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Dad bod or gym fit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just trying to judge the consensus of if people prefer a Dad bod (like mine) or gym fit? If it's gym fit I think I'll adjust my gym sessions to trim up and give myself the best chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod for me x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I prefer average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to judge the consensus of if people prefer a Dad bod (like mine) or gym fit? If it's gym fit I think I'll adjust my gym sessions to trim up and give myself the best chance."

neither of us go for the "gym fit" look, i myself have always preferred a bbw or at least a woman with curves and my lady enjoys average/dad bod look (lucky for me as its been nearly 15 years since i has a 6 pack lol!)

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Dad bod here.

Sorry ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rumour has it people like different things.

Though since this is a sex site and not marriages 'r' us I want the hot gym guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod seems to encompass a wide range of bodies doesn’t it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Dad bod seems to encompass a wide range of bodies doesn’t it "

I remember when it used to mean something specific, now it just means "Not Gym Fit"

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Each day my bod goes from gym bod to dad bod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod seems to encompass a wide range of bodies doesn’t it

I remember when it used to mean something specific, now it just means "Not Gym Fit""

Which makes the question impossible to answer!

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

I am what I am. I never go to the gym so I’m not classing myself as ‘gym fit’ just enjoy the outdoors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod seems to encompass a wide range of bodies doesn’t it

I remember when it used to mean something specific, now it just means "Not Gym Fit""

There is no such thing as a dad bod. The mum bod crap at least they have actually gone through a physical event that changes their body.

Dad bod is just someone that doesn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod seems to encompass a wide range of bodies doesn’t it

I remember when it used to mean something specific, now it just means "Not Gym Fit"

There is no such thing as a dad bod. The mum bod crap at least they have actually gone through a physical event that changes their body.

Dad bod is just someone that doesn't work out.

"

But i want the v lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod doesn't exist

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France


"Dad bod seems to encompass a wide range of bodies doesn’t it

I remember when it used to mean something specific, now it just means "Not Gym Fit"

There is no such thing as a dad bod. The mum bod crap at least they have actually gone through a physical event that changes their body.

Dad bod is just someone that doesn't work out.

But i want the v lines. "

I've got lines , does that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod doesn't exist"

How else are men going to feel good about themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm somewhere between I think. I exercise but will likely never have detailed abs and a v because I like food too much and I am also a dad.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I have a 6pack bod

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By *adbod2godbodMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Arguably I've got both

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Personally for me if you’re a nice, clean, respectful guy then I don’t care what your body type is.

Saying that I’m not gonna say no if Jason Momoa wanted to have sex with me

Kink (f)

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve got a gym fit bod with a dad bod outer cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in decent shape for a 43 year old fella. Walking every day, and swimming regularly does the trick.

I’d be more inclined to visit the gym if they weren’t the most boring places on the entire planet.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Gym fit

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Definitely fit.... I work hard at my mum bod I think.... visually it ticks our boxes

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

I'm 5050 haha go to the gym but have a small belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you aren’t gum fit does that automatically mean you have a Dad bod ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

"

No pain No gain

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"If you aren’t gum fit does that automatically mean you have a Dad bod ? "

No not necessarily.... reasonable bmi, and whizz up the stairs etc

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~

Gym fit

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Always one to be a bit rude about how a bloke looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

No pain No gain "

I know I know, it’s the food prep plans she does, I’m like …I can’t eat this …she’s just gives me a look…..fine I’ll keep taking your money haha….I think cor…your evil!

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

No pain No gain

I know I know, it’s the food prep plans she does, I’m like …I can’t eat this …she’s just gives me a look…..fine I’ll keep taking your money haha….I think cor…your evil! "

Balanced diet along side exercise is key... we avoid sugary stuff, never eat fat free , never processed bla bla...actually have a very European relaxed diet...however, over indulge then need to sweat that little bit more...also not weighed myself for decades... just go on how clothes fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod for me too, I mean if a young gym fit guy wanted to bang me, I'd think about it if course

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

No pain No gain

I know I know, it’s the food prep plans she does, I’m like …I can’t eat this …she’s just gives me a look…..fine I’ll keep taking your money haha….I think cor…your evil!

Balanced diet along side exercise is key... we avoid sugary stuff, never eat fat free , never processed bla bla...actually have a very European relaxed diet...however, over indulge then need to sweat that little bit more...also not weighed myself for decades... just go on how clothes fit "

That’s the bit that can be difficult,

The exercise I’m cool with.

Due to the nature of my work, meal planning can be a pain in the arse.

My body clock is in pieces too …again due to the work I do.

Hopefully another 4 to 5 months and I’ll be where I want to be.

I have a weakness for good cake!

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

No pain No gain

I know I know, it’s the food prep plans she does, I’m like …I can’t eat this …she’s just gives me a look…..fine I’ll keep taking your money haha….I think cor…your evil!

Balanced diet along side exercise is key... we avoid sugary stuff, never eat fat free , never processed bla bla...actually have a very European relaxed diet...however, over indulge then need to sweat that little bit more...also not weighed myself for decades... just go on how clothes fit

That’s the bit that can be difficult,

The exercise I’m cool with.

Due to the nature of my work, meal planning can be a pain in the arse.

My body clock is in pieces too …again due to the work I do.

Hopefully another 4 to 5 months and I’ll be where I want to be.

I have a weakness for good cake! "

Step away from the cake unless home made then a slice is just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently trying to go from semi dad bod to a little

More toned.

PT is brutal…bloody devil child!

No pain No gain

I know I know, it’s the food prep plans she does, I’m like …I can’t eat this …she’s just gives me a look…..fine I’ll keep taking your money haha….I think cor…your evil!

Balanced diet along side exercise is key... we avoid sugary stuff, never eat fat free , never processed bla bla...actually have a very European relaxed diet...however, over indulge then need to sweat that little bit more...also not weighed myself for decades... just go on how clothes fit

That’s the bit that can be difficult,

The exercise I’m cool with.

Due to the nature of my work, meal planning can be a pain in the arse.

My body clock is in pieces too …again due to the work I do.

Hopefully another 4 to 5 months and I’ll be where I want to be.

I have a weakness for good cake!

Step away from the cake unless home made then a slice is just fine "

Right now I’ve been reduced to the crumbs

Do you really think I can bake haha…..I’d be bloody dangerous

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Some do, some don't, some like both, some like neither.

Some like slim/skinny men, some like large/fat men.

Change your body for your own reasons and to please yourself m not what somebody else might like and find pleasurable.

By going for one body type you are turning away others.

This way of thinking of changing to raise chances falls right in with the whole picky women thing. People changing themselves to fall at the feet of and adhere to whatever picky specification is stared.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

There was an interesting survey done by planet fitness where they asked that question too and the result was that women do prefer dad bods more than the other.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm flexible, especially if there are muscles

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Our gym has a range of bodies, ranging from very lean (too lean for us), to very pumped up with roids (not for us either), somewhere in between is good for us. What is a Dad bod? One stone overweight? Seven stone overweight?

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Our gym has a range of bodies, ranging from very lean (too lean for us), to very pumped up with roids (not for us either), somewhere in between is good for us. What is a Dad bod? One stone overweight? Seven stone overweight?"

Well...as I see it...a dads body doesn't go through any physical changes, therefore shouldn't technically change at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh this again

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

What about us chunkier guys?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like someone who takes care of their body.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I like someone who takes care of their body. "

That...totally that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I like someone who takes care of their body. "

That will be me then.

I feed it bacon because it loves it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our gym has a range of bodies, ranging from very lean (too lean for us), to very pumped up with roids (not for us either), somewhere in between is good for us. What is a Dad bod? One stone overweight? Seven stone overweight?"

Good question, I've seen a lot of questions about a definition, would say just a little extra padding, I work out like 4 to 5 days a week but lift heavy weights, was trying to see what preferences people have, started doing cardio on top to lean up a but and get some abs back, not seen them for a few years now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about us chunkier guys?

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Or what about us skinny guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skinny and athletic here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference on body type. All about the face and personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I want is for an older guy with a beautiful Dad bod to show me a real good time!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wish we could lose the daft Fab term 'dad bod'! It's not a 'mummy tummy' guys, stop moaning and looking for parity where there is none at all. Either sort it or not, don't be ninnies about it. In all likelihood she does all the donkey work in your marriage, not you. If you did as much you should be as fit as fiddles not fat as fuddles.

pt

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"All I want is for an older guy with a beautiful Dad bod to show me a real good time!"

Carpe_diem_MF, delicious sext curves to have a ral good time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I want is for an older guy with a beautiful Dad bod to show me a real good time!

Carpe_diem_MF, delicious sext curves to have a ral good time with "

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Carpe_diem_MF, irresistible sexy bum

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

I'm halfway between a dad bod and gym fit, got a little belly yet still have very visible abs above my belly. (Don't know how that actually works, but I'm proof it does)

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