FabSwingers.com forum: Am I missing something?

By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs "

This, plus depending on where I am its easier on something like telegram etc than having fab open

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

There are also more nefarious reasons so be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh there's reasons....

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

It shows that the person is serious about meeting. There are lots of fake profiles on here, to take things off the site would make a cat fish shyte themself

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

So I can annoy them more often, and in bigger and better ways!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Another good reason is that if you are using WiFi hotpots or a work WiFi Fab is often banned.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

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ooooo money maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several reasons, though only if we're considering a meet.

Instant notifications, also means we don't have to keep logging in here to check messages and therefore attracting more.

Easier to respond to a message in public than to open up fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever wants to chat with me so it's not something I come across.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

I can see voice notes, maybe. If it made things easier for you...but if someone said that, that would be okay, but no one has, yet...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's easier to have more dynamic conversations outside of the messaging available here.

However, it can also be a way to evade Fab rules, for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the chats on other platforms are private

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

I’m with you on this OP. I’ve never understood it myself either. Whatever makes people happy I suppose

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"There are also more nefarious reasons so be careful. "

I am wary by nature. I had one "couple" who were going to make my dreams come true, apparently. Damn, but they looked good. (Or someone who had no idea who I was looked good). It was all I could do to stop myself sending them my bank details.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Oh there's reasons...."

I'm a bit literal too. Like what?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

I refuse to take the conversation off fab.. on this or my singles profile x

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Memes and gifs are a solid way of communication

Em x

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

I’m with you on this OP. I’ve never understood it myself either. Whatever makes people happy I suppose "

There is something odd about it. You attract someone on this site and then immediately want to take them to another site. Weird, and probably wasting time. Although, I don't consider fantasy about sex a waste!

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

The chat function on here is a relic, like using something from the early 2000s. Having something instant, able to send media, encrypted, multiple recipients, even emoji etc is important. Like being confused why they don't just fax each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh there's reasons....

I'm a bit literal too. Like what?"

Privacy for one.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Notifications

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Because the chats on other platforms are private "

Yeah, but this is the site that already has all their info. And no one who is on here wants the world to know about how much sex they is having. (I wish!) It would be too jealous! Unless you is incel and you want to blow up shit.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Notifications "

Turn them off!

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Oh there's reasons....

I'm a bit literal too. Like what?

Privacy for one."

Come on! This site is called Fabswingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh there's reasons....

I'm a bit literal too. Like what?

Privacy for one.

Come on! This site is called Fabswingers!"

Not what I mean...

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"The chat function on here is a relic, like using something from the early 2000s. Having something instant, able to send media, encrypted, multiple recipients, even emoji etc is important. Like being confused why they don't just fax each other "

Yeah. You have me there. This is a pile of shit designed by nerdy programmers who learnt their craft in 1997! It is the most basic of MS Windows 95 design.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Oh there's reasons....

I'm a bit literal too. Like what?

Privacy for one.

Come on! This site is called Fabswingers!

Sorry, I missed your point. What do you mean? I am curious?

Not what I mean..."

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"I refuse to take the conversation off fab.. on this or my singles profile x "

I'm with you on this. This is okay. Not the best or most modern but okay. I was the same on Grindr, which is a lot better designed, refused to be taken off the app. This is already the 'discrete' space. Why move?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"It's easier to have more dynamic conversations outside of the messaging available here.

However, it can also be a way to evade Fab rules, for some."

You may have hit the nail on the head. There is something not right about it. I never break the rules.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

i dont and we never have ...we do everything via the site np apps no email no phone no cam and it works perfectly ... and we meet often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another good reason is that if you are using WiFi hotpots or a work WiFi Fab is often banned. "

Exactly

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've made some real life friends here - I've got a friend or two where I've had some Big Life video calls. Totally not possible with the messaging function here.

Even if it's not about video clips, impromptu pictures, etc.

Anyone can do what they like, though, and there are certainly some conversations I keep on Fab.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably."

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

The less people messaging me on WhatsApp or telegram the better.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"i dont and we never have ...we do everything via the site np apps no email no phone no cam and it works perfectly ... and we meet often"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's easier to have more dynamic conversations outside of the messaging available here.

However, it can also be a way to evade Fab rules, for some.

You may have hit the nail on the head. There is something not right about it. I never break the rules. "

I've had conversations with Fabbers off Fab that, if they happened on Fab, would break Fab rules.

But not like, "I'm using my connection on Fab to do things that Fab doesn't allow". More "I'm having a conversation with my friend which are limited or banned on a site of this nature"

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Another good reason is that if you are using WiFi hotpots or a work WiFi Fab is often banned.

Exactly "

Rubbish. Never come across this one before. We are not animals. Wait a few minutes. Or even hours!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on. "

There are several things I mentioned that you can't do on fab.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on. "

When I had my message filters open, I would get a lot of crap for being on Fab and not dealing with my inbox. I think there's a gender disparity there

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"No one ever wants to chat with me so it's not something I come across. "

Damn. You look great! But so far away from me. I would definitely chat with you, on this app, of course.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Because I'm actually "Friends" with some people from here.

Some I want the sex with

Some I don't want the sex with

Some I simply enjoy their company, virtual or otherwise.

Some I tolerate but have a mutual bond with

Connections often expand beyond simply wanting to fuck.

As posh said, all those things can then be applied to those I choose (not everyone) to converse with away from here.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on.

When I had my message filters open, I would get a lot of crap for being on Fab and not dealing with my inbox. I think there's a gender disparity there"

I've switched off all notifications. I often miss emails and messages and I don't care. Debating if I should get a dumb phone, but I do love access to the interweb.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Because I'm actually "Friends" with some people from here.

Some I want the sex with

Some I don't want the sex with

Some I simply enjoy their company, virtual or otherwise.

Some I tolerate but have a mutual bond with

Connections often expand beyond simply wanting to fuck.

As posh said, all those things can then be applied to those I choose (not everyone) to converse with away from here."

Sorry, mister. Sometimes being fucking tasty is not enough, you can't get by on looks alone, unless you are Keanu Reeves, of course, what's your point?!

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on.

There are several things I mentioned that you can't do on fab. "

Rubbish. Like what? I need to know what is forboden here!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Memes and gifs are a solid way of communication

Em x "

Yes and this!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs "

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

Not dimissing but not accepting any weird moonlighting stuff either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

Not dimissing but not accepting any weird moonlighting stuff either. "

You've been quite rude to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I'm actually "Friends" with some people from here.

Some I want the sex with

Some I don't want the sex with

Some I simply enjoy their company, virtual or otherwise.

Some I tolerate but have a mutual bond with

Connections often expand beyond simply wanting to fuck.

As posh said, all those things can then be applied to those I choose (not everyone) to converse with away from here."

Note the quotation marks...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

I do most the talking on here.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't you want to chat away from the app?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

Wow

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

the Dromara hills

"It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

I'd crawl over broken glass, naked, carrying a medicine ball between my buttocks to get a voicenote from you. I've heard your accent on one of your video's and still haven't pulled myself together #velvettongued

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

Sorry, perhaps I should have said, this is only for entertainment. I am drinking wine, and my comments will become more 'interesting' as the bottle is d*unk, and all the while my children are wondering where their dinner is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To reverse the question, why are some people so hesitant to take the conversation away from the site?

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably."

This pretty much sums it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s a very easy way to verify that I’m speaking to a woman as we can send each other a voice note/video message and then continue chatting and arranging to meet.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

I think I have a very nice voice! For a second, I thought you were talking about me.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Another good reason is that if you are using WiFi hotpots or a work WiFi Fab is often banned. "

Proton VPN.

Play store or App store.

Free for up to 10Gb of bandwidth per month.

Tested in multiple banned locations including NHS and council free WiFi networks.

You are all welcome.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on.

When I had my message filters open, I would get a lot of crap for being on Fab and not dealing with my inbox. I think there's a gender disparity there

I've switched off all notifications. I often miss emails and messages and I don't care. Debating if I should get a dumb phone, but I do love access to the interweb. "

I don't get Fab notifications. But I'd log in and find people getting angry that I didn't answer their message in a timely manner.

I don't owe people anything, but if I'm on Whatsapp or Telegram or whatever, I don't get that abuse.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"For me it’s a very easy way to verify that I’m speaking to a woman as we can send each other a voice note/video message and then continue chatting and arranging to meet.

Fuck. Damn you. Very sexy photos. You look delicious. I am so confused now! Are you a man or a woman? I need to know. Stop messing with me.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

Wow"

That was a joke and you blocked me!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

Not dimissing but not accepting any weird moonlighting stuff either. "

You're being very dismissive and not actually accepting any answer you've been given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another good reason is that if you are using WiFi hotpots or a work WiFi Fab is often banned.

Proton VPN.

Play store or App store.

Free for up to 10Gb of bandwidth per month.

Tested in multiple banned locations including NHS and council free WiFi networks.

You are all welcome."

Thank you! I'd paid for one for 18 months which has just run out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

Wow

That was a joke and you blocked me!"

Not the only one...

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient"

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here. "

The reason we prefer it all on Fab, is safety first and second there are so many 3rd party messaging apps. Messenger, WhatsApp, Telegram, Kik, Snapchat, Signal, Discord, Wechat, Line, Viber.

No, no, no.

Ones where our real phone number is shown are an automatic no, others are just full of ads or bots.

We have couples we are real long time friends with, who we may swap WhatsApp with, but not some randoms I've never met.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here.

The reason we prefer it all on Fab, is safety first and second there are so many 3rd party messaging apps. Messenger, WhatsApp, Telegram, Kik, Snapchat, Signal, Discord, Wechat, Line, Viber.

No, no, no.

Ones where our real phone number is shown are an automatic no, others are just full of ads or bots.

We have couples we are real long time friends with, who we may swap WhatsApp with, but not some randoms I've never met."

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here. "

That is just plain weird. I pay for this, as do you, I assume...

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient"

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

Wow

That was a joke and you blocked me!

Not the only one..."

Have you blocked me more than once? I'm a nice man!

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

Not dimissing but not accepting any weird moonlighting stuff either.

You're being very dismissive and not actually accepting any answer you've been given

Nope. Just disagreeing!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

Not dimissing but not accepting any weird moonlighting stuff either.

You're being very dismissive and not actually accepting any answer you've been given

Nope. Just disagreeing!"

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Why have you asked the question if you're just going to dismiss the answers you've been given?

Not dimissing but not accepting any weird moonlighting stuff either.

You're being very dismissive and not actually accepting any answer you've been given

Nope. Just disagreeing!"

I kinda of feel like I should host the posts that I make!

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"There are a multitude of reasons I like to chat off fab. One being privacy. Another is that if I decide I want a break, I don't have to stop talking to people I want to talk to.

Also there is the fact that I can ignore my inbox on here for days or weeks but if I'm having to pop into it for a chat with a friend I see the yellow and I run away.

Plus voice notes.

Plus the drool emoji.

Plus stickers on telegram.

Gifs.

Phone calls.

Video calls (I don't do that).

Notifications.

You can carry on a conversation without coming online here and getting told you're ignoring someone because "you had time for fab".

And a load more reasons probably.

Maybe...but still not a reason to leave the site you post on.

When I had my message filters open, I would get a lot of crap for being on Fab and not dealing with my inbox. I think there's a gender disparity there

I've switched off all notifications. I often miss emails and messages and I don't care. Debating if I should get a dumb phone, but I do love access to the interweb.

I don't get Fab notifications. But I'd log in and find people getting angry that I didn't answer their message in a timely manner.

I don't owe people anything, but if I'm on Whatsapp or Telegram or whatever, I don't get that abuse."

I've had that on a much lower level, I imagine. The delicious people promise so much...I suppose...and there are a lot of crazies in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here.

That is just plain weird. I pay for this, as do you, I assume..."

I have no idea on what paying for this has to do with anything to what I've said.

In our experience, the high majority of times someone has not wanted to take conversation to another platform, is because they are hiding it from their partner.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs

Yeah, yeah...only the perverted men who have persuaded their women, talk on here.

I do most the talking on here.

Mrs "

Oh, alright. So this is the Mrs talking now? For a second I wasn't sure.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here.

That is just plain weird. I pay for this, as do you, I assume...

I have no idea on what paying for this has to do with anything to what I've said.

In our experience, the high majority of times someone has not wanted to take conversation to another platform, is because they are hiding it from their partner.

Yeah. That sounds right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here.

The reason we prefer it all on Fab, is safety first and second there are so many 3rd party messaging apps. Messenger, WhatsApp, Telegram, Kik, Snapchat, Signal, Discord, Wechat, Line, Viber.

No, no, no.

Ones where our real phone number is shown are an automatic no, others are just full of ads or bots.

We have couples we are real long time friends with, who we may swap WhatsApp with, but not some randoms I've never met."

We have a spare phone we use.

We do though only swap numbers when we are talking about a possible meet.

We like to converse over the phone before anything is planned.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"As a couple it's easier for a 3/4 way conversation but still happy to chat here.

Mrs "

Mrs? That voice sounds very deep!

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Why are some people so keen to take chats or whatever off this site.

It shows that the person is serious about meeting. There are lots of fake profiles on here, to take things off the site would make a cat fish shyte themself

I can't tell. Is that for real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a big red flag for me. The messaging facilities on here are more than sufficient

Whereas, we see it as a red flag if someone insists on keeping all discussions here.

That is just plain weird. I pay for this, as do you, I assume...

I have no idea on what paying for this has to do with anything to what I've said.

In our experience, the high majority of times someone has not wanted to take conversation to another platform, is because they are hiding it from their partner.

Yeah. That sounds right. "

Seriously, that's how it turned out, not an assumption, what they eventually expressed on why they didn't want to swap numbers.

We are though, talking directly towards the gent that felt it was a red flag to want to change platforms, and expressing it works there other way also.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

You've brought a tear to my thighs with this beautiful, heartfelt statement. Thank you.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

You've brought a tear to my thighs with this beautiful, heartfelt statement. Thank you."

Meli you know our voices are the best here right?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

For me it’s just easier to use WhatsApp you can do voice calls, voice notes, images etc and it’s much easier to use that the chat here ….. and most importantly it’s secure if you’re sharing images or private info like addresses

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I simply don’t have the emojis to express myself here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's easier to talk in a more flowing sense.

Voicenotes which are my favourite way of communicating with someone. Also laziest.

You've brought a tear to my thighs with this beautiful, heartfelt statement. Thank you.

Meli you know our voices are the best here right?"

I've never heard your voice before. I don't know if mine is the best, I think it becomes pretty fucking irritating if you have to endure it for longer than five minutes. That's when it's good to put a cock in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the emojis on here are boringgggg

Plus I’m a millennial/gen z cusp, I need to communicate with gifs

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Because the emojis on here are boringgggg

Plus I’m a millennial/gen z cusp, I need to communicate with gifs

*inserts “she’s right you know” gif

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

When messaging single men, it seems to be a tactic to try to nail you down as such (no pun intended) or secure a meet. Divert you away from the site where they think you might become distracted by other chats. Men have confirmed this to me previously.

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