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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you be a Soft Dom? Is there such a thing?

Or should I put this in the swingers chat for a sensible discussion?

But, real question above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the last days of Softdoms in here.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Do you mean dominant without being sadistic? Yes.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes I have an alter ego who is a soft domme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would make you "soft"?... not like that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What would make you "soft"?... not like that "

Lack of erection. I know you wouldn't know about that 'permahard' Lorenzo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would make you "soft"?... not like that

Lack of erection. I know you wouldn't know about that 'permahard' Lorenzo."

I said "not like that", woman. Get the lightsaber dildos out of your ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft or gentle Doms, yep. Can dominate any way you want to. I know a few guys who use that label.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What would make you "soft"?... not like that

Lack of erection. I know you wouldn't know about that 'permahard' Lorenzo.

I said "not like that", woman. Get the lightsaber dildos out of your ears "

SORRY I CAN'T HEAR YOU ABOVE THE BUZZING!!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes. It's Gentle Dom and they can still be sadistic without causing higher levels of pain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. It's Gentle Dom and they can still be sadistic without causing higher levels of pain "

I remember a program called Gentle Ben as a kid, a great bear. Like that?

Joking aside, so there’s a label!

This thought rose after talking to someone and I lean towards certain things that don’t sit well

With this that I would say are hard with bdsm.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Soft doms are absolutely a thing.

Fuck all use to me, though. Give me a sadist who accepts my attitude and choices and lets me live my chaos in peace

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Yes...you can Dom in any way you want. Every dynamic is different...

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Yes. It's Gentle Dom and they can still be sadistic without causing higher levels of pain

I remember a program called Gentle Ben as a kid, a great bear. Like that?

Joking aside, so there’s a label!

This thought rose after talking to someone and I lean towards certain things that don’t sit well

With this that I would say are hard with bdsm. "

I'm a Gentle Domme, a nurturing one. However... I am a sadist and hearing those squeaks of discomfort, and body shivers when I find his sensitive spots with my skills, is what it's all about for me

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

You can be whatever type of Dom you choose to be. Not all are abusive.

Some submissives like abuse, some just like being dominated in whichever form the dominant chooses.

As in life generally bdsm is a spectrum.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm a nurturing Dom but definitely can be sadistic at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

some great replies above. Thank you, a lot of this has made me feel normal again.

I just want to cuddle and kiss the woman I also want to ruin.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yep OP. Gentle Doms are a thing and there are one or two on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dare I say that a gentle Dom might also be a daddy Dom?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Dare I say that a gentle Dom might also be a daddy Dom? "

I’m sure there is some crossover. But not always x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dare I say that a gentle Dom might also be a daddy Dom?

I’m sure there is some crossover. But not always x"

Oh no, not always. But they can fit together well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dare I say that a gentle Dom might also be a daddy Dom? "

You said it. So you dared

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