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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love him sooooo much and no secrets why doesn't he trust me?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liar!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuz u smell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's swinging why do I need to lie

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Any conflict between lovers is always better in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only he knows why he doesn't trust you.

for me its something i dont do lightly, ive had my fingers majorly burnt in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any conflict between lovers is always better in private"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No possible way any of us can answer your question, you need to talk to "him" and as soemone else has said these things are far better dealt with privately. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps people who can't trust, can't be trusted….!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps people who can't trust, can't be trusted….!. "

I'm not sure I trust you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I have come across people who will never trust anyone, its usually due to their experiences in life and nothing and no one can change their outlook. I have also come across controlling people who use lack of trust as an excuse to exert control over their partner and people who have such low self esteem that they can't see why their partner is with them and imagine everyone their partner meets is so much better than them that it is only a matter of time before they realise this and run off with them. There are also the people who can't be trusted themselves and project that on to everyone else.

I tend to trust almost everyone but I've been lucky and have had very little reason not to in my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps people who can't trust, can't be trusted….!.

I'm not sure I trust you"

Hey, theres no reason why you should ....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Is it cos you wear mahoosive knickers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say i m a bit lost....so you have a boyfriend and you swing alone and you re surprised he has an issue with that? er....hmmm...yup real confused.... maybe i m naive...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Some people genuinely struggle with trusting anybody even if they had no reason to be untrusting, others find it easy to trust even though they may have had their trust broken in the past.

A lot depends on a person feeling secure in themself, having a healthy self esteem and the courage to take the risk that trust may be broken.

I believe that in order to trust somebody you have to like and accept and trust yourself first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Airing private issues such as this can be foolhardy on a public forum, unless its a piss take thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Airing private issues such as this can be foolhardy on a public forum, unless its a piss take thread?"

Or it may be a geniune need for some input from helpful people with other points of _iew, opinions or answers to a particular problem...

Personally.... I find that people who do not trust may have insecurity issues.....

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"It's swinging why do I need to lie "

I think trust is a priviledge enjoyed and not a mandatory right. I think that you need to earn this and also demonstrate clear and unquestionable transparency to a partner in order to enjoy that priviledge.

I think your issue is also private and best not aired in public in detail as has already been said. I also appreciate that you may be looking for an answer on the forum that may guide or re-inforce what you already may believe - so it's a 50/50 thing with a goodly measure of issue ambiguity when it comes to posting an answer to this original post.

Good luck

Wolf

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