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"Don’t really care if a man comes a lot so will say a big cock "What is big in your opinion? | |||
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"I don't find either erotic. The man himself would be erotic or not to me." Same, same. | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation "Suspect you may be right | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation "I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things…. | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things…."Yeah male ones mostly (and males pretending to be women) | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things…."And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise. | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. " WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?  | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise."The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it…. | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it…."Including you? | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?"See….ALL talk! | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!"Uh? | |||
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I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!"Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot. Good luck  | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!"That doesn’t make any sense? | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck "If nobody cares then what is lost? | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck
If nobody cares then what is lost? "I could be very wrong (unlike some, I dont claim to be the be all and end all) but....I'd hazard a guess and go for based on this thread and your responses, theres not a woman here would ride you into battle but....as you said, no loss | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck
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 have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck
If nobody cares then what is lost?
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
I think a lot of women who have read this now will be making sure they can’t be used for your own personal porn site. Myself incuded
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck
If nobody cares then what is lost?
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
I think a lot of women who have read this now will be making sure they can’t be used for your own personal porn site. Myself incuded
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck
If nobody cares then what is lost?
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You would say that but for me it’s decent porn for not a lot of money "I thought the same, couldn’t understand what his point was | |||
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"Where is the eroticism in that? I suspect this might be a male preoccupation
I suspect you are right but so many profiles on here look for JUST these things….
And yet, the responses on here indicate otherwise.
I think a lot of women who have read this now will be making sure they can’t be used for your own personal porn site. Myself incuded
The contradiction of this site telling me most are full of it….
Including you?
See….ALL talk!
Crikey....am I? One thing I'm certain of, you've shot yourself in the foot.
Good luck
If nobody cares then what is lost?
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You would say that but for me it’s decent porn for not a lot of money I thought the same, couldn’t understand what his point was
"I resent being personally attacked by people who think sarcasm is the height of sophistication:I’m realistic about this site looking but not devastated if nothing happens. The site is invigorating enough without meeting anyone so what’s the big deal? | |||
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"Quantity of cum or frequency of cum? I’d like the frequency but if I need a sponge bath everytime he orgasmed it would be cock size." Look at you trying to pretend it's not ALL about the cock | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings "The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short…. | |||
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"Quantity of cum or frequency of cum? I’d like the frequency but if I need a sponge bath everytime he orgasmed it would be cock size." Both! | |||
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 . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ?  | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ? "Good point-ARE people’s expectations too high? | |||
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"...hardly erotic choices..prefer an erotic massage "Actually….so do I | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones" Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity? | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ? "Why not look at all the female and couples on this thread. I'm betting none require a big cock or gym fit men. | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ? "I mainly look at male profiles and they have physical attribute preferences too? If that's what people want, why not. It's that kind of site. | |||
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"Does any woman care about the amount of cum?" I'd say not many tbh but have seen a few profiles with heavy cummers mentioned. However, there are many couples profiles wanting to meet guys who are W.E. Perhaps it's the male half who wants his partner go with a guy bigger than himself. Who knows, as long as everyone is happy. | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ?
Good point-ARE people’s expectations too high? "You are getting interaction in here in the forums where their are only a few women and couples, the site is much larger to appeal to a woman or some women here you have to massage their egos be their friend support them in times of need, if you offend one you tend to offend many. Its not about size when does a woman see your nob before you get her in bed or wherever the deed transpires its about personality, so your success here depends upon getting your personality across, don't get offended at the first negative reply just reply back match their comment, who knows you may even get a meet | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity? "No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
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"I'd rather have a guy who can banter and make the experience fun. The amount of cum is irrelevant " *Puts the bucket of jizz down and walks away | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T."You may as well! I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating…. | |||
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"I don't find either erotic. The man himself would be erotic or not to me." Best answer | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. " Totally Agree .. My 1st Experience a a club and a guy flopped out 10" (at least) right next to me.. Killed my Mood and Confidence at Clubs. Now, 121s (Might try MMF FMF again at some point) if it gets to that stage in talking I just hope I have enough and say what I have | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ?
Good point-ARE people’s expectations too high? You are getting interaction in here in the forums where their are only a few women and couples, the site is much larger to appeal to a woman or some women here you have to massage their egos be their friend support them in times of need, if you offend one you tend to offend many. Its not about size when does a woman see your nob before you get her in bed or wherever the deed transpires its about personality, so your success here depends upon getting your personality across, don't get offended at the first negative reply just reply back match their comment, who knows you may even get a meet "Thank you for your reply-well considered & thought through! More conversation like this please…. | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
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You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating…."Swinging and cheating are two totally different things, cheating involves lies and deceit, swinging is open and honest. Your perception of fab is very far off the mark, most men are more concerned with their cock size than women, yes some stipulate a larger size many dont care. Mrs | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Swinging and cheating are two totally different things, cheating involves lies and deceit, swinging is open and honest.
Your perception of fab is very far off the mark, most men are more concerned with their cock size than women, yes some stipulate a larger size many dont care.
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating…." Sorry, what? Where is the cheating? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?"Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband? People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?"I'm not part of a couple. And mate, if this is your view of swinging, this probably isn't the place for you. Lecturing swinging couples about monogamy is pretty rich. | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating…."With respect, but what a load of BS. | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating…."Do you know what cheating means? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?"How many friends do you have? Do you do the exact same things with all of them or do you have some you would go to the pub with... and some you would go to gigs with? | |||
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"Who cares as long as it's attached to someone exciting?" 100% this .... | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Do you know what cheating means?"Unfortunately I do….something I never want experience again…. | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
How many friends do you have?
Do you do the exact same things with all of them or do you have some you would go to the pub with... and some you would go to gigs with? "You are taking this very personally & I apologise if I have offended you….How do you understand what you do? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
With respect, but what a load of BS. "Why? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
I'm not part of a couple. And mate, if this is your view of swinging, this probably isn't the place for you. Lecturing swinging couples about monogamy is pretty rich. "You may be right-but a swingers site is the place to ask these questions surely? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
I'm not part of a couple. And mate, if this is your view of swinging, this probably isn't the place for you. Lecturing swinging couples about monogamy is pretty rich.
You may be right-but a swingers site is the place to ask these questions surely?"Saying someone is cheating is more of an accusation than a question  | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short…."Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky' | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
I'm not part of a couple. And mate, if this is your view of swinging, this probably isn't the place for you. Lecturing swinging couples about monogamy is pretty rich.
You may be right-but a swingers site is the place to ask these questions surely?"But you weren’t asking questions | |||
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Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda "Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written? | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'"Again you misunderstand my query…. | |||
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Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
"Yes appearance as, surprisingly people like to be attracted to people they intend to have sex with That doesn't necessarily involve cock size though | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
Yes appearance as, surprisingly people like to be attracted to people they intend to have sex with
That doesn't necessarily involve cock size though "Most of the guys I've met, I didn't see their cock before I decided to meet them. | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'
Again you misunderstand my query…."I didn't misunderstand anything You wrote "personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky" Like you literally called women picky, I didn't add 2 plus 2 and get 6 love | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
Yes appearance as, surprisingly people like to be attracted to people they intend to have sex with
That doesn't necessarily involve cock size though
Most of the guys I've met, I didn't see their cock before I decided to meet them."Whole I prefer a bigger one, I've met guys in real life I hadn't seen their dicks before, found out they were average and still had a fun time with them This assumption that women only want big dicks is just men projecting and using it as an excuse why they can't get a meet I guess | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
Yes appearance as, surprisingly people like to be attracted to people they intend to have sex with
That doesn't necessarily involve cock size though
Most of the guys I've met, I didn't see their cock before I decided to meet them.
Whole I prefer a bigger one, I've met guys in real life I hadn't seen their dicks before, found out they were average and still had a fun time with them
This assumption that women only want big dicks is just men projecting and using it as an excuse why they can't get a meet I guess "Definitely! | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?"You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together. Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun. He more than fulfils my needs. You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it. Mrs | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ?
Good point-ARE people’s expectations too high? You are getting interaction in here in the forums where their are only a few women and couples, the site is much larger to appeal to a woman or some women here you have to massage their egos be their friend support them in times of need, if you offend one you tend to offend many. Its not about size when does a woman see your nob before you get her in bed or wherever the deed transpires its about personality, so your success here depends upon getting your personality across, don't get offended at the first negative reply just reply back match their comment, who knows you may even get a meet
Thank you for your reply-well considered & thought through!
More conversation like this please…. "The other point which some here have hit upon. I would say a good 80% or more on Fab. Do not use forums. ? So are people here representative of all site profiles . ? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together.
Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun.
He more than fulfils my needs.
You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it.
Mrs "Having your cake & eating it in other words? Why do people bother with relationships at all in that case? There was somebody I knew who went down the ‘open relationship’/swinging road until it bit him on the arse & he found out that his wife had fucked most of his friends….why she did that I don’t know but it said a lot about him if she brought in ‘outside help’ but he opened thst door so has to live with the fall out…. | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
Yes appearance as, surprisingly people like to be attracted to people they intend to have sex with
That doesn't necessarily involve cock size though
Most of the guys I've met, I didn't see their cock before I decided to meet them.
Whole I prefer a bigger one, I've met guys in real life I hadn't seen their dicks before, found out they were average and still had a fun time with them
This assumption that women only want big dicks is just men projecting and using it as an excuse why they can't get a meet I guess "Yayyyy! Is it like a steak compared to a burger? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together.
Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun.
He more than fulfils my needs.
You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it.
Mrs
Having your cake & eating it in other words?
Why do people bother with relationships at all in that case?
There was somebody I knew who went down the ‘open relationship’/swinging road until it bit him on the arse & he found out that his wife had fucked most of his friends….why she did that I don’t know but it said a lot about him if she brought in ‘outside help’ but he opened thst door so has to live with the fall out…."I'm sorry your friend had that experience. Does that mean that all people have those experiences? | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'
Again you misunderstand my query….
I didn't misunderstand anything
You wrote "personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky"
Like you literally called women picky, I didn't add 2 plus 2 and get 6 love "Again-finding the personal when it ISN’T. | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'
Again you misunderstand my query….
I didn't misunderstand anything
You wrote "personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky"
Like you literally called women picky, I didn't add 2 plus 2 and get 6 love
Again-finding the personal when it ISN’T."The only person taking it personally is you, to my mind. | |||
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"For me size is the prize? No.Size and how much you repeat or cum nope. Nothing better than naked kisses and cuddles, talk, foreplay, kisses and hugs too. Size is not the prize nor volume of cum repeats. " That’s reassuring - I didn’t think I’d been getting it wrong all this time | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda
Not at all….Given that you can put so much in a message to somebody the interested party is surely responding to appearance as much as what is written?
Yes appearance as, surprisingly people like to be attracted to people they intend to have sex with
That doesn't necessarily involve cock size though "You can see how disheartening it is when seeing a profile that stipulates size?No way I’d send unsolicited photos of my genitalia but how do you write to anyone if that is one of their prerequisite? Doesn’t sound like she wants romance that’s for sure…. | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'
Again you misunderstand my query….
I didn't misunderstand anything
You wrote "personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky"
Like you literally called women picky, I didn't add 2 plus 2 and get 6 love
Again-finding the personal when it ISN’T.
The only person taking it personally is you, to my mind.". Preferences are just that-not a whole profile of fussy,unrealistic gibberish & I have seen a few so far…. | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'
Again you misunderstand my query….
I didn't misunderstand anything
You wrote "personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky"
Like you literally called women picky, I didn't add 2 plus 2 and get 6 love
Again-finding the personal when it ISN’T.
The only person taking it personally is you, to my mind..
Preferences are just that-not a whole profile of fussy,unrealistic gibberish & I have seen a few so far…."So preferences are only valid if they meet with your approval? oh you have fun with that | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'surely thats what a preference is being picky "And I’m sure you will agree absolutely nothing wrong with that | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together.
Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun.
He more than fulfils my needs.
You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it.
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Having your cake & eating it in other words?
Why do people bother with relationships at all in that case?
There was somebody I knew who went down the ‘open relationship’/swinging road until it bit him on the arse & he found out that his wife had fucked most of his friends….why she did that I don’t know but it said a lot about him if she brought in ‘outside help’ but he opened thst door so has to live with the fall out….
I'm sorry your friend had that experience. Does that mean that all people have those experiences?"Of course not because he was an arrogant dickhead who hit a wall….the last I heard was they are living in an atmosphere with a knife…. | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short…." overly picky? So women are to be attracted to every man on this?
I never heard of a guy being attracted to every woman on this site unless he has no dignity for himself and it's an anything with a pulse for him.
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'
Again you misunderstand my query….
I didn't misunderstand anything
You wrote "personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky"
Like you literally called women picky, I didn't add 2 plus 2 and get 6 love
Again-finding the personal when it ISN’T.
The only person taking it personally is you, to my mind..
Preferences are just that-not a whole profile of fussy,unrealistic gibberish & I have seen a few so far…."Preferences are the type that people are naturally attracted to. What would you rather, be pulled along on a string or speak with a lady who is genuinely attracted to you? | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
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You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
How many friends do you have?
Do you do the exact same things with all of them or do you have some you would go to the pub with... and some you would go to gigs with?
You are taking this very personally & I apologise if I have offended you….How do you understand what you do?"I'm not taking it personally at all, just giving you an example to think about. Can you answer my question?. | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together.
Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun.
He more than fulfils my needs.
You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it.
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Having your cake & eating it in other words?
Why do people bother with relationships at all in that case?
There was somebody I knew who went down the ‘open relationship’/swinging road until it bit him on the arse & he found out that his wife had fucked most of his friends….why she did that I don’t know but it said a lot about him if she brought in ‘outside help’ but he opened thst door so has to live with the fall out…."We have a great relationship that's why I bother with relationships, I have feelings for 1 person and 1 only. Why on earth have you joined a swingers site if you don't like swinging. Do I want to sleep with other men and women without my partner involved absolutely not it does nothing for me, do I love seeing him enjoy himself while I'm there enjoying myself hell yes it's hot as fuck! Does that make me a cheat absolutely not, does it mean I'm missing something in my relationship absolutely not. Mrs | |||
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"I think men care more about size than women do. WHY do so many profiles look for BBC then?
Because they like black men
Very few women prefer bigger cocks
There are plenty of women on this thread who have even confirmed this, but I guess you'll ignore them because it doesn't fit your agenda "I regularly state time and time again on here that I only want average cocks or at least not girthy ones, but men who start threads akin to these just ignore the validation I guess | |||
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"Having to wait in for a delivery today . No time given . I have been looking at female and couples. I do not think I have seen one profile yet . Says average cock. If nothing about cock size. Then most looking for say gym fit or other body physical attributes. Yes females and couples can put their preferences. I wonder how many actually find. ?
Good point-ARE people’s expectations too high? You are getting interaction in here in the forums where their are only a few women and couples, the site is much larger to appeal to a woman or some women here you have to massage their egos be their friend support them in times of need, if you offend one you tend to offend many. Its not about size when does a woman see your nob before you get her in bed or wherever the deed transpires its about personality, so your success here depends upon getting your personality across, don't get offended at the first negative reply just reply back match their comment, who knows you may even get a meet
Thank you for your reply-well considered & thought through!
More conversation like this please….
The other point which some here have hit upon. I would say a good 80% or more on Fab. Do not use forums. ? So are people here representative of all site profiles . ? "Only around 1% of Fab users are on the forums I think? So not remotely representative. | |||
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No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together.
Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun.
He more than fulfils my needs.
You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it.
Mrs
Having your cake & eating it in other words?
Why do people bother with relationships at all in that case?
There was somebody I knew who went down the ‘open relationship’/swinging road until it bit him on the arse & he found out that his wife had fucked most of his friends….why she did that I don’t know but it said a lot about him if she brought in ‘outside help’ but he opened thst door so has to live with the fall out….
We have a great relationship that's why I bother with relationships, I have feelings for 1 person and 1 only.
Why on earth have you joined a swingers site if you don't like swinging.
Do I want to sleep with other men and women without my partner involved absolutely not it does nothing for me, do I love seeing him enjoy himself while I'm there enjoying myself hell yes it's hot as fuck!
Does that make me a cheat absolutely not, does it mean I'm missing something in my relationship absolutely not.
Mrs "I bet it is! (Hot as fuck) Forgive me! I am an outsider where swinging is concerned & not being in a relationship probably don’t appreciate their workings & dynamics and a real swingers site is the perfect place to satisfy my curiosity. Do you have long term relationships with the people outside your relationship-a circle of people? | |||
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No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating…."I'm glad you brought consent up. Just not sure why you doubt it with '...'? We consented to a certain 'contract of a vision of relationship' we have between us, being of sound mind and defining it according to our needs. There is not one size fits all and each one is unique to people who enter marriage or other sort of relationship(s) if one is poly. As long as we follow the rules we agreed upon with respect and trust that this is the right path for each of us to fulfillment as an individual, contract is upheld. At the same time, the other one agrees that seeing their partner(s) happy is the ultimate goal to feel happiness themselves. Putting oneselves first with self love to bring the best in oneself for the person(s) closest to us - I don't call it cheating. I call it full on faith exercise. Tones | |||
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"Ps. Forgot to address 'If your husband allows it'. Not a husband (as if it mattered somehow) and I don't need allowing.
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"Ps. Forgot to address 'If your husband allows it'. Not a husband (as if it mattered somehow) and I don't need allowing.
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short….
Women having preferences doesn't make them 'picky'surely thats what a preference is being picky
And I’m sure you will agree absolutely nothing wrong with that "nope its your preference | |||
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Gosh darn it Tones, has your husband allowed you to speak freely on here?
Ps, having met you both I should like to say you are quite clearly disgustingly in love so your relationship is clearly working for you both "…..but the scones made up for the gross public displays of affection, right?
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
". As the other half of our relationship, I can categorically tell you that my partner is not cheating, by our definition of it. You seem to define cheating as any form of intimate relations outside of a monogamous partnership. There’s a wide spectrum in how others define a partnership/relationship but at the core of them all is trust and communication. The elemental point about cheating is deceit, is it not, whether it’s at cards, in an exam or being untruthful with a partner? It isn’t cheating if we are discussing it openly and partake in it consensually. To address your question on what is it that she isn’t getting from me; judgement and control. Miles | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
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As the other half of our relationship, I can categorically tell you that my partner is not cheating, by our definition of it.
You seem to define cheating as any form of intimate relations outside of a monogamous partnership.
There’s a wide spectrum in how others define a partnership/relationship but at the core of them all is trust and communication.
The elemental point about cheating is deceit, is it not, whether it’s at cards, in an exam or being untruthful with a partner? It isn’t cheating if we are discussing it openly and partake in it consensually.
To address your question on what is it that she isn’t getting from me; judgement and control.
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How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
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Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
"Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it. This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think. I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me. Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him. I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop? J. | |||
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Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J."Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately. I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging. | |||
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How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately.
I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging."True….Say you are looking at a Car Engine for example….unless you are mechanically minded how do you find out about how it works? Ask….I’ve been very clumsy so far I realise but I am coming from a place where I’m not that well socialised or used to the cut & thrust of people so I see things from a certain perspective at the start….what I find curious is how people comfortably involve others in their lives the way you seem to be able to? J. | |||
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How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J."Wether it’s bi or straight or both it’s really not any of your concern what other couples do. It is there and theirs alone. I do feel that your views are not the right kind for this place. I’m not sure what you were hoping for signing up but it’s evident in this thread with all of your responses that you truly don’t understand what swinging is. Perhaps the reality of it is starting to set home with you and should you decide that you can’t get past your judgmental views we will all understand if you decided this wasn’t for you. | |||
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Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately.
I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging.
True….Say you are looking at a Car Engine for example….unless you are mechanically minded how do you find out about how it works?
Ask….I’ve been very clumsy so far I realise but I am coming from a place where I’m not that well socialised or used to the cut & thrust of people so I see things from a certain perspective at the start….what I find curious is how people comfortably involve others in their lives the way you seem to be able to?
J."You would learn with an open mind without judgement of how others choose to live their lives and their relationships. How you have approached this in this thread is the equivalent of comparing rugby to football, both have a field, a team and a ball but are two completely different types of games. Swinging relationships and vanilla relationships are not the same and never will be. | |||
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How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately.
I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging.
True….Say you are looking at a Car Engine for example….unless you are mechanically minded how do you find out about how it works?
Ask….I’ve been very clumsy so far I realise but I am coming from a place where I’m not that well socialised or used to the cut & thrust of people so I see things from a certain perspective at the start….what I find curious is how people comfortably involve others in their lives the way you seem to be able to?
J.
You would learn with an open mind without judgement of how others choose to live their lives and their relationships.
How you have approached this in this thread is the equivalent of comparing rugby to football, both have a field, a team and a ball but are two completely different types of games.
Swinging relationships and vanilla relationships are not the same and never will be. "I didn’t mean for it to come out like that….I apologise to all of you if it did. | |||
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Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately.
I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging.
True….Say you are looking at a Car Engine for example….unless you are mechanically minded how do you find out about how it works?
Ask….I’ve been very clumsy so far I realise but I am coming from a place where I’m not that well socialised or used to the cut & thrust of people so I see things from a certain perspective at the start….what I find curious is how people comfortably involve others in their lives the way you seem to be able to?
J."I think you observe without judgement, when it comes to relationship dynamics. You don't come barging in and say "you don't even feed your motor hay like my horse, your motors suck." Which is kind of what you've done here. | |||
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Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately.
I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging.
True….Say you are looking at a Car Engine for example….unless you are mechanically minded how do you find out about how it works?
Ask….I’ve been very clumsy so far I realise but I am coming from a place where I’m not that well socialised or used to the cut & thrust of people so I see things from a certain perspective at the start….what I find curious is how people comfortably involve others in their lives the way you seem to be able to?
J.
I think you observe without judgement, when it comes to relationship dynamics. You don't come barging in and say "you don't even feed your motor hay like my horse, your motors suck." Which is kind of what you've done here."Ok….  | |||
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"I’ve had to change my profile picture for this thread … well that took a turn
Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Wether it’s bi or straight or both it’s really not any of your concern what other couples do. It is there and theirs alone.
I do feel that your views are not the right kind for this place. I’m not sure what you were hoping for signing up but it’s evident in this thread with all of your responses that you truly don’t understand what swinging is. Perhaps the reality of it is starting to set home with you and should you decide that you can’t get past your judgmental views we will all understand if you decided this wasn’t for you.
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"I’ve had to change my profile picture for this thread … well that took a turn
Anyone else want popcorn for what I’m about to say to the OP ?
How is the OP on a swingers website and doesn’t understand the concept of swinging *hand on face*
OP
Swingers relationships are more honest than most relationships, couples have to be more open and honest about things that most couples wouldn’t dream of discussing. It requires absolute trust and you’ll find that these couples are stronger than a lot of relationships in the vanilla world.
I should know as I was in one the entire last decade.
We view sex differently to the vanilla world, to me sex on the scene is like playing tennis with a different person, we may play together and have a great time but once I am done playing with whatever woman I am playing with she goes back to her partner and enjoys a winning match. We may end up becoming friends or not, it all just depends on the chemistry and what BOUNDARIES the couples have set for themselves.
Each couple have their own set of rules they are happy with, cheating is not the act itself to us, it is the betrayal of breaking those boundaries.
When a couple stick to their boundaries then there is no betrayal and therefore no cheating has occurred.
Perhaps consider taking your friends story and setting that to one side as the wife betrayed her partner by breaching the boundaries they had set for themselves, and stop judging people on a site where the vast majority of people here don’t judge others and are open minded and stick to the boundaries we all have for ourselves.
Thank you for your reply….I think you’re right:I don’t think I have taken enough time to think about what I actually want from this or even if it’s right for me in the first place….I have had a situation where I tried a 3some & TBH it was waste of time and it is something I don’t really want to repeat it.
This should have been my red flag for whether or not I should have even considered this:I’m too delicate for this I think.
I was asking genuine questions and want to understand this but really have to reconsider its appropriateness for me.
Talking about my friends story:I have met whores with more sincerity than his wife who is an emotional black hole but sees nothing wrong with Cuckolding him.
I appreciate that swinging partners might want to indulge a bi-tendency and see each other have sex with other people but how much is too much?Where does it stop?
J.
Surely that's up to them? It seems a very odd thing to judge in a place like this. They've set their boundaries, presumably they have and continue to have these discussions privately.
I can appreciate that this space might not be right for you, or you might not have the right head space at the moment - not every space is right for every person at every time, and that's OK. (I'm also not saying this space is not right for you - just that it's OK if it's not). But the judgement you've displayed towards people in this thread, and on the scene as a whole, is pretty jarring in a place that's set up around the kind of dynamic you're judging.
True….Say you are looking at a Car Engine for example….unless you are mechanically minded how do you find out about how it works?
Ask….I’ve been very clumsy so far I realise but I am coming from a place where I’m not that well socialised or used to the cut & thrust of people so I see things from a certain perspective at the start….what I find curious is how people comfortably involve others in their lives the way you seem to be able to?
J."It doesn't always play out like the '10 year poster' and 'vanilla' is just a label they use that has no meaning, I've been to clubs where the one guy has got jealous of his wife with another guy and to be honest many relationships breakdown in this environment, some survive it and even thrive on it but how long is a long relationship these days? Ask questions even ask ludicrous questions but expect to be judged and criticised and blocked, just take from this site what you want, dont feel obliged to obey the wishes of the forums, live your life your way | |||
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"Laid back 86 Women have preferences like you would even if your preferences lean more on the personality side to a lady then equal balance of looks and personality it would still be what you go for. Allow women to have their preferences and focus more on yourself, the good qualities you carry that keep a woman interested in you. Not every BC is a BBC and the reason why it's in high demand is because it usually comes with length not just girth. The men attached to the BBC's come with different banter than others and vice versa Don't make a woman feel as though she is wrong for her taste. I'm sure you would want your preferences to be respected have faith in what you bring and let the right women for you show you what she also brings
The problem with this site is that the forum is the only place you can interact with people in real time….writing cold messages to people can’t show a persons personality or character:personally I just scroll by profiles when women are overly picky and any prospective contactee has to satisfy a ranting ‘want’ list….life’s too short…."“OVERLY picky”? Perhaps a poor turn of words there. If someone has a specific preference and they know it might take time to find those preferences then there’s nothing wrong with that. If they make it clear on their profile too then they are doing so to save their time and other peoples so you CAN just scroll by. That’s the idea of a clear “demanding” profile (not that anyone reads em ) | |||
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"If he gets me to share things about myself i usually do not. Something has clicked through the way he chose to play this unlayering game and I am able to open instantly and want what he has to offer increasingly. That is erotic to me. The seduction strategy. Tones Can I ask-you are married,on a swinging site but need to be seduced into infidelity?
No. I'd rather just run around with a sign: available anytime.. .
Maybe we understand seduction differently. And definitely infidelity is not the term which applies to me/us. Is this how you think of all coupled profiles here? That it's cheating?
T.
You may as well!
I know it is ‘consensual’ but playing with someone you’re not married to IS cheating….especially if your husband allows it?I’m not digging at you but self justifications don’t hide the fact that you ARE cheating….
Sorry, what? Where is the cheating?
Without sounding indelicate-What is it that you ARE NOT getting from your husband?
People form relationships just to play around….why bother if one person doesn’t fulfill you?
You really don't get it do you, in not "not" getting anything from my man, our sex life is amazing, we have great trust and communication to be able to explore different sexual experiences together.
Nothing is missing, just because we are together doesn't mean we can't have some additional fun.
He more than fulfils my needs.
You joined a swingers site and totally don't get it.
Mrs
Having your cake & eating it in other words?
Why do people bother with relationships at all in that case?
There was somebody I knew who went down the ‘open relationship’/swinging road until it bit him on the arse & he found out that his wife had fucked most of his friends….why she did that I don’t know but it said a lot about him if she brought in ‘outside help’ but he opened thst door so has to live with the fall out….
We have a great relationship that's why I bother with relationships, I have feelings for 1 person and 1 only.
Why on earth have you joined a swingers site if you don't like swinging.
Do I want to sleep with other men and women without my partner involved absolutely not it does nothing for me, do I love seeing him enjoy himself while I'm there enjoying myself hell yes it's hot as fuck!
Does that make me a cheat absolutely not, does it mean I'm missing something in my relationship absolutely not.
Mrs
I bet it is!
(Hot as fuck)
Forgive me! I am an outsider where swinging is concerned & not being in a relationship probably don’t appreciate their workings & dynamics and a real swingers site is the perfect place to satisfy my curiosity.
Do you have long term relationships with the people outside your relationship-a circle of people?"No I don't have long term relationships with anyone else, that's not for me my love is for 1man only and will remain that way, I've no desire to meet anyone without him, if he wasn't involved then I wouldn't be either. For me it's us both doing this together, seeing each other having fun that's the turn on. I couldn't be romantically involved with anyone else, sex is one thing, feelings and emotions are something totally different the latter I couldn't share. Mrs | |||
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