FabSwingers.com forum: Some profile advice please...

By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does everything I want it to

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

It’s the best I can do but at the moment I don’t want to be savaged…. Never any good at putting pen to paper so to speak…

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By *ester.jamesMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

I rarely change my profile as I think it’s a good blanket of information for people and conversation starters such as kinks limits experiences ect ect

As for attracting. Less so but I think that’s more to do with the being a fairly inexperienced young single male. So the wish for that isn’t great.

Hope that helped at all

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By *ogo1189Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

All good questions. I’ll be seeing how folk answer these on here

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

Ohhhhh you got me. Damn you.

My profile is too long. But I am fine with that. I talk a lot in real life so it reflects me.

I tweak it every now and then but it is largely the same I first wrote it.

I don't really know why I bother though as I am not really doing Fab just the forums and socials.

so it is a waste of every one's time. Which when I think about it is probably quite an accurate analogy for when you meet me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Occasionally I'll add to the no list. But otherwise, my profile does as much as it's going to for me. So I'm happy enough with it

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

With regards to yours it draws you in and cuddles you leaving you wanting more….

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Perfectly happy

Nothing else about it.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I don't think mine does much for me really, but then I rarely message anyone. But I'd be interested to know what you think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda pointless as no one reads it

but I would say it reflects the kind of people I'm looking to attract yes. Too much effort to change it so I'll keep it as it is.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Too few people read them. They would save so much time in wasted messages and reduce frustration. Mine is pretty clear, and I give a whole list of things that people can connect with me on. So few do. I still do tweak it, as is quite a good gauge and a way to sort out who is just horny and looked at my pics and those interested in me as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has ever read my profile, and then messaged me with the reference on there that I wanted them to get.

But there's still time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does what it says on the tin.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I keep wanting to rewrite ours but every time I start I've no idea what to put, I did do a profile feedback post not too long ago but didn't get much feedback

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile?

I think that's something of an unattainable goal for me - I want it to be the best (while remaining honest of course) it can be, but have no concrete way of measuring what good is!

(not quite true, see below)

How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

I've done a full re-write once and update/remove pics sometimes. I also like to include some in-jokes and tweak wording here or there. I like receiving feedback on my profile (the re-write was following one such occurrence) because that gives me an opportunity to measure how good it is.

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

Yes, or even if it doesn't, some people are nice enough to give me a chance anyway! Some even offer advice on how to improve my profile so I can continue to attract people like them.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Kinda pointless as no one reads it

but I would say it reflects the kind of people I'm looking to attract yes. Too much effort to change it so I'll keep it as it is."

Can’t be arsed messaging but lamb fucking chops…… and people are looking now at the mess before then as 10 star jumps was a lot…

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I every so often alter mine. Did add one line this morning. This was after some messages. So hopefully people will read profile fully ?

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

Your profile is good,short & sweet. If you’re happy with it then that’s all that matter.

Mine is long. I waffle quite a bit on mine but I waffle irl too

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By *ownandcuntry83Couple
over a year ago

Would live to know what people think of ours. We get the kind of people we want but it's always good to get an outsiders opinion. xx

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I like my pictures and try my best to keep them sort of varied, whether that be outfits or poses.

My bio is a bit laboured and un-focused... could definitely do with some refinement.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Slam on a veri or 2 of a woman saying how hilarious I was until my monster cock gave her pleasures she didn't know existed and I'm good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could probably be a lot better but I can’t be bothered changing it at the minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy with ours. It has all the relevant information needed for what we want at this moment in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slam on a veri or 2 of a woman saying how hilarious I was until my monster cock gave her pleasures she didn't know existed and I'm good!"

Set up a fake profile of your right hand and leave a veri saying you’ve ghosted him.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Yours you aint going to change despite what I say....

Mine does alright for a fat balding nobhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm continually changing my profile,never happy with my pics etc, seem to spend half my life taking pics for it. My profile doesn't attract anyone, yeah I get messages but I've never had anyone message me first who I'd wanna meet

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

It hasn't stopped us doing our thing and nobody has given bad feedback.

But, would love anything the hivemind has to say, no opinion will be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text never gets updated but pictures do but not much change

I mean for instance

13 August 2023 Pictures are from April 2022

But wouldn’t look it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is a bit lazy really but it seems to do what I need it to

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming

I can send you some junk mail if you want. It's no bother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming

I can send you some junk mail if you want. It's no bother! "

I've seen enough of your images thank you very much

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

You need to mention your QUIM

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming

I can send you some junk mail if you want. It's no bother!

I've seen enough of your images thank you very much

Don't be like that!

CU promised me a handy with a bag on her head if I sent them to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile doesn’t attract anyone. Whether I fill it in seriously or not. So I just don’t.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?

Ohhhhh you got me. Damn you.

My profile is too long. But I am fine with that. I talk a lot in real life so it reflects me.

I tweak it every now and then but it is largely the same I first wrote it.

I don't really know why I bother though as I am not really doing Fab just the forums and socials.

so it is a waste of every one's time. Which when I think about it is probably quite an accurate analogy for when you meet me.

Oh shush! You're not a waste of time at all, you're a delight. I don't think you have to be fucking to be on here you know - not that you're not or anything.

I think if a profile reflects you and you're happy with it, that's enough.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming

I can send you some junk mail if you want. It's no bother! "

Is that mail with pictures of your junk?

OK, I'm fine with that

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

It works for me .

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I think mine should be surrounded with bullet proof glass and displayed for all to see how good it really is……… except for all those blocked folk obvs

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

When I had my previous Fab account I used to tweak it fairly frequently as I couldn't really work out what worked in this kind of space (even though I found a FWB through here quite quickly).

Now I'm back but am looking for something quite specific (hanging out on the forums aside) and I think my profile reflects that. It hasn't really attracted anyone as yet, but I expect that as I don't post lots of pictures that show I'm a total hunk (mainly because I'm not). So right now it's OK but I might review it soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much how I want it to be...the odd changes...but can't see it changing to much...

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I like my profile but not enough bother to read it and continue wasting their time and making a fool of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My does what it needs to do.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

ours needs an edit...... attracts a broad mix.. if you get me... maybe too broad, but we are open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely serving us as we see fit, at the moment.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Happy with mine but as I have no intentions of meeting soon, have hidden mine.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?

You need to mention your QUIM"

Ha those days have long passed. I'm toying with what to type now but the quim won't be coming out in photos or in text.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Mines pretty much standard not Interested now, I have more fun with mad usernames and props in photos

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Perfectly happy with my profile

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

I can't remember what my profile actually says. The picture I use has more impact than anything I write.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

My Profile is me well bits of me, if they want to engage and know more then that's cool, if not so be it, not loosing sleep over it.

I occasionally update it if something changes but mostly don't touch it.

Tried to keep it simple for obvious reasons but it seems nobody can reed anyway. Guys you're off the hook on this one as I have filters.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My bio is abnormally long for a guy but it's ok I think, can't even remember what it says now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it works for me, it says who I am and what I like..

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I'm not asking for advice, but I need to re-do mine.

It's fine but needs a zhuzh...I haven't because, you know, laziness and apathy.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm fine with mine. Except I might add another line every now and then to say "No sex please".

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I haven't touched mine for a while.

My profile is pretty static as well ')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mine. I think it covers everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I could do with a profile re-write, I feel it lacks humour and reads a bit too boring. Struggling how to add humour do any advice would be appreciated.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I feel I could do with a profile re-write, I feel it lacks humour and reads a bit too boring. Struggling how to add humour do any advice would be appreciated."

I don't think it's boring at all - you come across very well, definitely as someone worth talking to.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Mine needs tweaking again …. I’ll get round to it soon

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

She still hasn't tweaked it... ^

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"She still hasn't tweaked it... ^

Did you want tweaking Nerò?

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By *ather WickmasMan
34 weeks ago

The Continental

Mines pretty awesome I reckon

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

"She still hasn't tweaked it... ^

Did you want tweaking Nerò?

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A tweak from ewe, my little lamb, is well overdue.

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
34 weeks ago

Bristol

We feel ours is honest and we’re very happy with it, we do update it, but only when a certain circumstance requires an amendment, that’s purely because we like to remain honest with anyone who is paying us interest with their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Mines pretty awesome I reckon"

Tldr

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Mines pretty awesome I reckon

Tldr"

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I thought you were jesting. Good Lord, his reads like the Surrealist Manifesto of 1924.

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By *ather WickmasMan
34 weeks ago

The Continental

"Mines pretty awesome I reckon

Tldr"

You missed the bit about being fed hash browns and Kraken then.

Pfft. Typical chicks, never reading profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Mines pretty awesome I reckon

Tldr

You missed the bit about being fed hash browns and Kraken then.

Pfft. Typical chicks, never reading profiles.

I don't have time for that JW, I just look at the pretty pictures.

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By *uri00620Woman
34 weeks ago

Croydon

I rarely change mine. It's beyond me why anyone would read it and message though.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

My profile says nothing much about me. I think the me comes out in conversation with the you. Well that’s how I think of it anyway…

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By *ealitybitesMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast

I fiddled with mine about 3 years ago but haven't touched it since because I'm not currently meeting.

I don't send messages and haven't done in more than 4 years but people still get in touch now and again so they must like what they see.

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By *illy IdolMan
34 weeks ago

Midlands

Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?

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By *rBobbMan
34 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm not really sure about mine to be honest. It doesn't attract much attention so I guess that speaks volumes.

I've looked at others in the hope of inspiration but would never copy someone else's ideas.

I probably need to think about a rewrite at some point.

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By *eli OP Woman
34 weeks ago

"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?"

Not really, too much waffle.

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By *XSnoopy72XXMan
34 weeks ago

lots of places

"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.

My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?

Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"

i dont get any attention dont know whats wrong with mine

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"She still hasn't tweaked it... ^

Did you want tweaking Nerò?

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A tweak from ewe, my little lamb, is well overdue."

Come north good sir, come north.

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By *illy IdolMan
34 weeks ago

Midlands

"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?

Not really, too much waffle."

I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(

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By *illy IdolMan
34 weeks ago

Midlands

"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?

Not really, too much waffle.

I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love("

Don't call me out on that though

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By *eli OP Woman
34 weeks ago

"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?

Not really, too much waffle.

I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(

Don't call me out on that though

Noted. Whilst you're here fancy voting for my bum? I'm listening to I Want You Back atm and hoping people will notice it. Vote for my bum.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
34 weeks ago

Leeds

Other than adding not currently meeting we haven't changed it in ages.

Probably should look at it again sometime.

Mrs

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By *illy IdolMan
34 weeks ago

Midlands

"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?

Not really, too much waffle.

I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(

Don't call me out on that though

Noted. Whilst you're here fancy voting for my bum? I'm listening to I Want You Back atm and hoping people will notice it. Vote for my bum."

Where do I vote, Melissa?

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By *amie HantsWoman
34 weeks ago

Atlantis

I change it every now and then but I always make sure the key info is covered

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By *eli OP Woman
34 weeks ago

"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.

I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.

I'm okay with that for now

Does that make sense?

Not really, too much waffle.

I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(

Don't call me out on that though

Noted. Whilst you're here fancy voting for my bum? I'm listening to I Want You Back atm and hoping people will notice it. Vote for my bum.

Where do I vote, Melissa?"

I'll start a thread soon, just working out the latest snazzy knitwear I can don for my avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I'm open to any advice. I know I need to add more photos

I do get a fair amount of views but nothing from there.

I'm crap at sending the 1st message as Probably too polite

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

We’ve gotta stop adding to ours! It’s getting a little out of control!!

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By *eli OP Woman
34 weeks ago

"I change it every now and then but I always make sure the key info is covered "

Yeah, like how you always keep it grounded. Say it as it is, job done.

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By *amie HantsWoman
34 weeks ago

Atlantis

"I change it every now and then but I always make sure the key info is covered

Yeah, like how you always keep it grounded. Say it as it is, job done."

I’m a great shag and I may or may not be what I claim to be online. Keep it short, keep it sweet, keep to the facts.

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By *agnar73Man
34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I’m a great shag and I may or may not be what I claim to be online. Keep it short, keep it sweet, keep to the facts.

I fear looking at mine again as it’d be a complete rewrite again. But I do need to be simpler like that.

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