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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've this couple viewing my profile daily, for last few weeks, I've obviously looked at theirs but not shown myself. They're not looking for the likes of me, want slightly younger too, and they've fabbed alot of my pics, should I message them or is it poor etiquette because I'm not what they're looking for according to their profile.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Sounds like they, or at least one of them, is interested. Problem is if it’s only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor etiquette never message off the back off fabs or off the back off looks

If they wanted to message you they would have that’s the way I look at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them especially since your not what they want

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We quite often get a lot of fabs from profiles who aren't looking for people like us. We assume they like the pictures and that's it. However I can't see any harm in a brief message saying hello with no expectations on your part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It creeps me out when they keep looking silently, a look or two ok but several a day for days on end makes me block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular looks and fabs is an indication of some interest, but not necessarily an interest in meeting. It could be there is an interest but they are two shy to make the first move.

In the circumstances you described, I’d send a polite message thanking them for the views and fabs, and if they fancied a chat?

Approach with no expectations so you’ve nothing to lose, but potential to gain.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ha ha, such a variety of answers.

Here’s another one…send them a polite message

‘Hey, I see you look at my profile a bit - is there anything in particular that’s interesting or do you look and laugh?’

It either starts a conversation or moves it on as if they reply then it’s moved on or if they don’t then you tried to reach out.

It could be one of them and the other isn’t keen. Or shy. Or *insert any number of reasons…

Asking them might answer your questions or you can say nothing and wonder

K

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Definitely message. They are probably shy and are trying to get noticed.

I do this with everyone that visits my profile. It’s the only way you will find out

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Definitely message. They are probably shy and are trying to get noticed.

I do this with everyone that visits my profile. It’s the only way you will find out "

Or just knock one out

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Definitely message. They are probably shy and are trying to get noticed.

I do this with everyone that visits my profile. It’s the only way you will find out "

What about if it’s your ex fwb & you don’t know how they will react

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I'd message out of pure curiosity.

Also etiquette is in the eye of the beholder on Fab so work away and follow your intuition.

I have regulars that perv my profile. Sure the pics are public. I consider that flattery.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So I've this couple viewing my profile daily, for last few weeks, I've obviously looked at theirs but not shown myself. They're not looking for the likes of me, want slightly younger too, and they've fabbed alot of my pics, should I message them or is it poor etiquette because I'm not what they're looking for according to their profile. "
It might be the guy check and see if it says bicurious?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Drop em a message, what is there to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've this couple viewing my profile daily, for last few weeks, I've obviously looked at theirs but not shown myself. They're not looking for the likes of me, want slightly younger too, and they've fabbed alot of my pics, should I message them or is it poor etiquette because I'm not what they're looking for according to their profile. "

Fab their photos and send them a wink. If you hear nothing then just don't waste your time.

Be flattered you were on someones wank radar.

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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago

High Lighthouse!

I think there's no right or wrong answer (as the replies seem to indicate). Therefore, you do what want, as long as it's done politely and/or humorously very few people are going to mind.

And those few that do mind are dodged bullets.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Tricky because we don't like hard rules, we have guidelines. We have an age range but if we like someone we can go above or below. We prefer couples and bi people, but have happily played with straight and single if we like them too.

We also have no problem people messaging, but recently have blocked single guys due to getting deluged in "hi" nonsense.

So long as your message isn't blocked, the worst they can say is no thank you.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained, go for it.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

No harm in messaging to say Hi. Just don't be creepy about it and don't jump straight into sex talk. Just say something like you noticed them looking and wondered if they'd like a chat? And go from there.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If you don't ask you will never know

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Just ask! What’s to loose?

Gbat

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