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"Not knowing you in person but reading your post, perhaps you are meant to love then part. You are still young, not saying loving is any the less intense a feeling for you, but you have time on your side. Maybe you are meant to go out, see the world and seize each moment and live it for the experience it is, for that moment in time. Once you have time and many of its experiences behind you will you be able to say she was the one for me .... then, but only then. I hope life has many more pleasant experiences in store for you, appreciate each and every one when it happens and look back on them fondly. xx " i found these words warmly comforting, its crazy how words from perfect strangers can do this, thankyou x | |||
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"Not knowing you in person but reading your post, perhaps you are meant to love then part. You are still young, not saying loving is any the less intense a feeling for you, but you have time on your side. Maybe you are meant to go out, see the world and seize each moment and live it for the experience it is, for that moment in time. Once you have time and many of its experiences behind you will you be able to say she was the one for me .... then, but only then. I hope life has many more pleasant experiences in store for you, appreciate each and every one when it happens and look back on them fondly. xx i found these words warmly comforting, its crazy how words from perfect strangers can do this, than kyou x " You are welcome, I too have loved intensely. Was with my husband 20 years only to find out he was unfaithful, met another, he was the love of my life but was killed in a RTA. Ten years after that and I'm still alone but have poured my love into family and friends. We all love, many of us lose, but most of us keep living and live each day to the full. xxx | |||
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"Not knowing you in person but reading your post, perhaps you are meant to love then part. You are still young, not saying loving is any the less intense a feeling for you, but you have time on your side. Maybe you are meant to go out, see the world and seize each moment and live it for the experience it is, for that moment in time. Once you have time and many of its experiences behind you will you be able to say she was the one for me .... then, but only then. I hope life has many more pleasant experiences in store for you, appreciate each and every one when it happens and look back on them fondly. xx i found these words warmly comforting, its crazy how words from perfect strangers can do this, than kyou x You are welcome, I too have loved intensely. Was with my husband 20 years only to find out he was unfaithful, met another, he was the love of my life but was killed in a RTA. Ten years after that and I'm still alone but have poured my love into family and friends. We all love, many of us lose, but most of us keep living and live each day to the full. xxx " i have no words im sorry to hear of your loses in your life | |||
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"split up with my partner of 4 years around 8 months ago, i left my friends and family to be with this woman. we split due to constant argueing towards the end of the relationship. for the first month or so we were on good terms then we had an almighty row and battle was commenced, horrible things said both ways. we now have no contact as i found out she wanted a guy who blighted our relationship her so called best mate, i didnt take it very well and fair to say fucked up anychance of a friendship anytime in the near future, tbh jelousy took over me in a way id never felt before, i became someone ive never been, slightly obsessive some would say. i didnt like the person i became and had to just let her go, the single most hardest thing ive ever done. to this day i love the bones of her my first true love and il most probably look back in 30 years and know she was the one that i let slip through my fingers. strange how a partner or break up can change your whole personality. anyone else gone threw anything similar" i know how u feel, i was with my ex and wen we split it broke my heart and me as a person, but things do change u will never forget, and i look back thinking wht if sometimes, but u will meet someone new, who will be the one for u time is a great healer just dont punish your self thinking whts she doing and who with cse it will destroy u good luck mate | |||
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"split up with my partner of 4 years around 8 months ago, i left my friends and family to be with this woman. we split due to constant argueing towards the end of the relationship. for the first month or so we were on good terms then we had an almighty row and battle was commenced, horrible things said both ways. we now have no contact as i found out she wanted a guy who blighted our relationship her so called best mate, i didnt take it very well and fair to say fucked up anychance of a friendship anytime in the near future, tbh jelousy took over me in a way id never felt before, i became someone ive never been, slightly obsessive some would say. i didnt like the person i became and had to just let her go, the single most hardest thing ive ever done. to this day i love the bones of her my first true love and il most probably look back in 30 years and know she was the one that i let slip through my fingers. strange how a partner or break up can change your whole personality. anyone else gone threw anything similar i know how u feel, i was with my ex and wen we split it broke my heart and me as a person, but things do change u will never forget, and i look back thinking wht if sometimes, but u will meet someone new, who will be the one for u time is a great healer just dont punish your self thinking whts she doing and who with cse it will destroy u good luck mate " yam pick me pick me lol xxxx | |||
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"split up with my partner of 4 years around 8 months ago, i left my friends and family to be with this woman. we split due to constant argueing towards the end of the relationship. for the first month or so we were on good terms then we had an almighty row and battle was commenced, horrible things said both ways. we now have no contact as i found out she wanted a guy who blighted our relationship her so called best mate, i didnt take it very well and fair to say fucked up anychance of a friendship anytime in the near future, tbh jelousy took over me in a way id never felt before, i became someone ive never been, slightly obsessive some would say. i didnt like the person i became and had to just let her go, the single most hardest thing ive ever done. to this day i love the bones of her my first true love and il most probably look back in 30 years and know she was the one that i let slip through my fingers. strange how a partner or break up can change your whole personality. anyone else gone threw anything similar i know how u feel, i was with my ex and wen we split it broke my heart and me as a person, but things do change u will never forget, and i look back thinking wht if sometimes, but u will meet someone new, who will be the one for u time is a great healer just dont punish your self thinking whts she doing and who with cse it will destroy u good luck mate yam pick me pick me lol xxxx" lol awww thanks hun | |||
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"split up with my partner of 4 years around 8 months ago, i left my friends and family to be with this woman. we split due to constant argueing towards the end of the relationship. for the first month or so we were on good terms then we had an almighty row and battle was commenced, horrible things said both ways. we now have no contact as i found out she wanted a guy who blighted our relationship her so called best mate, i didnt take it very well and fair to say fucked up anychance of a friendship anytime in the near future, tbh jelousy took over me in a way id never felt before, i became someone ive never been, slightly obsessive some would say. i didnt like the person i became and had to just let her go, the single most hardest thing ive ever done. to this day i love the bones of her my first true love and il most probably look back in 30 years and know she was the one that i let slip through my fingers. strange how a partner or break up can change your whole personality. anyone else gone threw anything similar i know how u feel, i was with my ex and wen we split it broke my heart and me as a person, but things do change u will never forget, and i look back thinking wht if sometimes, but u will meet someone new, who will be the one for u time is a great healer just dont punish your self thinking whts she doing and who with cse it will destroy u good luck mate " | |||
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"split up with my partner of 4 years around 8 months ago, i left my friends and family to be with this woman. we split due to constant argueing towards the end of the relationship. for the first month or so we were on good terms then we had an almighty row and battle was commenced, horrible things said both ways. we now have no contact as i found out she wanted a guy who blighted our relationship her so called best mate, i didnt take it very well and fair to say fucked up anychance of a friendship anytime in the near future, tbh jelousy took over me in a way id never felt before, i became someone ive never been, slightly obsessive some would say. i didnt like the person i became and had to just let her go, the single most hardest thing ive ever done. to this day i love the bones of her my first true love and il most probably look back in 30 years and know she was the one that i let slip through my fingers. strange how a partner or break up can change your whole personality. anyone else gone threw anything similar" Did your partner join the site with you over a year ago? | |||
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" Did your partner join the site with you over a year ago? " yes but we had seperate profiles | |||
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" Did your partner join the site with you over a year ago? yes but we had seperate profiles" Ok, thanks for answering. Break ups hurt, but you really will get over it. Good luck. | |||
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"Honestly? Yes. Had a GF from the age of 13 to 18 til it went pearshaped for which we were both equally to blame. 32 years down the line I still have the odd day where it gnaws away at me." I still dream about the first girl I ever loved. It only happens once or twice per year now but it used to be a lot more regular than that. In a strange way it feels like I'm still connected to her. We never broke up for any other reason than we were just too young. I told her when we parted that we'd met too soon. She was married and pregnant within a year and her sister married my best mate so contact over the years was inevitable. She'll always be my first love and I'd still walk a million miles for her if she needed me. I think as you get older and you've been on the treadmill for a while you learn that the all consuming love you feel when you're young is only transitory and that a different kind of loving is required to make a relationship last. | |||
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