FabSwingers.com forum: What is the protocol...

By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

To my mind that was the perfect response

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Ignore and move on. I personally would not be happy with someone approaching me when I'm in day to day life.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

If she hasn't responded then don't pursue her. Nothing more creepy than being approached in public by people who recognise you of having the 'I saw you' messages

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The short answer is you don’t do a single thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To my mind that was the perfect response"

Same. I wouldn't approach someone outside of Fab if we didn't already have some kind of social relationship. You never know who they're out with, and possibly having to explain who you are could be awkward for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are meant to do a Luis Rubiales, grab her head, force a kiss on her lips and say "you are on Fab, you must have wanted that, lets get naked now" - or have I misunderstood the protocol?

The secret handshake actually is well known, if you have watched people's profiles on hear, you will realise that for a bloke it is to pull his todger out, wave it at the woman and either have a Lynx deoderant held next to it or his sky remote.

The women will have to inform you about their mode of identifying that they are Fabsters to another member.

Hope that helps.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I was going to suggest a little slap on your right thigh whilst rubbing your left ear but thar would be silly. I would not dream of acknowledging anyone like that in public and would expect the same from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them, I’d hate if someone recognised me and made it know

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Absolutely no reaction is the right etiquette.

Fab and my day to day life are very separate. I’d be extremely irritated with anyone who tried to approach me and start blathering on about Fab.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Absolutely no reaction is the right etiquette.

Fab and my day to day life are very separate. I’d be extremely irritated with anyone who tried to approach me and start blathering on about Fab. "

I get that. It was the surprise of meeting someone I recognised. If I had expected her, I would

Have not done anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?"

What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?

Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Never acknowledge them thats the golden rule (unless they make contact with you first)

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?

Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite. "

That phrase made me

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

If she hasn't responded to your overtures then just go with that..

It might change in time if she wants it to but that's totally her perogative..

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

It's never happened to me, but I would do nothing. And would very much hope anyone recognising me would do the same.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"If she hasn't responded then don't pursue her. Nothing more creepy than being approached in public by people who recognise you of having the 'I saw you' messages "

This. Creepy as hell and had it a lot, even a verification years ago off a guy who apparently stalked me around Tesco!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in my experience apparently I don't look like my pictures

I remember speaking to woman on here. Coincidently we were in the same pub later on that day. She winked and we ended up chatting. After a while In realised she didn't know who I was.

Moral of the story...

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Ignore. Especially if they are with other people, I'd avoid all contact.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Ask for a game of golf

(Disclaimer this is not my true thoughts they are head down walk away stay out my beezwax)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block leve them to it say nothing to them fab and real world don’t mix

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Whatever you do do not send a message

Do you drive x

Were you at y at 11:00

Wearing z

Freaked me the fuck out.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.

The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.

Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

The protocol is the fourth one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.

The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.

**Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.**

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

You do nothing else. You have acknowledged each other. Whether she recognised you from fab, or was just a friendly smile doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You offer her a pineapple, if she turns it upside down your in!

No! Ignore her ffs! Weird, creepy and just wrong!

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?

Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite. "

Your reaction is a little weird.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You walk away and mind your own business, because she's not interested.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.

The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.

Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.

All of these things.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

You do the special ‘fab dance’ , like the Haka but with more thrusting. You do this for 10 minutes until she either tears your clothes off or you get arrested

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

My protocol is just pretending that i know nothing

, and when they msg me with their inumerous profiles i keep pretending i don't know who i am talking with. Unless they aproach me respectful and as adults, instead playing games , i won't open my hand at all or even a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do nothing that is what you do.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

.. It was the surprise of meeting someone I recognised. If I had expected her, I would

Have not done anything. "

How on earth does one recognise anyone on here when the the vast majority have their face hidden?

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you were right not to approach. Personally I keep this area of my life very separate for good reason (not just personal preference) and would not be pleased if someone approached me, especially if I hadn't responded to their messages yet.

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.

The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.

Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.

100% this

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By *r Blue 87Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

It's the same when it's the other way round, seeing profiles on here of people you know IRL.

Do nothing.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?

Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite.

Your reaction is a little weird. "

It's just a polite smile people do this it's weirder to think because she smiled wants you under her skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?

Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite.

Your reaction is a little weird.

It's just a polite smile people do this it's weirder to think because she smiled wants you under her skin

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