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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen

self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen

self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it "

After 2 hours sleep im avoiding my reflection at all costs today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen

self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it

After 2 hours sleep im avoiding my reflection at all costs today. "

Awww hugs on the 2 hours sleep know that all to well hopefully you get some sleep to night

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Spare a thought for the vampires of this world...no self reflection for them..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spare a thought for the vampires of this world...no self reflection for them.. "

Ha ha it was more a feel good post as I took a little 2 days away to self reflect on something

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think it’s a good thing to do from time to time. There is a knack to it and finding the balance is key, otherwise too much self reflection can make you feel a bit meh. But done proper, it’s cathartic.

Hope you feel better for it Natalie x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Right I've reflected on with enjoying my day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s a good thing to do from time to time. There is a knack to it and finding the balance is key, otherwise too much self reflection can make you feel a bit meh. But done proper, it’s cathartic.

Hope you feel better for it Natalie x"

Thanks yes your right it can be and yes I feel lot better woken up and released that effort maybe best spent elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right I've reflected on with enjoying my day "

Hopefully you have a good day

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Right I've reflected on with enjoying my day

Hopefully you have a good day "
not sunny today maybe tomorrow

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes as long as you don't get stuck in it or start a negative train of thought. Try to be as kind to yourself as you would to your best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as long as you don't get stuck in it or start a negative train of thought. Try to be as kind to yourself as you would to your best friend."

We are often nicer and more accepting of friends than we are ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes as long as you don't get stuck in it or start a negative train of thought. Try to be as kind to yourself as you would to your best friend."

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, can’t be arsed with that. I just bumble my way from day to day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen

self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it "

Totally agree..

You gain (sometimes) a better perspective and can plan a few changes to better yourself or deal with something ..

But, NEVER forget, You're not alone and sometimes it's good to talk to someone else as well for another view/direction

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a balancing act. It's good to be self aware, to learn, to grow. I think most people benefit from it.

If you start hearing things like "oh, you're so self aware" from people who know about these things... maybe you should lay off the navel gazing for awhile, because it can become self perpetuating and have diminishing returns. (Ask me how I know etc )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, can’t be arsed with that. I just bumble my way from day to day. "

Can be good from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a balancing act. It's good to be self aware, to learn, to grow. I think most people benefit from it.

If you start hearing things like "oh, you're so self aware" from people who know about these things... maybe you should lay off the navel gazing for awhile, because it can become self perpetuating and have diminishing returns. (Ask me how I know etc )"

It can be a balancing act that is for sure

And yes sometimes it can have

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.

I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.

I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !! "

Same here I try my best to not offend anyone

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.

I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !!

Same here I try my best to not offend anyone "
you can't please all of the people all of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.

I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !!

Same here I try my best to not offend anyone you can't please all of the people all of the time "

Unfortunately it’s in my nature to try to

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