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"or ban men with mobile phones? " It was about time you had a good idea. | |||
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"or ban men with mobile phones? It was about time you had a good idea. " But how do I then take a dick pic to send you? Come on think it through! | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? " It’s like telling woman to dress in a conservative way so that men can control their urges | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? It’s like telling woman to dress in a conservative way so that men can control their urges " Isn't that the stance with some countries and religions. | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? It’s like telling woman to dress in a conservative way so that men can control their urges Isn't that the stance with some countries and religions. " Sadly yes | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? It’s like telling woman to dress in a conservative way so that men can control their urges " Grim | |||
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"Or report perverts who think it is okay.. " I won’t even watch upskirt videos even if they are staged. It’s shouldn’t be encorouged | |||
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"Double the sentences and make the offender pay financial compensation to the victim in all cases more like. " Certain actions and crimes in these kinds of situations I think should have extreme punishments and sentences. Problem is having enough proof for it to not be abused and used to wrongfully accuse. They are things that you quite clearly need to go out of your way to do, with clear intentions and no grey area. There is no mistake what they were doing/did. None of this misinterpreted actions, words, or touching. | |||
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"or ban men with mobile phones? It was about time you had a good idea. But how do I then take a dick pic to send you? Come on think it through!" Duh. You come to mine, and I take them! | |||
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"What about banning skirts in schools" What about chemical castration for the men, who cannot fight the urge to do it | |||
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"Well if it's a very long skirt it's difficult to do accidently but what about if it's so short and more of a belt than a skirt and you can see the knickers even when they are not bent over. What then?" That doesn't give someone the right to take photos of someone to jerk off to later without consent | |||
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"Well if it's a very long skirt it's difficult to do accidently but what about if it's so short and more of a belt than a skirt and you can see the knickers even when they are not bent over. What then?" what do you mean what then.. thought we had moved away from where how someone was dressed, negated others from needing to behave like a decent human | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? " I believe this is what's known as taking the piss! | |||
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"Well if it's a very long skirt it's difficult to do accidently but what about if it's so short and more of a belt than a skirt and you can see the knickers even when they are not bent over. What then?" Point out the ease with which it's possible to just not take photos then make the low life responsible wear a short skirt and knickers at all times for a month after banning them from owning a camera phone for life | |||
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"No, ban sleazy men who are taking pics of women up their skirts" | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news" Nope It's easy. If you know a 'male' that behaves that way and upskirts, or any other abusive, preditory behaviour, you call him out. You make him accountable for his actions. It's not the womans/girls fault or her skirts fault. | |||
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"This behaviour is something i find difficult to understand what gratification is? Your on a beach with women in bikinis you put a skirt on and somehow becomes sexual.?-) " Bang on. | |||
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"What about banning skirts in schools" What about teaching men not to be dicks? | |||
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"Fuck no. I'm not spending a fortune on custom made trousers for my absurd legs." They don’t look that bad | |||
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"1100 case's. 3.8 billion women in the world do you not think banning skirts is a slight overreaction?" This is Tom's topic. Reset those expectations. | |||
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"Fuck no. I'm not spending a fortune on custom made trousers for my absurd legs. They don’t look that bad " They look fucking amazing. But try buying something that looks good off the rack with an excessive hip to waist ratio and legs that leave 36 inch inside leg lengths flapping around the ankles. | |||
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"Double the sentences and make the offender pay financial compensation to the victim in all cases more like. " If someone is addicted to a behaviour increasing sentences won't stop it. | |||
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"Sounds like horny teenager's up to no good .. " Why are you making it sound like nothing. So, if males are horny is it acceptable? | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? It’s like telling woman to dress in a conservative way so that men can control their urges " Just ask the taliban for tips on that | |||
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"I cannot believe what I’m reading in the OP Time to ban skirts because men are upskirting? Is everyone quite alright? It’s like telling woman to dress in a conservative way so that men can control their urges Just ask the taliban for tips on that " or any other hardcore regime like Iran,where they have been shooting women that won't comply. | |||
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"My old boss (ish) was given a suspended sentence for doing this. He then fixed a camera to his car grill and parked near playgrounds. Disgusting fucker. On jail now but it won't be long until he comes out and does some other shit like that. " Jesus Christ….(Vomits violently) | |||
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"Are we missing the satire behind this? " If your sat behind someone you'll miss the upskirt. | |||
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"1100 case's. 3.8 billion women in the world do you not think banning skirts is a slight overreaction? This is Tom's topic. Reset those expectations." Well it's 1100 cases in England so not comparable with the world female population. Not sure aboutScottish figures which may affect me in kilts | |||
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"What about banning skirts in schools" Sounds like the problem is schools Tom- shut em down! | |||
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"Are we missing the satire behind this? " If we are talking klts in Scotland then surely it's the saltire | |||
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"Are we missing the satire behind this? If we are talking klts in Scotland then surely it's the saltire" Ba-boom tish! Tom did a funny | |||
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"How about we just ban men? Problem solved " Careful. They don’t like this talk | |||
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"How about we just ban men? Problem solved Careful. They don’t like this talk" I don’t care. I don’t like sex pests and victim blaming | |||
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"How about we just ban men? Problem solved Careful. They don’t like this talk I don’t care. I don’t like sex pests and victim blaming " I think I might be in love with you. Idk | |||
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"How about we just ban men? Problem solved Careful. They don’t like this talk I don’t care. I don’t like sex pests and victim blaming I think I might be in love with you. Idk " Bout time someone fell for my charms | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news" Yes! Trousers to the ankles, long sleeved tops fastened to the neck. Women are just too sexual these days. Let the cock pics out but hide the female legs! | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news Yes! Trousers to the ankles, long sleeved tops fastened to the neck. Women are just too sexual these days. Let the cock pics out but hide the female legs!" . I do love a sexy pair of pins ... | |||
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"This is happening in schools, these boys or young men need dealing with. Many young girls and women are wearing shorts under skirts which is a sad sign of male behaviour." Also a sign of lack of choice, where uniform codes insist upon skirts for girls. Anyway, who set the expectation of how school girls should look, do we think it was the matriarchy? | |||
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"Thats me walking round for the rest of my life in my pants then as I don't wear trousers at all. " Snap | |||
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"Ban culture doesn't help anyone and again making women monitor their behaviour because people don't want to address the direct issue. Educate people and teach them the right path in life." Exactly... you said what I wanted too, but in a way I would have struggled too. Thank you | |||
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"Ah Tom you are so wise. Banning skirts is the answer to this problem." Tom does not describe himself as wise although many have described him in those terms. It's about being modest and not putting oneself on a pedestal. He is happy to guide on matters if asked privately | |||
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"Ah Tom you are so wise. Banning skirts is the answer to this problem. Tom does not describe himself as wise although many have described him in those terms. It's about being modest and not putting oneself on a pedestal. He is happy to guide on matters if asked privately" When you put yourself on a pedestal like this Tom, I can see right up your skirt. | |||
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"Probably best if we ban women. No more problems caused by women. " But who will wash up and do the hoovering? | |||
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"Thats me walking round for the rest of my life in my pants then as I don't wear trousers at all. " Sounds like a good reason to ban skirts | |||
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"Do men have this problem in Scotland?" Tom has no doubt | |||
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"Do men have this problem in Scotland?" Girls always want to see what's under the kilt! Luckily this quite excites the man who then has a chubby he's proud to show. | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news" If instead of using a camera ( which orovides a permanent record of the image). He went and lifted her skirt to have a look or bent down to look up her skirt - im pretty sure thats an offence that may put the offender on a register… same with up skirting - people - mainly men i would guess but not universally guaranteed - need to realise its not harmless fun and it causes real distress and they have to be punished and with a punishment which also provides for a deterrent against others thinking - its a laugh or no harm done.. its not a laugh for the victim and there is harm done. Time to either grow up and respect others right to privacy or suffer the inevitable consequences - especially when you try to get a job or move into an area and people know you’re a registered sex offender - not a laugh then is it? Its very twatty behaviour! | |||
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"Do men have this problem in Scotland? Girls always want to see what's under the kilt! Luckily this quite excites the man who then has a chubby he's proud to show." I can’t imagine that’s a pretty sight. | |||
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"So what is the answer here guys ?" If it were me running the school? Hmm, how about; anyone caught doing it would be banned from having their mobile phone on them whilst on school premises. Hand in to reception in the morning, collect from reception at home time. In addition, anyone caught have their school photo / mugshot added to the Wall of Shame, for all in school to see. I reckon that might be a deterrent? | |||
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"If we ban Tom it will be less all over Fab for sure! pt" Peoples are saying things | |||
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"Time for the police to investigate properly instead of just giving a crime number." Perhaps if the current government stopped giving their cronies millions for bogus PPE contracts or non existent ferries, they could properly fund public services like the police? Mind you, even then, some crimes will remain unsolvable. "Also time for the law to change so that the cps can hand down a harsher sentence." The CPS don't hand down any sentences. They act as the prosecutor (clues in the name). Magistrates or Judges hand down sentences. Under current legislation, you can go to prison for two years for this, and in some circumstances, be placed onto the Sex Offenders Register. You're right about the chances of escalation though. Tom, who's been to Essex. You asked about short skirts were underwear is easily visible? This law only applies to underwear or body parts that would not normally be visible. So if someone is deliberately displaying themselves, this legislation wouldn't come into force. You're very welcome. Gbat | |||
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"Time for the police to investigate properly instead of just giving a crime number. Perhaps if the current government stopped giving their cronies millions for bogus PPE contracts or non existent ferries, they could properly fund public services like the police? Mind you, even then, some crimes will remain unsolvable. You Also time for the law to change so that the cps can hand down a harsher sentence. The CPS don't hand down any sentences. They act as the prosecutor (clues in the name). Magistrates or Judges hand down sentences. Under current legislation, you can go to prison for two years for this, and in some circumstances, be placed onto the Sex Offenders Register. You're right about the chances of escalation though. Tom, who's been to Essex. You asked about short skirts were underwear is easily visible? This law only applies to underwear or body parts that would not normally be visible. So if someone is deliberately displaying themselves, this legislation wouldn't come into force. You're very welcome. Gbat " You again? | |||
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"Well if it's a very long skirt it's difficult to do accidently but what about if it's so short and more of a belt than a skirt and you can see the knickers even when they are not bent over. What then?" Basically, don't take a picture. | |||
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"You again?" Yes! My name is at the top of the post and because some apparently struggle with that level of identification, I also add Gbat as a little signature at the end. What's going on Tom? It's all over my post! Gbat (see? Here it is). | |||
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"You again? Yes! My name is at the top of the post and because some apparently struggle with that level of identification, I also add Gbat as a little signature at the end. What's going on Tom? It's all over my post! Gbat (see? Here it is). " Top of the Post? | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news If instead of using a camera ( which orovides a permanent record of the image). He went and lifted her skirt to have a look or bent down to look up her skirt - im pretty sure thats an offence that may put the offender on a register… same with up skirting - people - mainly men i would guess but not universally guaranteed - need to realise its not harmless fun and it causes real distress and they have to be punished and with a punishment which also provides for a deterrent against others thinking - its a laugh or no harm done.. its not a laugh for the victim and there is harm done. Time to either grow up and respect others right to privacy or suffer the inevitable consequences - especially when you try to get a job or move into an area and people know you’re a registered sex offender - not a laugh then is it? Its very twatty behaviour! " | |||
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"So what is the answer here guys ?" Ban men owning cameras &/or mobile phones. Sorted. | |||
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"I’m gonna buy this shoes with mirrors on top of the toes And a new phone that has 6 cameras now I will post the link for my Summer Knickers gallery in my isn’t a gram later " Yeah funny *facepalm* | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news" Skirts Aren’t the problem , weirdos are | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news Skirts Aren’t the problem , weirdos are " 100% | |||
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"What about banning skirts in schools" Already have in my Children’s school Tom. All the girls wear trousers and dress the same as the boys. | |||
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"What about banning skirts in schools Already have in my Children’s school Tom. All the girls wear trousers and dress the same as the boys." In Toms experience the Women always wear the trousers .. Or Troosers as they say in Scotland | |||
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"Ban males wearing clothes " No problem where I go swimmimg etc! | |||
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"Well if it's a very long skirt it's difficult to do accidently but what about if it's so short and more of a belt than a skirt and you can see the knickers even when they are not bent over. What then?" Oh well if they're showing a little bit of it if anyway then that's clearly carte blanche to have your way in whatever fashion you see fit, isn't it. Sarcasm, just to be clear. | |||
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"Reports that over 1100 incidents of so called upskirting which is mainly caused by men who use mobile phone cameras on unsuspecting women. This is since 2019 and a much of this happening in schools. Is it time to simply ban skirts in public to stop this happening,? What's going on here? It's all over the news Skirts Aren’t the problem , weirdos are " | |||
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