FabSwingers.com forum: Hotwife Reaction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys. Was just curious to males on here about their wives being intimate with other guys in comparison to finding out or catching them with another guy without your knowledge. Is there a big difference in feelings you encounter in one situation to the other?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very big difference altogether and really depends on you, and how you handle it. We all know how people feel about cheating, and it happens more than we like to think, which means a lot of feelings are happening that's like a rollercoaster.

Some people actually have a cheating kink, but outside of kink, it can devastate people. I know some people who have cheated and regretted a lot.

Good question, and many will have varied responses and experiences. I try not to go down the 'holier than thou condemn them all route', as people are on here for their own reasons, particular to them, and it does not come without emotion or feelings, no matter what we like to think.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can safely say I don't like either, her with a woman is tolerable but I gain no gratification out of it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I totally agree about it totally depending on the person. It’s not anything to do with me, just more a curiosity that popped into my head. I’ve been in a couple in the lifestyle and I enjoyed every element of seeing someone else pleasuring her and thankfully was not the reason the relationship ended or anything. On the other hand I guess I wouldn’t have the same feelings if it was something behind my back. Just wondering if that would be the general view

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can safely say I don't like either, her with a woman is tolerable but I gain no gratification out of it

I’m sure you’re a selfless old romantic at heart

By *lackByLoveCouple
over a year ago

London

One side of me is so curious to see her reaction. The other side is unsure of my own reaction. I often think about dogging safely and inviting a cute guy for soft touches and maybe more soft