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By *eroLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayfair

How do you handle indifference? Do you ever feel indifferent, meh and apathetic?

Are you sometimes indifferent about people, things or circumstances?

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Yeah quit a lot actually but I’m not a very opinionated person I sometimes think I’m a bit to chilled.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes I tend to go that way when things cool off. Ill often make one last attempt and then nothing.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm often indifferent about things but it's the norm for me so I've never thought about handling it.

As I just posted in another thread over of the joys of suffering from anhedonia is being completely indifferent to things that others get excited about such as holidays or big events.

I can enjoy them while they are actually occurring but have no feeling of looking forward to them beforehand and no afterglow.

The same is true for people.

I can be very indifferent to some people that others find stimulating or stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just me

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If I feel it coming it I try to move into a slightly more positive place - relaxation , maybe it’s a sign to unwind.

I have things ready - musicals typically or simple recipes! or openly acknowledge boredom , that will give me a push to be curious at least and learn something new

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do you mean about life itself Nero ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay positive twords everyone and everything until I have a reason not to be.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Most of the time, I can take it or leave it.

I don't get excited about much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you handle indifference? Do you ever feel indifferent, meh and apathetic?

Are you sometimes indifferent about people, things or circumstances?"

I’m currently indifferent about fab.

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By *eroLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I'm often indifferent about things but it's the norm for me so I've never thought about handling it.

As I just posted in another thread over of the joys of suffering from anhedonia is being completely indifferent to things that others get excited about such as holidays or big events.

I can enjoy them while they are actually occurring but have no feeling of looking forward to them beforehand and no afterglow.

The same is true for people.

I can be very indifferent to some people that others find stimulating or stunning. "

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Thank you for this Mr. Bites - a very enlightening response.

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By *eroLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayfair


"How do you handle indifference? Do you ever feel indifferent, meh and apathetic?

Are you sometimes indifferent about people, things or circumstances?

I’m currently indifferent about fab. "

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That appears to be the prevailing mood at the moment, oh Woodychops.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I am generally an irritating Pollyanna type. So if I'm feeling apathetic then I know I need to go hedgehog or tortoise for a while until I feel more like myself again.

J

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

I'm indifferent to it.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m nauseatingly upbeat and positive.

Until I’m not. But it’s a hairline difference. I don’t tend to dwell in indifferent or apathetic- I go straight to murder, death kill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

I'm usually in the wrong regardless in everyone else's minds and opinions.

May as well stay there

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By *eroLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Do you mean about life itself Nero ?"

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It can be life, Grånny, but it can be about Fab, relationships or even the odd lazy day of being busy doing absolutely nothing. There is no allegory here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be indifferent to people, things and events at times. Usually if I’m tired. Other times I’m spectacularly overexcited and annoying about them I don’t tend to worry about being indifferent, it is what it is

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Indifference is a fairly standard emotional state for me. Takes quite a bit to move me these days.

Ambivalence is when I am not a happy bunny.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"How do you handle indifference? Do you ever feel indifferent, meh and apathetic?

Are you sometimes indifferent about people, things or circumstances?"

I do and it's okay. It might be my indifference, or it could be theirs towards me.

I don't have infinite energy, so indifference can be helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indifferent to the stuff that I don't deem of any importance. It's got a LOT easier to see as I've got older. And even more since the pandemic.

I think on the forum it's clear to see that I'm not generally a meh kinda person.

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton


"How do you handle indifference? Do you ever feel indifferent, meh and apathetic?"

Everyone does sometimes. I'd much rather be excited, pleased, thoughtful, even anxious or fearful. Life is brief; we'll be indifferent to everything when it's gone. The grave's a fine and private place, as the poet said, but none, I think, do there embrace.

Indifference, ennui, anhedonia - they come and go but it's good to get them gone as smartly as possible. Isn't that partly the point of Fab and sexual adventures and flirting and frisson and friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm almost never indifferent, because I want to feel everything. I'm normally very black & white. I feel a lot, and very deeply.

Indifference signals a grey, and they only grey stuff I want are some of my walls.

xx Jess

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

We are all indifferent about lots of things. Politics for example or the weather . However in friendships and relationships it is the change from a higher state down to one of indifference that causes the problems. I.e. the opposite of love is not hate it is indifference.

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By *eroLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Indifference is a fairly standard emotional state for me. Takes quite a bit to move me these days.

Ambivalence is when I am not a happy bunny."

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How do you deal with your 'ambivalent' state?

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By *eroLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayfair


"How do you handle indifference? Do you ever feel indifferent, meh and apathetic?

Are you sometimes indifferent about people, things or circumstances?

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I do and it's okay. It might be my indifference, or it could be theirs towards me.

I don't have infinite energy, so indifference can be helpful. "

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That's insightful.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Often

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I am remarkably indifferent to things...

It worries me at time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm meh about 98% of things and people.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

There are shades of meh, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are shades of meh, though. "

Fifty shades of meh.

I'd watch that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully yes. Getting my knickers in a twist over everything,is very tiring.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Fifty shades of meh."

I came so close to typing that myself. Glad you picked it up for me.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Indifference is a fairly standard emotional state for me. Takes quite a bit to move me these days.

Ambivalence is when I am not a happy bunny.

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How do you deal with your 'ambivalent' state? "

Well that's probably got more questions than answers, but in the spirit of modernity.

A stunning 8k resolution meditation app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve survived terrible things and everything since has been indifference. Just don’t care much for anything unless I have a valid and serious reason to.

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