year.

With Mrs Blue being bi, it's more about girl-girl for her, which works for me!

We normally end up having a mini orgy, and a single guy is normally invited in.

So we're pretty balanced.

As a solo profile, only played once, but I'm more here for socials and soft swing.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We are not currently active due to health issues ,but when we were Jack actually did more meeting than me.

He enjoys group fun and playing with couples & I'm more than happy for him to meet others (as long as I get pics etc).

I'm so picky when it comes to finding men in couples attractive ,so it's not that often we find one with 4 way attraction.Thats why we keep our single profiles going.

Miss

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