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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Hello question for the women of fab? What do you look for on a profile here? What stands out to you?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama "

Now that is ideal

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama "

And at least a dozen cock photos, obvs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

In a profile?

Teasing pics, nothing too explicit or just bland.

Text that tells me who they are, what they want, and what they offer.

And compatibility.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In a profile?

Teasing pics, nothing too explicit or just bland.

Text that tells me who they are, what they want, and what they offer.

And compatibility."

She also looks for the cock

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"In a profile?

Teasing pics, nothing too explicit or just bland.

Text that tells me who they are, what they want, and what they offer.

And compatibility."

Teasing is always best isn't it

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama "

I couldn’t agree more with this

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama

I couldn’t agree more with this "

This! No unsolicited dick pics.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"In a profile?

Teasing pics, nothing too explicit or just bland.

Text that tells me who they are, what they want, and what they offer.

And compatibility.

She also looks for the cock"

Hey.

I don't care what's in someone's underpants, as long as everyone is excited about it

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Me but im not here im out office hours are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama "

^ this

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Personality. Sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a profile?

Teasing pics, nothing too explicit or just bland.

Text that tells me who they are, what they want, and what they offer.

And compatibility.

She also looks for the cock

Hey.

I don't care what's in someone's underpants, as long as everyone is excited about it "

Everyone? That's a talk order

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Youngish under 45, tatts, abs, beards, tall say 6'1"

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Oh and great profiles and pics

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama

And at least a dozen cock photos, obvs "

Nah... tease me baby

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By *ilverandblonde 123Couple
over a year ago

tonbridge

I then to just look at the profile and decide it they sound like I’d enjoy spending an hour with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it if they are good at solving intense and difficult math questions like 65 divided by 23.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Something to read. Not the silly warning.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Compatibility. Having at least something written on it is a good start .

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

A limp cock over a dirty toilet bowl sends them into a frothing stupor of desire - allegedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well articulated couple of paragraphs of what they are looking for, and a glimpse into their personality.

I won't lie, punctuation and spelling / grammar are also important to me, and however nice their pictures, I wouldn't contact them.

Jess xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of pure filth.

Along with a nice voice and sarcasm.

Oh and those v line things.

And a beard.

Or stubble.

Oh and tattoos!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the stuff I don't have..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

A profile with no cock pics in public.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Quietly confident, good sense of humour, alluring, tall, subtly sexy photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile with no cock pics in public. "

But what if it's a really really pretty cock??

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"A profile with no cock pics in public. "

Nora! I put mine back up specifically at your request

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A profile with no cock pics in public.

But what if it's a really really pretty cock??"

I have been known to make exceptions

But in general, genitals out in public isn’t for me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A profile with no cock pics in public.

Nora! I put mine back up specifically at your request "

Pants on fire!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"A profile with no cock pics in public.

Nora! I put mine back up specifically at your request

Pants on fire!"

Tbf that was the one request I couldn’t agree to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile with no cock pics in public.

But what if it's a really really pretty cock??"

You could arrange a social at a glory hole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punctuation

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Good photos (not just cock pics).

A decent bio that gives a hint at some personality.

Mrs

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Personality...the way bio has been written!pics too obviously... nope...not into dick pics unfortunately love teasing chest pics...open shirt,jeans...love a good ass too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pictures.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I need to assess compatibility and attraction. A profile that makes it easier for me gets more attention than those that don't. Has the man made it simple for me to guage physical attraction? If not, it demonstrates a clueless persona, maybe a guy lacking in empathy for my needs, which doesn't bode well .

We can assess the guy by how he behaves in his profile as well as his words and his behaviour is the most revealing! If there's an apparent deficit of anything too, this can also be a highlight for why to avoid him.

I understand why some indicate why it's perhaps bad to tell a man how to craft a more perfect profile, as it may become less his profile and more the profile that is made by others instead.

Doing the simple things very well is pretty essential. We have limited time to look at you and those who don't make it easy, will get passed on, as we skip to the next.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Safe sex, good veris, nice boobs, well built (and hairy) guys

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

That they have some nice pics and they've written a profile lol

Also age and location factor into it for me.

Miss

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Punctuation "

This is soooo true!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Compatibility.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

When looking for couples firstly that they have pics of the male as well as the lady.

We discount top heavy female profiles ,as obviously we need to see both of them.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello question for the women of fab? What do you look for on a profile here? What stands out to you?"

The profiles that don't make me sigh 'fuck no!'

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The penis. That's what they really want to say but won't admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The penis. That's what they really want to say but won't admit it. "

Yep. If I can see a penis it's 'fuck no!'

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The penis. That's what they really want to say but won't admit it.

Yep. If I can see a penis it's 'fuck no!'"

See. I was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big massive penis. Failing that, hairy balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALL women on here are looking for the following:

VWE (9 inch plus)

Pics of said dick from all angles, ideally without any preamble

Hairy balls

Pics taken over an open, unflushed toilet

Wedding photos in backgrounds

Men who cannot accommodate

At least 5 messages within 1 minute

Dad bods

Muscle bods

Bald men

Hairy men

Men who can meet NOW

Men who cannot string a sentence together or read profiles

Thank me later when you’re balls deep in minge

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"ALL women on here are looking for the following:

VWE (9 inch plus)

Pics of said dick from all angles, ideally without any preamble

Hairy balls

Pics taken over an open, unflushed toilet

Wedding photos in backgrounds

Men who cannot accommodate

At least 5 messages within 1 minute

Dad bods

Muscle bods

Bald men

Hairy men

Men who can meet NOW

Men who cannot string a sentence together or read profiles

Thank me later when you’re balls deep in minge "

i thought that said mince

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Bump

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"ALL women on here are looking for the following:

VWE (9 inch plus)

Pics of said dick from all angles, ideally without any preamble

Hairy balls

Pics taken over an open, unflushed toilet

Wedding photos in backgrounds

Men who cannot accommodate

At least 5 messages within 1 minute

Dad bods

Muscle bods

Bald men

Hairy men

Men who can meet NOW

Men who cannot string a sentence together or read profiles

Thank me later when you’re balls deep in minge "

Thanks FC for sharing what I was too lazy to type. Hopefully a myriad of amazing options coming my way soon.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Penis. They look for penis.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Penii sometimes stand out for me.

Nipples too occasionally.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Pens. They look for pens. "

I fucking love stationery

J

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Pens. They look for pens.

I fucking love stationery

J"

If you’re not familiar, take a look at Hobonochi!

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By *IZZ_69Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

[Removed by poster at 10/09/23 20:06:17]

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Pens. They look for pens.

I fucking love stationery

J"

Fuck you! Don't you have something to be planning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profiles that actually have pictures of the male half on

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics ..no bent over gaping bumholes in either sex please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of confidence without scoring off aa arrogance.

Tasteful photos that don’t reveal it all leaving nothing to the imagination or to be discovered.

A sense of adventure but at the same time not someone who has verifications every other day.

Something that makes me curious and piqued my interest. There isn’t just one thing, it’s very individualistic.

A sense of friendliness.

A lack of drama.

A sense of open-mindedness.

A physical attraction for what I’m seeing displayed as in their photo gallery.

This is what catches my eye initially. Beyond that, exchanging messages is what either cements my intrigues or see it waning.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Penis. They look for penis. "

Duly noted!

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Bump

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hello question for the women of fab? What do you look for on a profile here? What stands out to you?"
They look for a handsome face and a witty profile oh and a cock that tickles their fancy but doesnt batter the hymen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opposite of wonko

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non attention seekers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive cock and a six pack

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama "

Now if only the women on here could provide the same

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello question for the women of fab? What do you look for on a profile here? What stands out to you?"

Height + penis size and aesthetics are big factors

Good verifications help too

Remember, the forum consists of a tiny % of the site that are looking for specifics

The majority of women/couples are looking for a good fuck from a guy that’s hot+hung and makes them feel safe enough to actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why're men answering what they think women want with little evidence from the thread to justify their views? FFS

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I look for tasteful teasing pics. I read profiles to make sure we are looking for the same things. I also read veris and then make sure the person/couple who have verified them are not a hidden profile as that's a red flag to me. Mrs M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama "

This exactly

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Why're men answering what they think women want with little evidence from the thread to justify their views? FFS"

Completely my question too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why're men answering what they think women want with little evidence from the thread to justify their views? FFS

Completely my question too..."

Men and women are notoriously bad at truthfully answering what they want. Your better off asking the opposite sex because they know what works and what doesn’t via experience

In short, if you wanna know how to catch a fish, don’t ask a fish, ask a fisherman

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Something to moan about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emotional Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Distinct lack of drama

Now that is ideal "

Can I copy and paste that into my text?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Something to moan about! "

#NotAllWomen ! The cheek lol

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Something to moan about!

#NotAllWomen ! The cheek lol"

Lol so true

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Something to moan about!

#NotAllWomen ! The cheek lol

Lol so true"

I mean I like to moan but only in a sexy way and not complaining lol

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Something to moan about!

#NotAllWomen ! The cheek lol

Lol so true

I mean I like to moan but only in a sexy way and not complaining lol "

Better to moan under a womans heels lol

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By *allHandsomeJay OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Bump

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

I want a read profiles that convey who that person is.

So many here are beige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a read profiles that convey who that person is.

So many here are beige. "

Dare I ask you what colour you think mine is?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

He's opaque ... ... ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be funny, but not too funny. Have dick pics but tease with no dicks pics. Have personality, but only one personality!

LChrist, it's hard to keep up and know what to have on a profile now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's opaque ... ... ^"
I call it - cloudy.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"He's opaque ... ... ^ I call it - cloudy. "

With a chance of meatballs?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"He's opaque ... ... ^

·

I call it - cloudy.

·

With a chance of meatballs? "

You always løwer the tone, Le Petit Oiseau!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's opaque ... ... ^ I call it - cloudy.

With a chance of meatyballs? "

Is anyone hungry?

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

At least 28 dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least 28 dick pics "

At every angle

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

They look for yes men

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