FabSwingers.com forum: Advise on profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good evening.

Has anyone got any advice on how to stand out on here without photos (due to my job as a teacher). I always try when I send my messages but seems the more effort I put in...the more it annoys me as nobody reads it.

I'm willing to send photos to women privately.

I guess every male will be in the same boat as I reckon women must have thousands of messages.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm pretty sure you could post a photo of your clothed body and no one would recognise you... That would be a start.

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

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You can still post photos albeit clothed ones,post a bit more about your likes/dislikes,make your profile a bit more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately op picks are a must

Also don’t get this I can’t have pictures due to my job

Ie there’s multiple easy photo editing software available on phones

That you can cut the head off blank face out change backgrounds blank tattos out and stuff

Sorry to say I find that line can’t because off my job a cop out

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

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"Unfortunately op picks are a must

Also don’t get this I can’t have pictures due to my job

Ie there’s multiple easy photo editing software available on phones

That you can cut the head off blank face out change backgrounds blank tattos out and stuff

Sorry to say I find that line can’t because off my job a cop out "

This ^^^ we all have jobs where we don’t want to be identified but if people are that worried about being ‘caught’ on here then why are you.

I ask for a face photo in the first point of contact. No photo no talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are several men on the forum who couldn't be recognised in any way from their pics. But those pics tell a story. And many people may have their inbox set to exclude profiles with no photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately op picks are a must

Also don’t get this I can’t have pictures due to my job

Ie there’s multiple easy photo editing software available on phones

That you can cut the head off blank face out change backgrounds blank tattos out and stuff

Sorry to say I find that line can’t because off my job a cop out

This ^^^ we all have jobs where we don’t want to be identified but if people are that worried about being ‘caught’ on here then why are you.

I ask for a face photo in the first point of contact. No photo no talking. "

Yip I can see the line working back in 2008-2009 when you had to have a pc and know a bit off knowledge on the subject off photo editing

But there’s days it’s so ready available there isnt really a exuse not to have pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, there are plenty of teachers on here. They all seem to have artistic pictures hiding tattoos, backgrounds etc. When there is a will, there's a way. No pictures would mean we wouldn't even look at your profile.

(i'm not a teacher may I add - just noticed on "what's your job type threads).

xx Jess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid there's no other option, OP. You're going to have to get another job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all of your comments, it really does help ??. I've just found it difficult as I didn't know whether to make it like a dating profile etc.

Guess I'll learn as I go as they say.

Hope everyone has a fantastic bank holiday

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

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"Thanks for all of your comments, it really does help ??. I've just found it difficult as I didn't know whether to make it like a dating profile etc.

Guess I'll learn as I go as they say.

Hope everyone has a fantastic bank holiday "

Read through some profile & take inspiration from there but make it your own.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Without any pics you'll struggle op,many will hit that delete button.

There are a few couples that are near to us,but I don't recognise them and they have public pics.

We can all have something as a pic ie in a suit,or a towel ,an open shirt pic etc.

I appreciate you want to be discreet ,but most of us value or privacy too .

Miss

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