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By *alentedrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Wake up lads how on earth do you put up with the stringent rules set by couples in here. It’s like jumping through flaming hoops.

Yeah I get the “we can afford to be fussy” but the biggest joke is a fair proportion of the male part of the couples are on fabguys fucking anything that moves (I’m not complaining lol)

I have seen a fair few posts from people stating this is not just a sex site if you actually believe that perhaps e harmony is your thing

Flame away but it’s the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wake up lads how on earth do you put up with the stringent rules set by couples in here. It’s like jumping through flaming hoops.

Yeah I get the “we can afford to be fussy” but the biggest joke is a fair proportion of the male part of the couples are on fabguys fucking anything that moves (I’m not complaining lol)

I have seen a fair few posts from people stating this is not just a sex site if you actually believe that perhaps e harmony is your thing

Flame away but it’s the truth "

Too real.

The real world is where its at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wake me up before you go go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhhh I’m still sleeping

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Wake up lads how on earth do you put up with the stringent rules set by couples in here. It’s like jumping through flaming hoops.

Yeah I get the “we can afford to be fussy” but the biggest joke is a fair proportion of the male part of the couples are on fabguys fucking anything that moves (I’m not complaining lol)

I have seen a fair few posts from people stating this is not just a sex site if you actually believe that perhaps e harmony is your thing

Flame away but it’s the truth "

I don’t really notice the men in couples or what sites they are on I just steal the wife for a night and say thank you

Maybe stick with fab guys if it ain’t working.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Horses for courses.

Do what’s good for you.

Gbat

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover


"Wake up lads how on earth do you put up with the stringent rules set by couples in here. It’s like jumping through flaming hoops.

Yeah I get the “we can afford to be fussy” but the biggest joke is a fair proportion of the male part of the couples are on fabguys fucking anything that moves (I’m not complaining lol)

I have seen a fair few posts from people stating this is not just a sex site if you actually believe that perhaps e harmony is your thing

Flame away but it’s the truth "

I’m sorry…put up with the stringent rules that couples set? Haha, if we discussed our rules with you and you were to join us, not “putting up” with those rules discussed would land you in a world of pain

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

This site is what you make it. I have had some wonderful fwbs who are after a lot more than sex. I would say that women looking for ons are in the minority. If there are hoops to jump though then it's a clear indicator that they are not for you and you just go onto the next looking for someone who matches you. Too many men seem to treat the women on this site as free sex workers. Maybe you are on the wrong site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it’s all about the time and place.

Last time I engaged with a couple on a sexual basis (a couple of months ago at Kestrel Spa) I spent about 20 minutes engaging in small talk with them in the lounge about the weather, price inflation in Tesco and their holiday plans, then they invited me to the cinema room to lick her out..

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By *alentedrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

And there lies the problem

You comment then block every single male cos you know the old man I’d fucking elsewhere lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Hoops don't have to be jumped through.

Demands don't have to be met.

Not all couples are like that anyway.

Just do you. It's your choice entirely who you engage with, what you do and how you run your life.

Nobody else's.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isn’t for you.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swinging isn’t for you."

I think he is talking about you

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Wake up lads how on earth do you put up with the stringent rules set by couples in here. It’s like jumping through flaming hoops.

Yeah I get the “we can afford to be fussy” but the biggest joke is a fair proportion of the male part of the couples are on fabguys fucking anything that moves (I’m not complaining lol)

I have seen a fair few posts from people stating this is not just a sex site if you actually believe that perhaps e harmony is your thing

Flame away but it’s the truth "
If you can't meet their criteria just move to the next one or go to a club, don't beat yourself up about it, you don't know them they don't know you, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging isn’t for you.

I think he is talking about you "

I’m on fabgays. That’s where the real men meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody says you have to do what people ask, dont like demands move on.

People are free to use the site as it suits them what works for some wont work for others

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Jordanhill / Scotstoun

There's a lot to unpack.

You see fab as a sex site, but not everyone else does.

Everyone can set whatever their criteria they want.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swinging isn’t for you.

I think he is talking about you

I’m on fabgays. That’s where the real men meet."

Fab bingo! You said "real men"

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By *alentedrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Lol of course you would say that

Keep sitting in that ivory tower love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging isn’t for you.

I think he is talking about you

I’m on fabgays. That’s where the real men meet.

Fab bingo! You said "real men" "

We spit in buckets, punch anything that looks at us funny and get manicures on Fridays.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swinging isn’t for you.

I think he is talking about you

I’m on fabgays. That’s where the real men meet.

Fab bingo! You said "real men"

We spit in buckets, punch anything that looks at us funny and get manicures on Fridays."

Oh I can't make Fridays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the thing with couples is that there are two people so sometimes twice as many wants needs. Most couples are intelligent enough to realise that may put some people off but not everyone and it those who we are after connecting with and not the former! Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging isn’t for you.

I think he is talking about you

I’m on fabgays. That’s where the real men meet.

Fab bingo! You said "real men"

We spit in buckets, punch anything that looks at us funny and get manicures on Fridays.

Oh I can't make Fridays "

Fisty Friday nights don’t work without the manicure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a whole world/ culture of its own, but yes real World is far simpler..

You don’t get the lulz of the forums thought..

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Wake up lads how on earth do you put up with the stringent rules set by couples in here. It’s like jumping through flaming hoops.

Yeah I get the “we can afford to be fussy” but the biggest joke is a fair proportion of the male part of the couples are on fabguys fucking anything that moves (I’m not complaining lol)

I have seen a fair few posts from people stating this is not just a sex site if you actually believe that perhaps e harmony is your thing

Flame away but it’s the truth "

Translation: I can’t do exactly what I want, when I want and these sex objects I want to do whatever I feel like to think they have the right to have opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to see some stringent rules!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have stringent rules and no one is getting near my flaming hoop regardless of what site they are on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course you would say that

Keep sitting in that ivory tower love "

If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are replying to.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Any stringent rules would be there to screen out people with shitty attitudes

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you give us an example of these “rules”?

Isn’t it just a case of, you’d like to meet them but don’t fit the criteria of what they’re looking for?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Any stringent rules would be there to screen out people with shitty attitudes

B"

Put away the astringent and the hoops, darling. The OP sounds like a keeper

J

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just use fab as a social club for chat and humour. Works for me.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

There is no monopoly or rules set by anyone. The way I look at it You respect others boundaries and limits and expect same in return.

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