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"I just stick with no thanks. If I'm not interested I'm just not interested " Joys of being a woman | |||
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"I just stick with no thanks. If I'm not interested I'm just not interested " Exactly this | |||
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"I just stick with no thanks. If I'm not interested I'm just not interested Joys of being a woman " Yes. We never have to lie or make shit up just to get persistent people off our backs. The unjustness you poor men must feel. I don't see any need to lie to someone to soothe their ego, nor do I feel the need to rip someone apart. So, if I'm not interested, then it should only be no thanks. | |||
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"I just get ghosted " Have you met these ppl to ghost you? Ppl go to ghosting so easily . Conversation drops out, ppl lose intrest is this ghosting. I'd say not | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. " If lying to them makes you feel better, that's your choice. | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. If lying to them makes you feel better, that's your choice." I could be wrong. Maybe men understand it better what it’s like to deal with rejection | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. If lying to them makes you feel better, that's your choice. I could be wrong. Maybe men understand it better what it’s like to deal with rejection " From seeing the abusive messages friend get sent due to rejection, I'd argue this point, and the total lack of some being at to manage the feelings if rejection. | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. If lying to them makes you feel better, that's your choice. I could be wrong. Maybe men understand it better what it’s like to deal with rejection " Sounds like you might be the one that's fragile | |||
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"No thank you. Is my default response " This. I've told a few people that I'm not free at the moment when they've asked me to meet that night. I simply said that it wasn't an option, but I'd be happy to look again in the future. Most were fine about it. Some assumed that as a single guy I should be grateful. Yeah. Nah. A | |||
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"No thank you. Is my default response This. I've told a few people that I'm not free at the moment when they've asked me to meet that night. I simply said that it wasn't an option, but I'd be happy to look again in the future. Most were fine about it. Some assumed that as a single guy I should be grateful. Yeah. Nah. A" Oh...so if I've asked a guy to meet and he's said he can't at the moment, he's letting me down? Well this is sad news. | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. " So question is why can't you be honest about that, but put it down to women's supposed sensitivities | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. " If someone is reacting like that to you saying "no thanks" then that is on them. It's perfectly polite. Have you had poor reactions to this previously? Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I feel Women are too fragile, I could never say “no thanks” as they would only imagine something is wrong with them. When the fact is my mind and sexual requirements are a bit whacky. If lying to them makes you feel better, that's your choice. I could be wrong. Maybe men understand it better what it’s like to deal with rejection " If that is true then they'll never understand if people continually sugar coat it. | |||
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"A simple ‘not for me Thankyou’ usually works x" teh ty goes a long way I think | |||
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"A man we met had been told several times that he looked too much like their brother. " -Lol being turned off by that is probably quite common, I've had that experience on FG but I've never used it as an excuse in that context though! Funnily enough though, I have actually used the excuse when in the end I blocked someone from sending me these simple "that pic is lovely" type of messages from time to time (a guy who I'm fairly sure genuinely used his real name as his user name) - which was also that of my brother (yes I really really don't like this brother!) - when I explained this to him in the bonkers fabguys forum - and that I woudn't normally care - he actually got really cheesed off as he really hates blocks and loves to look at profiles and message people, and he clearly thought I was a bit mad and really unfair! But even a name can put people off sometimes! I think that before people know anything about you, your name is quite a thing. Only when they get to know you the name becomes just a simple connecting word again, and you just 'see' the person. So profile names are kind of important really, and it's potentially a little bit risky using (or choosing) a common name - it could potentially evoke somebody else until someone properly speaks to you! pt | |||
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"So, about this anagram..." We solved that Nanna, BLACK HUNG YETI | |||
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"So, about this anagram... We solved that Nanna, BLACK HUNG YETI " Oh Blimey, I would have never got that. | |||
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"So, about this anagram... We solved that Nanna, BLACK HUNG YETI Oh Blimey, I would have never got that. " Likely because it makes no sense | |||
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"We just say sorry, you're not what we're looking for. " Yes, us too | |||
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"Yesterday I told a rather insistent young man that I was sorry, but he was just too big for me and I wouldn't be able to fit him. When he didn't give up and told me how I'd change my mind when he fucked me, I told him he was an entitled wanker and blocked him. Job done. " Excellent work | |||
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"Yesterday I told a rather insistent young man that I was sorry, but he was just too big for me and I wouldn't be able to fit him. When he didn't give up and told me how I'd change my mind when he fucked me, I told him he was an entitled wanker and blocked him. Job done. Excellent work " Thank you. Tbh I should have just blocked him when he led with a dick pic - but I thought I'd try being diplomatic. Needn't have bothered. | |||
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"Yesterday I told a rather insistent young man that I was sorry, but he was just too big for me and I wouldn't be able to fit him. When he didn't give up and told me how I'd change my mind when he fucked me, I told him he was an entitled wanker and blocked him. Job done. Excellent work Thank you. Tbh I should have just blocked him when he led with a dick pic - but I thought I'd try being diplomatic. Needn't have bothered. " Oh dick pics are all good… I print them all off as I’m papering my downstairs loo with them | |||
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"Yesterday I told a rather insistent young man that I was sorry, but he was just too big for me and I wouldn't be able to fit him. When he didn't give up and told me how I'd change my mind when he fucked me, I told him he was an entitled wanker and blocked him. Job done. Excellent work Thank you. Tbh I should have just blocked him when he led with a dick pic - but I thought I'd try being diplomatic. Needn't have bothered. Oh dick pics are all good… I print them all off as I’m papering my downstairs loo with them " I'll be wanting to visit your downstairs loo sometime to see this | |||
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"I normally just say sorry I’m not attracted to you. Why add any flannel? They’re not my cup of tequila the same as I’m not for others. " Lovely shade of blue. | |||
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"Yesterday I told a rather insistent young man that I was sorry, but he was just too big for me and I wouldn't be able to fit him. When he didn't give up and told me how I'd change my mind when he fucked me, I told him he was an entitled wanker and blocked him. Job done. Excellent work Thank you. Tbh I should have just blocked him when he led with a dick pic - but I thought I'd try being diplomatic. Needn't have bothered. Oh dick pics are all good… I print them all off as I’m papering my downstairs loo with them I'll be wanting to visit your downstairs loo sometime to see this " You are welcome anytime | |||
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"I normally just say sorry I’m not attracted to you. Why add any flannel? They’re not my cup of tequila the same as I’m not for others. Lovely shade of blue. " Thanks CG | |||
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"I usually preempt it before they've even sent me their photo. When she sends the first message but is incapable of living up to her own rules of conversation and momentum (as inferred in her profile), I just close down the chat with self-explanatory silence." By which point the shallow and presumptuous chambermaid has hopefully seen enough of the forum to greet your punishing silence with a long and deep sigh of relief | |||
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"I usually preempt it before they've even sent me their photo. When she sends the first message but is incapable of living up to her own rules of conversation and momentum (as inferred in her profile), I just close down the chat with self-explanatory silence. By which point the shallow and presumptuous chambermaid has hopefully seen enough of the forum to greet your punishing silence with a long and deep sigh of relief" Why get so personal with him? Why is he not allowed to ignore them? | |||
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""Hi, Sorry not for us, have fun! xxx" Our go to sentence!!! M&J x" Us as well | |||
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"I've already been rammed today so my fanny looks like a half eaten mouldy ham. Maybe another time mate." That should keep the vegans away at least. | |||
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