FabSwingers.com forum: Verification

By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts?

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

He’s now reported and blocked btw

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Let him report you. Its not against site rules to not leave one so he won't have a leg to stand on. He's being an arse. Block him.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"He’s now reported and blocked btw "

That is the way.

People are jerks. Hope your future experiences go better for you OP

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By *hy_bbw24Woman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x

In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Ignore the idiot and don't give it a second thought OP.

Hope this hasn't stopped you for continuing. Far more lovely people in here the idiots fortunately.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x

In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx"

If he's being pushy and threatening I wouldn't leave him any kind of verification. He can hide the negative words and just show that he was verified recently with no context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x

In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx

If he's being pushy and threatening I wouldn't leave him any kind of verification. He can hide the negative words and just show that he was verified recently with no context."

If he is 'straight' then 20 verifications from random guys should royally fuck his account, not that you can do that though as its against fab rules.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Reported you for what?

Will admin really take action against you for not leaving a verification?

Sounds like an oddball,you're well rid off.

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By *jphotMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts?"

I think it would have been fine to leave a verification saying 'yeah met this guy he is a real person' enough said. But as soon as someone starts to be pushy or worse in this case block and report. You did the right thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could just tell the truth and leave a veri he was a shit shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,….."

How do we know you did? ….

But seriously. That’s my point isn’t it. Just don’t leave him one.

But we’re only getting your side of the story.

Block him and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame the account, for educational purposes of course, I'd like to pre block him.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

The problem is that he will most likely use the verification to attract more victims - I mean women and no one deserves to be left unsatisfied or feeling intimidated, stressed or pestered.

You owe him nothing OP.

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By *riciaWoman
over a year ago

Blaydon

"Could just tell the truth and leave a veri he was a shit shag "

Yes, but as _reytothefairies said, he would then show as verified, and he can withold displaying the verification message.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

You don't have to leave a veri and I'm pretty sure if you told him it would have been a bad one that he wouldn't want it anyway

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Could just tell the truth and leave a veri he was a shit shag

Yes, but as _reytothefairies said, he would then show as verified, and he can withold displaying the verification message."

Could do that but if someone asked to see it then he'd be screwed but not the way he wanted

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

To be fair I've met people, and I've not left a verification because I didn't find them appealing, and I didn't meet them again.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Name and shame the account, for educational purposes of course, I'd like to pre block him."

Don't you will go on the naughty step that IS against forum rules.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame the account, for educational purposes of course, I'd like to pre block him.

Don't you will go on the naughty step that IS against forum rules."

Write his username with each letter one ahead in the alphabet, so mark would he nbsl, a very low-level code, but would mean the rule hasn't been broken.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I would have just left him a review saying he's shit in bed and not a very nice person and see if that satisfied him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you meet at yours?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Ignore the idiot and don't give it a second thought OP.

Hope this hasn't stopped you for continuing. Far more lovely people in here the idiots fortunately.

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smooth

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Let him report you. It’s not compulsory. I don’t leave them.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

All he needs to do is go on cams to get a veri. Definitely report and block any abuse OP

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"He’s now reported and blocked btw "

Best option!

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,…..

How do we know you did? ….

But seriously. That’s my point isn’t it. Just don’t leave him one.

But we’re only getting your side of the story.

Block him and move on.

I have!

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"The problem is that he will most likely use the verification to attract more victims - I mean women and no one deserves to be left unsatisfied or feeling intimidated, stressed or pestered.

You owe him nothing OP.

Thankyou x

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"The problem is that he will most likely use the verification to attract more victims - I mean women and no one deserves to be left unsatisfied or feeling intimidated, stressed or pestered.

You owe him nothing OP.

Thankyou x

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level."

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Did you meet at yours? "

Yes,rather stupidly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though "

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "

Because of his demands and threats if she didn't give him a verification.

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "

Slagging him off??…What??

The man was pushy,and intimidating in demanding a verification,slagging him off,Wow

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "

I think it's the fact that she's feeling pushed and intimidated that she's done this post. Not the fact that the sex wasn't great. That's how we are reading it anyway.

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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of

women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums

? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "

Judging by your profile,I’d be very wary of you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of

women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums

? Perhaps he thought the same of you.

Judging by your profile,I’d be very wary of you too "

Did I ask for your review of my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.

Because of his demands and threats if she didn't give him a verification."

Agree about that aspect. However repeatedly bitching about his sex skills is against site rules.

Hey ho she's a woman so it's ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.

It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.

Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.

Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.

Slagging him off??…What??

The man was pushy,and intimidating in demanding a verification,slagging him off,Wow "

This is still just your side of the story.

It might have happened.

But, if he came in here and got HIS side of the story in first, that might NOT be true. …?

You’re a woman, you’re doing okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.

Slagging him off??…What??

The man was pushy,and intimidating in demanding a verification,slagging him off,Wow

This is still just your side of the story.

It might have happened.

But, if he came in here and got HIS side of the story in first, that might NOT be true. …?

You’re a woman, you’re doing okay.

Just to clarify, there’s a lot of asshats out there. I know! And there’s nothing right about that, and they should be stopped.

But my point stands about posting this stuff here.

Everyone is just taking the word of a poster.

He could be back next week with a different story.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x

In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx"

Exactly. Isn't the idea that a verification, first and foremost, is to indicate that a profile was genuine, not that they're a sex god.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x

In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx

Exactly. Isn't the idea that a verification, first and foremost, is to indicate that a profile was genuine, not that they're a sex god.

Of course, I don't have any, so what do I know

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Had you not already blocked/reported I would have said leave a truthful one.

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