FabSwingers.com forum: People who don't leave verifications back

By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago

London | Belfast

I had many meets that I never received a verification for on this site and I wonder why? Even if I ask them directly to do it, they just say yes and never actually leave a veri

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It must be a common aspect of the people who you meet OP. I don't see it with others generally. Did you take time to get to know then, before meeting? Did you meet more than once@

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why not ask them. They will know the reason better us.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Best just forgetting about it and moving forward you are only annoying yourself x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

If you’ve asked them and they said yes they will then I’m not sure why they haven’t? However if they haven’t then I certainly wouldn’t be meeting them again. Personally either someone does what they say they’re going to do or they’re outta here

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

If you’re getting “many meets” then are veris even much of an issue??

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By *pforanything121Man
over a year ago

castleford

This has happened a couple of times with me. Couples and single meets. Did mention if they would verify me and me them but never did with some people. Some profiles have been deleted or hidden. Just strange I think. Very’s help everyone on here so don’t understand why they don’t.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Privacy

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I don't need everyone to know who I've just fucked

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If I don't leave one, it's because I wasn't impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don't leave one, it's because I wasn't impressed. "

Hint, hint..

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm not bothered about veri.. if you want to leave one, then feel free.. of not, thats fine too

I'm not bothered either way

besides, sometimes it's hard to keep track who you speak to most of the time, especially in clubs I find lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they loved spunking on you but don't want anyone else to know they did. Cunts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rude sure but as long as they communicate with me directly they had a good time, I'm not fussed about the whole of fab knowing who's pony I've ridden.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"If I don't leave one, it's because I wasn't impressed. "

Why not leave a bad review if you've even had any meets

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"If I don't leave one, it's because I wasn't impressed.

Why not leave a bad review if you've even had any meets "

The recipients don't have to publish it.

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By *azfrench83Man
over a year ago

Essex

Good subject OP, I am going to develop

The whole verifs thing is a lot of crap, you shouldn't even be bothered about it.

Personally, I go to clubs and parties (the upscale ones only, sometimes as single, sometime with playmate I met at previous parties),and fuck with hot couples and singles every time.

Asking for their username or giving mine to get verified afterwards is the least of my concern, it would not even cross my mind,I go there to have fun, I don't even mention Fab or others.

I have met people too who are well verified, and the truth is they're often far away from their profile state or look.

That said, a lot of people here, won't meet you if you don't have any verifs.

Even worse, some clubs that I won't mention,would not give you membership if you're not verified, what a joke that is. Vetted is fine, verifs are ridiculous.

The whole concept makes me laugh really,I am probably more genuine that a lot of profiles with verifs,so if people don't want to meet me privately because I am verified, I respect that and accept it, especially since there is a lot of fakes on this platform.

The ones I met and fuck with, know I am 100% the real deal, that's all matters to me.

So you shouldn't be bothered about verifs, go out there and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to annoy people when they don't know who you've met.

I like that.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Because it was a crap meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good subject OP, I am going to develop

The whole verifs thing is a lot of crap, you shouldn't even be bothered about it.

Personally, I go to clubs and parties (the upscale ones only, sometimes as single, sometime with playmate I met at previous parties),and fuck with hot couples and singles every time.

Asking for their username or giving mine to get verified afterwards is the least of my concern, it would not even cross my mind,I go there to have fun, I don't even mention Fab or others.

I have met people too who are well verified, and the truth is they're often far away from their profile state or look.

That said, a lot of people here, won't meet you if you don't have any verifs.

Even worse, some clubs that I won't mention,would not give you membership if you're not verified, what a joke that is. Vetted is fine, verifs are ridiculous.

The ones I met and fuck with, know I am 100% the real deal, that's all matters to me.

So you shouldn't be bothered about verifs, go out there and have fun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Privacy "

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Did you leave them a veri op ?

When I was single and meeting ,sometimes people didn't leave me a veri so I didn't bother doing one for them.

Miss

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I've had it a few times...i take it to mean they actually didn't enjoy my company like they said they did at the time...and they have nothing positive to say about the meet...I don't let it bother me...we won't be meeting again..

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Perhaps it’s because they don’t have too. Personal choice.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We have had this. They just leave the site and disappear

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Only happened to me once I’m gonna guess they didn’t enjoy shagging me haha.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have met people who did not leave a verification but our meets and/or communication continued afterwards . It's not necessary . Knowing it was fun for both of you is enough . You don't need a score sheet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have met people who did not leave a verification but our meets and/or communication continued afterwards . It's not necessary . Knowing it was fun for both of you is enough . You don't need a score sheet . "

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I had many meets that I never received a verification for on this site and I wonder why? Even if I ask them directly to do it, they just say yes and never actually leave a veri

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some like me don't believe in verifications, some maybe don't want to be associated with single guy veris and some just want to be associated with you, its life here, don't worry about veris the great majority don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask if they would like to exchange veris before I leave them one. I ain't doing it for you if you ain't doing it for me

Mrs C

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Going off our personal experience here are three reasons I can think of:

a) Meet was crap and being British don't want to upset the other party/parties by telling the truth and just say you'll leave them a verification and don't.

b) Stopped leaving (and showing) veris for single guys as don't want to be swamped by single guys if we're recognised in a club. Jane is very selective when it comes to single guys, she also doesn't want them thinking just because she's fucked them once it's going to happen again. We also don't give, or show, veris from single women I've been with, only if we've played with them as a couple.

c) Veris from people we've met in a club, left us a social veri, but we've no idea who they are. Happened this weekend, still debating whether to show or not.

Frank

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Did this person ask for a verification?

I don't give them unless asked and don't expect any back as once you have a couple to state you are who you say you are, there is no need for them.

I know some people who like to collect them, like fridge magnets with I went to Benidorm and got a shitty fridge magnet on.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"If I don't leave one, it's because I wasn't impressed.

Why not leave a bad review if you've even had any meets "

Because it would still be a veri and they just wouldn't display it. I wouldn't want others to be mislead.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Why is so important about receiving a verification anyway??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is so important about receiving a verification anyway??"

It shows how alpha they are, and 'genuine'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don't leave one, it's because I wasn't impressed. "

totally agree, if it was a poor meet, no veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only veris I am interested in on Singles males accounts are social meet up if they been Gentle men polite funny not interested what they been doing or a veris how they been in club I attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I know few women that tell lies on veris I went in private room with single lady and single man and she never told truth on veris what happened in the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re getting “many meets” then are veris even much of an issue??"

Ha ha, I thought the same thing

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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Did this person ask for a verification?

I don't give them unless asked and don't expect any back as once you have a couple to state you are who you say you are, there is no need for them.

I know some people who like to collect them, like fridge magnets with I went to Benidorm and got a shitty fridge magnet on."
I used to know a woman who collected fridge magnets so i got one wherever i went

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I leave a veri if I have a great time with someone and intend to see them again. If either of those doesn't apply, I don't bother.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Most verifications put you off anyway. I often read them and thinking why on earth anyone would write that or worse display it. Yes good to be verified as genuine but probably just a tick would suffice rather than war and peace,or more often than not, a bit of commotion thay we all know what is like and need no description of it.

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By *kinnysissybottomlincsTV/TS
over a year ago

Lincoln

I can understand why some don't want them. Sometimes weird people you don't want around can message your veris as some way of fantasising about you or whatever other reason they have. They've then had to put up with someone you definitely don't want to be associated with.

If I'm asked for one I'll happily leave one with the expectation I'll get one back. I don't ask for them or expect one but it is nice if a man leaves one for me

I do find a combination of a profile with no verifications that has been on here for years a red flag and they'll have to go further to prove they're genuine, not a timewaster or worse. Obviously on the other hand everyone knows the issues with a lot of very new profiles too. The feedback doesn't need to be displayed.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Not leaving verification it helps preventing ghosting also

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

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"Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do."

Not everyone is that interested in veris. I'd rather someone asked before leaving me one as I'm really not bothered about them and rarely leave them back unless the person doesn't have one yet. I don't need a trail for people to follow of who I have met, that's my business.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In my case, it’s normally they don’t want others to know they’ve had a meet with a TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be many a reason, anywhere between they hold little value in verifications and don't consider whether others do, or, they do hold value of verifications and don't don't leave one to avoid being linked.

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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do.

Funny attitude. If you leave veris, there is no way to keep track of them. As a guy, I would only see what's you display on your profile (the ones you receive). No way I will be clicking and checking every single guys profile here on fabs to see whose dick you rode lol

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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Could be many a reason, anywhere between they hold little value in verifications and don't consider whether others do, or, they do hold value of verifications and don't don't leave one to avoid being linked.

Maybe. Who knows. It is just expected to have up to date veris, and then many just don't leave any, even if asked. But okay, some good points have been made here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes people don't like displaying or announcing who they're sleeping with. I personally don't...for me 1 or 2 is enough to know the person is who they say they are. Who knows their reason but you could ask them their reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’ve asked them and they said yes they will then I’m not sure why they haven’t? However if they haven’t then I certainly wouldn’t be meeting them again. Personally either someone does what they say they’re going to do or they’re outta here "

I am singing from this description OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also I know few women that tell lies on veris I went in private room with single lady and single man and she never told truth on veris what happened in the room

What did she say?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do.

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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do.

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I really highly doubt that.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've met people a few times socially over the years and verified them but still waiting on one in return and they have never displayed mine.

I can only assume they don't want others to know we have met but I don't care enough to ask.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I've had the same. Asked one or two that I've met for a veri, even been told they will and then never get one.

I don't ask them again and don't bother them about it. It's entirely up to them if they want to or not.

I don't get so hung up about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only avoided giving a very when the meet has been an absolute disaster

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

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"Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do.

I really highly doubt that."

Then you have no idea what goes on behind the scenes. People are weird.

Funny attitude or not, it's the way I choose to do my profile. Can't say I've ever come across people having an issue with it and if they do, tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, it's fabs. Some women here really insist on up to date veris on your profile. Only reason why I care for them.

I mean, if you didn't like the meet, you won't leave a fab. You're right. But if you didn't like it, you wouldn't meet again either?

Just don't wanna beg for a stupid veri, not really worth it. Just don't see why you wouldn't leave one. I always do.

I really highly doubt that."

I 100% look at profiles that have left verifications

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