FabSwingers.com forum: Men not eating a p..sy

By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Hey everyone,

I hope you're all doing well. I wanted to start a discussion today to gain some perspective on a topic that has intrigued me for a while. It's about men's attitudes towards performing oral sex on their partners, specifically, why it seems that some men don't enjoy it or actively avoid it. Please note that this post is intended to foster healthy and respectful conversation, so let's keep it friendly!

To provide some context, I've noticed that there's often a disparity between men and women when it comes to their enthusiasm for this particular sexual act. While many women openly express a desire for their partners to engage in oral sex, it appears that some men are less inclined to participate or may even feel reluctant about it. I'm genuinely curious to explore the reasons behind this phenomenon.

I understand that everyone's preferences and boundaries are unique, and it's crucial to respect individual choices. However, it would be interesting to hear from both men and women who have encountered or pondered this question. Here are a few potential factors that could contribute to this situation:

1. Societal and Cultural Influences: Are men's attitudes towards oral sex shaped by societal expectations or cultural norms? Do certain cultural or religious backgrounds influence one's perception of this act?

2. Lack of Information or Experience: Could the lack of knowledge about female anatomy or concerns about performance contribute to men's hesitation or discomfort? Is there a need for more comprehensive sexual education to address this issue?

3. Communication and Openness: How vital is communication between partners when discussing sexual preferences? Could the reluctance stem from a lack of open dialogue or the fear of judgment?

4. Personal Preferences and Sensitivities: Everyone has unique sexual preferences, and what works for one person may not work for another. Could it be that some men genuinely do not derive pleasure from performing oral sex, or are there underlying reasons that could be explored?

Please feel free to share your thoughts, experiences, or any other factors that you believe might shed light on this topic. Let's strive for an open-minded and respectful conversation that encourages understanding. Remember, we all have different perspectives, and the goal is to learn from one another.

Looking forward to hearing your insights!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I enjoy it

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I enjoy it

I bet you just read the title and not the whole post

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I’m a giver, so I enjoy nothing more than giving oral! Love it sooooo much. Also, woman often take longer to cum so why not give oral, then cum together. I love everything about it

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I enjoy it

I bet you just read the title and not the whole post

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well you'd be wrong, you wrote an aria and i wrote a note

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

1. Societal and Cultural Influences:

Some people see it as an act of submission, somehow emasculating. Some people don't.

2. Lack of Information or Experience:

I'm always a little uncomfortable trying something new, regardless of how much information I've read up on it beforehand. Enthusiasm can make up for inexperience though.

3. Communication and Openness:

If someone can't express their wants it is unfair to expect someone else to know what it is they want and do it without that communication.

4. Personal Preferences and Sensitivities:

Some people just don't enjoy giving oral. I'd rather not receive oral from someone who isn't into it, whatever their reasons are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of reasons men don't do it. Could be they only do it with people they care about as they see it as intimate, could be they just have a selfish attitude to sex or it could be that your pussy stinks and they don't want to go there.

Whatever the reason, I wouldn't ask someone to do something they don't feel comfortable with. So if they don't want too, I won't ask why or push it. I just hope their reasons reflect on me sucking their cock too, equality and all that.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I enjoy giving a partner pleasure full stop. Receiving oral sex is in my experience one of the things women really enjoy so I enjoy doing it. I get genuine pleasure from a woman really enjoying what I’m doing. If a woman says I really like something I’m up for trying it.

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I enjoy it

I bet you just read the title and not the whole post

well you'd be wrong, you wrote an aria and i wrote a note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mi nuh nyam front.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

'Eating'... i don't think men chew and swallow, or maybe some men do!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I enjoy it

I bet you just read the title and not the whole post

Tbf it did go on a bit, I’ll save it for lunchtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than eating pussy giving pleasure to a woman

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

"'Eating'... i don't think men chew and swallow, or maybe some men do!"

Teasing, licking, exploring, reading the ladies emotions as you go along…..

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

I absolutely love it my favourite thing. The feeling when she cums from my work is amazing. I would say I do it more than I get in return each to there own but for me it's my favourite part of sex x

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"'Eating'... i don't think men chew and swallow, or maybe some men do!"

As far as i am aware Eating is used as a synonymous for licking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can we have the abridged version? I have only just finished reading War and Peace and cannot face another epic read. Thx.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

TLDR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just don't find oral sex fun. I hate it so fine by me if they don't want to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *0ng0 furyMan
over a year ago

Birkenhead

so yum

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Ladies, I’ll just leave you with this one comment…

“Sit on my face….and tell me that you love me…”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own people have their own reasons for why they choose not too and that's fair enough however I absolutely love nothing more than spreading a womans legs or bending her over and getting my tounge stuck in there whilst slipping in a cheeky finger

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Ride my face like your riding a rocking horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is going down well

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"This thread is going down well

I see what you did there

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By *iceguy78Man
over a year ago

st helens

The below sums it up quite well I think.

"There's a lot of reasons men don't do it. Could be they only do it with people they care about as they see it as intimate, could be they just have a selfish attitude to sex or it could be that your pussy stinks and they don't want to go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could live without ever giving a blowjob again but not without oral for myself. Hypocrite I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know

Yes

Vital

Yes

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Sit on my face and peddle my ears like a Raleigh Grifter ha ha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I could live without ever giving a blowjob again but not without oral for myself. Hypocrite I know

Not really. You like what you like. I’m the opposite. I love giving. I like receiving too but if I had to give one up it would be receiving without a doubt.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

"Sit on my face and peddle my ears like a Raleigh Grifter ha ha

I have a long tongue and have learnt how to breath through my ears

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

I remember having sex for the first time at 16. Only knowledge I had was watching porn, went down on the girl and she came hard.

Told me I was amazing and must be experienced. Didn't believe it was my first time.

Thank you dad's secret porn stash!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy it

I bet you just read the title and not the whole post

Yea. I keep it simple.

I enjoy it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t know there was any men that didn’t enjoy it. Is this a generational thing? Everyone I know loves it or at least claims to love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully 90% of men I've met either in real life or on here enjoy giving oral (and are very good at it)

Which is perfect for me Cause I really enjoy giving it as well but enjoy it even more if I know its a two way street.

There is also a cultural aspect as well In my experience white men are more quicker and enthusiastic about doing it than black or Asian men, never really understood why though

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Sit on my face and peddle my ears like a Raleigh Grifter ha ha

Not a Raleigh chopper

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They only do it to girlfriends.

He felt claustrophobic with his head down there.

I don't do it with women from Fab, as I don't know their history.

Also, I've had men say they love doing it then somehow forget.

I had someone say they were enjoying my blow job so much he just wanted to fuck me.

I've had all the excuses.

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

"Sit on my face and peddle my ears like a Raleigh Grifter ha ha

Not a Raleigh chopper "

Work too mate although prefer the grip shift rather than the gear lever lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Maybe they just don't find oral sex fun. I hate it so fine by me if they don't want to do it. "

100 times this. If a guy hates giving oral then he suddenly becomes way more attractive to me than the can breathe through my ears brigade.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

There is definitely a few reasons for it- my partner, for example, has got breathing issues in normal circumstances, and struggles to breathe when going down on me. Sometimes the smell puts him off - just in case anyone tries blaming my personal hygiene, I would like to remind you that ladies personal smell changes with our menstrual cycle, as well as with what we eat, how much and what we drink etc.

I would also blame porn here - most mf porn videos feature a woman sucking the guy's cock, but hardly any feature a man "eating" the lady's pussy.

Some women also don't like receiving oral, so maybe men who don't do it got told repeatedly in the past not to do it and now assume women don't like it?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I enjoy giving and receiving but reluctant for the latter these days ! But yes love sucking cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving oral is probably my favourite part of sex, to both women and men as I'm bi. I've just posted in Swingers Chat about my love for women with a full, wild untrimmed Bush because of what that ads to the experience for me, the added taste and scent

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By *ilddukeMan
over a year ago

notts

I love eating pussy. One of my favorite past times

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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone

Some pussys taste delightful, and through no fault of the individual, some don’t. It may just be down to the taste which determines if any partner or playmates is enthusiastic or not.

Mrs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As far as i am aware Eating is used as a synonymous for licking "

People lick the tip of a pencil but they don't eat it.

And we used to lick stamps.

We lick envelopes without eating them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone,

3. Communication and Openness: How vital is communication between partners when discussing sexual preferences? Could the reluctance stem from a lack of open dialogue or the fear of judgment?

Looking forward to hearing your insights!

I have delighted in licking pussy since was 20 and don't plan on stopping ever

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By *ertsalaughMan
over a year ago

RENFREW

Personally I couldn't go with a girl that didn't want it , it's my favourite thing to do with them , I get a total turn on making them cum 1st no matter how long

Even better if it's a new girl because I'll make her tell me how she wants it

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By *ob jonesMan
over a year ago

Wales

Nothing better than licking pussy.. Hairy.. Shaved. Trimmed.. Who cares.. I will lick it..

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I love doing it once I get going I only come up for air

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never known any bloke not into eating pussy to be honest, I've known a few that don't like BJ's though.

At the end of the day if someone isn't into something then there not into it, no one should be pushed to do something they don't enjoy that's not enjoyably for either party.

Mrs

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Mi nuh nyam front."

-------------------------,

You're not a fan of rimming either then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say no just not had the opertunity to yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is definitely a few reasons for it- my partner, for example, has got breathing issues in normal circumstances, and struggles to breathe when going down on me. Sometimes the smell puts him off - just in case anyone tries blaming my personal hygiene, I would like to remind you that ladies personal smell changes with our menstrual cycle, as well as with what we eat, how much and what we drink etc.

I would also blame porn here - most mf porn videos feature a woman sucking the guy's cock, but hardly any feature a man "eating" the lady's pussy.

Some women also don't like receiving oral, so maybe men who don't do it got told repeatedly in the past not to do it and now assume women don't like it?"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

On the BDSM scene I've known quite a few subs who see it as a submissive act and 'if a dom does it it just feels wrong'.

I just told them I would see it as them refusing to submit to something that I enjoyed. I ended up having to include it in our pre play limits and consent chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than eating pussy giving a woman pleasure

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By *eff1961Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Absolutely love eating pussy n arse would definitely eat any pussy I could especially just fucked pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of men I've been with in the last few years haven't even "had a go". Despite claiming how much they liked it & discussing in advance, they showed no interest or did it for a minute and moved on. So I'm remaining cynical about this universal love for oral...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Mi nuh nyam front."

Nyam nyam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority of men I've been with in the last few years haven't even "had a go". Despite claiming how much they liked it & discussing in advance, they showed no interest or did it for a minute and moved on. So I'm remaining cynical about this universal love for oral..."

Can stay down there for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stay down there for hours

My eyes rolled so far back in my head it hurts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stay down there for hours

My eyes rolled so far back in my head it hurts! "

Tbf, I am that good.

Ask around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stay down there for hours

My eyes rolled so far back in my head it hurts!

Tbf, I am that good.

Ask around.

Jeez, can't I just read the veris? Usually in there in graphic detail. (Shudder)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stay down there for hours

My eyes rolled so far back in my head it hurts!

Tbf, I am that good.

Ask around.

Jeez, can't I just read the veris? Usually in there in graphic detail. (Shudder)"

I’ll ask my next veris to be more specific about the tongue game

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Some men like eating p*say, some don't.

Some women like sucking d*ck, some don't.

Shock horror.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stay down there for hours

My eyes rolled so far back in my head it hurts!

Tbf, I am that good.

Ask around.

Jeez, can't I just read the veris? Usually in there in graphic detail. (Shudder)

I’ll ask my next veris to be more specific about the tongue game"

Cocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it... as much as I love a BJ I'd rather lick and kiss pussy

can't best feeling a woman shake with excitement

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I am very good at it and enjoy it immensely, just look at my vids, I'll be uploading more too. All action here not just talking.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I couldn’t imagine a life without giving oral sex

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

There’s nothing greater then that moment when a lady stands over your face and you know within seconds that she’s going to be sitting on my face

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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago

High Lighthouse!

A scenario popped into my head reading this thread...

"If you're not going to eat that can I have it?"

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By *ugoBoss83Man
over a year ago

North Shields

I can’t speak for anyone else but I enjoy doing it, I do it for my pleasure more than a ladies.

As to education on pleasure I think it’s two fold, educating someone that this is a pleasurable act for your partner doesn’t go with them necessarily enjoying it and I feel that’s where communication is absolutely key to finding mutual pleasure.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I can’t imagine not wanting to do it . I would happily just give a woman oral and have nothing in return . I suppose everyone likes what they like . But surely a man that doesn’t give oral is a big turn off for a woman ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t imagine not wanting to do it . I would happily just give a woman oral and have nothing in return . I suppose everyone likes what they like . But surely a man that doesn’t give oral is a big turn off for a woman ? "

Some women hate getting oral sex.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Some women hate getting oral sex. "

Maybe some but I’d say the majority do enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women hate getting oral sex.

Maybe some but I’d say the majority do enjoy it "

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Some women hate getting oral sex.

Maybe some but I’d say the majority do enjoy it

Food for another thread maybe

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

1. I am quite certain they do. Also, inadvertantly influencing people to rebel against norms. I think this is often where the arousal from being 'naughty' originates.

2. Education may be helpful. I think perhaps this can also make it mechanistic and experiential learning, discovering your partner, is more salient.

3. Yes in a way it probably can. However, I am irked by the word reluctance. It almost feels like that dynamic has a persuasive actor rather than a mutual discussion. Could simply be my response to the word though.

4. I believe the underlying element is whether you derive pleasure from your partners pleasure. Also, whether this is vicarious or an egotism: I did that aren't I awesome. In simple terms how much you remain in your own head as opposed to connect with a partner. I fall into vicarious/conenction category so it's hard for me to relate to the other.

I find all oral highly enjoyable with a partner whom shares that enjoyment.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Everything you've mentioned is irrelevant (at least in a relationship).

I can't imagine being in a relationship, learning about something that gives my partner great pleasure and going, "nah, not for me."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some women hate getting oral sex. "

I don't hate it but it's not something I actively want a partner to do.

Quite a few men believe that oral sex is the only foreplay available

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Some women hate getting oral sex.

I don't hate it but it's not something I actively want a partner to do.

Quite a few men believe that oral sex is the only foreplay available "

There is whole box of different things

but I must say it’s one of my favourites but as I said everyone likes what they like . But this is definitely food for another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women hate getting oral sex.

I don't hate it but it's not something I actively want a partner to do.

Quite a few men believe that oral sex is the only foreplay available "

Foreplay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stay down there for hours

My eyes rolled so far back in my head it hurts!

Tbf, I am that good.

Ask around.

Jeez, can't I just read the veris? Usually in there in graphic detail. (Shudder)

I’ll ask my next veris to be more specific about the tongue game

Cocky

Some would even say… arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women hate getting oral sex.

I don't hate it but it's not something I actively want a partner to do.

Quite a few men believe that oral sex is the only foreplay available

Foreplay?

The stretches you do before going to play in the playground

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I enjoy giving pleasure. This is usually a way of doing it and I love the reaction. I did once have a partner who would stop me when she became aroused as she didn't like the sensation. Pretty unusual but we are who we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read all the comments but for me it's the opposite. I don't like receiving oral, does nothing for me, in fact even bores me. However men seem to always want to give it, say its one of their favourite things and seem surprised when I say I don't like it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not read all the comments but for me it's the opposite. I don't like receiving oral, does nothing for me, in fact even bores me. However men seem to always want to give it, say its one of their favourite things and seem surprised when I say I don't like it x"

When men say this women are up in arms about how good their bj skills are! Double standards?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some women hate getting oral sex.

I don't hate it but it's not something I actively want a partner to do.

Quite a few men believe that oral sex is the only foreplay available

Foreplay?

You know some men (#noteveryman) slap your bum and say "please"?

That's foreplay apparently

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Whatever the reason, I wouldn't ask someone to do something they don't feel comfortable with. So if they don't want to, I won't ask why or push it. I just hope their reasons reflect on me sucking their cock too, equality and all that."

Exactly. Imagine a man saying why women don’t suck cock! Is it selfish, social or cultural pressure etc? Everybody likes different things and no one should be put under pressure or have to explain why they don’t perform particular sexual act.

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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago

High Lighthouse!

"Everything you've mentioned is irrelevant (at least in a relationship).

I can't imagine being in a relationship, learning about something that gives my partner great pleasure and going, "nah, not for me."

Quite, and the partner would be aware it's not your favourite thing. Therefore, as with most things, you'd negotiate what suits both (all) parties.

Frequency, reciprocatory acts, etc. All the things that go into making sure one person doesn't feel "hard done by".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men say this women are up in arms about how good their bj skills are! Double standards?

Sorry not sure how that relates to my comment?? X

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Everything you've mentioned is irrelevant (at least in a relationship).

I can't imagine being in a relationship, learning about something that gives my partner great pleasure and going, "nah, not for me." "

Even if it was something that you really didn't enjoy at all?

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london

I enjoy eating a lady to organs but I don’t dish it out easily. There had to be some sort of extra connection there. I find it quite intimate.

I don’t mind when women don’t feel comfortable sucking me off either.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I absolutely love it. It's the only way I can get my wife to orgasm and I get a great feeling when it happens. I just wish she was a bit more keen because it's clearly something she enjoys once she's agreed to it.

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By *lwaysHard1990Man
over a year ago

London

I live for it nothing like making a woman cum with your tongue

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

When men say this women are up in arms about how good their bj skills are! Double standards?

How an it be double standards, me and women are different why would you expect them to react something the same way?

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

Rug Munching yummies

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

Rug Munching yummies

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

When men say this women are up in arms about how good their bj skills are! Double standards?

How can it be double standards, men and women are different why would you expect them to react something the same way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men say this women are up in arms about how good their bj skills are! Double standards?

How can it be double standards, men and women are different why would you expect them to react something the same way? "

Oh sorry lol this was a joke post! I don’t care about any of it. Was just being a troll and complaining about how terrible it is for men

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

I get nothing from men going down on me

I'm all about giving

Miss P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The absolutely best thing... I adore performing oral for pleasure and pleasing if it was that and no sex I'd be down with that always give 110 percent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number of men who don't adore giving oral still standing at zero. Shocked, I tell you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Number of men who don't adore giving oral still standing at zero. Shocked, I tell you!

Sally, I’m gonna be real with you, stop trusting anything men say.

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By *osy71Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Personally I love going down on a pussy and when I do I will spend as long as the recipient wants me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Number of men who don't adore giving oral still standing at zero. Shocked, I tell you!

Sally, I’m gonna be real with you, stop trusting anything men say.

Bbbbbuuubut even YOU, Pickle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy eating a lady to organs but I don’t dish it out easily. There had to be some sort of extra connection there. I find it quite intimate.

I don’t mind when women don’t feel comfortable sucking me off either. "

What organs do you eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love eating pussy giving a woman pleasure it’s such a turn on

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I guessed before opening this thread that but one single man would say they didn't like giving head.

I was not disappointed

I love it. Obviously.

Current record is 11hrs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I guessed before opening this thread that but one single man would say they didn't like giving head.

I was not disappointed

I love it. Obviously.

Current record is 11hrs. "

Eleven? Blimey!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I guessed before opening this thread that not one single man would say they didn't like giving head.

I was not disappointed

I love it. Obviously.

Current record is 11hrs.

Eleven? Blimey!"

Obviously this is false. It just amuses me to read profiles that say they kind going on women for hours.

I mean lock is a thing

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I guessed before opening this thread that not one single man would say they didn't like giving head.

I was not disappointed

I love it. Obviously.

Current record is 11hrs.

Eleven? Blimey!

Obviously this is false. It just amuses me to read profiles that say they kind going on women for hours.

I mean lock is a thing"

Lock jaw

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By *r. KissMan
over a year ago

mayo

I love giving oral,

preferably very long and a lot. I would almost go so far as to say it's almost a fetish of mine

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I guessed before opening this thread that not one single man would say they didn't like giving head.

I was not disappointed

I love it. Obviously.

Current record is 11hrs.

Eleven? Blimey!

Obviously this is false. It just amuses me to read profiles that say they kind going on women for hours.

I mean lock is a thing"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I know so many women who hate giving blow jobs. They think it's just

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I love delivering oral to a lady and take great pleasure from it

More than happy to do it for nothing in return , just to see the lady climax is pleasure enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing it, always have..

I know the anatomy there and haven't (touch wood) had a serious complaint!

I think Number 3 comes into it as some guys just slop in where they need to listen (or feel) for the reactions to what they're doing and the Ladies, if He ain't doing it right move him and say try here to get what You want from it

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Hard to comment on this because I fucking love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guessed before opening this thread that but one single man would say they didn't like giving head.

I was not disappointed

I love it. Obviously.

Current record is 11hrs. "

And hours later the men are still advertising their love for the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my preferred method of death, smothering whilst I go down on my wife. She cums, I die. Good times.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Just uploaded a vid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Number of men who don't adore giving oral still standing at zero. Shocked, I tell you!

Sally, I’m gonna be real with you, stop trusting anything men say.

Bbbbbuuubut even YOU, Pickle?

Well I think you can trust me

but that’s because we’re friends.

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