FabSwingers.com forum: Going through Partner’s phone

By *ecret_Passion777 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Does anyone else have a sneaky look when they can through their partner’s phone, looking at their WhatsApp, messenger ect, hoping to find out they’ve been flirty chatting with another person.. only to be disappointed when they haven’t (or atleast hidden their tracks too well and deleted them lol)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn’t ever that’s a violation off trust and privacy

If they your parter you should trust them

If trust isn’t there you shouldn’t be with that person

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No, that's rude and an invasion of privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Lol’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I’m not an arse and I respect his privacy.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

Definitely not, such an invasion of privacy, we both have the same password and sometimes set the wallpaper to some genitals if the other leaves their phone lying around. But would never go through messages

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Okay I get it, we don't know your relationship dynamic or what both enjoy as a couple. You get off to it fair enough.

But what is it about lack of respect for other people's privacy, especially a partner, whom likely puts a lot of trust in you for other things. How do so many lack this simple bond between two people. It may be "minor things" but it's a break of trust and privacy that taints you as a person.

If you don't respect a partners privacy, how would a stranger be able to trust you on anything.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"No because I’m not an arse and I respect his privacy.

Phew! Thank god, because if you ever saw the messages he and I send each other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doughnut and I have a thing where if any of want to look through it we can, we never have and probably never ever will

Danish x

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

No I would never do that it's a lack of respect and takes away the trust.

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

Never. It’s an invasion of privacy but I’d hand my phone over if needed. My ex fwb (still fucking hot & on here,I see your sexy ass

) told me he’d had a sneaky look at my phone at some of my messages that I’d sent my husband & he wasn’t happy. My phone. My husband. My rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because I’m not an arse and I respect his privacy.

Phew! Thank god, because if you ever saw the messages he and I send each other...

Brb

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Blimey. If I had a partner

, then I would not invade their privacy, seems a little controlling/paranoid. Far better to just communicate with them directly no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else have a sneaky look when they can through their partner’s phone, looking at their WhatsApp, messenger ect, hoping to find out they’ve been flirty chatting with another person.. only to be disappointed when they haven’t (or atleast hidden their tracks too well and deleted them lol)?

Lol? Really.

You find that behaviour amusing?

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Hell no. Talk about a major breach of trust & privacy.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to extremes, have had to cut off my partner's finger in order to use it to open the phone without her knowing that I had accessed it.

(* or am I getting confused with a film that I recently watched?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I went through her phone and that's why we're no longer together.

She stupidly told me that I could always trust her and then told me her pin.

After quite a few red flags raised and a bit of time, I went through her phone and found she was non stop messaging guys on Instagram for attention. I don't think she ever cheated, but secretly messaging guys like that is just as bad!

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Invasion of privacy and not acceptable.

Is there a reason you don't trust them? Or is it just easier to want them to be cheating as it balances you being on here?

To be clear... That's a genuine question out of curiousity, not nit picking.

Your life is your own to lead as you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I ever did this was when I suspected an ex of cheating.

When I say suspected, it wasn't just paranoia, it was evidence based and I ended up being right.

So, generally speaking, it's not an OK thing to go through someone's personal stuff, but it can be excusable in some circumstances.

Not for shits and giggles.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Wouldn't ever goe through some one else's phone that's private and frankly disrespectful to the partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only time I ever did this was when I suspected an ex of cheating.

When I say suspected, it wasn't just paranoia, it was evidence based and I ended up being right.

So, generally speaking, it's not an OK thing to go through someone's personal stuff, but it can be excusable in some circumstances.

Not for shits and giggles.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"The only time I ever did this was when I suspected an ex of cheating.

When I say suspected, it wasn't just paranoia, it was evidence based and I ended up being right.

So, generally speaking, it's not an OK thing to go through someone's personal stuff, but it can be excusable in some circumstances.

Not for shits and giggles.

I don’t think thats ok unless you already knew the relationship was over. If you went through it to find the evidence than that’s not cool in my eyes.

We both know each other’s codes in case of emergencies etc, but I wouldn’t go through his, and I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t go through mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely never ok. There are sadly lots of men and women out there who do this and it's wrong regardless of their reasoning.

Same with tracking. I know people who's partners do track their movements. Just why? If you have such little trust it's not a relationship worth staying in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think thats ok unless you already knew the relationship was over. If you went through it to find the evidence than that’s not cool in my eyes."

It wasn't meant to be cool -- I had good suspicions and needed to confirm them and I would do the same again. As soon as I found out for sure, the relationship ended.

Basically, I come with boundaries -- follow them and I treat you like you're the only woman that ever walked this Earth, but if you dare cross me or think you can get one up on me, then it's time for you to go.

However, there is a difference between real suspicion and general paranoia -- if you're the kind of person who distrusts everyone, that's a different matter entirely. I can't stand being checked up on, and I can't stand overly jealous types -- but that's not what I'm talking about here.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd never sneakily look, if I ever felt the need which I'd be doubtful I would I just ask.

Trying to catch someone being sneaky by being sneaky is just too much game playing for me.

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's sickening as a concept, to violate trust. Want to know something? Communication is your ally

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Absolutely never ok. There are sadly lots of men and women out there who do this and it's wrong regardless of their reasoning.

Same with tracking. I know people who's partners do track their movements. Just why? If you have such little trust it's not a relationship worth staying in "

Very much this. We are baffled by couples who seem to need to know each other's movements to the nearest mm and constantly on the phone checking in/up on each other. Always have been, it's not just a function of our very long relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this because you want to be a cuck?

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

I had an ex that actually changed all the numbers from woman on my phone to her number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely never ok. There are sadly lots of men and women out there who do this and it's wrong regardless of their reasoning.

Same with tracking. I know people who's partners do track their movements. Just why? If you have such little trust it's not a relationship worth staying in "

We have a tracking app, I don't see any issues with it tbh, the only downside is I can't ever surprise him because if I turn it off around the time I'm meant to pick him up he will either panic something has happened to me or he will figure it out and vice versa.

He can tell when I've arrived at work etc and if I don't text him when I arrive he knows I'm safe and I can tell how far away he is if he goes out so I can put the dinner or kettle on.

100% trust on both sides, purely there to know we have arrived and on the way home (more for him to get the hoover out shouting "oh shit!")

Danish x

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Clickbait thread.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental."

Why would you go mental?

I often let my partner know my pin code to unlock phone soon into my relationships.

Some are like "meh", others look regularly with relish when I'm not in the room. Relationships feel a lot more grown up that way?

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"Absolutely never ok. There are sadly lots of men and women out there who do this and it's wrong regardless of their reasoning.

Same with tracking. I know people who's partners do track their movements. Just why? If you have such little trust it's not a relationship worth staying in

He can tell when I've arrived at work etc and if I don't text him when I arrive he knows I'm safe and I can tell how far away he is if he goes out so I can put the dinner or kettle on.

100% trust on both sides, purely there to know we have arrived and on the way home (more for him to get the hoover out shouting "oh shit!")

Danish x"

Helps my ADHD so much because I get a notification saying she's on her way which triggers me to do jobs I may have forgotten to do throughout the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental.

Why would you go mental?

I often let my partner know my pin code to unlock phone soon into my relationships.

Some are like "meh", others look regularly with relish when I'm not in the room. Relationships feel a lot more grown up that way?"

Doughnut is co pilot in the car and uses my phone as hooked up to the Bluetooth for the satnav, so very often had access to my phone, often sees when my FB has text me (never reads them). I honestly have no issue with him having my phone.

Danish x

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Absolutely not...just all the No

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By *adbod2godbodMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No.

Any messages, whether it's what's app, messenger, telegram, on here is essentially addressed to the recipient. Just as a letter would.

And I wouldn't open somebody else's post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I wouldn’t have dreamt of doing that - it’s a breach of trust and their privacy. If there’s no trust the theres nothing!! My ex said I was overly controlling and nosey … she didn’t actually say it to my face though … she wrote it in her diary!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental.

Why would you go mental?

I often let my partner know my pin code to unlock phone soon into my relationships.

Some are like "meh", others look regularly with relish when I'm not in the room. Relationships feel a lot more grown up that way?"

My wife knows my passcode and can use my phone whenever she wants, if she asks first. If I caught her sneakily looking through my phone it would mean she doesn’t trust me and I clearly can’t trust her.

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By *amesy8519Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Nope. Don’t feel the need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She deleted my pics?....I'm hurt..

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Did this thread pan out as you expected OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No….. would never do it…. I’ve had it done to me thou

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"If I caught her sneakily looking through my phone it would mean she doesn’t trust me and I clearly can’t trust her."

Trust is something you cannot demand. It is only something you can give.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No!

Thankfully we have a healthy trusting relationship.

Nita

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

No.

If my partners choose not to share something with me that's their choice, and I trust them to tell me if there's anything relevant to our relationships or health.

Maybe if I was fucking around behind their backs I'd be more inclined to alleviate guilt by making sure they were being terrible too. But that's not my scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I caught her sneakily looking through my phone it would mean she doesn’t trust me and I clearly can’t trust her.

Trust is something you cannot demand. It is only something you can give."

I don’t think you understand. We trust each other 100%. If we didn’t we wouldn’t be together. Sneaking around and looking through my phone would be a breakdown in that trust.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"...their partner’s phone..

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OP, you sneaky little puppy, we know what you're really up to: you're just trying to find out who on here is married or attached and possibly playing behind their partner's back.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental.

Why would you go mental?

I often let my partner know my pin code to unlock phone soon into my relationships.

Some are like "meh", others look regularly with relish when I'm not in the room. Relationships feel a lot more grown up that way?

Exactly this, I wouldn't go behind Danish's back to look at her phone I use her phone for the car stuff (maps/music etc.) As it's illegal for drivers to touch a phone while car is in motion.

Even our tracking app is just for security rather than spying

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't have a sneaky look no, however we both know we can use each others phone if needed and know the password.

If I wanted to know/ see something in his phone then I would just ask... then if he didn't tell me I would rifle through his phone after tying him up so he can't stop me

Trust is the key though, once the trust is lost then that is more the issue rather than a phone

People talk about privacy invasion, but it wouldn't bother me if Mr Ruggers went through my phone.

The man on a post who said he looked at a phone because he was suspicious and found out his suspiscions were right...then I can understand that. The person he then left because of it can have all the privacy they want then, so win win.

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By *pforanything121Man
over a year ago

castleford

I hated myself for looking but first ever time I did with ex is it was sooooo obvious that she was chatting with someone else behind my back. I told her straight away and we sorted it out. Fast forward 2.5 years later and she changed how she was in a way. I just knew something was wrong, basically she’d met this guy while I was on a night shift and picked me up after and had a pussy full of cum. I figured it out as we walked through front door and I went to put hands down her pants and what not and she pushed me away and ran upstairs. I heard her washing her pussy. Thing is we have done loads of playing with others 3 ways digging etc… never got why with him but hey ho it happens. She cries and regrets it all to this day but I left her and don’t have any time for people who have no morals etc..

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I don’t think you understand. We trust each other 100%. If we didn’t we wouldn’t be together. Sneaking around and looking through my phone would be a breakdown in that trust. "

Hummm... Words like "sneaking" seems untrustworthy.

If I give my partner my passcode, I am giving him my trust. If he looks (I don't have to give him permission no.#2), there shouldn't be anything sordid about it. I am not sure about your meaning of the word "trust" or "100%".

People stick together for a lot of reasons and a lot of relationships are not built on as much trust as they might like to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think you understand. We trust each other 100%. If we didn’t we wouldn’t be together. Sneaking around and looking through my phone would be a breakdown in that trust.

Hummm... Words like "sneaking" seems untrustworthy.

People stick together for a lot of reasons and a lot of relationships are not built on as much trust as they might like to believe."

Yes. Our relationship is doomed because we don’t go through each other’s phones, bags and wallets

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Thinking it’s okay to sneakily check someone’s phone without permission is worse than cheating IMO.

That’s next level crazy that I thought only kids would do.

Mind blown at this forum thread!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Clickbait thread."

No, the title is accurate for the subject within.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

No I do not. I find it to be very disrespectful an invasion of privacy. It should never be done.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Yes. Our relationship is doomed because we don’t go through each other’s phones, bags and wallets

I certainly have no need to go through his stuff. But if he has a need to go through my stuff, it says something about his insecurities (about himself and us)?

If so we need to talk.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Yes. Our relationship is doomed because we don’t go through each other’s phones, bags and wallets

I certainly have no need to go through his stuff. But if he has a need to go through my stuff, it says something about his insecurities (about himself and us)?

If so we need to talk."

Well done. I'm pretty sure that's exactly the point Geordie was trying to make from the start.

Got there in the end.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Absolutely not, these days a phone is more personal than a diary used to be, a persons phone is almost an extension of the person themselves

Ruffling through their phone is abhorrent no matter your reasoning

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Absolutely never ok. There are sadly lots of men and women out there who do this and it's wrong regardless of their reasoning.

Same with tracking. I know people who's partners do track their movements. Just why? If you have such little trust it's not a relationship worth staying in "

I get tracked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, why would I want to see my ex pretending to be nice to get another guy....

Seriously though if I were in a relationship I wouldn't look at their phone. If they wanted to look at mine they could.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I get tracked

Seriously.

If your emoticon is not supposed to be humorous, please seek help or drop me a private message hunny.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Never. Such an invasion of privacy and a breach of trust

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

I once woke up to find my thumb being pressed against my phone to open it by my partner at the time.

It must have been the first time she had tried as I code my phone to open it, not use my thumb.

Shown the door she was.

My house isn't FAB and she could not do as she wanted.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I once woke up to find my thumb being pressed against my phone to open it by my partner at the time.

It must have been the first time she had tried as I code my phone to open it, not use my thumb.

Shown the door she was.

My house isn't FAB and she could not do as she wanted."

blimey!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Never. It’s an invasion of privacy but I’d hand my phone over if needed. My ex fwb (still fucking hot & on here,I see your sexy ass

) told me he’d had a sneaky look at my phone at some of my messages that I’d sent my husband & he wasn’t happy. My phone. My husband. My rules."

HE wasn't happy??

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Well done. I'm pretty sure that's exactly the point Geordie was trying to make from the start.

Got there in the end. "

I'm not sure we are.

If you need permission no.#2 (which just makes sharing the passcode tokenistic), or otherwise she'll be "sneaking' a look and he'll "go mental"...

They certainly need to talk about what they mean about trusting each other.

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

"I once woke up to find my thumb being pressed against my phone to open it by my partner at the time.

It must have been the first time she had tried as I code my phone to open it, not use my thumb.

Shown the door she was.

My house isn't FAB and she could not do as she wanted.

blimey! "

true story.

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By *LKBBWMILFWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Boundaries!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done. I'm pretty sure that's exactly the point Geordie was trying to make from the start.

Got there in the end.

I'm not sure we are.

If you need permission no.#2 (which just makes sharing the passcode tokenistic), or otherwise she'll be "sneaking' a look and he'll "go mental"...

They certainly need to talk about what they mean about trusting each other."

Together for 12 years and happy. We won’t be taking marriage advice from someone who thinks snooping is acceptable.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Well done. I'm pretty sure that's exactly the point Geordie was trying to make from the start.

Got there in the end.

I'm not sure we are.

If you need permission no.#2 (which just makes sharing the passcode tokenistic), or otherwise she'll be "sneaking' a look and he'll "go mental"...

They certainly need to talk about what they mean about trusting each other."

Wtf is this no.#2 shit?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

She can go through it whenever she likes, all she has to do is ask, I’ve nothing to hide.

The mr

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental."

I hope you never go through her phone i keep asking her to get a Chelsea shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental.

I hope you never go through her phone i keep asking her to get a Chelsea shirt"

She only likes Champion’s League teams. Sorry

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I’ve seen a few messages on my wife’s phone when I’ve glanced at it when she’s been using it sitting next to me to a guy I know she had sex with before we were together. But I trust her not to be messing around.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Together for 12 years and happy. We won’t be taking marriage advice from someone who thinks snooping is acceptable."

Congratulations on your 12 years!

I am not saying snooping is acceptable. I am saying if there is trust in your marriage then taking a looking without asking (permission #2) should be just taking a look. Not snooping. But that would make you "go mental"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Together for 12 years and happy. We won’t be taking marriage advice from someone who thinks snooping is acceptable.

Congratulations on your 12 years!

You clearly have no understanding of any point I’ve made so I give up. Have a nice day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely fuckin not.

Huge invasion of privacy and shoes a severe lack of trust and respect for your partner.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

No... I don't like it when other people show me their messages - even when it's inconsequential either and I get if all the phone politics stuff starts happening:

Last seen, double ticks, different messaging platforms.

Kisses 'XXX' politics.

One great bit of advice that resonated for me a loooong time ago was: if I find myself doubting someone - it's probably done. Sounded cutthroat to me at the time - two decades later: I have to admit she was pretty wise.

Easiest way to spot if someone is a dickhead is to be straight up yourself - I reckon. Then if things start feeling weird you know that shit didn't come from you. You reap what you sow with that stuff imo.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Simple answer No

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"Simple answer No"

^^this^^

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

No. That is the beginning of the end of the relationship for me.

But know that cheating kinks exist and ways to also do them ethically. Look it up. Consider it. Discuss it with your partner.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I'd never look through anyone's phone regardless to who it belonged too.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Absolutely no

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

Stalker shit tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the basis for every healthy relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ no. Imagine if you found something and had to end your whole relationship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I went through someone's phone it was one I found.Belonged to a young lady,very pretty and a great body and amazing tits. She was not shy to say the least and had even filmed herself dancing naked

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Two words 'fucked up'

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

"Last time I went through someone's phone it was one I found.Belonged to a young lady,very pretty and a great body and amazing tits. She was not shy to say the least and had even filmed herself dancing naked "

Yeah? How'd you unlock it?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Absolutely not. If I caught my wife going through my phone without asking I’d go mental.

Why would you go mental?

I often let my partner know my pin code to unlock phone soon into my relationships.

Some are like "meh", others look regularly with relish when I'm not in the room. Relationships feel a lot more grown up that way?

Danish x"

We can access each other's phones if we really need to, but only ever have done it with permission, e.g. navigating in the car or if I ASK him to check a message for me etc. If it was an emergency, we could access each other's phones but we'd only do it in an emergency without asking each other.

If tracking each other is with consent, then fair enough, (it's not our thing), but that doesn't seem to be what the OP is referring to.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Wasn't shy in filming herself on her own phone? Presumably for "her eyes only"?

Or, this is no.1 on the list of things that never happened?

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, no need to, we trust each other, but then we both use each others phone at times anyway, the only thing thats kept private between us is my work stuff for business reasons (codes, personell files etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done. I'm pretty sure that's exactly the point Geordie was trying to make from the start.

Got there in the end.

I'm not sure we are.

If you need permission no.#2 (which just makes sharing the passcode tokenistic), or otherwise she'll be "sneaking' a look and he'll "go mental"...

They certainly need to talk about what they mean about trusting each other.

Wtf is this no.#2 shit?"

You answered the question yourself and in a more succinct way than the Collins online dictionary.

"2. defecation: used esp. by or with reference to children."

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

Lol! Only being truthfull! Didn't trust the bugger! X

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

No! That’s bad.

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Never !!!!

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

Lol! Only being truthfull! Didn't trust the bugger! X"

Why be with someone who you do not trust that much ?

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

To me it’s private it’s mine and know one else’s to view ,

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

Lol! Only being truthfull! Didn't trust the bugger! X

Why be with someone who you do not trust that much ?"

Hence why we split! It wernt women tbh I would b looking for! Back then we didn't have mobile phones so it was pockets etc I used to look through! With very good reason! Long story but in the end the addiction got him he's now pushing up daisy's! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Because that would be me being paranoid and id have to admit to myself I didn’t trust them, I might as well just fuck them off before I even tried to open one of their apps…and show them I didn’t trust them.

What are you people even thinking??…

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

Lol! Only being truthfull! Didn't trust the bugger! X

Why be with someone who you do not trust that much ?

Okay that's different circumstances

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

No, never, but Mrs is free to look through my phone any time she wants.

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Why would you do that

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

Lol! Only being truthfull! Didn't trust the bugger! X

Why be with someone who you do not trust that much ?

Okay that's different circumstances

It is yes! But once trust has gone it's hard to trust again! So who's to say weather I would or would not with a phone! Just one of the many reasons I'm never gonna b in a relationship again! In my last chapter of life left lol! I'm happy being a Larry as far as men go!

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"If I had a partner then yes I would! But I don't have one! X

Lol! Only being truthfull! Didn't trust the bugger! X

Why be with someone who you do not trust that much ?

Okay that's different circumstances

More power to you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah? How'd you unlock it? "

This was when phones were not locked,that is a relatively new idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah? How'd you unlock it?

This was when phones were not locked,that is a relatively new idea"

How long ago are we talking as I have had to unlock my phone for years, more to the point why was you going through her pictures etc? "If" I found a phone the most and "I" could gain access to it, the most I would do is try and contact someone who might be able to reunite it with its owner, not go snooping.

Danish x

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

No that just shows that you don’t trust your partner whatsoever

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Yeah? How'd you unlock it?

This was when phones were not locked,that is a relatively new idea"

I am not sure they had cameras to video at that point

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Yeah? How'd you unlock it?

This was when phones were not locked,that is a relatively new idea

Danish x"

To be fair, you may know the person if they had pictures you recognised, although that may be a different intent as to how why this poster went through it

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I too had a similar experience years ago i looked through the pics to see if their was a clue to who owned it i eventually reunited it with its owner

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

Yeah? How'd you unlock it?

This was when phones were not locked,that is a relatively new idea"

So it was a Motorola razor or something? So you couldn't make the pictures out and the video was 3 seconds of blurred nonsense?

Or did it only happen in a fairytale? Hmm

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