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Before the pile on starts. It is in the site rules that No Reply = No Thank You.
I'm sure if everyone did reply No Thank You we'd soon get threads about the disappointment of never getting a reply other than "No thank you"
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "NO REPLY = NO THANK YOU It's in the rules. Plus why should I reply to people who have messaged and not bothered to read my profile. Or I reply no thank you despite the fact they've not read it to be bombarded with minging cock pics or abuse. Mrs | |||
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"Jeez, stop shouting  "Yeah! DF has sensitive little ears. | |||
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "it doss, when jou have to send that message 500 times per day, often to the same person you already told, you are not interested. No reply is not interested, take it on the chin and move on. | |||
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
J"Exactly!! Mrs | |||
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"True "And relax. You seem calmer already, OP, which is good. But would you honestly want loads of messages saying "no, thanks"? Seems a bit pointless. Just delete your sent items and any reply is a nice surprise ! | |||
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "Time, it costs time | |||
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"True "Come on op where's everyone's individual reply? | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "We owe nothing so no. Half the time it's people that haven't read our profile or ignore it. Plenty of times people try to convince us or ask us why etc... So why should we? | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "IT CAN COST THEIR SANITY WHEN PEOPLE CAN'T HANDLE REJECTION AND GET RANTY  | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "For what it's worth - I am not interested  | |||
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"Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in. " Didn't know that! | |||
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"Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in. " Precisely why I just delete too. | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "It costs time unfortunately, thats why they don't do it, its in the rules  | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "I'm sure this comes up every single week. No-one owes you a reply, you're a complete stranger. | |||
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
J"Oh, I'm guessing you weren't interested in doing that.
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"Did you mean No reply or Know reply?? "Some people have dyslexia, didn't receive a full education or English is not their first language, so be kind.. | |||
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"Jeez, stop shouting "No wonder they didn’t reply. | |||
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"Did you mean No reply or Know reply??
Some people have dyslexia, didn't receive a full education or English is not their first language, so be kind.."I get that and not taking the P but if the recipient doesn't understand the message they are less likely to reply. OP your status reads: HERE'S MY RANT OF THE DAY. IT COSTS NORTH TO SAY NOT INTERNET THANKS Maybe you or a friend proof reads before updating/messaging | |||
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "pleasure | |||
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "I wasn't being sarcastic. If you take the time and energy to reply to every single message here then you'll understand exactly why people don't do it. J | |||
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies pleasure " | |||
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "I was genuinely trying to help but there you go! | |||
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies
I wasn't being sarcastic. If you take the time and energy to reply to every single message here then you'll understand exactly why people don't do it.
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "I wasn't being sarcastic. Apparently some people need to be told that people they want to fuck have time that's of value and don't want to have to dodge abuse or manipulation. Apparently fully grown adults don't realise the world doesn't revolve solely around them. I'm hoping that pointing out another person's perspective will educate people who failed to develop capacity to understand that other people exist outside their desires. | |||
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Good point"I got told off yesterday for replying to everyone who posted on some of my threads . But to the op this fab and the women here get to bombarded with messages but keep trying some actually do reply there are some fabulous people here . | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "It does cost something. It costs time. Why do you think you are entitled to get people to use their time to tell you they are not interested? | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "Please don't shout, I have a headache. | |||
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"Do you reply to every shit email you receive OP????" Jumping on the bandwagon here, but can this question get a reply? | |||
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"Do you reply to every shit email you receive OP???? Jumping on the bandwagon here, but can this question get a reply?" I do. With the exception of the automated oness. | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
Please don't shout, I have a headache."Passes the paracetamol.. have two of these and some earplugs lol | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "It costs nothing to read the site rules. | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "Here's my rant... DROP THE EXPECTATIONS, NO ONE I MEAN NO ONE OWES YOU A RESPONSE, AN EXPLANATION. DROP THE ENTITLEMENT.. that got very shouty, remember some times the loudest message, is in the quietest reply I.e the one you dont get back | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "Thank you for showing the forum your caring and understanding side because it will help cut down your interaction on Fab. I reply to all inane crap messages because I have time but others don’t have the luxury that I have. Get over yourself. T | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
Thank you for showing the forum your caring and understanding side because it will help cut down your interaction on Fab.
I reply to all inane crap messages because I have time but others don’t have the luxury that I have.
Get over yourself.
T"You're making me think of an answering machine. "Thank you for messaging _naswingdress. Unfortunately my pussy is drier than the Sahara at this time. Please don't leave a message and don't try again." | |||
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And relax. You seem calmer already, OP, which is good.
But would you honestly want loads of messages saying "no, thanks"? Seems a bit pointless. Just delete your sent items and any reply is a nice surprise !"Why haven't you replied to me, OP? Did you not like my message? What have I done wrong? How's a reply meant to catch a break around here if they're just ignored! | |||
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"I would hate to read the messages you are sending if you require them to send a response if they are interested or not … maybe that’s the problem. Maybe take the time to read a profile and send a decent interaction, try engaging in a normal respectful conversation …. Just an idea "Respectful conversation? On fab? Good golly what a radical idea I think you’re a little ahead of your time | |||
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
J"If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "Genuine questions: why do you feel entitled to a reply? Do you get messaged first or are you the person always messaging ? Are you confident if you received a message from someone you weren't interested in, you'd take the time to reply to every single one? Even if that was double/triple figures per day | |||
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If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea
Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here "Yeah but... something something... manners... something... cost nothing... blah blah... women... yadda yadda... polite and respectful | |||
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If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea
Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here "^^ this Looking forward to our reply from the OP. How long can I hold my breath!?!? | |||
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"Well actually Mark it does. 1. It is usually met with one of the following "awww not your type hehe" "Well you seem awesome I'd like to just be friends" "Stuck up bitch" "Hahaha obviously you're a guy!" 2. They are now past your filters and can message even when you block all men. To stop this you'd have to block each guy individually. 3. I don't want to. " This I agree with Op | |||
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"Well actually Mark it does. 1. It is usually met with one of the following "awww not your type hehe" "Well you seem awesome I'd like to just be friends" "Stuck up bitch" "Hahaha obviously you're a guy!" 2. They are now past your filters and can message even when you block all men. To stop this you'd have to block each guy individually. 3. I don't want to. " | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
Please don't shout, I have a headache.
Passes the paracetamol.. have two of these and some earplugs lol"Thanks, MS Teams meeting in 15 mins, so they may help - maybe I should not share my screen with Fab open! | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "NOT INTERESTED | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
Please don't shout, I have a headache.
Passes the paracetamol.. have two of these and some earplugs lol
Thanks, MS Teams meeting in 15 mins, so they may help - maybe I should not share my screen with Fab open!"Welcome.. yeah probably best to keep fab off teams lol | |||
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"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "Maybe you should have read through the site FAQ's where this subject has been covered | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
NOT INTERESTED "This OP | |||
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If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea
Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here "But we couldn't possibly understand the hassle of replying to threads. We love all these messages because... reasons | |||
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"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all
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If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea
Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here
Yeah but... something something... manners... something... cost nothing... blah blah... women... yadda yadda... polite and respectful "you missed "give us good guys a chance" and "spoiling it for others" otherwise you'd have had a full house. | |||
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If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea
Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here
Yeah but... something something... manners... something... cost nothing... blah blah... women... yadda yadda... polite and respectful
you missed "give us good guys a chance" and "spoiling it for others"
otherwise you'd have had a full house. "I give good guys a chance by not burning out my goodwill on little boys who can't follow the norms of the site and take no reply for an answer. | |||
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"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such). What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?" Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed. | |||
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"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such). What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to? Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed. " Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates | |||
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"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?" I wouldn't say people 'keep' them, just don't get around to deleting messages. It's not that they're saving them for some reason. I've only recently started deleting messages at all | |||
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"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such). What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to? Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed. Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates "Oh, I tried that, after 4 of the same I finally replied ‘unsubscribe’ he lost it a little so I had to block in the end | |||
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"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such). What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to? Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed. Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates
Oh, I tried that, after 4 of the same I finally replied ‘unsubscribe’ he lost it a little so I had to block in the end "I remember once I got to about 20 before I pointed out that it was a copy and paste. He asked me how I knew. I pointed out the idiosyncratic typo he made every time. Then he got mad. | |||
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"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such). What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to? Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed. Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates
Oh, I tried that, after 4 of the same I finally replied ‘unsubscribe’ he lost it a little so I had to block in the end
I remember once I got to about 20 before I pointed out that it was a copy and paste. He asked me how I knew. I pointed out the idiosyncratic typo he made every time.
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"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?" Because we can't be arsed deleting. Trust me, we're not going back perving the pics you attached, we're just shit at admin. Also, you can choose to auto delete your photos once a message has been read | |||
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"Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in. Didn't know that!" I didnt either till someone told me. If you have engaged with someone either messaging or I believe winking too is able to still message you if you change your filters at a later date. So say you message every single man back who sends you something then decide to block single men. All those who you have previously replied to are not blocked by the filter. | |||
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"It costs nothing to not take offence when you get no reply "It stops the whole cycle and costs everyone a whole lot less. But why do that when you can make your feelings someone else's problem? | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "Silence means just that,so much traffic and noise. Winks/peeps/messages dont mean a thing. Even a real meet there are too many odds in place! Mostly coz of Bia's being carried arround and Baggage!! The real approach you know where you stand. I Ieave my number if no call,adios! Its a numbers game. Best approach face to face IMHO. | |||
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"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain? Because we can't be arsed deleting. Trust me, we're not going back perving the pics you attached, we're just shit at admin. Also, you can choose to auto delete your photos once a message has been read" blocking the has the same effect and you don't need to subscribe to do it  | |||
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"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain? Because we can't be arsed deleting. Trust me, we're not going back perving the pics you attached, we're just shit at admin. Also, you can choose to auto delete your photos once a message has been read blocking the has the same effect and you don't need to subscribe to do it "I don't believe it does. | |||
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"OP your status needs help." Internet Is buffering bad day to be Op | |||
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"Noone owes anyone a reply, in my opinion. I think it would be polite to reply if ... 1. Mesaager reads the profile 2. Delivers a message that is based on mutual likes 3. Answers the list of questions that are in said profile. 4. Uses language that is not text speak 5. Has written a message that is clearly not cut and paste 6. Has put the quirky animal/place/random vegetable in the title as requested. But if they don't reply then that's tough shit. Nothing you can do, no need to get shitty. Have fun all xx" I forgot 7, didn't just say a variation of hi wanna fuck/you free now/great tits | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
Here's my rant...
DROP THE EXPECTATIONS, NO ONE I MEAN NO ONE OWES YOU A RESPONSE, AN EXPLANATION.
DROP THE ENTITLEMENT..
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"Getting a bit incelly on here "Careful, Fluffy, us women get told off for using that word. Naughty! | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. "That's true but when women / couples have over 400 messages to reply to it gets a little tiring | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED.
That's true but when women / couples have over 400 messages to reply to it gets a little tiring "Only gets more and more if you don't read them | |||
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"Here is my Rant for today. IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM NOT INTERESTED. " Do you reply to every junk email you get? You know… the ones that you’ve zero interest in or didn’t ask for or that advertise things and places you would never want to do or visit? Didn’t think so… | |||
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"Cant complain about the lack of replies now "He’s definitely got plenty of replies on this
However we are all still waiting for his individual reply to our comments | |||
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"Getting a bit incelly on here
Careful, Fluffy, us women get told off for using that word. Naughty! "Haha, change it up a bit and the incels miss it | |||
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"Getting a bit incelly on here
Careful, Fluffy, us women get told off for using that word. Naughty!
Haha, change it up a bit and the incels miss it " | |||
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