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By *ackformore100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tin town

What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Who they destroying now?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Rubiales i guess' the kiss'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual? "

He’s destroyed himself. Be serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubiales i guess' the kiss' "

The latest is the Spanish FA are considering legal action against the player for lying!

It’s like a soap opera!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Supposedly i don't know whether this is true its the press after all, the female player he kissed on the lips said she didn't like it, the Spanish are renowned for kissing cheeks mind

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By *onzoDog74Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

The kiss is one thing, nut I don't get the fuss over the crotch incident. Can a guy not scratch his dick for a quarter of a second any more?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I looked up the grabbing of the crotch thing supposedly its a sign of dominance eg get in there

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual? "

Yes. He's a complete macho cockwomble. He deserves everything he gets.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Rubiales i guess' the kiss'

The latest is the Spanish FA are considering legal action against the player for lying!

It’s like a soap opera! "

The Spanish FA is a closed old boys network and this is therefore totally unsurprising. The Spanish FA doesn't care about women's football and doesn't particularly care if the women's team ceases to exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Press coverage is ridiculous.

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By *ackformore100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Rubiales i guess' the kiss'

The latest is the Spanish FA are considering legal action against the player for lying!

It’s like a soap opera!

The Spanish FA is a closed old boys network and this is therefore totally unsurprising. The Spanish FA doesn't care about women's football and doesn't particularly care if the women's team ceases to exist. "

She says when they just won the world cup

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Rubiales i guess' the kiss'

The latest is the Spanish FA are considering legal action against the player for lying!

It’s like a soap opera!

The Spanish FA is a closed old boys network and this is therefore totally unsurprising. The Spanish FA doesn't care about women's football and doesn't particularly care if the women's team ceases to exist.

She says when they just won the world cup "

I'm not going to argue with someone who can't see blatant misogyny when it slaps them in the face.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"The kiss is one thing, nut I don't get the fuss over the crotch incident. Can a guy not scratch his dick for a quarter of a second any more? "

Of course he can. But when in the public eye, representing his country, surrounded by djgnitaries and minors. Would be a bit silly.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual? "

What a strange way to look at it. He's not the victim here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual? "

In this case, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just looked at the video because I wanted to see for myself what all the furore is about.

I’m might’ve missed something but was the kiss a result of over exuberance in the moment or intentional assault? I haven’t been following this story much but has the chap apologised for it? If so, surely that should be the end of it.

I don’t watch football but from what I’ve seen of the men’s game, they’re regularly patting each other on the bum and I’m almost certain that it’s without prior consent.

Can there be no leeway for genuine mistakes nowadays and an apology being enough of a redemption without resorting to legalities and the threat to have one removed from their job?

All seems like a mountain out of a mole hill to me, unless I am clearly lacking perspective and additional information.

Miles

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"I’ve just looked at the video because I wanted to see for myself what all the furore is about.

I’m might’ve missed something but was the kiss a result of over exuberance in the moment or intentional assault? I haven’t been following this story much but has the chap apologised for it? If so, surely that should be the end of it.

I don’t watch football but from what I’ve seen of the men’s game, they’re regularly patting each other on the bum and I’m almost certain that it’s without prior consent.

Can there be no leeway for genuine mistakes nowadays and an apology being enough of a redemption without resorting to legalities and the threat to have one removed from their job?

All seems like a mountain out of a mole hill to me, unless I am clearly lacking perspective and additional information.

Miles"

This is our world now. Pick a side and go to war.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’ve just looked at the video because I wanted to see for myself what all the furore is about.

I’m might’ve missed something but was the kiss a result of over exuberance in the moment or intentional assault? I haven’t been following this story much but has the chap apologised for it? If so, surely that should be the end of it.

I don’t watch football but from what I’ve seen of the men’s game, they’re regularly patting each other on the bum and I’m almost certain that it’s without prior consent.

Can there be no leeway for genuine mistakes nowadays and an apology being enough of a redemption without resorting to legalities and the threat to have one removed from their job?

All seems like a mountain out of a mole hill to me, unless I am clearly lacking perspective and additional information.

Miles"

He hasn't apologised.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’ve just looked at the video because I wanted to see for myself what all the furore is about.

I’m might’ve missed something but was the kiss a result of over exuberance in the moment or intentional assault? I haven’t been following this story much but has the chap apologised for it? If so, surely that should be the end of it.

I don’t watch football but from what I’ve seen of the men’s game, they’re regularly patting each other on the bum and I’m almost certain that it’s without prior consent.

Can there be no leeway for genuine mistakes nowadays and an apology being enough of a redemption without resorting to legalities and the threat to have one removed from their job?

All seems like a mountain out of a mole hill to me, unless I am clearly lacking perspective and additional information.

Miles

He hasn't apologised. "

I thought he had? He had in the bit I read about it all.

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By *rLordMan
over a year ago

Swadlincote

From my experience of kissing people from France, Spain etc. It is perfectly acceptable and a sign of friendship to kiss cheek to cheek, kissing the lips is reserved for hubby or lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" He hasn't apologised. "

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’ve just looked at the video because I wanted to see for myself what all the furore is about.

I’m might’ve missed something but was the kiss a result of over exuberance in the moment or intentional assault? I haven’t been following this story much but has the chap apologised for it? If so, surely that should be the end of it.

I don’t watch football but from what I’ve seen of the men’s game, they’re regularly patting each other on the bum and I’m almost certain that it’s without prior consent.

Can there be no leeway for genuine mistakes nowadays and an apology being enough of a redemption without resorting to legalities and the threat to have one removed from their job?

All seems like a mountain out of a mole hill to me, unless I am clearly lacking perspective and additional information.

Miles

He hasn't apologised.

I thought he had? He had in the bit I read about it all. "

I might not have caught up with that bit. Happy to be proved wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles"

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people haven't been following the story. This is just a final straw for the way their FA has been treating them in the last few years.

That why 12 of their first choice players were not qt the world cup. If you think its ok to grab a woman face and kiss her on the lips without asking, that says a lot about the person you are.

But this is not just a ordinary yobo after a few drinks. He's the head of his countries football and representing his country on the world stage.

He gets paid good money to be able to behave with dignity and control himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff"

He apologised for the crotch incident, not the kiss.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff"

He did apologise, I was wrong to say he hadn't. I think the tone of his apology and some of his subsequent comments upset a lot of people though

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff

He apologised for the crotch incident, not the kiss."

No he apparently apologised for the kiss according to sky sports news and a few others

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff

He did apologise, I was wrong to say he hadn't. I think the tone of his apology and some of his subsequent comments upset a lot of people though"

Yes it was apparently a reluctant apology

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff

He did apologise, I was wrong to say he hadn't. I think the tone of his apology and some of his subsequent comments upset a lot of people though

Yes it was apparently a reluctant apology "

It's a mess and as I said on the other thread nobody is going to come out of this undamaged

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I’ve just looked at the video because I wanted to see for myself what all the furore is about.

I’m might’ve missed something but was the kiss a result of over exuberance in the moment or intentional assault? I haven’t been following this story much but has the chap apologised for it? If so, surely that should be the end of it.

I don’t watch football but from what I’ve seen of the men’s game, they’re regularly patting each other on the bum and I’m almost certain that it’s without prior consent.

Can there be no leeway for genuine mistakes nowadays and an apology being enough of a redemption without resorting to legalities and the threat to have one removed from their job?

All seems like a mountain out of a mole hill to me, unless I am clearly lacking perspective and additional information.

Miles"

exactly it was done in the excitement of winning no intention to offend and hes appologised that's enough

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff

He did apologise, I was wrong to say he hadn't. I think the tone of his apology and some of his subsequent comments upset a lot of people though

Yes it was apparently a reluctant apology

It's a mess and as I said on the other thread nobody is going to come out of this undamaged "

True. It really is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people haven't been following the story. This is just a final straw for the way their FA has been treating them in the last few years.

That why 12 of their first choice players were not qt the world cup. If you think its ok to grab a woman face and kiss her on the lips without asking, that says a lot about the person you are.

But this is not just a ordinary yobo after a few drinks. He's the head of his countries football and representing his country on the world stage.

He gets paid good money to be able to behave with dignity and control himself. "

Thank you for the update.

I’ve had my face grabbed by women for a quick peck on the lips without my consent in a moment of joint celebration and over exuberance.

In this instance, by your description, it seems to be a final straw moment rather than the kiss in itself.

Miles

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

It was an apology without remorse

He is so arrogant

It is unreal

Very bad for Spanish football

Surely Latin countries kiss on cheeks not on lips socially?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He did apologise re the kiss but it's been said it wasnt enough of an apology.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?

Miles

I think you need to watch the videos and read the subsequent reports.

It seems he has apologised though, I'm just going to take a look at the most recent stuff

He did apologise, I was wrong to say he hadn't. I think the tone of his apology and some of his subsequent comments upset a lot of people though

Yes it was apparently a reluctant apology

It's a mess and as I said on the other thread nobody is going to come out of this undamaged

True. It really is "

The moment media of all types was involved it was never going to be able to be sorted out properly. A massive opportunity for moving attitudes to women forward and setting examples has been missed

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


" He hasn't apologised.

I see. Is that what the furore is about? I don’t understand how this has been blown out of all proportion, it seems. Who made the complaint about the kiss? Was it the woman being kissed?"

He did apologise, but it was deemed inadequate. The complaint came from Spanish parliamentary leaders, FIFA, the victim, her team-mates and professional football players across the globe.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"it was done in the excitement of winning no intention to offend and hes appologised that's enough "

So non-consensual public physical affection by a person in a position of power is ok if said person is excited? Jesus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people haven't been following the story. This is just a final straw for the way their FA has been treating them in the last few years.

That why 12 of their first choice players were not qt the world cup. If you think its ok to grab a woman face and kiss her on the lips without asking, that says a lot about the person you are.

But this is not just a ordinary yobo after a few drinks. He's the head of his countries football and representing his country on the world stage.

He gets paid good money to be able to behave with dignity and control himself.

Thank you for the update.

I’ve had my face grabbed by women for a quick peck on the lips without my consent in a moment of joint celebration and over exuberance.

In this instance, by your description, it seems to be a final straw moment rather than the kiss in itself.

Miles "

No it is the kiss also. You are clearly not wanting to or choosing not to understand the difference power dynamics in your incident and this incident.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I have been trying to work out if this would have happened if he done the same thing to a male player.

Same moment, same win, same action?

Not trying to legitimise his behaviour, just wondering what people think ?

Even if it was a moment of exuberance, his subsequent arrogance and the closed ranks of the committee is appalling. Not because it was a female player, but because he was professionalism is very questionable.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Just a change for Spanish football for it to be sexism and not racism…

The general thing is that the higher ups in Spanish football tend to be older gents who have trouble admitting they are ever wrong, and then double down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was watching a report on the story on France 24. The was a video of the team getting on the coach.

Rubiales was constantly touching the players, really creepy and inappropriate.

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By *ackformore100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Was watching a report on the story on France 24. The was a video of the team getting on the coach.

Rubiales was constantly touching the players, really creepy and inappropriate. "

You ever met a spanish person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was watching a report on the story on France 24. The was a video of the team getting on the coach.

Rubiales was constantly touching the players, really creepy and inappropriate.

You ever met a spanish person? "

Yes, many.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual? "

'When all you've ever known is privilege, equality feels like oppression'

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Was watching a report on the story on France 24. The was a video of the team getting on the coach.

Rubiales was constantly touching the players, really creepy and inappropriate.

You ever met a spanish person? "

Have you? They don't go around grabbing people forcefully by the face and forcing a kiss on their lips, nor do they grab their crotch and make lewd gestures.

If anyone thinks that behaviour is normal Latino/Spanish culture then you are utterly clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was watching a report on the story on France 24. The was a video of the team getting on the coach.

Rubiales was constantly touching the players, really creepy and inappropriate.

You ever met a spanish person?

Have you? They don't go around grabbing people forcefully by the face and forcing a kiss on their lips, nor do they grab their crotch and make lewd gestures.

If anyone thinks that behaviour is normal Latino/Spanish culture then you are utterly clueless. "

It’s a typical stereotype though. And we love a stereotype on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't my proudest

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Wasn't my proudest"

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't my proudest

Eh?"

Fap

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"it was done in the excitement of winning no intention to offend and hes appologised that's enough

So non-consensual public physical affection by a person in a position of power is ok if said person is excited? Jesus! "

lol omg you're jumping on the media bandwagon as Usual he was excited for the team winning and appologised for the kiss, its a kiss....... I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

Scary how many people don't care about consent

Especially on a site like this

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

What about the manager touching the female staff breasts? (sorry not sure of her role)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Scary how many people don't care about consent

Especially on a site like this "

Isn't it just?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Wasn't my proudest

Eh?

Fap"

1/10 for originality

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain "

No

It

Isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very surprised at the people who are defending this behaviour. It seems really out of character for them.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally "

Anyone trying to kiss me like that would be getting the Glaswegian sort.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally

Anyone trying to kiss me like that would be getting the Glaswegian sort. "

Not even with a little finger up the bum?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally

Anyone trying to kiss me like that would be getting the Glaswegian sort.

Not even with a little finger up the bum? "

Good luck trying that whilst I'm sat in my Wheely chair

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally

Anyone trying to kiss me like that would be getting the Glaswegian sort.

Not even with a little finger up the bum?

Good luck trying that whilst I'm sat in my Wheely chair "

Challenge accepted

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally

Anyone trying to kiss me like that would be getting the Glaswegian sort.

Not even with a little finger up the bum?

Good luck trying that whilst I'm sat in my Wheely chair

Challenge accepted "

How much do you like your face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't believe the crouch grab then the forced kiss, and then blaming a feminist movement agenda for wanting him gone. you can't be behaving like that in his position.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I prefer an ‘Australian’ kiss personally

Anyone trying to kiss me like that would be getting the Glaswegian sort.

Not even with a little finger up the bum?

Good luck trying that whilst I'm sat in my Wheely chair

Challenge accepted

How much do you like your face? "

The same as everyone else

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I couldn't believe the crouch grab then the forced kiss, and then blaming a feminist movement agenda for wanting him gone. you can't be behaving like that, PERIOD. "

FIFY

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual? "

Storm in a teacup, now being whipped up into a frenzy by politicians and celebs with agendas.

He was wrong to do it, and he could have managed the aftermath better. But the opportunism being exhibited, particularly by politicians of course, is revolting.

A depressing event overshadowing the main achievement

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


" I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain

No

It

Isn't!"

oh yes it is

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Scary how many people don't care about consent

Especially on a site like this "

its like a horror movie its that scary

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain

No

It

Isn't!oh yes it is "

Grabbing anyone by the face and implanting a kiss on the lips is no more Spanish than it is English or German. People have a very warped sense of what normal Spanish culture is.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't believe the crouch grab then the forced kiss, and then blaming a feminist movement agenda for wanting him gone. you can't be behaving like that, PERIOD.

FIFY"

Yes, I stand corrected.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked."

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I couldn't believe the crouch grab then the forced kiss, and then blaming a feminist movement agenda for wanting him gone. you can't be behaving like that, PERIOD.

FIFY

Yes, I stand corrected. "

thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale? "

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


" I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain

No

It

Isn't!oh yes it is

Grabbing anyone by the face and implanting a kiss on the lips is no more Spanish than it is English or German. People have a very warped sense of what normal Spanish culture is. "

it was a celebration of winning is all nothing else he appologised, don't get it all out of proportion because the media has

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain

No

It

Isn't!oh yes it is

Grabbing anyone by the face and implanting a kiss on the lips is no more Spanish than it is English or German. People have a very warped sense of what normal Spanish culture is. it was a celebration of winning is all nothing else he appologised, don't get it all out of proportion because the media has "

Kindly don't tell me what to do, think or say. I'll make my own choices there, thanking you most kindly.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked."
sheeesh whats wrong with you

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale? "

. A kiss on the lips from Rubiales should have been for his wife not another woman.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


" I mean non consensual really, remember the Spanish kiss men as well its an acceptable celebration in Spain

No

It

Isn't!oh yes it is

Grabbing anyone by the face and implanting a kiss on the lips is no more Spanish than it is English or German. People have a very warped sense of what normal Spanish culture is. it was a celebration of winning is all nothing else he appologised, don't get it all out of proportion because the media has

Kindly don't tell me what to do, think or say. I'll make my own choices there, thanking you most kindly."

I'm not saying your not but in this case its ridiculous

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too."

Would he really? A clear misunderstanding in the heat of a euphoric historic moment?

Is there no middle ground anymore?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale? . A kiss on the lips from Rubiales should have been for his wife not another woman."

He's Spanish they kiss men on the lips

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale? . A kiss on the lips from Rubiales should have been for his wife not another woman."

What has that got to do with his professional position?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

Would he really? A clear misunderstanding in the heat of a euphoric historic moment?

Is there no middle ground anymore? "

Yes, he definitely would be. Especially on such a public stage. It would be a horrendous look for the company and he would be out the door. Probably with a generous severance package but that is the fucked up world we live in.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF. "

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked."

Look at the video. Hermoso's feet are off the ground at one point. How is she "leading him on" by lifting him off his feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line? "

The OP asked about media censure. I'm answering his question. He should resign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line? "

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?

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By *ackformore100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too."

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Look at the video. Hermoso's feet are off the ground at one point. How is she "leading him on" by lifting him off his feet. "

she was celebrating as was he

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?"

trape or vape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look. "

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?trape or vape "

We’re on fab. Gape obviously.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?"

Obviously he can. Winning stuff makes consent and norms of behaviour null and void.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?"

Hardly a credible example can your boss play football at world class level?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?

Obviously he can. Winning stuff makes consent and norms of behaviour null and void."

I would say this is unbelievable but sadly I’ve came to expect this on here.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?trape or vape

We’re on fab. Gape obviously."

ok agreed

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line? "

My line is that criminal acts (sexual assault) deserve legal punishment(prison). Wild I know.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?"

I dont understand your question.

I simply asked the other poster where the line was with this 'censure'

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?

Obviously he can. Winning stuff makes consent and norms of behaviour null and void.

I would say this is unbelievable but sadly I’ve came to expect this on here."

If it's said on here with a modicum of anonymity, I want to know how these people behave in the "real" world. It's very concerning.

If Rubiales behaves like he did on international TV, what in the heck does he do away from scrutiny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?

I dont understand your question.

I simply asked the other poster where the line was with this 'censure'"

You don’t understand consent either.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

My first question would be is she at least a 7? My response would be tailored around the answer to this

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

My line is that criminal acts (sexual assault) deserve legal punishment(prison). Wild I know. "

How is that relevant to this situation?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"My first question would be is she at least a 7? My response would be tailored around the answer to this "

You're trying too hard to be an arse.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

Reverse it. Where is your line?

A kiss?

A fondle?

Ripping her clothes off?

The word that rhymes with Grape?

I dont understand your question.

I simply asked the other poster where the line was with this 'censure'

You don’t understand consent either."

What makes you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?

Obviously he can. Winning stuff makes consent and norms of behaviour null and void.

I would say this is unbelievable but sadly I’ve came to expect this on here.

If it's said on here with a modicum of anonymity, I want to know how these people behave in the "real" world. It's very concerning.

If Rubiales behaves like he did on international TV, what in the heck does he do away from scrutiny?"

Exactly. I’m out of here before I say something that gets me in trouble.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"My first question would be is she at least a 7? My response would be tailored around the answer to this

You're trying too hard to be an arse. "

Honestly, I’m not trying

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Its pointless arguing about it, hang him its the only way

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

My line is that criminal acts (sexual assault) deserve legal punishment(prison). Wild I know.

How is that relevant to this situation? "

Kissing someone without their consent is sexual assault. Sexual assault is a crime. Crimes should be punished.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

My line is that criminal acts (sexual assault) deserve legal punishment(prison). Wild I know.

How is that relevant to this situation?

Kissing someone without their consent is sexual assault. Sexual assault is a crime. Crimes should be punished. "

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

And all perspective truly has been lost.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We may apologise for things but ultimately it's our behaviour that is assessed and an apology MAY only slightly alter the assessment of us. Some things are beyond redemption, from just uttering of a quick 'sorry'.

And in a professional role, including employment, leaders need to be 100% appropriate in their behaviour.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Scary how many people don't care about consent

Especially on a site like this "

It’s a great filter, the block button is getting some use!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Why sacked though? Can someone not make a mistake anymore without paying the ultimate price?

Why have we lost all sense of scale?

If my boss stuck the lips on a female employee in public he would be sacked too.

How often does your boss win the World cup? Its not comparable. We see teams running around hugging amd kissing when they win a single game let alone the biggest game of all of their lives.... Don't understand peoples hatred.. Its not a good look.

My boss could win a multibillion pound contract. Can he kiss who he wants?

Obviously he can. Winning stuff makes consent and norms of behaviour null and void.

I would say this is unbelievable but sadly I’ve came to expect this on here."

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, all this over an unsolicited kiss. Surely a quick booby honk and a slap on the butt would have sufficed?

Bess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first question would be is she at least a 7? My response would be tailored around the answer to this "

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

"

Yes, it is.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Wow, all this over an unsolicited kiss. Surely a quick booby honk and a slap on the butt would have sufficed?

Bess x"

I know, I mean a quick honk of the tits should’ve been acceptable, after all they won a trophy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, all this over an unsolicited kiss. Surely a quick booby honk and a slap on the butt would have sufficed?

Bess x

I know, I mean a quick honk of the tits should’ve been acceptable, after all they won a trophy "

Don't forget the congratulatory slap on the butt as well. That tells a woman she has done really well

Bess x

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

Yes, it is."

It really isnt it. Don't be ridiculous

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

Yes, it is."

lol oh well oust him then, arrest him then, ruin his life for a celebratory kiss, you've convicted him already

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

My line is that criminal acts (sexual assault) deserve legal punishment(prison). Wild I know.

How is that relevant to this situation?

Kissing someone without their consent is sexual assault. Sexual assault is a crime. Crimes should be punished.

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

And all perspective truly has been lost. "

If someone in a position of power forces physical affection onto you, without your consent, what else is it?

Because I will tell you that the minimum contact set for a regular battery (common assault) can be reduced to the unwanted/non consensual touching of the material a person wears. Never mind kissing them.

So really we only need to dicuss is kissing sexual in nature. Was the intention any form of sexual gratification? I'd say yes.

You would say no, I assume?

Which would still meet the minimum requirement for a battery. A crime. Punishable by the criminal justice system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

Yes, it is.

It really isnt it. Don't be ridiculous "

It is in the UK. Unwanted touching including kissing is SA.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yeah. He deserves every bit of censure. As do the RFEF.

Define 'every bit of censure'?

Sacking?

Banning from ever working in football again?

Banning from ever working again?

Criminal prosecution?

Jailing?

Death penalty?

Wheres your line?

My line is that criminal acts (sexual assault) deserve legal punishment(prison). Wild I know.

How is that relevant to this situation?

Kissing someone without their consent is sexual assault. Sexual assault is a crime. Crimes should be punished.

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

And all perspective truly has been lost.

If someone in a position of power forces physical affection onto you, without your consent, what else is it?

Because I will tell you that the minimum contact set for a regular battery (common assault) can be reduced to the unwanted/non consensual touching of the material a person wears. Never mind kissing them.

So really we only need to dicuss is kissing sexual in nature. Was the intention any form of sexual gratification? I'd say yes.

You would say no, I assume?

Which would still meet the minimum requirement for a battery. A crime. Punishable by the criminal justice system. "

Ah sure we'll put him in handcuffs so. What a fucking joke

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"

Ah so its sexual assault now is it.

Yes, it is.

It really isnt it. Don't be ridiculous "

Maybe not in Ireland but it very much is in England and Wales.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Look at the video. Hermoso's feet are off the ground at one point. How is she "leading him on" by lifting him off his feet. "

. I never thought Hermoso was leading Rubiales on my female colleagues did.On Wednesday when I see my female colleagues if I say good morning to her and kiss her on the lips I wonder what her reaction will be my gut feeling is she will knee me in the balls lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get why a kiss is counted as sexual assault - does a handshake count as well? Lips aren't a sexual organ any more than hands - I do plenty of sex-stuff with my hands, and I have two of them

Bess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt sorry for him, probably had a couple of drinks and let him self down with his behaviour. Bottom line is he caused offence to all women footballers and his apology was not adequate for them. It's Their call really, as well as their game and how they want it to be.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Wow, all this over an unsolicited kiss. Surely a quick booby honk and a slap on the butt would have sufficed?

Bess x

I know, I mean a quick honk of the tits should’ve been acceptable, after all they won a trophy

Don't forget the congratulatory slap on the butt as well. That tells a woman she has done really well

Bess x"

If it was me I would’ve just said ‘well done love’ and probably led each one of them on to the podium by one of their tits and arse cheeks

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Wow, all this over an unsolicited kiss. Surely a quick booby honk and a slap on the butt would have sufficed?

Bess x

I know, I mean a quick honk of the tits should’ve been acceptable, after all they won a trophy

Don't forget the congratulatory slap on the butt as well. That tells a woman she has done really well

Bess x

If it was me I would’ve just said ‘well done love’ and probably led each one of them on to the podium by one of their tits and arse cheeks "

. Stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Look at the video. Hermoso's feet are off the ground at one point. How is she "leading him on" by lifting him off his feet. . I never thought Hermoso was leading Rubiales on my female colleagues did.On Wednesday when I see my female colleagues if I say good morning to her and kiss her on the lips I wonder what her reaction will be my gut feeling is she will knee me in the balls lol."

Careful she's not leading you on - that's what gold diggers do....

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Some strange responses to this thread, lots from men who I'm sure have "I'll treat you with respect" on their bios!

Top tip: don't grab people and kiss them without invitation, even in celebration, and you'll be just fine.

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By *urreyguy34Man
over a year ago

Weybridge

It’s a joke!!!

Poor fella they had just on the World Cup and that man should never off kissed him?!

and yes I would like to be call a penguin

But unfortunately here , I have the choice of male or female

…. But I am a penguin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've said on one of the Greenwood threads - it's heartening to see men standing up for women.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Today at work a female colleague asked me what I thought of the kiss.I said to her that a kiss on the lips was not correct and it should be a kiss on one or both cheeks therefore Rubiales should be sacked.My colleague then showed me a picture where moments before the kiss Hermoso has her arms round Rubiales in a embrace and lifts him of his feet and asks me do I not feel that perhaps she is leading him on I said that whilst I could see where my colleague was coming from I still feel Rubiales is wrong and should be sacked.

Look at the video. Hermoso's feet are off the ground at one point. How is she "leading him on" by lifting him off his feet. . I never thought Hermoso was leading Rubiales on my female colleagues did.On Wednesday when I see my female colleagues if I say good morning to her and kiss her on the lips I wonder what her reaction will be my gut feeling is she will knee me in the balls lol.

Careful she's not leading you on - that's what gold diggers do...."

. Thanks for the advice.I may not be as rich as Mason but I’m older and wiser and I think I can spot a gold digger.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Some strange responses to this thread, lots from men who I'm sure have "I'll treat you with respect" on their bios!

Top tip: don't grab people and kiss them without invitation, even in celebration, and you'll be just fine."

It may be a surprise to you, but nobody is in here saying he was ok to do it. Just that there should be a proportionate reaction

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Some strange responses to this thread, lots from men who I'm sure have "I'll treat you with respect" on their bios!

Top tip: don't grab people and kiss them without invitation, even in celebration, and you'll be just fine.

It may be a surprise to you, but nobody is in here saying he was ok to do it. Just that there should be a proportionate reaction"

Great, thanks for clarifying. I struggle sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only think you’d be so keen to defend this man if you yourself act in this way? Or want to act in this way freely? Or know people that act in this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can only think you’d be so keen to defend this man if you yourself act in this way? Or want to act in this way freely? Or know people that act in this way? "

When men get excited, Pickle, they have to be excused for "taking a liberty" you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FIFA suspended Rubiales today btw...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to lighten up. Puts a shadow on the girls winning. A kiss in the moment that is all if she was so offended she should of slapped his face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People need to lighten up. Puts a shadow on the girls winning. A kiss in the moment that is all if she was so offended she should of slapped his face."

That would have been common assault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some strange responses to this thread, lots from men who I'm sure have "I'll treat you with respect" on their bios!

Top tip: don't grab people and kiss them without invitation, even in celebration, and you'll be just fine.

It may be a surprise to you, but nobody is in here saying he was ok to do it. Just that there should be a proportionate reaction"

I watched it happen and I thought at the time you mate have overstepped the Mark.

He has to go!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It’s a joke!!!

Poor fella they had just on the World Cup and that man should never off kissed him?!

and yes I would like to be call a penguin

But unfortunately here , I have the choice of male or female

…. But I am a penguin "

¿Qué?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can only think you’d be so keen to defend this man if you yourself act in this way? Or want to act in this way freely? Or know people that act in this way?

When men get excited, Pickle, they have to be excused for "taking a liberty" you know. "

Oh duh silly me

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Can only think you’d be so keen to defend this man if you yourself act in this way? Or want to act in this way freely? Or know people that act in this way?

When men get excited, Pickle, they have to be excused for "taking a liberty" you know. "

Will no-one think of the men? They're emotional and highly strung, and can't control their own actions. We all know she loved it anyway.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it. "

That’s fab for ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firing him is proportionate. I’d expect him to be fired if he did that in the office to a woman colleague too.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What on earths going on? Clearly there are agendas at play here but should the media be glorying in destroying yet another individual?

He’s destroyed himself. Be serious"

Too right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it. "

We don’t call out women because we want to sex them. Apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can only think you’d be so keen to defend this man if you yourself act in this way? Or want to act in this way freely? Or know people that act in this way?

When men get excited, Pickle, they have to be excused for "taking a liberty" you know.

Will no-one think of the men? They're emotional and highly strung, and can't control their own actions. We all know she loved it anyway. "

Despite her saying she didn’t, I think she did.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

We don’t call out women because we want to sex them. Apparently"

If you can think of any other reason, im all ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

We don’t call out women because we want to sex them. Apparently

If you can think of any other reason, im all ears"

I can’t speak for others but I gladly call both men and women out on this website. Anyone can get it

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

We don’t call out women because we want to sex them. Apparently

If you can think of any other reason, im all ears

I can’t speak for others but I gladly call both men and women out on this website. Anyone can get it"

Understood. Youll be calling out the woman above so any minute then i presume. Good to know

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Press coverage is ridiculous."

It always is. But this is a real story that ran as it did *because* nobody stepped in. He wouldn't resign and took to lying instead - pretending the kiss was prearranged and thus suggesting the 'perfidious woman' is at very least hysterical.

There's plenty of people out there who'd like to crab his crotch I tell you, and not for sexual reasons.

It's a story, and one that resonates deeply in terms of what far-too many 'modern masculine men' see women as being. It's a nightmare.

pt

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it. "

-I'm actually looking for this list of 'sensible women' who are playing it down.

Where are they?

pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Press coverage is ridiculous.

It always is. But this is a real story that ran as it did *because* nobody stepped in. He wouldn't resign and took to lying instead - pretending the kiss was prearranged and thus suggesting the 'perfidious woman' is at very least hysterical.

There's plenty of people out there who'd like to crab his crotch I tell you, and not for sexual reasons.

It's a story, and one that resonates deeply in terms of what far-too many 'modern masculine men' see women as being. It's a nightmare.

pt"

Whatever you think

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

-I'm actually looking for this list of 'sensible women' who are playing it down.

Where are they?

pt"

Who mentioned a list of sensible women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

We don’t call out women because we want to sex them. Apparently

If you can think of any other reason, im all ears

I can’t speak for others but I gladly call both men and women out on this website. Anyone can get it

Understood. Youll be calling out the woman above so any minute then i presume. Good to know"

Cba to scroll up but this is comment right here calling out anyone that is defending this man or pretending he doesn’t need firing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People need to lighten up. Puts a shadow on the girls winning. A kiss in the moment that is all if she was so offended she should of slapped his face."

Have you ever been unconsensually grabbed and kissed in front of a global audience and on TV? I've been SA'd and the reaction of many people is to freeze, pretend it didn't happen. How dare you suggest she should have reacted in that moment? Where's your censure of HIM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

-I'm actually looking for this list of 'sensible women' who are playing it down.

Where are they?

pt

Who mentioned a list of sensible women? "

Think the implication being if a woman isnt agreeing with the furore then she cant be sensible....how I read it anyway.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

We don’t call out women because we want to sex them. Apparently

If you can think of any other reason, im all ears

I can’t speak for others but I gladly call both men and women out on this website. Anyone can get it

Understood. Youll be calling out the woman above so any minute then i presume. Good to know

Cba to scroll up but this is comment right here calling out anyone that is defending this man or pretending he doesn’t need firing. x"

Not directly to her then. I see

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

-I'm actually looking for this list of 'sensible women' who are playing it down.

Where are they?

pt

Who mentioned a list of sensible women?

Think the implication being if a woman isnt agreeing with the furore then she cant be sensible....how I read it anyway.

"

--Why make it so complicated when I'm clearly suggesting he sees 'playing it down' as the sensible approach!

Mind you, you do have a point...

Just remember people, criticism isn't cancellation. When certain people opine that "you can't say anything any more" they are usually too lazy these days to even-think of the final words... "without some annoying so-and-so criticising you or suggesting you shouldn't be doing it!" But in reality people have never had more freedom to say whatever they feel like from dawn to dusk imo, certainly in my days anyway.

pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if there would have been similar howls of outrage had it been a female official kissing the player, or even a female official kissing a male player. I think not.

Bess x

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fuck it, I'm copying this from the other thread.

I've been spending a lot of time with young men lately (throughout their 20's mainly), a number of while are really into Andrew Tate. They really, really admire him. The wild conspiracy theorist who made his money from grooming vulnerable young women for his webcam business (ie by coercing them into it - only to find that even Romania now has its own laws relating to that) and who charged 50 dollars a month for masculinity lessons to aspiring young males that included lessons like "Grab, slap, ch*ke, shut up b*tch - sex." (it's all on audio/video record of course).

The idea that men can take ownership of women's bodies *in any way* is totally unacceptable. When men like this lay their unwanted hands on each other, it's either called bullying or it's called war. But when they do it to women it's now too-often part of some kind of spurious and lazy-minded political (ie 'anti-woke') backlash. They see themselves as heroes of masculinity.

The Spanish guy, who just wouldn't apologise or resign (he decided to pretend it was pre-arranged instead - and of course women are ALWAYS duplicitous in these matters), will see himself as a hero I'm certain. And to many young men today, sadly he will be just that. When will the woman own up to lying about her agreement? is the kind of question the kids would ask. Despite only a few percent of expected r*pes-even (forget assaults) going to court, the kids are convinced - largely because of Tate and of course because of Trump - that there is genuinely a global epidemic of spiteful women attacking innocent men in this area - all to the tune where the statistics are pretty-much reversed (ie over 90% of the the most serious cases are viewed by them as conspired by women, and are not down to aggressive males at all).

It's incredibly hard for women to see any kind of justice in an area that is actually increasing over modern times (even if the recompense is just to recognise it happening and help slow it down). The time it has taken for FIFA to suspend this guy is ultimately evidence of that terrible fact, regardless of it being over this particular (and of course always unacceptable) level of enactment.

pt

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

-I'm actually looking for this list of 'sensible women' who are playing it down.

Where are they?

pt

Who mentioned a list of sensible women?

Think the implication being if a woman isnt agreeing with the furore then she cant be sensible....how I read it anyway.

--Why make it so complicated when I'm clearly suggesting he sees 'playing it down' as the sensible approach!

Mind you, you do have a point...

Just remember people, criticism isn't cancellation. When certain people opine that "you can't say anything any more" they are usually too lazy these days to even-think of the final words... "without some annoying so-and-so criticising you or suggesting you shouldn't be doing it!" But in reality people have never had more freedom to say whatever they feel like from dawn to dusk imo, certainly in my days anyway.

pt"

Who are you referring to in your comment? Whos this 'he' who is saying that playing it down is the sensible approach?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I wonder if there would have been similar howls of outrage had it been a female official kissing the player, or even a female official kissing a male player. I think not.

Bess x"

If they pretended the other party was lying?!

Of course there would have!!

What do you think of Andrew Tate btw, and my post above?

I've been talking to young men who think women (or the 'ho' and 'uneducated' type at least) should be property effectively. 1000 who disagree with them means nothing to them (women are foolish anyway). Give them one or two who agrees? "It's proof man! Even the women say it."

pt

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton


"People need to lighten up. Puts a shadow on the girls winning. A kiss in the moment that is all if she was so offended she should of slapped his face."

All abit spur of the moment as she picked him up as well so feel it was all in celebration but others shouting has meant the lady has now kicked off.

Definitely tarnishes the win & the pile on is truly ridiculous which Definitely just devalues womens football further.

He'll get the heave ho but the damage is done either way to both.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I wonder if there would have been similar howls of outrage had it been a female official kissing the player, or even a female official kissing a male player. I think not.

Bess x

If they pretended the other party was lying?!

Of course there would have!!

What do you think of Andrew Tate btw, and my post above?

I've been talking to young men who think women (or the 'ho' and 'uneducated' type at least) should be property effectively. 1000 who disagree with them means nothing to them (women are foolish anyway). Give them one or two who agrees? "It's proof man! Even the women say it."

pt"

No, there wouldnt have been the same outrage. Nothing remotely like it

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I wonder if there would have been similar howls of outrage had it been a female official kissing the player, or even a female official kissing a male player. I think not.

Bess x

If they pretended the other party was lying?!

Of course there would have!!

What do you think of Andrew Tate btw, and my post above?

I've been talking to young men who think women (or the 'ho' and 'uneducated' type at least) should be property effectively. 1000 who disagree with them means nothing to them (women are foolish anyway). Give them one or two who agrees? "It's proof man! Even the women say it."

pt

No, there wouldnt have been the same outrage. Nothing remotely like it"

See the clip from York races this week…you know the one that supposedly wasn’t that big a deal

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it. "

Happy to say I disagree with anyone who thinks it was acceptable

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By *ackformore100 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Can only think you’d be so keen to defend this man if you yourself act in this way? Or want to act in this way freely? Or know people that act in this way? "

Oh come off it, you dont really believe that do you?. However a few things to consider. Unless youve been in that situation its impossible to say what anyone would do.

Not sure anyone is "defending" anything. There is no denying he made a mistake for which he has apologised. The debate is about turning it into such a drama. The media feeding it and a lot of hate from others. Its for the Spanish fa to sort out and its an unholy mess.

If they need to sack people for poor performance or gross misconduct etc fine.. But lets surely not let it be for a misplaced kiss. Im sure it's also true that some women have had to tolerate some shitty behaviours... And again... If the solution to that is sacking this chap... Fine...but conflating issues does any real issues a massive disservice.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

Happy to say I disagree with anyone who thinks it was acceptable "

Just not directly to a woman on a thread though. Only men

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

-I'm actually looking for this list of 'sensible women' who are playing it down.

Where are they?

pt

Who mentioned a list of sensible women?

Think the implication being if a woman isnt agreeing with the furore then she cant be sensible....how I read it anyway.

--Why make it so complicated when I'm clearly suggesting he sees 'playing it down' as the sensible approach!

Mind you, you do have a point...

Just remember people, criticism isn't cancellation. When certain people opine that "you can't say anything any more" they are usually too lazy these days to even-think of the final words... "without some annoying so-and-so criticising you or suggesting you shouldn't be doing it!" But in reality people have never had more freedom to say whatever they feel like from dawn to dusk imo, certainly in my days anyway.

pt

Who are you referring to in your comment? Whos this 'he' who is saying that playing it down is the sensible approach?

"

I dunno, the guy who's been saying Rubiales losing his job is a step too far?

He hasn't just shown incompetence anyway, (not just the crotch grab apparently - he has history) and kissed the way he did, he's slandered Hermoso knowing full-well that women are very often portrayed as 'liars' in these matters. I believe her 100%. Don't you? He's an utter coward hiding behind horrible politics imo.

pt

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Interesting how the woman above whos played the whole thing down has escaped any rebuking, yet the men who offer up a similar opinion are set upon.

Funny that isnt it.

Happy to say I disagree with anyone who thinks it was acceptable

Just not directly to a woman on a thread though. Only men"

I didn't reply to anyone with my original post - it was a standalone post. Not that it matters, of course. But if you honestly think I'm too scared to disagree with a woman in case it affects my chances of getting my leg over, you've not been paying attention.

(But obviously no reason you should have been...)

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