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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of u guys speak about time wasters.

As a lady ive had 2 experiences this wk.

Both guys arranged to meet me.we exchanged phone no.

Next day never heard from both guys.

went on line they had left fab.

What is the point in this.

Had i known could of arranged another meet.

Guys u not the only ones.

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Busses come in threes, sometimes you miss all three of them

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Lots of u guys speak about time wasters.

As a lady ive had 2 experiences this wk.

Both guys arranged to meet me.we exchanged phone no.

Next day never heard from both guys.

went on line they had left fab.

What is the point in this.

Had i known could of arranged another meet.

Guys u not the only ones."

If i maybe bold enough to make a suggestion, don't give out your number till the day of the meet or get theirs first and call them to see how they respond

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I've had two time wasters..grr

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Lots of u guys speak about time wasters.

As a lady ive had 2 experiences this wk.

Both guys arranged to meet me.we exchanged phone no.

Next day never heard from both guys.

went on line they had left fab.

What is the point in this.

Had i known could of arranged another meet.

Guys u not the only ones.

If i maybe bold enough to make a suggestion, don't give out your number till the day of the meet or get theirs first and call them to see how they respond "
wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate them

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I hate to think they're laugh knowing people as wasting their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately part of the swinging scene but they left so that's 2 less single males to get in my way lol

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Always a positive

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Never had a timewaster!

Always meet for coffee first during my lunch break or 5.15 at the station. If they don't turn up I was out to lunch anyway, and my train is 5.27 so I'd be at the station anyway.

When arranging a play meet I'd be at home anyway, working from home, sorting my knicker draw so no time wasted.

Knowing I won't be put out or give a damn if they show or not makes a difference: 100% turn out. Works for me.

On rare occasions I've agreed to meet at the weekend at London Bridge...I've yet to meet: always cancelled!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Any time wasters reading this.... Please mend your ways.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/"

I can tell you easy why that's happening ! You have hidden your prof . Girls will go to your prof find it blocked and then deleate with out reading or read it think you sound ok then go to your prof find it blocked and then just deleate you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most time wasters are guys, or a guy masquerading as a couple. No doubt my statement will attract lots of comments from single guys defending their corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/

I can tell you easy why that's happening ! You have hidden your prof . Girls will go to your prof find it blocked and then deleate with out reading or read it think you sound ok then go to your prof find it blocked and then just deleate you . "

Perhaps the guy is a time waster.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Most time wasters are guys, or a guy masquerading as a couple. No doubt my statement will attract lots of comments from single guys defending their corner."

No I agree, many will be guys,,,, both single and husbands playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reson there are more time wasting single male is because there are say 3000 men 10% time wasters is 300 were as there are 300 single girls 10% time wasters is 30 so it looks like guys wast more time than girl but its just that there are more of them xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/

I can tell you easy why that's happening ! You have hidden your prof . Girls will go to your prof find it blocked and then deleate with out reading or read it think you sound ok then go to your prof find it blocked and then just deleate you . "

Lordy, lordy, do people honestly expect responses from hidden profiles?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only reson there are more time wasting single male is because there are say 3000 men 10% time wasters is 300 were as there are 300 single girls 10% time wasters is 30 so it looks like guys wast more time than girl but its just that there are more of them xx "

Maths always wins

I was going to say I've had my time and money wasted by women as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/

I can tell you easy why that's happening ! You have hidden your prof . Girls will go to your prof find it blocked and then deleate with out reading or read it think you sound ok then go to your prof find it blocked and then just deleate you . Perhaps the guy is a time waster."

I do find it very odd this isn't the 1st time I have seen him saying about not getting any meets . Well he isn't going to at this rate lol

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea


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I was going to say I've had my time and money wasted by women as well. "

Time, Money, Fuel, Hotels, Evenings ... etc

but we still do it - we still make time for others to mess us around, purely because when a great meet happens - its soooo worth it

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think its fairer to say some people are timewasters rather than men, women, couples, etc.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/

I can tell you easy why that's happening ! You have hidden your prof . Girls will go to your prof find it blocked and then deleate with out reading or read it think you sound ok then go to your prof find it blocked and then just deleate you .

Lordy, lordy, do people honestly expect responses from hidden profiles?!! "

You'd be amazed at some.of the messages I get! Even when I explain why my profile is hidden - I had to tell someone twice yesterday as he ignored it the first time I told him. Then he had a go at me for wasting his time when I had no intention of meeting!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I think its fairer to say some people are timewasters rather than men, women, couples, etc."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Times wasters I hate them. ATM I can't even get a meet. Just deleted messages all the time :/

I can tell you easy why that's happening ! You have hidden your prof . Girls will go to your prof find it blocked and then deleate with out reading or read it think you sound ok then go to your prof find it blocked and then just deleate you .

Lordy, lordy, do people honestly expect responses from hidden profiles?!!

You'd be amazed at some.of the messages I get! Even when I explain why my profile is hidden - I had to tell someone twice yesterday as he ignored it the first time I told him. Then he had a go at me for wasting his time when I had no intention of meeting! "
how do you get messages if your prof is hiden ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My theory behind time wasters is that they just simply bottle it..!

We get most of our mail late at night, most probably when they have had a few glasses of wine and feeling horny. But a few days later, when their libido has calmed down, their not to keen to meet..

We have had a few people cancel our meets, but hay, its part of the course. Now we just arrange meets at clubs, that way if they don't show, we still have other options.

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