FabSwingers.com forum: What do women want?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

They don't know and men certainly don't.

End of thread?

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By *rummymanMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"They don't know and men certainly don't.

End of thread?"

Very true

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics obviously

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Each woman as I'm sure you all know is different so I can only tell you what I want. I think possibly that assuming all women want the same thing is what leads some men to think they don't know.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Cheesecake

They’re blooming well insatiable for the stuff

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?"

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They seek whimsical notes of fiction, promises with substance, a whisper of sweet nothings, honourable compliments, assurances without conditions, reenactments of pleasure without the drama, afternoon tea, silken ropes and perfumed gardens in which to rendezvous for dangerous liaisons and a safe harbour for pillow talk.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I want to see what's on at the clubs and have a means of contacting the people I meet there without handing out direct contact details

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

At least 10 dick pics on the profile, especially one comparing a lynx can or sky remote to the size of it.

Very small amount of profile text.

A really short message like ‘hi, want me to bang you right now?’ And if they don’t respond within 5-10 minutes send the same message again, if you get no reply within two minutes from this often the best message to send them (in caps) is how ungrateful they are.

Point to note make sure to send lots of dick pics with the messages.

Make sure you let them know that you know exactly what they want.

This should definitely get you at least 100 meets a week.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Cheesecake

They’re blooming well insatiable for the stuff

Not any old cheesecake, M&S Very Berry Cheesecake... A whole one please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the thing's they should have had year's ago, fairness, equality....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Respect, that's what I want

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Cheesecake

They’re blooming well insatiable for the stuff

Not any old cheesecake, M&S Very Berry Cheesecake... A whole one please..."

I had one of those last week; I can indeed concur that they are absolutely delicious

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Let me ask the hive mind and we will get back to you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A massive ball sack slapping their clit, while you’re doing her doggy. That’s what they really want, they told me

The mr

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?"
they want what they want I'm sure they don't actually know

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Amazing, a question for women to answer, and most of the answers have come from men

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Mostly cake

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Mostly cake "

Lemon drizzle?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Let me ask the hive mind and we will get back to you. "

I’ve long harboured a fantasy for a reverse gangbang. If I have sex with you while you’re connected to the hive mind is that like fucking all the women, everywhere, at once?

Enquiring minds want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want bi ladies, and if they have a husband, then occasionally that can be a huge bonus.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Let me ask the hive mind and we will get back to you.

I’ve long harboured a fantasy for a reverse gangbang. If I have sex with you while you’re connected to the hive mind is that like fucking all the women, everywhere, at once?

Enquiring minds want to know.

It’s why it was first created. Obviously, it’s developed into so much more since but I think the functionality is still there in the background.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Amazing, a question for women to answer, and most of the answers have come from men

Well, some have already been well inducted...

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"It’s why it was first created. Obviously, it’s developed into so much more since but I think the functionality is still there in the background. "

Capital.

Let’s roll back together to v1.0.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

".... like fucking all the women, everywhere, at once?"

Fantastic film... Well deserved Oscar win, don't chya think?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Right now? Well not right this minute.

I want fun. Positive interactions that make me smile. Fantastic sex with brilliant people who intrigue me and make me laugh. Without any feelings, any drama. I want to enjoy exploring my sexuality with people I can trust.

There's so much I haven't done and it's only the past couple of months I've had the chance to dip my toe into erm... things.

So if a message or profile hints that they could do any of those things? I'd probably be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda just want to feel wanted, as pathetic as that sounds.

But more like they want to actually get to know me and have that mental connection, instead of just “faf?” type of messages.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?"

What I want is some great chat, and if we are both feeling it some hot sex that will hopefully because at least semi regular.

Honestly I hardly read fab messages and if they are open it is probably because I have just recently been to a group social.

But when I do reply I want them to have skimmed my profile and write a short basic message about something that they have found interesting or funny. Then I want to read the well written profile they have to learn a bit about who they are so I can reply in a similar manner.

If I am messaging first then I will be messaging because of something interesting in the forum and/or written on thier profile.

But I am definitely not speaking for all women here!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I kinda just want to feel wanted, as pathetic as that sounds.

But more like they want to actually get to know me and have that mental connection, instead of just “faf?” type of messages.

That doesn't sound pathetic at all! I'm the same. I like feeling like it's me they're lusting after, not just because I possess a vagina.

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By *annybrowneyesMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood

A packet of cheese and onion

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By *nnandElleCouple
over a year ago

Brackley

Cocks.

Well, apart from mine that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm fish & chips.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Cup of Tea and a slice of cake

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Attraction!

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"I want to see what's on at the clubs and have a means of contacting the people I meet there without handing out direct contact details

So ... Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BIG WILLIES

when do we want them?

NOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good face.

Hot bod.

Above average penis.

Hilarious personality.

And a little freaky in bed.

And this is why I haven't had sex in 424 days.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Good face.

Hot bod.

Above average penis.

Hilarious personality.

And a little freaky in bed.

And this is why I haven't had sex in 424 days.

Could be because you are hiding as well, I know it's been a while but I remember your profile and you are a firecracker xxx

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By *actcjcCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

For us it's when men introduce themselves with more than a 'how are you?' And take the time to read our profile and make their message relevant.

Another thing we've found is that a lot of men will get pushy quickly in their messages, or start addressing only J (fem) rather than being respectful of us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication

Consistency

Cock

Not that hard fellas, like your penis when you behave like boys.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"BIG WILLIES

when do we want them?

NOW

You must have been a gay man in your previous life?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respect, that's what I want "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me ask the hive mind and we will get back to you. "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BIG WILLIES

when do we want them?

NOW

You must have been a gay man in your previous life?! Lol"

Hope so, sounds fun!

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

My inbox is closed to men

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Not a damn clue. Not dick pics, I know that.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

They want it all, and they want it now!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I asked Alexa what women want three days ago.

Alexa hasn't stopped talking since...

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?

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Not the chav sluts I meet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?"

Be an award winning actor.

It halps.

A smidgen.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?

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Not the chav sluts I meet.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody to talk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody to talk to me.

Done.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

They'd need to have decent pics ,I don't respond to just cock pics or shadows.

I also like when they've filled in their profile ,so I can see what they like & offer.

I prefer single men ,over 34 and local to me ,either clean shaven or stubble,not a big beard .

All women are individuals though op so you won't get the same responses from us all.

Miss

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By *ingerman69Man
over a year ago

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How about lemon meringue pie, I make a mean one of them ??

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?"

Mrs M here. X

What makes me respond..

Sexy profile pics that I find attractive.

Good profile text

Looking for FWB

Someone who can hold a conversation and is happy to message and get to know me/us.

Someone that's been here a whilst and has veris.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Been here while.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Jaffa cakes or Hobnobs....

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

A sexy body.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

If anyone knows the answer can they let me know

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"A sexy body.

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,, i think i might just have one

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

....the last word.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Ladies be as brutally honest as you want, what do you want on here? What makes you reply or message a man?"

For a start ....... stop using the term 'ladies'

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

For me I want someone that i have a connection with who wants the same as me - an ongoing regular fwb.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Amazing, a question for women to answer, and most of the answers have come from men

You get used to it Sister !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"....the last word."

No we don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna have to say skittles and good sex is all I ever want x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Lives local to me

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Decent profile name and well written bio

Similar interests

Good quality, attractive pictures

The background in their pictures makes me feel like they’ve got their shit together (i.e. clean, well presented, no mess, nice furnishings)

Sexy body (for me, that means tall plus big/muscular)

Attractive face if shared (light eyes, beard are a bonus)

Polite intro message that hits the right note between non pushy, non generic, respectful, complimentary, a bit flirty but not crass.

Someone who is capable of great conversation and makes me laugh but also has sex appeal, confidence and charm.

Nice boxers and clothing if visible

Someone who is selective with obvious standards

That will do for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lives local to me "

Has the same name as a food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to catch a glimpse of your weird and wonder what else you have hidden away and I want to smile and inwardly laugh at the things you say and how you write. All that will make me want to swallow your cock.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) would like a lady to chat up Hannah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big dick fun...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I (Luke) would like a lady to chat up Hannah. "

Well hello there Hannah ....... you are looking good ! Any more like you at home....... your hair smells like Spring flowers . Can I feel your boobs ?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Respect

Honesty

Humour

Consistency

Clear pictures not a mobile phone infront of your face and I'm sure it's what a lot of men too want on here

Were really not that different besides gender height facial features

Only the high maintenance materialistic women I can understand would be harder for a lot of men to keep up with unless him as a man likes those sorts of females in swinging life xx

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A "type" op and they will never shift from that. Upside is, it makes us try harder!

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By *ondgirl 1000Woman
over a year ago

crowthorne

Normal with a bit of teasing and excitement. To be looked after. Taken care of. Kisses and hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big dick fun...

Yes!!

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