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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A little check in for all those who aren't feeling okay atm, feel free to pm if it would help

No pressure though as always

Hope you have the best day and remember how incredible you are

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I'm good thanks, but just bumping it up the list to make it more visible

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"A little check in for all those who aren't feeling okay atm, feel free to pm if it would help

No pressure though as always

Hope you have the best day and remember how incredible you are "

Monday not so good. Today I’m better. Hope you’re ok & great topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. But we carry on.

F

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

In the middle of a stressful week, work-wise, so could be better. Muddling through. Thanks for asking. Hope you're doing OK OP.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm absolutely marvellous.

Hugs are free of charge today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This morning I was great &

This afternoon I broke down into tears for no apparent reason F**king menopause!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Drained and just a bit meh things

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm ok, bit stressed this week but nothing I can't handle. Got my nails done today though so I'm feeling all feminine and stuff

Em x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm good thanks, but just bumping it up the list to make it more visible "

I'm glad to hear that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A little check in for all those who aren't feeling okay atm, feel free to pm if it would help

No pressure though as always

Hope you have the best day and remember how incredible you are

Monday not so good. Today I’m better. Hope you’re ok & great topic "

Sounds like a bit of progress though. Hope you carry on having a better week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meh. But we carry on.

F"

Anything in particular meh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the middle of a stressful week, work-wise, so could be better. Muddling through. Thanks for asking. Hope you're doing OK OP."

Glad you're muddling though, here for a chat if you don't want to go at it alone though.

I'm good, thank you for asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm absolutely marvellous.

Hugs are free of charge today. "

I bet most wish they were free everyday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This morning I was great &

This afternoon I broke down into tears for no apparent reason F**king menopause!!"

Sounds rough, hope you're doing a little better as the afternoon wears on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thread OP I’m spot on today thanks hope you are to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Drained and just a bit meh things"

Anything in particular causing this?

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Not too bad at the moment last week I was very much in the low section

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm having a shit couple of days and feel like I could burst in to tears all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dickheads at work that need throat punching and or water boarding, part from that all gravy baby "

I can't say I condone the violence although I assume it was more a figure of speech than anything else.

Glad you're good apart from that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm ok, bit stressed this week but nothing I can't handle. Got my nails done today though so I'm feeling all feminine and stuff

Em x"

I'm sure your nails look cute af, glad to hear that's cheered you up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice thread OP I’m spot on today thanks hope you are to "

I am thanks, glad to hear you're doing well today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not too bad at the moment last week I was very much in the low section "

Hope you manage to keep it up, was there anything you did to help get you out of the low section?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm having a shit couple of days and feel like I could burst in to tears all the time "

I'm sorry to hear that, inbox is open if you'd like to rant

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm having a shit couple of days and feel like I could burst in to tears all the time

I'm sorry to hear that, inbox is open if you'd like to rant "

I'm sure you don't want to hear me rant but thanks, I appreciate the offer!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm doing really well today - really happy. This time last week I was sad. Like a tired sad if that makes sense? There's an active sad where you're really feeling the sadness and other times there's a resigned sad.

But now? I don't know. Things are good. I'm focusing on the positive and remembering the more open I am to receiving happiness the more readily I find it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm having a shit couple of days and feel like I could burst in to tears all the time

I'm sorry to hear that, inbox is open if you'd like to rant

I'm sure you don't want to hear me rant but thanks, I appreciate the offer! "

I'd love nothing more if you think it would help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm doing really well today - really happy. This time last week I was sad. Like a tired sad if that makes sense? There's an active sad where you're really feeling the sadness and other times there's a resigned sad.

But now? I don't know. Things are good. I'm focusing on the positive and remembering the more open I am to receiving happiness the more readily I find it. "

I often find that positivity breeds positivity, I'm glad things have picked up for you and you're doing well

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I've been better but things could be worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been better but things could be worse "

If you'd like to rant I'm here

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I've been better but things could be worse

If you'd like to rant I'm here "

Cheers man, not really rant, more just low. I just need to focus on the positives and all that mullarkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drained and just a bit meh things"

Can relate to this ^^^^

I'm equally not sure if I want to/ have the energy to:

a) Scream out loud in a field

b) Hit something without damaging my hand)

c) Have a good cry

d) a,b & c

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Always good, always smiling.

The mr

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Drained and just a bit meh things

Can relate to this ^^^^

I'm equally not sure if I want to/ have the energy to:

a) Scream out loud in a field

b) Hit something without damaging my hand)

c) Have a good cry

d) a,b & c

"

Lots of hugs coming your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I considered the benefits of unaliving myself today. Life is somewhat up and down atm. My mental health is always poor during the summer holidays.

But I haven't tried. I won't. It doesn't mean there isn't hope if you think about it. I wouldn't do that to my kids.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head


"I considered the benefits of unaliving myself today. Life is somewhat up and down atm. My mental health is always poor during the summer holidays.

But I haven't tried. I won't. It doesn't mean there isn't hope if you think about it. I wouldn't do that to my kids. "

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Tbh nope slowly losing grip on reality and my a.d.d is really kicking in recently I've become a recluse and tbh I don't really know what to do

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Wasn't the best Monday or Tuesday, but was just holiday drop after great weekend.

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton

Not massively. Very up and down at the moment. Pushing myself harder in gym to make myself feel better

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I'm always surrounded by people but yet I feel so alone most of the time and I feel like although on the outside I'm quiet and smiling inside I'm screaming in pain

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"I considered the benefits of unaliving myself today. Life is somewhat up and down atm. My mental health is always poor during the summer holidays.

But I haven't tried. I won't. It doesn't mean there isn't hope if you think about it. I wouldn't do that to my kids. "

Always here to chat with if you need

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Meh! Kinda of the edge of keeping happy and smiling and not letting anxiety kick my arse but it's playing a hard game.

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"I considered the benefits of unaliving myself today. Life is somewhat up and down atm. My mental health is always poor during the summer holidays.

But I haven't tried. I won't. It doesn't mean there isn't hope if you think about it. I wouldn't do that to my kids. "

Here if you ever need to talk

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton

Just putting it out there that my depression is kicking my arse at the moment. I use the gym as therapy. I just want people to know if they need to chat or vent I'm here. Remember we are so damn strong. Even though we may not think it now better things are coming. My inbox always open

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Just putting it out there that my depression is kicking my arse at the moment. I use the gym as therapy. I just want people to know if they need to chat or vent I'm here. Remember we are so damn strong. Even though we may not think it now better things are coming. My inbox always open "

You got this

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

50/50 but away this bank holiday so looking forward to that ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define okay?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely not ok. Been a tough week and had a lot to process

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Just putting it out there that my depression is kicking my arse at the moment. I use the gym as therapy. I just want people to know if they need to chat or vent I'm here. Remember we are so damn strong. Even though we may not think it now better things are coming. My inbox always open

You got this "

Thank you

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"50/50 but away this bank holiday so looking forward to that .."

Always here to chat

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Define okay?"

Here If you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tired and stressed but looking forward to having a day off on Saturday

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

Not in the slightest. Every days a bad day.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"50/50 but away this bank holiday so looking forward to that ..

Always here to chat "

Thank you x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I am amazingly happy atm. I feel settled and content and I only wish my face would show it a little more.

For those of you struggling...keep struggling. You will win in the end. Every nadir is after and before a peak.

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Not in the slightest. Every days a bad day."

Oh anything you want to chat about

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria


"Not in the slightest. Every days a bad day.

Oh anything you want to chat about

"

The way i feel won't change if i'm honest. But i thank you tho

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton


"Not in the slightest. Every days a bad day.

Oh anything you want to chat about

The way i feel won't change if i'm honest. But i thank you tho"

No worries. I'm going through stuff so understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always in a amazing mood. Staying positive even in the darkest days.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"A little check in for all those who aren't feeling okay atm, feel free to pm if it would help

No pressure though as always

Hope you have the best day and remember how incredible you are "

Swings and roundabouts for me. I can have the most funniest chat with a friend and be in fits of giggles.

Then later remember all the things troubling me.

Hey ho onwards we plod anyway.

Hope you are doing well yourself

MrsAbz

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

And yet no one listens because I've become so good at hiding it all even from myself my mind wonders to some dark places therapy doesn't help talking doesn't work medication is pointless

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I hang in there on a daily basis

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"And yet no one listens because I've become so good at hiding it all even from myself my mind wonders to some dark places therapy doesn't help talking doesn't work medication is pointless "

Got 2 faces. One for the world and one for god save me

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I have only 1 but I wear a happy smiley face to disguise my pain I shove it deep down until eventually it'll spill out and well I honestly hope it doesn't get to that point I'm trying to fight back but it's an every day struggle

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I have only 1 but I wear a happy smiley face to disguise my pain I shove it deep down until eventually it'll spill out and well I honestly hope it doesn't get to that point I'm trying to fight back but it's an every day struggle "

I know it's shit isn't it mate

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Yup but sadly life Carrie's on and we all have to just deal with shit

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Yup but sadly life Carrie's on and we all have to just deal with shit "

It's all we can do mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies to those I didn't respond to directly on the forum its been a busy couple of days, I'm all good though but foe those who aren't feeling so good please know my inbox is always open if you feel a chat, rant or anything would be helpful, however as always no pressure at all, just keep doing the things that work for you

Hope you all have the best Bank Holiday weekend and a special shout out to those of you who have to work over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a complete and utter hoofwanking fucknugget of a week, but I'll survive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always thought that this can be a difficult question to answer and will of course generate individual responses.

To anyone looking in from the outside I function most days as a human being and don't seem to have many issues going on apart from what some would say is a lack of self worth, motivation and purpose. To me it goes much deeper than that.

But for now I am still here so will take that as being ok for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always thought that this can be a difficult question to answer and will of course generate individual responses.

To anyone looking in from the outside I function most days as a human being and don't seem to have many issues going on apart from what some would say is a lack of self worth, motivation and purpose. To me it goes much deeper than that.

But for now I am still here so will take that as being ok for now.

"

Just keeping going is an achievement some days. And I know that many friends/family won't get that, but anyone who has struggled will. One foot in front of the other.

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By *aughty usCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Both struggling at mo. Lots of different reasons. But we get each other through every day, despite not living together.

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