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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Hi we are new to this , looking to see the best way to meet a ( F) for a permanent arrangement , we have tried the dating sites ,but find it full of fakes , would appreciate any advice on this subject would be grateful, experience is wisdom x

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Good luck with that I'm sure its possible but very difficult on here, have you tried clubs?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Once you find the secret formula can you let me know please

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fabled uncorn

Much easier to turn bi and find a angle best off both worlds

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You probably need to approach women with a concise but clear description of what exactly you're looking for and why a single person might be interested in a permanent ongoing relationship with the two of you.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Don't bother! More trouble than they are worth.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?"

You are safe. They would send you back.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I would also suggest clubs. Single women have so many possibilities that, in my case anyway, I prefer meeting couples in clubs.

I basically don’t have the time for that many socials otherwise !

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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

No they can leave

Want to live as a throuple x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Most here I would guess aren't looking for a ltr but several have found it. Biggest advice is to expect nothing ; delete messages from your sent folder once you send them so you can obsess over them. No reply means no thanks. Have a good variety of pictures and make you profile really showcase you.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

You are safe. They would send you back. "

Rude

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

You are safe. They would send you back.

Rude "

Am I wrong!?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Don't bother! More trouble than they are worth. "

How rude!!@

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

You are safe. They would send you back.

Rude

Am I wrong!? "

Probably not. I am no unicorn. Couldn't be trusted with the horn you see.

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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Thanks

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

You are safe. They would send you back.

Rude

Am I wrong!? "

Yes, wrong! I would happily keep her in my makeshift dungeon

K

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Get to know people because you like them, not because you have an agenda.

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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *r Blue 87Man
over a year ago

Shropshire


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

You are safe. They would send you back.

Rude

Am I wrong!?

Probably not. I am no unicorn. Couldn't be trusted with the horn you see."

Hahaha!

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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Most here I would guess aren't looking for a ltr but several have found it. Biggest advice is to expect nothing ; delete messages from your sent folder once you send them so you can obsess over them. No reply means no thanks. Have a good variety of pictures and make you profile really showcase you."
thank u x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What do you mean a permanent arrangement? Like they're never allowed to leave?

You are safe. They would send you back.

Rude

Am I wrong!?

Yes, wrong! I would happily keep her in my makeshift dungeon

K"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are looking for one of the most sought after things on Fab, a woman to join a couple.

You will need to make your profile stand out. Also change your “Looking for” which at the moment only says couples.

Most of the women I know will only meet other women who are bisexual not just curious.

Good luck.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"You are looking for one of the most sought after things on Fab, a woman to join a couple.

You will need to make your profile stand out. Also change your “Looking for” which at the moment only says couples.

Most of the women I know will only meet other women who are bisexual not just curious.

Good luck."

I was just going to post on the 'looking for' too. If they haven't ticked 'looking for' F, any females who click on 'message', will get a big red warning saying that this profile hasn't indicated they are looking to receive messages from your sex, please consider before messaging (or something wording very similar).

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"You are looking for one of the most sought after things on Fab, a woman to join a couple.

You will need to make your profile stand out. Also change your “Looking for” which at the moment only says couples.

Most of the women I know will only meet other women who are bisexual not just curious.

Good luck."

I came here to post this.. thanks darling saved my tired eyes

Good luck with your search OPs. Be clear and concise on your profile in what you’re looking for and more importantly what you have to offer to a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I was just going to post on the 'looking for' too. If they haven't ticked 'looking for' F, any females who click on 'message', will get a big red warning saying that this profile hasn't indicated they are looking to receive messages from your sex, please consider before messaging (or something wording very similar)."

Valid point. Also I don’t think the OP’s profile will show up in any search that a woman may do for a couple because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I came here to post this.. thanks darling saved my tired eyes

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You’re welcome

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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Thanks x

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By *plashdash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Thanks

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