FabSwingers.com forum: Am I just invisible

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Get out there op so to speak. Join in with forum/cam chat and sell yourself. As most things in life, we have to shout out from the rooftops sometimes.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Who said that?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Nope can't say that I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Nope can't say that I do. "

You should!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

All the time, but hey-ho

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Nope can't say that I do.

You should!

Don't project onto me now Jennie

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Op, if your feeling this way, my suggestion woukd be put fab down for a while, as fab will only heighten any of those feelings for you, come back when your in a better place. Where it may not knock you so badly.

Remember this your of value and if worth don't ever forget that, and your seen and noticed, even if it feels like your not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Remember this your of value and if worth don't ever forget that, and your seen and noticed, even if it feels like your not "

Sound advice. Thanks

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Perhaps a profile re-write to reflect a little bit more of yourself

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Go into the chat rooms...try the ones specific to your region...generally quiet without the usual baying men asking to see them ahem play...can build up a rapport from there...you won't necessarily get a meet if that is what you are after but can have a good chat.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Serious answer now.

This place is a strange ecosystem. It is absolutely not reflective of reality.

So don't allow your self esteem in the real world be impacted by interactions on a niche interest internet site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps a profile re-write to reflect a little bit more of yourself

Any advice would be appreciated

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Yeah... I hear you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No I don't.

I don't come to be valued and looked at though ....... so mebbeh that's why.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Serious answer now.

This place is a strange ecosystem. It is absolutely not reflective of reality.

So don't allow your self esteem in the real world be impacted by interactions on a niche interest internet site. "

Nod. Serious.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Serious answer now.

This place is a strange ecosystem. It is absolutely not reflective of reality.

So don't allow your self esteem in the real world be impacted by interactions on a niche interest internet site. "

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"No I don't.

I don't come to be valued and looked at though ....... so mebbeh that's why."
we can't look At you, no pics

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By *ogo1189Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

"Who said that?"

Gutted! Got there before me!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Who said that?

Gutted! Got there before me! "

So you came after Gutted ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds like you need to step away from fab for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Nope, whatever happens here happens,l don't let what happens or doesn't happen worry me in the slightest, lm supposed to feel overlooked or undervalued by a complete stranger on the Internet that hasn't chatted to me at all ? ..not a hope ..

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Give it time

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Not by strangers no. But sometimes by social friends, who then complain because they, are not high on my time division priorities. Swings and roundabouts eh

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i wouldnt let it bother you op,, just have a bit of fun on the forums

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope because this is just part of online. People can be popular online but that's it whether here or somewhere else but away from online not as much as someone else....

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Who said that?

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Who said that?"

Damn.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Sometimes a bit maybe but it doesn't bother me in any way, as for feeling undervalued I don't ever feel that because we're responsible for our own self worth

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

Bear in mind that there are no more than 50 or 60 thousand men and women on here. Sorry I should say, 50 thousand men and 10 thousand women. Despite the apparent freedom, the same rules apply or should apply. The Women decide who they want to fuck! It's a bloody bothersome thing - consent and desire - but that is just how it is. My advice is to widen your horizons. I'm telling you now that I am far more likely to give you a blow job (and I have regretted a few) than any of the no-tails on here.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

God not on here. Absolutely not. This is so low on my list of priorities, i don't give it a second thought.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Who said that?"

Snap

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?

Remember this your of value and if worth don't ever forget that, and your seen and noticed, even if it feels like your not "

Or see if you can get yourself a copy of the anarchist's handbook (is that still a thing?)

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

If you mean on fab, it doesn't phase me any.

Some people are popular and on forums a lot and others get ignored at times.

Doesn't mean you are of no value or you shouldn't contribute if you feel like it.

Just view it as idle time passing maybe, it shouldn't affect your self worth any, just a way of passing time.

MrsAbz

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

Everyday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to rephrase, I wasn’t referring to fab specifically. I get that it’s a quieter place for a lot of people and a popularity contest for others.

I meant in general. Not just myself either. So many people get overlooked in life

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Just to rephrase, I wasn’t referring to fab specifically. I get that it’s a quieter place for a lot of people and a popularity contest for others.

I meant in general. Not just myself either. So many people get overlooked in life "

This is true unfortunately. I guess you just get used to it in the end.

Sometimes its nice to float along and know no one is paying attention to you though. Which is a positive from it.

I have no advice on how to change it though.

MrsAbz

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

There is a manager I work with sometimes who just looks through me, and I have to really fight for her time despite my productivity. She just isn't interested. It's a very needlessly frustrating thing though, as we simply have to communicate at times. It's a weird ego thing, and a weird world.

I find the trick in dealing with this is to look around and 'down' not just up. Like people say, the world is full of people being ignored.

On the scale of things I think I do ok, and I know the places where I'm valued.

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

I meant in everyday life. I feel like if your not part of that 15% of men then your value is near zero. These days anyway

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I meant in everyday life. I feel like if your not part of that 15% of men then your value is near zero. These days anyway"

What 15% of men? Is that a thing somewhere? pt

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"

I've found since messing around in forums I'm seen and heard more.. keep at it .. you are a good looking guy x

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