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By *layboy101 OP   Man
over a year ago

brum

Hi guys, I know its gotta be the most commonly discussed issue within the forum but I'm looking for some help as I'm stuck. I don't have any luck with receiving messages or replies from other members. I admit that I'm not one of those who will dedicate lots of time and effort into doing so but I do log on every now and again and send the odd message to a lady or a couple who may catch my eye. In months of doing this I have probably received a maximum of 4 maybe 5 replies and none are reciprocal. I have tried all manner of approaches and just wanted to know what a couple or a lady generally look for in a message from a single lad. If you bothered reading all the way to the end of this then thanks and hope to read your replies soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is outnumbered with single Males, so there's quite a bit of competition. Good luck.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I admit that I'm not one of those who will dedicate lots of time and effort into doing so but I do log on every now and again and send the odd message to a lady or a couple who may catch my eye. "

You've really answered your own question there. You'll get out of the site what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself known in the forums.. Quitea welcoming comunity here..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Chat on the forums. Be patient. Be nice. Nice things happen to nice guys .....eventually

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By *ovingit2012Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I find its hit and miss... i tend to go at this site as a place to meet and conversate and the meets come naturally. Ive met some fantastic people that way.. believe me your soon start getting meets...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


" If you bothered reading all the way to the end of this then thanks and hope to read your replies soon "

It was hard work and nearly gave me a headache

Your profile and post on this thread seem so intense, try putting what you are trying to say into paragraphs, it's much easier to read.

In response to your original question, it does take time and effort to get a meet, but as has already been mentioned guys outnumber gals

Be patient, your time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over a year?...well..I'd say u havent been proactive enough

profile wise..a better range of pics might help

clubs and socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"over a year?...well..I'd say u havent been proactive enough

profile wise..a better range of pics might help

clubs and socials"

sorry just seen uve been to clubs, such as chameleons... I just dont know why u havent asked if there is someone who uve played with thats on fab

itd help getting some recognition at least, as ur only verify is from a male and via webcam

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