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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we all fancy the pants off each other, that’s a given.

But are there any members that you see on here that you think “omg, we would be best friends”?

Sometimes it’s difficult as an adult to make those friendships, getting the courage to message someone asking to be their friend. Take this thread as an opportunity to spill all your friend crushes, and make some new ones

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Knowing my luck this morning any declarations I made would be met with revulsion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not spilling any crushes, but definitely a number of people from Fab who are good friends and I do not feel the urge to jump in to bed with. Some we natter away on wats app, one I meet for a drink and a meal whenever I go to Cornwall, another I meet for waffles in a cafe in High Barnet - some people on Fab are alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GeordieJeans. He’s my People.

You Demi also. I think you get a lot of my references.

JoystickMCR used to get my references a lot too. And TimberSwindler .

Genuinely very few people in the forums I feel like I could genuinely be my preferred self around and they get Me. It’s not that deep but I know why.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

There are people on here that I think are fucking wonderful and I'd love to spend actual in person time with them, possibly sexual but mostly just because I think they're awesome.

I'm not great at being forward in these situations, but I think I’ve got my point across to them

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I would love a gal pal but hasn't happened yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great minds btw OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love a gal pal but hasn't happened yet."

Hiiii, I’m local to you and a great gal pal wanna get a coffee?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There’s probably 3 people on here who I think I’d vibe with humour wise. And that’s quite a lot for me!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes there's definitely some people here I think if they were closer we'd be great friends.

Mrs

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I’ve made a genuine friend with a really lovely AND stunningly attractive lady. She has a sarcastic sense of humour, can be totally balmy but has proven herself to be a great confidante.

Kudos to her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few people who I read and think we could be friends as we think alike or have similar humour.

Its not always about the sex, even with the people you do have sex with.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not on this site, but on another adult site we have. Spend lots of time together and go on holiday together etc

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not best friends, no. There are a few posters where I think gosh, we're quite similar it'd be great to talk to them. Hope I get the opportunity to do so soon.

I actually used the term "platonic crush" yesterday to describe someone's well... platonic crush on me. He adores me. It's delightful. I always thought they were too witty and sharp to pay much attention to me but now they're one of my very good friends from here.

I've felt that way about a few people here. Now I get their voices and words on my screen on a frequent basis. Sometimes it's good to just shoot your shot. Say fuck it and talk to people who you think might be on your level.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

It has happened a few times, yes. Sometimes it's been fleeting, other times less so

Mrs TMN x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"There are people on here that I think are fucking wonderful and I'd love to spend actual in person time with them, possibly sexual but mostly just because I think they're awesome.

I'm not great at being forward in these situations, but I think I’ve got my point across to them "

Same here.

(It’s you Prey. I mean you.)

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I would love a gal pal but hasn't happened yet.

Hiiii, I’m local to you and a great gal pal wanna get a coffee? "

Would love to dm me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread.

I have a practice, the people who I meet through this world, if I couldn’t be friends with them then I won’t sleep with them.

Quite simple really, if I don’t want your company of lunch or dinner and putting the worlds to rights, whatever makes me think I’m going to sleep with them.

Communication and humour and the ability to actually converse and connect are vital, otherwise all your chase is muscle spasms without any cerebral connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some friends who I’ve been on holiday with, had dinner with, they even gave me gardening advice and it’s a genuine authentic friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one I can think of

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Bøøkmårked – for any latent and future crushes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s probably 3 people on here who I think I’d vibe with humour wise. And that’s quite a lot for me!"

Hope you don't include me in that. I only laughed at your jokes because you had my balls in a vice like grip

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

There are people on here I "like" I get on well with, humour and personality in this setting we mesh well. I don't think I'd get on quite the same with them away from here. Likely too many different none fab interests.

There are very few I feel I'd even converse with away from here.

Generally if I feel we would get on as "Friends" I will likely be asking to chat off of fab to allow the vibe to last beyond an Unlos - sex stuff not even a factor. This would go for men and women.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I've made a few friends sure.

Best friends as in we are basically like family. Key to my door, let yourself in at 3am and make yourself a coffee. I'll come down and chat with you till Maccies opens and we get a brekkie? Sitting off in a car in the rain for hours. Wandering around in our own little bubble as if the rest of the world doesn't exist?

There's a bit more to that than just appreciating someone's humour or personality online for me. Comes from spending time together.

Part of me thinks that world has faded a little since the smart phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on here that I think they would be cool to meet. But I haven't been talking to many for that long to want to feel comfortable meeting yet.

On another site, I do have many that I'd love to meet. I've been talking to them for a while, we have fun, they help when I have stupid questions I want to ask and they are always honest to me and tell me how it is. But that has taken time and I've built up trust in them and what they are saying is not just bollocks to get me in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP what a lovely idea for a thread x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"So we all fancy the pants off each other, that’s a given.

But are there any members that you see on here that you think “omg, we would be best friends”?

Sometimes it’s difficult as an adult to make those friendships, getting the courage to message someone asking to be their friend. Take this thread as an opportunity to spill all your friend crushes, and make some new ones "

I won't name people. I have seen people online that by observing their comments and they way they come across, am fairly certain that if we got to know each other could become good friends.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

That is very nice OP!!! Well done

But the problem is and I’m not putting a downer on anything, but I am on my own on fab, which means I will just be lost amongst all the other males

But saying that I have made a few friends we have a laugh and it’s great fun

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I won't name people. I have seen people online that by observing their comments and they way they come across, am fairly certain that if we got to know each other could become good friends."

This for me too. Some people here are fucking amazing.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

There are people on here I like and would sit and have a natter with.

Best of friends with, probably not. I don't have many and the ones I have I've known for years and I treasure them beyond words. I don't think I'll find that here, but I'm not opposed to it either I suppose.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

There's a good few if we were closer I'd love to be friends friends with as I think we'd get on well.

Tinder

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve have met some people on here who have become true friends, we don’t even consider each other as fab friends now.

I don’t think you see enough of peoples true self in the forums to be able tell if they are someone I could be friends with. It would take one to one conversations for me to know that.

Kx

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I'm here for cake n clunge.....

friends from off the forums I've made a couple over the years so I never say never..if its meant to happen it'll happen .

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