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By *_2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’ve stated clearly in my profile that I’m straight and wouldn’t like men messaging but that’s all I seem to receive

Wondering what’s the best way to meet new people on here?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You have that certain look tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve stated clearly in my profile that I’m straight and wouldn’t like men messaging but that’s all I seem to receive

Wondering what’s the best way to meet new people on here?"

You can block men from messaging you

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"I’ve stated clearly in my profile that I’m straight and wouldn’t like men messaging but that’s all I seem to receive

Wondering what’s the best way to meet new people on here?"

Just set your filters to block single guys. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs or soilcals op

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By *_2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’ll do that now appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever fancy sucking a cock though do let me know!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I’ve stated clearly in my profile that I’m straight and wouldn’t like men messaging but that’s all I seem to receive

Wondering what’s the best way to meet new people on here?"
At least you're getting a message some guys get zip

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Just send a message, if they are interested in what you’ve said, your profile, pics, age, body type, location, whether you can/can’t accommodate, height, penis size, whether you have a beard, tattoos, hair (long, short, bald), your humour and intelligence, they’ll send you one back.

Simple eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will see in lots of threads that others recommend socials and clubs.

In terms of meeting via Fab itself, you need to sell yourself, and if your profile is the main way that people get an idea about what you are like, then you need to update your profile.

Personally I'd be put off by the first negative sentence, which is also shouty and it should be "you're"

"DO NOT MESSAGE IF YOUR A MAN."

Then not sure that many women would want their first meet to be in a car - or do you drive a Bentley?

Finally it does not seem very discerning with the "Open to mostly all ages." Whilst the "as long as I’m attracted to you" may be obvious, but it seems a little self obsessed/entitled - they might not be attracted to you either.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"I’ve stated clearly in my profile that I’m straight and wouldn’t like men messaging but that’s all I seem to receive

Wondering what’s the best way to meet new people on here?"

I'd definitely think you were "fab straight" looking at your photos.

Maybe people see something you don't realise yet, you may discover a new side of you (only half joking )

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Can’t give Profile advice, but that’s the way to attract people on here.

3 weeks also means you’re very new on the site, guys have been here for years and never met anyone.

So be careful what you put on your profile or updates as anyone tempted by you, could easily go elsewhere, as you are one of many and the women have plenty of choices.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I wouldn't have thought you were fab straight from your photos OP. I would be genuinely curious what might give the poster above that impression though.

As for meeting people I am happy to share my experience.

I read all the advice threads I could find and followed them in terms up setting up my profile. Specifically I spent a not insignificant portion of my time on Fab editing my bio and slowly adding photos until I was satisfied that my profile gave a genuine impression of the kind of person I am. Afterall I only want to attract people that there's the best chance of having a click with.

Then I set some goals

I decided who I wanted to meet and set about shamelessly flirting with them in the forums. I joined in with all the silly forum games and that is what opened the door to my first coffee meet and my first five verifications.

Then I went to social events.

After that a club.

Then a private party.

That pretty much rounded out what the scene has to offer here in Ireland in terms of events and now that I have an idea of how everything works, what I am actually into and how to go about finding it, I feel like I'm ready to to make a sincere offering from a well verified profile to those people that have piqued my interest.

It took about five months. I'd given myself a year.

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