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By *mDeethatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

My name is EmDee & my husband has recently got diagnosed with a brain tumour. I don’t know what to do or how to carry on.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"My name is EmDee & my husband has recently got diagnosed with a brain tumour. I don’t know what to do or how to carry on. "

Em... I'm so very sorry about your husband's diagnosis.

Are you in contact with MacMillan?

Do you have anyone around you?

Sending hugs xx

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over a year ago

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Oh what horrible news, my thoughts go out to your hubby and you. For what it's worth always here for a chat if you need to. Big hugs to you both.

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By *mDeethatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"My name is EmDee & my husband has recently got diagnosed with a brain tumour. I don’t know what to do or how to carry on.

Em... I'm so very sorry about your husband's diagnosis.

Are you in contact with MacMillan?

Do you have anyone around you?

Sending hugs xx"

Yes he is,we have family but not told them yet. I don’t know when the ‘right’ time will be. It’s weird because he still looks so well. The tumour is tiny,only 5mm so he’s being monitored by the hospital with regular mri scans.

Thanks for the virtual hugs

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Sorry tonhear that EmDee, thoughts are with you and yours at this time xx

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By *mDeethatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Sorry tonhear that EmDee, thoughts are with you and yours at this time xx"

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god poor you guys really hope everything works out positively

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Oh my word. Just sending you both kindness and wishing you the best outcome. Puts everything else in perspective.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Remember that you will need support as well as your husband so make sure you put that in place. Be kind to yourself.

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By *mDeethatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Thankyou everyone It’s hard for him. I don’t think about anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So so sorry to hear that, I really don't know what to say

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Remember that you will need support as well as your husband so make sure you put that in place. Be kind to yourself. "

Second this, make sure you have support too xx

Tinder x

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

So sorry op

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

My thoughts are with you. I hope the right treatment reveals itself.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

So Sorry EmDee. I know a bit about brain haemorrhaging but not so much about tumours. As I understand it you will need to embrace for a lifelong thing in terms of checking for its return. I've been there with the lifelong diagnosis - and I found complete acceptance early on made it much easier to help look after someone. Somehow I just completely accepted it. And perhaps make use of the people you can talk to too. And, obviously, be positive! It's small, so hopefully early in its development. I don't know what you are like, but to be there for him you might need people to be there for you. I did a huge amount (pretty much all) the caring on my own as it worked out easier that way, but people's various situations can be so different of course, as are the illnesses themselves. So I'd say consider any help on offer, but don't worry about being shrewd about help too (if it's not 'helping' help you don't have to accept it). When things are diagnosed as serious, the NHS etc can be flexible for various needs, so don't be afraid to ask about anything that you can think of, would like or require. pt

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

So sorry EmDee I've been where you are now. If you want to talk feel free to message me.

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