FabSwingers.com forum: Regret not taking the chance ….

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Have you had the opportunity to play with someone …. But didn’t for some reason or other

Then look back on the situation and think fuck ! I wish we had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, it probably didn’t happen for a reason. I prefer to look forward.

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Have you had the opportunity to play with someone …. But didn’t for some reason or other

Then look back on the situation and think fuck ! I wish we had

Not as yet.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Nah, it probably didn’t happen for a reason. I prefer to look forward. "

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Have you had the opportunity to play with someone …. But didn’t for some reason or other

Then look back on the situation and think fuck ! I wish we had

"
i regret nothing, i always take my chances

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Yep in a club, the guy was inexperienced and was nervous, we wished we'd invited him into a room to watch us, we would have enjoyed it, and hopefully he would have as well.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Have you had the opportunity to play with someone …. But didn’t for some reason or other

Then look back on the situation and think fuck ! I wish we had

i regret nothing, i always take my chances

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Yep in a club, the guy was inexperienced and was nervous, we wished we'd invited him into a room to watch us, we would have enjoyed it, and hopefully he would have as well."

Ahh shame

I’m sure he would

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

A few times yes. I look back now (even though I try not to dwell on the past) and think what a crazy fool I was, on many many occasions. Now I would jump at the chances I past in my younger more active days.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If it didn't happen ay the time, and we never bothered to rearrange, it clearly wasn't worth pursuing.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In a club another Tgirl offered me a lift back to my hotel. It was within walking distance (in trainers around 15 minutes, in heels more like 25 minutes

) but around 2am in Blackpool is a dodgy time walking as a guy never mind in Steph mode.

As I was coming out of the toilet the female from a couple grabbed my hand and asked about joining her and her boyfriend in a room. I must admit I did think about it, but turned them down as I was tired and a bit d*unk, even though they were both very attractive.

Yes I bloody well regret that decision endlessly

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Only when in a monogamous relationship, don't regret being faithful though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nope. There's normally a valid reason I don't have sex with someone.

Not all of those are immovable - if I've wanted to at a later date? It's always happened.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Not quite what you're asking OP but I had a "nearly"...

At Uni a girlfriend split up with her bf and then she went back to Asia. Her ex invited me over for dinner which he cooked and it was lovely... Wine, candles, lots of flirting. But neither of us wanted to make the first move. Kinda in respect for my friend / his ex.

It got late, I left; but at the bus stop, I turned back and his grin was ear-to-ear when he opened the door....

Mmmm she was right, it was like "Corn on the Cob"... Remarkable... I can't see one now and not think of him...

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

No, can’t say I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, because I thought I didn't measure up to who he'd met previously. And now it's too late.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I would have thought everyone would have examples of that at some point

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes but there was always a good reason why, so I didn't dwell further

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Have you had the opportunity to play with someone …. But didn’t for some reason or other

Then look back on the situation and think fuck ! I wish we had

Many times but nothing to do with them down to my lack of self confidence and esteem.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes, a long time ago. Had a boyfriend at the time who didn't treat me very well, quite emotionally abusive. Was at a club in Cardiff and he was meeting me afterwards but got chatting to an absolutely lovely man in the club where things i know could have gone further. But ever faithful me met my boyfriend afterwards. It ended not long after. I still bump into 'lovely' man who is still lovely. And married.

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

Once at an event

We looked back and wished we had

But I ( male )

Would rather we look back and wish we had

Every once in a while

Than ever look back and wish we hadn’t

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Yes, a long time ago. Had a boyfriend at the time who didn't treat me very well, quite emotionally abusive. Was at a club in Cardiff and he was meeting me afterwards but got chatting to an absolutely lovely man in the club where things i know could have gone further. But ever faithful me met my boyfriend afterwards. It ended not long after. I still bump into 'lovely' man who is still lovely. And married."

Oh this is soooo Sliding Doors II...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much yes to this. A forum user to boot!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Very much yes to this. A forum user to boot!"
was it me TTL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very much yes to this. A forum user to boot!was it me TTL

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Very much yes to this. A forum user to boot!was it me TTL

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lol

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Yeah wish I'd played Steve at marbles, in primary school cuz he was shit, I'd have smashed him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you had the opportunity to play with someone …. But didn’t for some reason or other

Then look back on the situation and think fuck ! I wish we had

Yep

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

On more than one occasion…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not really because I don't know how it would have really turned out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You snooze,you lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ..

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Nobody wants to meet me

so as yet no regrets haha

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

It's always onwards and upwards

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Story of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fuck, but as a shy awkward teenager a really nice lass I thought was just being friendly couldn’t have flirted any harder with me when I was in the Sixth Form, over an extended period (like we’re talking weeks), but I was too bloody naive to see it.

There’s not reading signals and there’s NOT READING SIGNALS.

Only years later looking back did I realise that it was SO much the latter and she was definitely the girlfriend that got away!

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Not a fuck, but as a shy awkward teenager a really nice lass I thought was just being friendly couldn’t have flirted any harder with me when I was in the Sixth Form, over an extended period (like we’re talking weeks), but I was too bloody naive to see it.

There’s not reading signals and there’s NOT READING SIGNALS.

Only years later looking back did I realise that it was SO much the latter and she was definitely the girlfriend that got away!

When I was still at school I let myself be put off meeting a girl by some other lads. I always wonder….

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Story of my life

And mine

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

We chatted too much and the moment passed.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Plenty of others have blown their opportunity. If only they had replied to that first email...

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By *pen2UMan
over a year ago

Telford

All the time!

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover

I missed a couple of chances at Uni.

One night during my first term, I somehow managed to end up back at a flat with two girls and a bloke that were obviously all into three/four way fun. Despite a very clear invitation to join them (so clear that even I couldn’t miss it), I just bottled it and made my excuses.

And, towards the end of my last year, a mate’s girlfriend came on real strong one night. She was pretty determined, but also pretty pissed, and I didn’t want to be disloyal to my mate, so I let discretion be the better part of valour and slept on the sofa. They split a few days later and I never saw her again.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Nope because the ones I wanted to meet either didn't see me that way, friendzoned me or chatted and then gave me the silent treatment when someone new and shiny came along

Tinder

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Yes a couple of times in a club - I wish I’d been more confident to tell T so he could get things moving. Hey ho, plenty more fish in the sea

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply regret not taking chances when I was younger at school/college when I actually had confidence. Haven't had any chances potentially come along since then lol.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

There was one person I regretted saying no to, it was only really my head stopping me. However our paths crossed again and next time I said yes

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Oh yes but not for want of trying. I guess somethings were never meant to be but there's never a day I don't regret it.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

To flip it ( apologies OP). I didn’t take the chance and im glad I didn’t - before I became a pro musician i was sooooo into a girl who really never gave me the time of day - no interest whatsoever- i became a professional musician and she was all over me like a primark shirt- i hadn’t changed at all - just made me totally rethink things.

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