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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting to this lovely lady for six weeks Skype phone calls text, I land this eve planned to meet tonight now she got cold feet is this normal, am devastated now!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably read your post about cumming to quickly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She probably read your post about cumming to quickly. "

She new this I have nothing to hide, and it's a normal thing I don't have sex for eight weeks then its normal to exp!!!!d first few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why devastated it was just a meet if this was first let down it will not be first.

Chill out have brew and start again and do not expect too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why devastated it was just a meet if this was first let down it will not be first.

Chill out have brew and start again and do not expect too much."

Yeah you maybe right

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Get used to it Ive lost count how many guys let down at last minute but fortunately there's some really good guys on here too!!

Chalk it up to experience and move on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get used to it Ive lost count how many guys let down at last minute but fortunately there's some really good guys on here too!!

Chalk it up to experience and move on! "

I will tough I feel stupid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to this lovely lady for six weeks Skype phone calls text, I land this eve planned to meet tonight now she got cold feet is this normal, am devastated now!!!!! "

it was a bit cold tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been chatting to this lovely lady for six weeks Skype phone calls text, I land this eve planned to meet tonight now she got cold feet is this normal, am devastated now!!!!!

it was a bit cold tho. "
haha so I hear it is x

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By *ammy27TV/TS
over a year ago

travelling

You need to build up a few potential meets as the success rate for a potential turning into a reality is usually very low , but this should be expected .

Arrange ten meets , 3 you think have a very good chance of happening , another 5 where its more than likely to be unlikely, but a chance none the less and then a few wild cards lol .

The closer meet time gets slowly the potentials either go silent or back out one by one .

Usually your left with 3rd or 4th choice and after expecting ( in my case ) a huge gorgeous hung hunk , that means someone more average , and then after being deflated I give that a miss lol .

So my advice is to set up loads of meets rather than just one egg xxx

Come on .... Who doesn't arrange back ups ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to build up a few potential meets as the success rate for a potential turning into a reality is usually very low , but this should be expected .

Arrange ten meets , 3 you think have a very good chance of happening , another 5 where its more than likely to be unlikely, but a chance none the less and then a few wild cards lol .

The closer meet time gets slowly the potentials either go silent or back out one by one .

Usually your left with 3rd or 4th choice and after expecting ( in my case ) a huge gorgeous hung hunk , that means someone more average , and then after being deflated I give that a miss lol .

So my advice is to set up loads of meets rather than just one egg xxx

Come on .... Who doesn't arrange back ups ???"
I don't agree that means I'd be letting more then one person down my self!! If I say I meet that's what I will do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to build up a few potential meets as the success rate for a potential turning into a reality is usually very low , but this should be expected .

Arrange ten meets , 3 you think have a very good chance of happening , another 5 where its more than likely to be unlikely, but a chance none the less and then a few wild cards lol .

The closer meet time gets slowly the potentials either go silent or back out one by one .

Usually your left with 3rd or 4th choice and after expecting ( in my case ) a huge gorgeous hung hunk , that means someone more average , and then after being deflated I give that a miss lol .

So my advice is to set up loads of meets rather than just one egg xxx

Come on .... Who doesn't arrange back ups ??? I don't agree that means I'd be letting more then one person down my self!! If I say I meet that's what I will do! "

good on ya. hang in there, your day will come. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

devastated is a really strong word

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"devastated is a really strong word"
am sure you know what I mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple text or phone call is sufficient ASAP is it not?if your gonna cancel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"devastated is a really strong word am sure you know what I mean!"

frustrated lol- in hatewank mode etc etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks of contact and not 1 second of it in person

6 mins over a coffee wouldve done it

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"You need to build up a few potential meets as the success rate for a potential turning into a reality is usually very low , but this should be expected .

Arrange ten meets , 3 you think have a very good chance of happening , another 5 where its more than likely to be unlikely, but a chance none the less and then a few wild cards lol .

The closer meet time gets slowly the potentials either go silent or back out one by one .

Usually your left with 3rd or 4th choice and after expecting ( in my case ) a huge gorgeous hung hunk , that means someone more average , and then after being deflated I give that a miss lol .

So my advice is to set up loads of meets rather than just one egg xxx

Come on .... Who doesn't arrange back ups ??? I don't agree that means I'd be letting more then one person down my self!! If I say I meet that's what I will do! "

I've been let down a lot these last three years, so you're not on your own.

I even had one guy ask me in his final text if I was waiting. He failed to show. Which of course means he is a wanker and wouldn't be worth fucking.

You must learn not to raise your hopes too high until the deed is done, and then play it by ear to see if they want to meet you again.

Oh - and crack one off shortly before meeting, as you'll last longer at the meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to build up a few potential meets as the success rate for a potential turning into a reality is usually very low , but this should be expected .

Arrange ten meets , 3 you think have a very good chance of happening , another 5 where its more than likely to be unlikely, but a chance none the less and then a few wild cards lol .

The closer meet time gets slowly the potentials either go silent or back out one by one .

Usually your left with 3rd or 4th choice and after expecting ( in my case ) a huge gorgeous hung hunk , that means someone more average , and then after being deflated I give that a miss lol .

So my advice is to set up loads of meets rather than just one egg xxx

Come on .... Who doesn't arrange back ups ??? I don't agree that means I'd be letting more then one person down my self!! If I say I meet that's what I will do!

I've been let down a lot these last three years, so you're not on your own.

I even had one guy ask me in his final text if I was waiting. He failed to show. Which of course means he is a wanker and wouldn't be worth fucking.

You must learn not to raise your hopes too high until the deed is done, and then play it by ear to see if they want to meet you again.

Oh - and crack one off shortly before meeting, as you'll last longer at the meet! "

Thanks haha I will do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I dunno how u like to play OP...

six weeks as someone said above..is a long time in arranging a meet IMO-

especially if its all really been cyber/phone stuff

I'm afraid I'd have bored really quick of all that and would be arranging meets while i'm still chatting to the person

its not being a player, its just being realistic that this is primarily a sex site, and for meeting ppl casually

if I spent all my time chatting to one person, I'dve have missed out on many meets parties etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She probably read your post about cumming to quickly. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to build up a few potential meets as the success rate for a potential turning into a reality is usually very low , but this should be expected .

Arrange ten meets , 3 you think have a very good chance of happening , another 5 where its more than likely to be unlikely, but a chance none the less and then a few wild cards lol .

The closer meet time gets slowly the potentials either go silent or back out one by one .

Usually your left with 3rd or 4th choice and after expecting ( in my case ) a huge gorgeous hung hunk , that means someone more average , and then after being deflated I give that a miss lol .

So my advice is to set up loads of meets rather than just one egg xxx

Come on .... Who doesn't arrange back ups ??? I don't agree that means I'd be letting more then one person down my self!! If I say I meet that's what I will do!

I've been let down a lot these last three years, so you're not on your own.

I even had one guy ask me in his final text if I was waiting. He failed to show. Which of course means he is a wanker and wouldn't be worth fucking.

You must learn not to raise your hopes too high until the deed is done, and then play it by ear to see if they want to meet you again.

Oh - and crack one off shortly before meeting, as you'll last longer at the meet! "

ah, but I suspect this could be the source of many a single guy no show.

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire


"well I dunno how u like to play OP...

six weeks as someone said above..is a long time in arranging a meet IMO-

especially if its all really been cyber/phone stuff

I'm afraid I'd have bored really quick of all that and would be arranging meets while i'm still chatting to the person

its not being a player, its just being realistic that this is primarily a sex site, and for meeting ppl casually

if I spent all my time chatting to one person, I'dve have missed out on many meets parties etc.....

But sometimes circumstances at home/work mean people can't meet for a few weeks, but if a guy says I want to meet you straight away we are deemed pushy, I've been let down 3 times by the same woman this week, and we were just meeting for coffee lol"

I would like to piont out it was not by the lady I'm meeting on Tuesday, incase she reads this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I dunno how u like to play OP...

six weeks as someone said above..is a long time in arranging a meet IMO-

especially if its all really been cyber/phone stuff

I'm afraid I'd have bored really quick of all that and would be arranging meets while i'm still chatting to the person

its not being a player, its just being realistic that this is primarily a sex site, and for meeting ppl casually

if I spent all my time chatting to one person, I'dve have missed out on many meets parties etc.....

But sometimes circumstances at home/work mean people can't meet for a few weeks, but if a guy says I want to meet you straight away we are deemed pushy, I've been let down 3 times by the same woman this week, and we were just meeting for coffee lol

I would like to piont out it was not by the lady I'm meeting on Tuesday, incase she reads this. "

confused me there about what u were replying to...

yeahh I have no probs not being able to meet for months...but I would not direct all my time towards ONE person...if I have the chance of meeting ppl before each other, so be it...

while I was playing I was looking for a meet a week at least..so my times pretty valuable swingwise and unswingwise..if I spent all week( x 6) chatting in msn/skype/chatrooms/phonecalls etc.. I wouldnt meet my 'quota'- and as bad as it sounds..I couldnt give a toss if that makes me a bedhopper

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire


"well I dunno how u like to play OP...

six weeks as someone said above..is a long time in arranging a meet IMO-

especially if its all really been cyber/phone stuff

I'm afraid I'd have bored really quick of all that and would be arranging meets while i'm still chatting to the person

its not being a player, its just being realistic that this is primarily a sex site, and for meeting ppl casually

if I spent all my time chatting to one person, I'dve have missed out on many meets parties etc.....

But sometimes circumstances at home/work mean people can't meet for a few weeks, but if a guy says I want to meet you straight away we are deemed pushy, I've been let down 3 times by the same woman this week, and we were just meeting for coffee lol

I would like to piont out it was not by the lady I'm meeting on Tuesday, incase she reads this.

confused me there about what u were replying to...

yeahh I have no probs not being able to meet for months...but I would not direct all my time towards ONE person...if I have the chance of meeting ppl before each other, so be it...

while I was playing I was looking for a meet a week at least..so my times pretty valuable swingwise and unswingwise..if I spent all week( x 6) chatting in msn/skype/chatrooms/phonecalls etc.. I wouldnt meet my 'quota'- and as bad as it sounds..I couldnt give a toss if that makes me a bedhopper"

Sorry was replying to your post, I would never imply anyone was a bed hopper on here though. I was just trying to say that some meets do take time and if the OP is like me, and doesn't get many offers then, I like to work myself around the lady in question, maybe this makes me look desperate. But then again like you I'm not going to turn down the chance of a meet if one should arise for the sake of another. I think I've lost myself in this somewhere PMSFL!

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