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By *pforanything121 OP   Man
over a year ago

castleford

What’s everyone’s opinions on apparently it looks better if someone is open to travel a little or lot either or for a meet weather it’s a one and go or full weekend thing. Been told that it looks better because kinda proves you are genuine and want it to happen and willing to travel for it. I’m not sure on it tbf. I can a little bit understand why people thinking like that but can’t be all that can it? Will say sometimes feels easier to chat or talk about a meet with people who are always not in your area lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People are different and want different things. The most important is that someone is reliable and a good match. If you make it easy for others to evaluate your suitability for them, then it will be easier than if it's harder for them to ascertain this. Certainly it can be helpful for them to know where and how you may meet them. Not everyone wants a close by neighbour but conversely, they may not consider someone who's very far away. Whilst it could be helpful to know someones flexibility for meet duration, the specifics are probably going to be the type of details that can be discussed and evaluated, once they've determined your general compatibility. Do you view your having already given them your best shot overall in being able to evaluate your suitability as a good match?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that stands for anything here is consistency. That's the only thing that encourages me to meet someone as its far and few between on here. Anyone can say they will travel but actually showing up, that's rare.

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By *pforanything121 OP   Man
over a year ago

castleford


"The only thing that stands for anything here is consistency. That's the only thing that encourages me to meet someone as its far and few between on here. Anyone can say they will travel but actually showing up, that's rare."

Yes I know what you mean. Iv got a couple regular people and like you say it’s very rare to have that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dynamic means I don’t mind traveling even long distances even if it’s just a day time social or night social

Learned though only big major cities

Got stood up ones in a small place down south and couldn’t salvage as people were 30-40 miles away

At least if I do big places like Newcastle Manchester London and things like that

If I get stood up I can just fly the meet now flag and salvage it

Same with if it’s just a social to see if we want to take things further

My dynamic with guys is just sexual and high numbers I like to be that 4 letter bad word that ever guys used at some point in time so for instance I can kill two birds with one stone so to speak

I can take a mid day / evening social with a woman or couple to see they want to take things further at a later date / arrange baby sitter for the night and what not and know I will turn up down there when I say

And then once finshed the social and back at hotel fly the meet now flag meet and get used by a couple off guys get used at them to my count off guys

So it’s never a wasted journey as I just killed two birds with one stone

Potential set up a thing to go futher with a woman or couple and also sampled some local tatlent in guys

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

O.P.

It doesn't 'look' better. Why say you will travel just to 'look' better?

If you don't want to travel don't say you will.

Travelling certainly opens up the pool but it also increases expenses and being far from home if someone else doesn't show up.

Stick to what you want.

If you are happy not travelling don't lie and say you will ..... no point.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think it's a silly hoop for someone to have to jump through to prove something.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"My dynamic means I don’t mind traveling even long distances even if it’s just a day time social or night social

Learned though only big major cities

Got stood up ones in a small place down south and couldn’t salvage as people were 30-40 miles away

At least if I do big places like Newcastle Manchester London and things like that

If I get stood up I can just fly the meet now flag and salvage it

Same with if it’s just a social to see if we want to take things further

My dynamic with guys is just sexual and high numbers I like to be that 4 letter bad word that ever guys used at some point in time so for instance I can kill two birds with one stone so to speak

I can take a mid day / evening social with a woman or couple to see they want to take things further at a later date / arrange baby sitter for the night and what not and know I will turn up down there when I say

And then once finshed the social and back at hotel fly the meet now flag meet and get used by a couple off guys get used at them to my count off guys

So it’s never a wasted journey as I just killed two birds with one stone

Potential set up a thing to go futher with a woman or couple and also sampled some local tatlent in guys

"

Fascinating glimpse into your life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"O.P.

It doesn't 'look' better. Why say you will travel just to 'look' better?

If you don't want to travel don't say you will.

Travelling certainly opens up the pool but it also increases expenses and being far from home if someone else doesn't show up.

Stick to what you want.

…."

Op. Listen to this. Stick to doing what YOU want.

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

I would say we would prefer to travel or be travelled too , just because we don’t particularly want to see the person or persons every time we go to Tesco.

On the other hand , there is a limit , let’s say 30 miles

Just as an arbitrary line

Cos if you’re gonna travel 400 miles … and we have had that offer

That screams red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My dynamic means I don’t mind traveling even long distances even if it’s just a day time social or night social

Learned though only big major cities

Got stood up ones in a small place down south and couldn’t salvage as people were 30-40 miles away

At least if I do big places like Newcastle Manchester London and things like that

If I get stood up I can just fly the meet now flag and salvage it

Same with if it’s just a social to see if we want to take things further

My dynamic with guys is just sexual and high numbers I like to be that 4 letter bad word that ever guys used at some point in time so for instance I can kill two birds with one stone so to speak

I can take a mid day / evening social with a woman or couple to see they want to take things further at a later date / arrange baby sitter for the night and what not and know I will turn up down there when I say

And then once finshed the social and back at hotel fly the meet now flag meet and get used by a couple off guys get used at them to my count off guys

So it’s never a wasted journey as I just killed two birds with one stone

Potential set up a thing to go futher with a woman or couple and also sampled some local tatlent in guys

Fascinating glimpse into your life ."

A little yes

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What’s everyone’s opinions on apparently it looks better if someone is open to travel a little or lot either or for a meet weather it’s a one and go or full weekend thing. Been told that it looks better because kinda proves you are genuine and want it to happen and willing to travel for it. I’m not sure on it tbf. I can a little bit understand why people thinking like that but can’t be all that can it? Will say sometimes feels easier to chat or talk about a meet with people who are always not in your area lol"
some people see travelling long distances as desperation despite the weather

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The thing is ,if you travel a good way ,what happens if that person doesn't show up ?.

It can be costly In terms or money and your time.

Personally if I was meeting someone for the first time say from my single profile,I wouldn't travel too far. There seems to be so many people getting stood up lately & unless you've met before how do you know who will turn up and who will no show.

You meet the way that suits you the best op and don't let anyone make you feel you have to travel miles.

Miss

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It doesn't make any difference, you either can and want to or you can't and don't. It's misleading to say otherwise.

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