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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine is that I need to be in three places at once.

What's yours?

No nasty comments please. No subtexts, no hidden meanings. Keep it nice please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A multitude of musculoskeletal problems

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

People. Just people. Simpley people.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

There’s stuff that I want to do, and there’s stuff that I should do. They’re not often the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chronic procrastination

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I have two dresses, a pair of trousers, a bikini top and a blouse that need altering. I just can't seem to get round to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply.

Me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't want to open that can of worms

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Trying to prioritise my time

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

No problems here except what to wear later but I'll sort that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing too serious in the grand scheme of things.

I want chocolate and there’s none in the house

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I need to replace a jockey wheel on a bike. Aside from that I'm good.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Type 1 diabetes

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Oh, I have this thing where I get older but just never wiser.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Chronic procrastination "

This is me coupled with laziness I'm in quite a pickle

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By *lackByLoveCouple
over a year ago

London

Getting Mrs to be more motivated than me on the swinging arena.

She only follows my lead on specific adventures

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Oh, I have this thing where I get older but just never wiser."

Midnights become my afternoons

When my depression works the graveyard shift

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Erectile dysfunction

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm tired and feeling a bit under the weather that's my problem, nothing a good orgasm and sleep won't fix

Mrs

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

My overthinking

I overthink everything and every decision

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By *ill dingMan
over a year ago

Slough

Follow the rules and send a polite message with clear face pic and get deleted. Yeah, fine, call me entitled, but I do think even a polite “no, thank you” isn’t too much to ask. And no, having a message deleted is not a polite anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative mindset

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Follow the rules and send a polite message with clear face pic and get deleted. Yeah, fine, call me entitled, but I do think even a polite “no, thank you” isn’t too much to ask. And no, having a message deleted is not a polite anything.

"

Entitled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am deciding

Cannot decide

Mind in not a decisive mode

Decisions is my problem today Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Follow the rules and send a polite message with clear face pic and get deleted. Yeah, fine, call me entitled, but I do think even a polite “no, thank you” isn’t too much to ask. And no, having a message deleted is not a polite anything.

"

Entitled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's lasted how long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That's lasted how long? "

Sorry PW but he did say to call him that.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"

That's lasted how long? "

Very nearly an hour. Better than most.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I over Invest. Its something I know that needs addressing, hopefully that will calm down my disappointment feelings

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Fear that I won’t be seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I over Invest. Its something I know that needs addressing, hopefully that will calm down my disappointment feelings "

This too!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just rain for the moment was supposed to be doing someone's garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've 99 problems but a... no sorry make it 100

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Fear that I won’t be semen."

You’ll always be spunky to me.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Fear that I won’t be seen."

Why’s that?

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Increased risk for heart disease, high blood pressure, and diabetes it’s an age thing.

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By *enis ColadaMan
over a year ago

Totnes

My spicy pork chops haven't defrosted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need wine. I have wine. However this wine should not be labelled as wine. It’s not a great wine.

*1st world problems and all that.

I’m also ridiculously horny too, and that’s bc d as problem. Because I’ve got a short holiday with my kids this week.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

My plantar fascitis flairing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s the menopause but I think it’s actually just me

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

Wolf has gone out, we are out of milk and I fancied a bowl of cereal. He’s getting milk on the way home, but that will be an hour or so yet.

Red

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’m surrounded by closed doors, and finding the right keys is always so difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thing called life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t get my wang wet

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think I'm the problem.

I'm plodding through life, one day at a time and each day seems to be getting harder.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Also, someone ate almost all of the mayonnaise I need for my dinner.

Dry tuna it is

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By *cott14Man
over a year ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Too many lists of things to do and not enough hours in the day x

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Also, someone ate almost all of the mayonnaise I need for my dinner.

Dry tuna it is "

Ailsa has started mixing balsamic with tuna… it’s surprisingly okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, someone ate almost all of the mayonnaise I need for my dinner.

Dry tuna it is "

Put some sauce on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op.. Reminds me of that song.. Problems problems.. All day long.. By Every Fabber in this post

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The meet I was hoping to have tonight didnt happen so grumpy now.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Also, someone ate almost all of the mayonnaise I need for my dinner.

Dry tuna it is

Ailsa has started mixing balsamic with tuna… it’s surprisingly okay. "

I do that.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Insatiable appetite for all things sweet

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I have stuff to do but I'm too tired to motivate myself to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My social batteries are flat after yesterday

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"My plantar fascitis flairing up"

Ouch ... I know that's painful

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

How long have you got op ? Lol

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

So little time, so much to do (theme song)

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"My social batteries are flat after yesterday "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take things too seriously otherwise life gets hectic and troublesome I take it as it comes.

If people have a problem with others that's fine they don't have to like everyone. Life is what it is just go with the flow.

problems and trouble cause stress both of which are bad for the heart and psyche Live life as it happens and don't get stressed out problems are like water over a bridge they flow away downstream unless you hyper-focus and keep thinking about them.

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton

Trying to get a doctor's appointment to get my autism and ADHD diagnosed.

Also me masking and pleasing people above myself

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Mine is that I need to be in three places at once.

What's yours?

No nasty comments please. No subtexts, no hidden meanings. Keep it nice please.

"

I've just moved I've got dozens of boxes to sort through

In order to make them look that I've got less as there doing a fire inspection on Wednmesday .its a nitemare

Was hopeing to just shut them away and do it over the next cpl of mths .so that's mybank holiday fucked.

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"A multitude of musculoskeletal problems "

Oh bugger

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Quite simply.

Me."

You want to chat

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Trying to prioritise my time "

Always so hard isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The constant stats of being busy and stress whilst simultaneously feeling like I’m getting nowhere

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Oh, I have this thing where I get older but just never wiser.

Midnights become my afternoons

When my depression works the graveyard shift"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social Battery is also flat after yesterday (wasn't a great charge on it anyway)

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By *hiregirl76Woman
over a year ago

Scotland

I've not won the lottery yet so need to go back to work tomorrow.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Follow the rules and send a polite message with clear face pic and get deleted. Yeah, fine, call me entitled, but I do think even a polite “no, thank you” isn’t too much to ask. And no, having a message deleted is not a polite anything.

"

Please refer the site FAQs

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

There must be a hole in my glass either that or my drink is evaporating ruddy quick.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me. Pretty much.

I'm exhausted, skint, can't go and see the festival, not even got energy to walk down the road and listen... Also got some very important paper work to do and just having a mental block, can't face it.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My problem is that for the last few years I’ve suffered badly from a condition called “Can’t-be-arsedness”

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"My problem is that for the last few years I’ve suffered badly from a condition called “Can’t-be-arsedness” "

I run a course on carnt be arsedness as well as I don't give fuck course.

Sadly due due to other things that I don't want to be arsed doing haveing to do .my can't be arsed course has had to put back till late September .

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden


"My problem is that for the last few years I’ve suffered badly from a condition called “Can’t-be-arsedness” "
I suffer from that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the wrong planet.

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By *onny DangerousMan
over a year ago

Nowhere Town Aycliffe

As above I’m also on the wrong planet.

Also not enough time, not enough money

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Mine is that right now my dream guitar model, color , year, just come up for sale and i can't afford it right now , the problem is thatci'm sure someone will definitely will buy before i have the money saved

This is the 3rd time it happens in last two years

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm a chronic overthinker.

Mr

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Time. There’s just not enough time for everything I want to do day to day

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Currently? Neurospicy brain that's causing multitude of issues

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Follow the rules and send a polite message with clear face pic and get deleted. Yeah, fine, call me entitled, but I do think even a polite “no, thank you” isn’t too much to ask. And no, having a message deleted is not a polite anything.

"

There once was a man called bill

He was desperately looking for his Jill

Try as he might

He could not get a bite

He went back to his little red pill

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Time. There’s just not enough time for everything I want to do day to day "

I’m a workaholic

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"There must be a hole in my glass either that or my drink is evaporating ruddy quick. "

I have that problem too

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

Saying no makes me feel like a huge bitch, but I don't want to end up in a situation I don't want, so I end up chickening out completely

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Currently? Neurospicy brain that's causing multitude of issues

K"

Relatable. If only my brain would just shush sometimes lol

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About


"There must be a hole in my glass either that or my drink is evaporating ruddy quick.

I have that problem too "

Time for a refill

Glug

Glug

Glug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The list is so long, I dont have the time to type it all.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'm just a broken toy.

Can't get my brain to work the way I want it.

Can't feel the way I think I should feel.

I feel like a ghost floating through life and I don't know how to change that.

Many days feel like a dream and I struggle to remember things.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"I'm just a broken toy.

Can't get my brain to work the way I want it.

Can't feel the way I think I should feel.

I feel like a ghost floating through life and I don't know how to change that.

Many days feel like a dream and I struggle to remember things."

...I fear I may have just killed the thread...

I'm not that miserable, honestly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem of.. So many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that I pretend I don't have any , and keep them to myself.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Annoying niggle in my lower back

And no boobs within reach to play with

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

I've got 99 problems but a massive dick ain't one

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham


"I'm just a broken toy.

Can't get my brain to work the way I want it.

Can't feel the way I think I should feel.

I feel like a ghost floating through life and I don't know how to change that.

Many days feel like a dream and I struggle to remember things."

I 100% know that feeling. I think it haunts more of us than we are aware of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight hip flexors from playing football for so long, they’re strong though, useful for being on here

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Can't find any jeans that fit, I smoke too much and have a shit Dr.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"I'm just a broken toy.

Can't get my brain to work the way I want it.

Can't feel the way I think I should feel.

I feel like a ghost floating through life and I don't know how to change that.

Many days feel like a dream and I struggle to remember things.

I 100% know that feeling. I think it haunts more of us than we are aware of."

*Insert heart emoji*.

xXx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I trust too easily. I need to learn from my mistakes. But I’m slowly doing it.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

Not enough hours in the day,

No women close wanting to play.

Going to work on a bank holiday,

Wishing it was still Saturday.

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