FabSwingers.com forum: What annoys you about fabbers

By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I am getting really fed up that despite my profile stating that I don't accomodate people on here are constantly starting conversations with me and then trying to put pressure on me to host.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they don’t wanna fuck me.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Annoying isn't it OP when people think they can just invite themselves round!

I think just the sense of entitlement gets to me, like the "it's a shame, we could have had so much fun" type thing... No we couldn't, I'm not attracted to you!

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good ones live so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they all want me

Its a curse

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

That they send olddd pics dated 2021

Expose themselves that they haven't bothered to read profiles

Neither have they made an effort to put a decent profile together

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol."

I have a trick for that, it’s quite simple.

I’ll teach you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That 99% of people don't read your profile or just simply ignore it and "message anyway"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying isn't it OP when people think they can just invite themselves round!

I think just the sense of entitlement gets to me, like the "it's a shame, we could have had so much fun" type thing... No we couldn't, I'm not attracted to you!"

Thats common. N Should be plastered all over bill boards.

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

Those who hurl insults and instantly denand respect afterwards. Like really?

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

When they wink at you then don't say anything.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

"When they wink at you then don't say anything. "

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message.

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By *amegal2Woman
over a year ago

surprise

Stop.... The ones who also message... In town for one night Want me to come over.... No freddy krueger your not welcome hahaha

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By *amegal2Woman
over a year ago

surprise

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message."

No sorry... A wink means nothing... I ignore all winks and friend requests without contact. A wink to me is a friend who you may have stopped texting for a period of time for what ever reason.... Reminding u of their interest. A wink from a stranger , a lazy ass attempt to strike a conversation. Not for me

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message."
ws start the conversation and they don't say anything, that's the annoying part.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message.

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a message is much more welcomed. Random friend requests from us are always ignored too.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I can't host because my daughter lives with me so luckily I don't get any pressure. But they try to persuade me that distance doesnt matter. It does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in charge OP, don't put up with any nonsense. Simply delete those who fail to understand and or respect your prerequisites.

I don't block anyone just delete which works a treat.

No need to let anyone get u down, concentrate your efforts on genuine peeps who've taken the trouble to read and understand your profile.

Peeps who respect your wishes, they're the ones worthy of your time.

Best wishes...

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Annoying isn't it OP when people think they can just invite themselves round!

I think just the sense of entitlement gets to me, like the "it's a shame, we could have had so much fun" type thing... No we couldn't, I'm not attracted to you!"

Omg this, like you're missing out big time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 99% of people don't read your profile or just simply ignore it and "message anyway""

This. It’s so annoying.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message. ws start the conversation and they don't say anything, that's the annoying part. "

Yeah that is weird then.

But a wink is an indicator of interest.

If you wink back, I can write you a message and take it from there, knowing that there is at least a baseline of interest. 95% of messages are being ignored here, why should I make any more effort and compose a message for 3-5 minutes just so it's thrown out, unread or just completely ignored?

The profile and pics are for a first impression, a message shouldn't be the be all for generating attraction.

And since women and couples go through their profiles and only open the interesting ones, why shouldn't they do the same with winks?

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message. ws start the conversation and they don't say anything, that's the annoying part.

Yeah that is weird then.

But a wink is an indicator of interest.

The profile and pics are for a first impression, a message shouldn't be the be all for generating attraction.

And since women and couples go through their profiles and only open the interesting ones, why shouldn't they do the same with winks?

Look through them and what strikes the eye will be opened, and if it suits, they can send a wink back. No need to write a message themselves (in what world would we live if women would write first messages am I right?)."
I think you're missing our point here what's annoying is when someone winks at you, you message them back (initiating the conversation) and they don't reply.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I think the question that's easier to answer is what doesn't annoy you about fabbers

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message. ws start the conversation and they don't say anything, that's the annoying part.

Yeah that is weird then.

But a wink is an indicator of interest.

The profile and pics are for a first impression, a message shouldn't be the be all for generating attraction.

And since women and couples go through their profiles and only open the interesting ones, why shouldn't they do the same with winks?

Look through them and what strikes the eye will be opened, and if it suits, they can send a wink back. No need to write a message themselves (in what world would we live if women would write first messages am I right?). I think you're missing our point here what's annoying is when someone winks at you, you message them back (initiating the conversation) and they don't reply. "

Would you like to see a system where you can only message if there is mutual winks?

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message. ws start the conversation and they don't say anything, that's the annoying part.

Yeah that is weird then.

But a wink is an indicator of interest.

The profile and pics are for a first impression, a message shouldn't be the be all for generating attraction.

And since women and couples go through their profiles and only open the interesting ones, why shouldn't they do the same with winks?

Look through them and what strikes the eye will be opened, and if it suits, they can send a wink back. No need to write a message themselves (in what world would we live if women would write first messages am I right?). I think you're missing our point here what's annoying is when someone winks at you, you message them back (initiating the conversation) and they don't reply.

Would you like to see a system where you can only message if there is mutual winks? "
I wouldn't go that far. If someone has winked at you they clearly like what they see. So why wouldn't they respond to a message that you've sent back? I really don't get it.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Being so handsome, it's a curse.

And trying to deal with the thousands of messages I get on a daily basis

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Being so handsome, it's a curse.

And trying to deal with the thousands of messages I get on a daily basis

Welcome to my world ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some pictures of some horrible growlers that women think are sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some pictures of some horrible growlers that women think are sexy!!"

What are "growlers" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their love garden

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"That they all want me

Its a curse"

Because TVs in the bedroom are very popular these days

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Nothing annoys me, sorry

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

People who whinge, I think people forget they’re adults.

The mr.

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By *ussinboots1888Couple
over a year ago

bradford

How unbelievably desperate some are for “fabs”

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

They wink..then you message them ..they ignore you..they have friends photos that are the same ones they have as public ones..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They always want the sex, that's bloody annoying at times.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

That they don't examine their own behaviours and always point the finger, referring to 'they' and 'them' as if they are not part of the same pool of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me that I clearly say in my profile u won't meet unverified men, so they ask me to be their first verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people clearly don't read your profile. Then get stroppy/abusive when I say I won't meet them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Being so handsome, it's a curse.

And trying to deal with the thousands of messages I get on a daily basis

I can see that Enzo. It must be difficult for you.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

The nonsense that some just swallow

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

How ignorant and rude some are!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"That 99% of people don't read your profile or just simply ignore it and "message anyway""

This is the number one frustration for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol."

Best advice I’ve ever had from a very talented photographer, take a video of yourself instead doing various poses and natural movements. Then screen shoot your best shots and hey presto you got yourself great pictures without having to set the timer 20 million times

you’re welcome

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Their views are all that counts…..learn every day people…..

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

All the fake people on here. Looking at ur pics or talk about it on here. U message them and don't even have the decency to reply

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol.

you’re welcome "

I’ve heard this also…..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The self entitlement many have.

Mrs

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"All the fake people on here. Looking at ur pics or talk about it on here. U message them and don't even have the decency to reply "

There are threads about this…. Please look and you will become wiser…..

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

That most women inbox is filled with knob pics and messages from knobs that its genuine message fail to get read. Or that some women leave message marked unread if you don't want to respond just delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who start a conversation with you,everything's going well(so you think) then they just disappear or ghost you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The fab scale of BS acceptance dependant on how "hot" they are and how much of a forum celeb they may be.

Enablers and apologists for cuntish behaviour.

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message. ws start the conversation and they don't say anything, that's the annoying part.

Yeah that is weird then.

But a wink is an indicator of interest.

The profile and pics are for a first impression, a message shouldn't be the be all for generating attraction.

And since women and couples go through their profiles and only open the interesting ones, why shouldn't they do the same with winks?

Look through them and what strikes the eye will be opened, and if it suits, they can send a wink back. No need to write a message themselves (in what world would we live if women would write first messages am I right?). I think you're missing our point here what's annoying is when someone winks at you, you message them back (initiating the conversation) and they don't reply.

Would you like to see a system where you can only message if there is mutual winks? I wouldn't go that far. If someone has winked at you they clearly like what they see. So why wouldn't they respond to a message that you've sent back? I really don't get it. "

I have to admit that I simply keep forgetting to wink back, it's not the fact I have no interest or rude I just don't remember a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the hot ones are too far away!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"The fab scale of BS acceptance dependant on how "hot" they are and how much of a forum celeb they may be.

Enablers and apologists for cuntish behaviour. "

That's a general people thing to be fair, just applied to a fab setting. But man has a point.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

That's on you for feeling so entitled about how everyone has to come to you, and you never have to say hi first. Bit of a princess, aren't you?

Your name calling was uncalled for, and shows your personality tbh!

Single fems get so many messages that winks are simply lost. I've never looked at winks! "

We bulk delete winks and it says this in our profile so anyone who winks hasn't read it so we wouldn't be interested anyway. Expecting the recipient of a wink to read hundreds of profiles to decide if there's interest and wink or message back is unrealistic.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

All the time wasters.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

That's on you for feeling so entitled about how everyone has to come to you, and you never have to say hi first. Bit of a princess, aren't you?

Your name calling was uncalled for, and shows your personality tbh!

Single fems get so many messages that winks are simply lost. I've never looked at winks!

I will use all the tools available unless the profile states something and at the end of it all no reply means no ….

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol.

I have a trick for that, it’s quite simple.

I’ll teach you

Thank you, please do!

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By *ivek68Man
over a year ago

york

People that chat are miles away .

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

Single males who aren't single. It just pisses me off when they're not upfront. It's just wasted time that none of us have.

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol.

you’re welcome "

Thank you, but you lost me at poses lol. I have no idea what poses are good for photos - it's hard for me to properly smile in an artificial setting even! But it sounds like a good idea to avoid fumbling with the camera timer, yes.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"That 99% of people don't read your profile or just simply ignore it and "message anyway""

My problem is 99% of people do read my profile and don't message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male profiles with no public pics and no details about themselves, but then they complain how hard it is to meet women.

If we know nothing about you, how is that going to spark interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Demanding exceptional males when they look like a bag of yoghurt.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

"That they all want me

Its a curse"

You definitely ooze sex appeal, it’s a tough life

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Demanding exceptional males when they look like a bag of yoghurt."

Jesus if it's bad up there welcome to London!

However it's fine, most people are fine. It's just the arrogant ones that I think are abit...shit?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"The good ones live so far away "

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

"That 99% of people don't read your profile or just simply ignore it and "message anyway""

This.

But if they can't respect what's on my profile, they ain't getting in my bed. Delete. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Demanding exceptional males when they look like a bag of yoghurt."

A bag of yoghurt

I may use this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they can’t leave me alone, constant messaging and sending fanny and tit pics

And then my alarm wakes me up to start another great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop.... The ones who also message... In town for one night Want me to come over.... No freddy krueger your not welcome hahaha "

this is one pet hate of mine too op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silhouette

Not verified by photo

Fill this in later job.. Lazy

Says Athletic but photos show otherwise

2008 photo sent.. Mini size or blurred

Ghosting

Dishonesty this more than ever

Not declaring you are married in profile and having to ask then.. Oh does this bother you.

My list is not exhaustive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop.... The ones who also message... In town for one night Want me to come over.... No freddy krueger you’re not welcome hahaha "

This! I also reckon though that half the time they’re not even passing through - they actually live relatively close by but use this as a get-out clause should they want to see you, shall we say, very infrequently on their terms!

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"When they wink at you then don't say anything.

I do that. It means if you are interested, too, show it. Either wink back or write a message.

That's on you for feeling so entitled about how everyone has to come to you, and you never have to say hi first. Bit of a princess, aren't you?"

I get more responses from winks than messages. Due to being single male on Fab. Females , couples as a lot of posts on forums. About the amount of mail they get ? . Yes a lot do ignore winks. But if profiles wink back. Then I send message. Plus can refer to wink in heading. So hopefully message is read.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

For me choosing to either ignore or not bothering to read the bio and try their luck. Then puzzled why not received a response

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Their stupid sexy shenanigans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you filter out profiles without a public photo, so they quickly make one public to bypass your filters and then remove it

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"When you filter out profiles without a public photo, so they quickly make one public to bypass your filters and then remove it

Oh that’s like a plaque!

It annoys the hell out of me. I straight block them as I find it a serious case of crossing boundaries and not respecting my preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a long list but I'm not sure I'd describe it as being annoyed. It doesn't get under my skin enough to use that term.

But most of what is listed above, lack of info or honesty mainly. But my profile is closed down because I simply cannot be arsed with deleting the lack of info dishonest messages. It's a waste of time.

What does annoy me though is when people take constant swipes at you and are accusing you of doing exactly what they are doing...usually attention seeking. Some people need to take a good long hard look at themselves and the way behave and ask themselves really how people view them before they try taking out the competition.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

"The good ones live so far away "

Sorry

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

People not reading profiles annoy me.

On ours we ask don't send messages that say "hi" or "wanna fuck" or if you don't have pictures on your profile we will not answer n yet the messages from these people come fooding in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not invested enough to be annoyed

Saying that whiners. Constant whiners.

Tones

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

All the “Am I gay?” threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All talk and no trousers

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"All the “Am I gay?” threads. "
well are you?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Preconceived cliches about solo male profiles….

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"All the hot ones are too far away! "

This Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women never intention to meet up just here to perv and waste time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many things as am sure many things about me annoy some I try to chat to.

But those who send one word messages and when look at profile can't understand why they messaged me

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

"All the “Am I gay?” threads. well are you?

I don’t believe so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The nonsense that some just swallow "

Is that annoyance or pity though?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The recent rise in folk mooning around the forum like love sick puppies.

“Pick me, pick me”

Get a grip people or at least take it to private messages.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

What annoys me about fabbers is what annoys me about people in general.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

So many people moaning on tbe forum (i appreciate i am kinda doing that right now) but shouldnt this place be lighthearted and fun.

Also the frequent, 'I am leaving' posts. just go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does OP stand for?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What does OP stand for?"

Opening Post/Poster

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"The nonsense that some just swallow

Is that annoyance or pity though?

The nonsense that some will only spit….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does OP stand for?"

Original Poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am getting really fed up that despite my profile stating that I don't accomodate people on here are constantly starting conversations with me and then trying to put pressure on me to host."

I believe that these people know perfectly well that you can’t accomodate. It’s all just a silly game that the legions of keyboard wankers and attention seekers play.

I get loads of requests to meet from guys who disappear the moment i say yes.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I am getting really fed up that despite my profile stating that I don't accomodate people on here are constantly starting conversations with me and then trying to put pressure on me to host.

I believe that these people know perfectly well that you can’t accomodate. It’s all just a silly game that the legions of keyboard wankers and attention seekers play.

I get loads of requests to meet from guys who disappear the moment i say yes. "

I bet that makes you smile every time.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"So many people moaning on tbe forum (i appreciate i am kinda doing that right now) but shouldnt this place be lighthearted and fun.

Also the frequent, 'I am leaving' posts. just go"

Define fun. Then does your definition of fun fit other persons fun?

I expect not.

As for lighthearted. It's a place for discussion, not an echo chamber of yes men having a circle jerk and smelling each others darts and agreeing they are perfection.

Discussion comes with conflict and friction. Emotional and passionate, wether that be heated or logical and civilised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people looking to "make content". No, I don't want to be your OnlyFans stunt cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nothing to do with fabbers, it's just people, people annoy me -_- I was fine until I worked with the public then I realised most people are cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on…

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"It's nothing to do with fabbers, it's just people, people annoy me -_- I was fine until I worked with the public then I realised most people are cunts

I knew there was a reason I liked you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me about fabbers?

As you asked ….

Hypocrisy.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

People form mini gangs mostly in support of one beautiful/sexy/troubled woman and try to bully you i hate that...... No i don't i enjoy that..... Its the natural way they've found a woman who appeals to them and that they appeal to so they naturally are vying for their attention, thing is do they get it

well do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's nothing to do with fabbers, it's just people, people annoy me -_- I was fine until I worked with the public then I realised most people are cunts

I knew there was a reason I liked you! "

This and I deal in blunt truths!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people looking to "make content". No, I don't want to be your OnlyFans stunt cock

is that a website?….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does OP stand for?

Original Poster "

Thank you….

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"What does OP stand for?

Original Poster

Thank you…."
Only Penis

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Random friends requests from people we've never even spoke to never mind met. Its not just single guys either, we get loads from couples and a few from single females

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

To many shallow people.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

When guys who are perfect strangers think it's funny to suggest I do what I do for work, for them

one bloke couldn't understand why I wasn't interested!

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

1. (Mainly) single fellas who have no self-awareness and bemoan the fact they can't get a meet. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but take a long, hard look in the mirror. Work on your personality because your looks aren't cutting it.

2. Guys who start a thread asking women do they prefer A or B, never state their preference, and then agree with whatever a woman says.

3. People (mainly men) who say "Shame you don't live closer

". Why? Just because you're within 5 miles of someone doesn't mean they're going to fuck you

4. Guys who say the fakes, creeps, time wasters etc spoil it for them. No they don't. You spoil it for you because you're not standing out and don't take notice of the numerous advice giving threads.

5. Women who brag about not having trouble getting meets. Get over yourselves, Quasimodo's uglier sister would have no trouble getting attention from men on here.

6. TGs/TVs/CDs who respond to threads asking for a woman's opinion on something as if they've had experience from a woman's point of view. Come on now, let's get real...

7. Couples who are looking to full swap with couples and have no pic of their fella (dick pics don't count) It doesn't matter how 'professional' you think you are your employer/clients aren't going to recognise you naked. You can blur distinguishing mark marks/tattoos you know.

That's it for now. If I think of any more I'll be back.

Frank

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"1. (Mainly) single fellas who have no self-awareness and bemoan the fact they can't get a meet. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but take a long, hard look in the mirror. Work on your personality because your looks aren't cutting it.

2. Guys who start a thread asking women do they prefer A or B, never state their preference, and then agree with whatever a woman says.

3. People (mainly men) who say "Shame you don't live closer

". Why? Just because you're within 5 miles of someone doesn't mean they're going to fuck you

4. Guys who say the fakes, creeps, time wasters etc spoil it for them. No they don't. You spoil it for you because you're not standing out and don't take notice of the numerous advice giving threads.

5. Women who brag about not having trouble getting meets. Get over yourselves, Quasimodo's uglier sister would have no trouble getting attention from men on here.

6. TGs/TVs/CDs who respond to threads asking for a woman's opinion on something as if they've had experience from a woman's point of view. Come on now, let's get real...

That's it for now. If I think of any more I'll be back.

Frank

All of this yes!!

Kink (female)

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've just had one now, telling me to come to the hotel now

honestly, what goes through their minds?

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"I am getting really fed up that despite my profile stating that I don't accomodate people on here are constantly starting conversations with me and then trying to put pressure on me to host."

This 100%. I can’t accommodate nor travel & state it very clearly on my profile yet the vast majority still push me on it. My life. My rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks and random friend requests from people with zero photos public or friend only! What do they expect will happen?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and being accused of being a fake profile just because I didn’t respond to someone/didn’t want to meet them.

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By *y the cCouple
over a year ago

guernsey

"Oh and being accused of being a fake profile just because I didn’t respond to someone/didn’t want to meet them.

We had this which is disappointing at the time but he was obviously not for us so blocked him.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I've just had one now, telling me to come to the hotel now

honestly, what goes through their minds? "
he's lonely he just needs company

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The people looking to "make content". No, I don't want to be your OnlyFans stunt cock

Stunt cock.

I needed that laugh

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By *y the cCouple
over a year ago

guernsey

People asking for kik Snapchat etc then just vanish when we tell them we don’t have it. I can’t see what’s wrong with messaging on here. Jim

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By *b32Man
over a year ago

yorkshire

Nothing annoys me more than when someone doesn’t finish their

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

"Oh and being accused of being a fake profile just because I didn’t respond to someone/didn’t want to meet them.

"
no thanks then block. No issues, it's quick and to the point.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Lamp post pissers.

Lamp posts.

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"People asking for kik Snapchat etc then just vanish when we tell them we don’t have it. I can’t see what’s wrong with messaging on here. Jim"

This ^^^ sane,no messaging apps etc but not good enough apparently. Ho hum

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Their appalling music taste

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I've just had one now, telling me to come to the hotel now

honestly, what goes through their minds? he's lonely he just needs company

Well I'm not a free sex worker, so tough.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I've just had one now, telling me to come to the hotel now

honestly, what goes through their minds? he's lonely he just needs company

Well I'm not a free sex worker, so tough. "
did he say he wanted SEX?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Will fill in later

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

Blokes that contact me via Kik despite not openly advertising I have it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that expect you to make all the effort in arranging a meet and accommodation and its got to be when they are free. No flexibility.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Their inability to not get personal

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Sweeping ignorant generalisations about groups of people. Particularly from people one might assume were more open minded.

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

That alot her are not actually swingers, and then get offended when you say you don't just want a fuck or a ons.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Those who assume all women are bi,even when told otherwise.

Couple profiles that just feature the woman & maybe a cock pic,when they're after other couples.

Liars who change their age for a filter.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonko gets on my wick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re super judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don’t read my profile and assume because I’m a single guy on here I’m not allowed to have any standards and should be grateful for any interaction or interest …. I would genuinely rather never meet anyone again than to meet the wrong ones !!!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Sweeping ignorant generalisations about groups of people. Particularly from people one might assume were more open minded."

I know, right? They *all* do that.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

People (single ladies) complaining about having hundreds of emails everyday.

I don't doubt it happens.

But not setting up filters, and being proactive about approaching the people they are interested in.

They can do something about the 'problem ' but prefer to bask in the adulation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People (single ladies) complaining about having hundreds of emails everyday.

I don't doubt it happens.

But not setting up filters, and being proactive about approaching the people they are interested in.

They can do something about the 'problem ' but prefer to bask in the adulation."

I think most do that in fairness … they take the time to write a profile that not many obviously read and I guarantee singles and couples block guys even though they are looking for the right ones just to stop all the wrong ones from sending pointless junk mail and cock pics … I’m sure you’ll find out from the responses here anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message you to say.. Too far. Like Kent is on the other side of the world.. But moan about no messages

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"People (single ladies) complaining about having hundreds of emails everyday.

I don't doubt it happens.

But not setting up filters, and being proactive about approaching the people they are interested in.

They can do something about the 'problem ' but prefer to bask in the adulation."

Ugh... It's hard to be interested in people (men) when they make so little effort with their profiles. It's mostly just a sea of dick pics and that's not what the majority of us base our attraction on.

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By *amegal2Woman
over a year ago

surprise

"I've just had one now, telling me to come to the hotel now

honestly, what goes through their minds? "

I had one after this state.... I'm at X fancy giving me head.... I replied quite sarcastically but he missed it telling him I was already at X point doing the rounds come on over. I did point out I was not serious nor was I there or willing and then blocked. Just Incase I was accused of arranging a fake meet with a black silhouette that I'd never spoken to in my life, cause he's a professional yano

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hate of younger people (not specifically younger people on fab) feels unique and boring on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cliques

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

"That they're so much better at taking pictures than I am!

If someone would like to teach me how to take a selfie, and how to take pictures in general - please feel free to ping me lol.

I have a trick for that, it’s quite simple.

I’ll teach you

Would you run a group tutorial?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who ignore the warning message that you’ve not replied to the first twenty billion messages and send a few more

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the general inability of some to actually read your profile before firing messages off at you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who ignore the warning message that you’ve not replied to the first twenty billion messages and send a few more "

It's a massive yellow banner! They're just so entitled they think they're more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they don’t wanna fuck me.

What this guy said haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Sydney University disclaimer

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

Frank

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By *onzoDog74Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Nothing much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

Frank"

Better to add a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The expectation of me to carry the conversation even though they got in touch first

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

Frank"

I was just about to say nothing really winds me up much on here but then I saw this. This does. Especially when it follows “have a nice day/evening” after an argument. There’s no need for it at the end of a sentence. Dunno why it annoys me but it does

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"The Sydney University disclaimer

It's better than the Facebook one!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

Frank

It's when it's used to drill home a point it gets annoying for me that one pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who specifically need to see the words ‘thanks but no thanks’ before they realise you’re actually not interested, because the site FAQ’s must be wrong and the last 38 messages you deleted mean nothing. Silly behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

Frank

. "

How else am I going to get the last word in to keep my fragile pride intact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

Frank"
I see it more of an ‘understood?’ or an ‘over and out’.

Fascinating how differently things can be interpreted

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Just the general inability of some to actually read your profile before firing messages off at you.."

Most I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random man: Hey do you want your cock sucked?

Me: No thanks, but have a good day

Random man: You sure? Haha

Me: Quite sure thanks, have a good day!

Random man: Ah go on, you’ll like it. I can suck cock better than any woman

Me: I’m straight straight, not Fab straight but thanks for the interest. Anyway, have a good day!

Random man: Haha it’ll be the best BJ you’ve ever had …

And so on and so on ..

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By *amegal2Woman
over a year ago

surprise

"Random man: Hey do you want your cock sucked?

Me: No thanks, but have a good day

Random man: You sure? Haha

Me: Quite sure thanks, have a good day!

Random man: Ah go on, you’ll like it. I can suck cock better than any woman

Me: I’m straight straight, not Fab straight but thanks for the interest. Anyway, have a good day!

Random man: Haha it’ll be the best BJ you’ve ever had …

And so on and so on .. "

I suck cock and get this off people iv never messaged once

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Absolutely nothing even opinions based on press releases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those annoying twats that like to get post 175

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ta da!!

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Self entitled people are my bugbear not everyone wants whats to suck your cock now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those annoying twats that like to get post 175"
and those that surpass them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Those annoying twats that like to get post 175

and those that surpass them "

Yeah. Them. They’re the worst!!

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"8. People who put a

after their own message. Correct me if I'm wrong but

is a thumbs up to indicate you agree with something? Why are you going to put a

after your own message? Surely that's for A.N Other to do?

FrankI see it more of an ‘understood?’ or an ‘over and out’.

Fascinating how differently things can be interpreted

Interesting take on the

but, 'over and out' means end of conversation, nothing more to be said. Is that what you actually mean when you put a

? You don't expect any response to what you've just said?

Frank

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"" Those annoying twats that like to get post 175

and those that surpass them "

Yeah. Them. They’re the worst!!

Less and less bothers me about Fab Swingers (now Fabguys and especially its forum - that's different lol) - I'm very philosophical about it. Especially cancelled meets - most of the time it's just 'life' surely (even regarding desire really), and what should always be half-expected imo.

What does often cheese me off though - often via disappointment - is people who 'name and shame' supposed 'timewasters'. I just find it a) a massive turnoff (personal, angry profiles... mmmm sexy), and b) a bit worrying! Not that I let people down often at all (it has happened alas), I just find it all a bit coercive. Nothing is worse that non completely-consensually happy meets guys, so why make such a deal of forcing anything? I just half expect things to fizzle out, but hope to be surprised.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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over a year ago

Cardiff

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