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"strongly believe every job out there is a worthy one. Id love to see how the country would run without electricians lol.. its a very skilled trade and im sure the average person would be stuffed not knowing your skills " | |||
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"I'm a great fan of tradesmen, to me they are just as professional as many of the traditional professions... When do you ever need a banker at 3am cos your electrics have gone bang/your boiler has died/water is coming through the ceiling? " | |||
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"I'm a great fan of tradesmen, to me they are just as professional as many of the traditional professions... When do you ever need a banker at 3am cos your electrics have gone bang/your boiler has died/water is coming through the ceiling? " That is a valid point. One of my sisters is a head teacher and she is still amazed how much training and exams I have done though my working life. As my father always says "the bin men stopped the country working", | |||
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"strongly believe every job out there is a worthy one. Id love to see how the country would run without electricians lol.. its a very skilled trade and im sure the average person would be stuffed not knowing your skills " | |||
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"Perhaps the person responded with an unfortunate choice of phrase rather than directly intending to decry the worth of your previous occupation… It’s easy to take things the wrong way , it’s not uncommon to hear skilled trades people engaging in friendly banter challenging the value of each others occupation against their own… !! That reminds me of a chippie, bricklayer and spark in pub. Chippie and brickie are arguing about who's trade was the oldest. Chippie says well we built noar's ark, brickie replies well we built hanging gardens. Sparkie is sat there laughing to himself, the two ask why you laughing your trade is only a hundred or so years old. Sparkie replied on the first day god said let there be light, we had run the cables, installed the switchgear, tested and was ready for switched on. " | |||
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"Perhaps the person responded with an unfortunate choice of phrase rather than directly intending to decry the worth of your previous occupation… It’s easy to take things the wrong way , it’s not uncommon to hear skilled trades people engaging in friendly banter challenging the value of each others occupation against their own… !! That reminds me of a chippie, bricklayer and spark in pub. Chippie and brickie are arguing about who's trade was the oldest. Chippie says well we built noar's ark, brickie replies well we built hanging gardens. Sparkie is sat there laughing to himself, the two ask why you laughing your trade is only a hundred or so years old. Sparkie replied on the first day god said let there be light, we had run the cables, installed the switchgear, tested and was ready for switched on. " Now you see….. there lye’s another contentious issue,,,,,, landlubbers referring to Electricians as “Sparkies” would cause a few raised eyebrows amongst Radio Officers who also lay claim to that title… | |||
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"Perhaps the person responded with an unfortunate choice of phrase rather than directly intending to decry the worth of your previous occupation… It’s easy to take things the wrong way , it’s not uncommon to hear skilled trades people engaging in friendly banter challenging the value of each others occupation against their own… !! That reminds me of a chippie, bricklayer and spark in pub. Chippie and brickie are arguing about who's trade was the oldest. Chippie says well we built noar's ark, brickie replies well we built hanging gardens. Sparkie is sat there laughing to himself, the two ask why you laughing your trade is only a hundred or so years old. Sparkie replied on the first day god said let there be light, we had run the cables, installed the switchgear, tested and was ready for switched on. Now you see….. there lye’s another contentious issue,,,,,, landlubbers referring to Electricians as “Sparkies” would cause a few raised eyebrows amongst Radio Officers who also lay claim to that title… " Over the years I was called by many different names, some not very pleasant. I did once say to a IT specialist, just remember you supply expensive door stops until I decide you can have power put on to them. First lesson for IT is be nice to the Electrician, he might be a twat but he puts the power on | |||
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"Perhaps the person responded with an unfortunate choice of phrase rather than directly intending to decry the worth of your previous occupation… It’s easy to take things the wrong way , it’s not uncommon to hear skilled trades people engaging in friendly banter challenging the value of each others occupation against their own… !! That reminds me of a chippie, bricklayer and spark in pub. Chippie and brickie are arguing about who's trade was the oldest. Chippie says well we built noar's ark, brickie replies well we built hanging gardens. Sparkie is sat there laughing to himself, the two ask why you laughing your trade is only a hundred or so years old. Sparkie replied on the first day god said let there be light, we had run the cables, installed the switchgear, tested and was ready for switched on. Now you see….. there lye’s another contentious issue,,,,,, landlubbers referring to Electricians as “Sparkies” would cause a few raised eyebrows amongst Radio Officers who also lay claim to that title… Over the years I was called by many different names, some not very pleasant. I did once say to a IT specialist, just remember you supply expensive door stops until I decide you can have power put on to them. First lesson for IT is be nice to the Electrician, he might be a twat but he puts the power on " I remember being very unpopular amongst the electrician’s onboard one rig I worked, because I refused to allocate them with help for pulling new cables they were installing, after they had refused to help the rig-welder pull his “dirty” cables so he could install a transit box for their new cable to pass though a bulkhead.. … | |||
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" Now you see….. there lye’s another contentious issue,,,,,, landlubbers referring to Electricians as “Sparkies” would cause a few raised eyebrows amongst Radio Officers who also lay claim to that title… " Think you can use the decca navigator as an anchor now though Wolf | |||
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" Now you see….. there lye’s another contentious issue,,,,,, landlubbers referring to Electricians as “Sparkies” would cause a few raised eyebrows amongst Radio Officers who also lay claim to that title… Think you can use the decca navigator as an anchor now though Wolf " | |||
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"strongly believe every job out there is a worthy one. Id love to see how the country would run without electricians lol.. its a very skilled trade and im sure the average person would be stuffed not knowing your skills " I quite agree! | |||
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"I was talking to someone on Friday and they were asking about my accident, what I did for a living before etc etc. when I said I worked similar to what a electrician did, the response back was "oh you were just an electrician". Now I have heard this a few times over my working life and before when a teacher said "you could do whatever you wanted why just an electrician". I have always been proud at what I have done and that of all my family members. We were all told " do what you like, as long as you enjoy it and do it to the best of your ability" So the question do you think the "trades" are below you in social circles. As you can tell I do not, I have always thought if you are working what you do is valuable to the country" Having been a bricklayer for most of my life, I've found I am more unpopular now that I work for HMRC...I just dont understand | |||
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"Anybody and in any context who feels the need to belittle another person by saying you are "only"..... has to be insecure. A genuinely secure person with a healthy self esteem would not dream of trying to belittle or make inferior another person. And btw... give me an electrician anytime - they sure know how to set off a spark" Well said. | |||
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"I was talking to someone on Friday and they were asking about my accident, what I did for a living before etc etc. when I said I worked similar to what a electrician did, the response back was "oh you were just an electrician". Now I have heard this a few times over my working life and before when a teacher said "you could do whatever you wanted why just an electrician". I have always been proud at what I have done and that of all my family members. We were all told " do what you like, as long as you enjoy it and do it to the best of your ability" So the question do you think the "trades" are below you in social circles. As you can tell I do not, I have always thought if you are working what you do is valuable to the country" I for one can't do electrical work as it is a dangerous medium in the wrong hands. You are way UP THERE in my book | |||
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"anyone who says 'just' towards any occupation best remember personal circumstances can change and they find themselves looking for such a role...." spot on as usual.. does my head in when folk say 'i'm only a cleaner.. each role is important, if no one cleaned well we would be in shit state.. for the want of a nail... | |||
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"I'm a multi skilled engineer, mechanical, electrical and PLC's, have been all my working life. It's always amused me the way that white collar workers have looked down their noses at people like me until they find out just how much our skills are needed and how much we earn by comparison. They soon eat some humble pie lol My dad told me when I was leaving school to get a trade and I would always be in work, he wasn't wrong 36 years of continuous employment later. " | |||
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"so a few of you tradesmen and women have now mentioned its not low paid... is that your justification for it to be a worthy job? " Nope, I like it because it's physical and I have a personal interest in plumbing and electrical. x | |||
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"so a few of you tradesmen and women have now mentioned its not low paid... is that your justification for it to be a worthy job? " My work life as always been well paid, over the years I have worked on some rather big projects and achieved results that was considered impossible by others. I been given bonuses that a banker would think was good. The money is great but for me it was always the challenge and walking away knowing I had left a well finished job. | |||
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"It doesent matter to me what you do for a living. It don't make you more or less of a person weather you wear a suit, uniform, overalls Or no clothes at all. What's more important is that it makes you happy. I've been a stone Mason for 20 years and loved every Minuit of it. I get great satisfaction standing back and saying to my self... Shit did I just make that? " Stone masons are the artist of construction. Must be great thinking your work could be standing for centuries | |||
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"It doesent matter to me what you do for a living. It don't make you more or less of a person weather you wear a suit, uniform, overalls Or no clothes at all. What's more important is that it makes you happy. I've been a stone Mason for 20 years and loved every Minuit of it. I get great satisfaction standing back and saying to my self... Shit did I just make that? " | |||
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"To be honest …. No matter how valued you feel in whatever job your do, whatever you get paid becomes trivialised when you see at first hand the toil and effort some people make everyday just to survive and provide enough sustenance for their families and loved ones to make it through to another day,,, " | |||
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"In my profession drivers get treated as 3 rd class citerzens. Went into the office the other day and got told drivers are not allowed in here go in the drivers room where you belong. Nice lol " I could or would not want to ever speak to anyone like that | |||
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"It happens a lot unfortunately " Often used to have to help unload and would never have even thought to speak to someone like that | |||
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"I've been working at The Temple for the last eight months and there has been a certain element of people looking down their noses and thinking 'he's just a decorator'. Not a lot but its definitely there. Oddly enough it isn't coming from the Lords ,Ladies, Judges,QC's and Barristers,who are all as nice as pie. It comes from the Clerks. The barrow boys of the legal profession. Sadly they're usually my first point of contact." You have to love them | |||
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"It happens a lot unfortunately " Can I ask?... do you mind when people familiarly address you as "driver"? ( "as in thank-you driver" or " can you move it over there driver" etc) I know its not done meaning anything bad,,, But its just something I hear being said now and again, and not something I'd be comfortable saying! | |||
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"My husband is a professional singer and guitarist and has toured all over the world and people are always of the opinion that it is all sunshine and roses etc but have no real idea of what it really takes to put on such concerts with all the travelling and rehearsing and logistics. But he does always say that he understands he gets paid very well to do something he enjoys" I couldn't hold a tune if I had a bucket and my life depended on it. I could use a sound desk and rig and control lights but am tone deaf | |||
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"It happens a lot unfortunately Can I ask?... do you mind when people familiarly address you as "driver"? ( "as in thank-you driver" or " can you move it over there driver" etc) I know its not done meaning anything bad,,, But its just something I hear being said now and again, and not something I'd be comfortable saying! " I always used to ask their name and the great thing was most of the time you got things done with less hassle | |||
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"My husband is a professional singer and guitarist and has toured all over the world and people are always of the opinion that it is all sunshine and roses etc but have no real idea of what it really takes to put on such concerts with all the travelling and rehearsing and logistics. But he does always say that he understands he gets paid very well to do something he enjoys I couldn't hold a tune if I had a bucket and my life depended on it. I could use a sound desk and rig and control lights but am tone deaf " LOL, well it hasn't stopped half the boy and girl bands of the last 15 years having a career ! LOL | |||
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"so a few of you tradesmen and women have now mentioned its not low paid... is that your justification for it to be a worthy job? " For me the pay doesn't make it a worthy job, I love my job, it's a pleasure to go to work and do what I do best every working day and for other people to appreciate the level of commitment and skill needed to do that work. The pay is an added bonus that allows me to do the things I want to do away from the workplace. If I had to I would do the same job for less money as I'm happy with what I do, I can't imagine doing anything different | |||
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"It happens a lot unfortunately Can I ask?... do you mind when people familiarly address you as "driver"? ( "as in thank-you driver" or " can you move it over there driver" etc) I know its not done meaning anything bad,,, But its just something I hear being said now and again, and not something I'd be comfortable saying! I always used to ask their name and the great thing was most of the time you got things done with less hassle" Yeah, I'm all for that,,,, On the rigs we always wore name tags so people could call each other by first name or chosen nick-name… | |||
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"It happens a lot unfortunately Can I ask?... do you mind when people familiarly address you as "driver"? ( "as in thank-you driver" or " can you move it over there driver" etc) I know its not done meaning anything bad,,, But its just something I hear being said now and again, and not something I'd be comfortable saying! I always used to ask their name and the great thing was most of the time you got things done with less hassle Yeah, I'm all for that,,,, On the rigs we always wore name tags so people could call each other by first name or chosen nick-name… " Politeness as always helped me and by using someone's name it helps show that you are bothered enough to use it | |||
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"My husband is a professional singer and guitarist and has toured all over the world and people are always of the opinion that it is all sunshine and roses etc but have no real idea of what it really takes to put on such concerts with all the travelling and rehearsing and logistics. But he does always say that he understands he gets paid very well to do something he enjoys I couldn't hold a tune if I had a bucket and my life depended on it. I could use a sound desk and rig and control lights but am tone deaf LOL, well it hasn't stopped half the boy and girl bands of the last 15 years having a career ! LOL" True but I really could not hold a tune if my life depended on it | |||
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"It doesent matter to me what you do for a living. It don't make you more or less of a person weather you wear a suit, uniform, overalls Or no clothes at all. " To quote a line from The Big Issue (Chumbawamba) "Just because you're wearing a tie, it doesn't make you bloody important you know" | |||
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" For me the pay doesn't make it a worthy job, I love my job, it's a pleasure to go to work and do what I do best every working day and for other people to appreciate the level of commitment and skill needed to do that work. The pay is an added bonus that allows me to do the things I want to do away from the workplace. If I had to I would do the same job for less money as I'm happy with what I do, I can't imagine doing anything different " | |||
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"As a skilled worker in the hospitality industry, I have experianced job snobbery on many occassions. When I was younger I used to get embarrassed.But thanks to all the chef related cooking programmes over the years, its no longer scoured in the same way. Besides, I would not change my career choice if given a second chance. The sexploits I had over the years reads like porn stars memoirs. People. who.work in the hospitality industry think everyone else is having a great time and over compensate! Bunch of freaking randy bar stewards we are! " I'm changing careear | |||
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"Those without a tertiary education need not apply I've seen that. On here." tertiary? I thought that was Latin for 3rd? Could that be perhaps what they ment I wonder? Wanting a 3rd person? Perhaps looking for a little education? | |||
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"My husband is a professional singer and guitarist and has toured all over the world and people are always of the opinion that it is all sunshine and roses etc but have no real idea of what it really takes to put on such concerts with all the travelling and rehearsing and logistics. But he does always say that he understands he gets paid very well to do something he enjoys I couldn't hold a tune if I had a bucket and my life depended on it. I could use a sound desk and rig and control lights but am tone deaf LOL, well it hasn't stopped half the boy and girl bands of the last 15 years having a career ! LOL True but I really could not hold a tune if my life depended on it " Normally get referred to as drive how's it going drive can you move your unit drive lol | |||
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"I'm just a truck driver. Almost 20 experience, been all over Europe, Eastern European, Russia and on to the Chinese border. But all I do now is deliver to London and the Home Counties. So that's it, untrained scum......... " In europe drivers are treated far better than they are in this country. Totally different attitude towards us | |||
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