FabSwingers.com forum: Is everything on here ultimately about one thing?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The sex?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not in my case.

It used to be but no longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not in my case.

It used to be but no longer "

Sorry to hear that x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not for me no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sex?

Yes. No. Maybe.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's never been about the sex.

That's just an added bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here have sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People on here have sex? "

No but they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

I find it mainly to be about the moaning. In one form or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here for whatever I want it to be. Pure utter fun of mingling with folk. Sex as another poster says is a bonus

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope. "

You have sex at home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a penis then yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have a penis then yes"

Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting is i think how the meme goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then yes.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.

Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.

However with that said, anyone for the sex?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope and never has been

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

It was never about the sex for me and never will be.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"If you have a penis then yes

Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting is i think how the meme goes

She is the meme! Not once have I tried to put my penis near her!

I value it's safety far too much.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

sometimes not always

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope.

You have sex at home! "

You’re right *deletes profile*

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Came for the sex, stayed for the intelligent conversation in The Lounge.

Oh...

*questions his powers of judgement*

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ultimately, yes.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Came for the sex

Occasionally still here for that

But mostly still here for the nonsense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any."

You could if you liked pickles. Alas

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.

The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…,,

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here "

I’m the same.

*Narrator Laughs hysterically

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.

The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here "

This ^ I can totally relate.

In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.

The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here

This ^ I can totally relate.

In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before. "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.

The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here

This ^ I can totally relate.

In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before. "

You’d better not. I want you at pickle’s picnic in the park

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes.

I didn't come here for the knitting.

But I'll make an exception for NakedTwister™.

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By *iercedAndTattooedNE6Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

To get my time wasted ?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.

The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here

This ^ I can totally relate.

In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before.

You’d better not. I want you at pickle’s picnic in the park"

Yeah! He wants to pickle your picnic in the park.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

In my sweetshop days yes. I was cock hungry

Now it's all about socialising with friends

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.

Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.

However with that said, anyone for the sex? "

This! Now I don't need to type a reply and will go get another coffee instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.

Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.

However with that said, anyone for the sex?

This! Now I don't need to type a reply and will go get another coffee instead.

Yes.

I’m here for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the drama

And the football headlines.

BIG game tonight Geordie.......

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.

The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…

If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here

This ^ I can totally relate.

In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before.

You’d better not. I want you at pickle’s picnic in the park"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the drama

And the football headlines.

BIG game tonight Geordie......."

They’ve got a few players missing so if we can manage to keep that big robot quiet we could get a result.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Not in my case.

It used to be but no longer

Sorry to hear that x"

What's to be sorry for ? Maybe I wasn't clear Pickle.

It used to be just about sex here to me. Now it no longer is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the answer is cake then yes

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I find it mainly to be about the moaning. In one form or another. "

Absofuckinglutely it is !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success"

Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.

Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.

However with that said, anyone for the sex? "

Ah this is such a good way to put it.

I feel less judged here and in the swingers community as a whole, I have more energy for more social situations because when I do them I mask less.

Came for the sex, love the sex (continue to want the sex) but it is the people and the chat that I love.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope. "

Pretty much this

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came back for the entertainment in forum. Now the sex has also returned I'm loving both! But forum is more important. Loves you guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success

Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?"

I don’t even know how to take this from you lol

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope. "
This

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Came here foe the sex, stayed for the sarcasim

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success

Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?

I don’t even know how to take this from you lol"

Just as written Pickle. Just as read.

How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success

Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?

I don’t even know how to take this from you lol

Just as written Pickle. Just as read.

How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?"

Well mostly by having more ‘typical’ relationships I guess. Like dating, meeting friends etc. I don’t mind non committed sex though. Every relationship you have with different partners is different.

I was only confused because I have said I’m poly plenty of times and can never read you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

And the gossip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

And the gossip!

Omg the gossip

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

If I'm honest I like chatting and reading peoples opinions, occasionally adding in a thought or two of my own.

So I stay for the odd meander through the forum and a peruse of some pics.

If some sex stuff came up I wouldn't object but was mainly hoping to find people who liked yapping and such that I didn't have to censor myself so much in front of.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

And the gossip!

Omg the gossip

And the drama!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not just the sex no, I enjoy meeting new people, making new friends as well as the forums, we don't seek meets for sex through here anymore tbh.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

And the gossip!

Omg the gossip

And the drama! "

It’s all the drama mick! I just love it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

And the gossip!

Omg the gossip

And the drama!

It’s all the drama mick! I just love it!"

I understood that reference

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus

And the gossip!

Omg the gossip

And the drama!

It’s all the drama mick! I just love it!"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, not all about the sex, but the sex helps!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope.

Pretty much this

Tinder "

To add though its turned into more like meeting new people, socials and more and not just only about the sex.

Tinder

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I really like meeting and growing from

other people and I really like sex, I think it’s 50/50.

Sex without any kind of adventure or journey doesn’t really interest me. But there’s definitely people I’d meet / carry on seeing even if sex wasn’t on the table.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Yea all about the cake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake...."

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank."

You know cake is code for vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Ffs. I'm going back to annoy the virus people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Nah, it’s about the swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle...."

Oh back door action!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....

Oh back door action! "

I think I may have just but DF off cakes for life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But not for me because I am the exception.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’d be lying if I said sex wasn’t a massive driver of me creating a profile. But connection and friendship are two very important elements that I seek in a potential sexual partner.

So yes, sex is a big reason for me being here, but far from being the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. But not for me because I am the exception."

She thinks that she’s the Queen and we’re the sorry people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?"

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her"

Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?"

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!"

I knew I always liked you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No it's about great company. Sex is part of that but not the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with sex, sex is very important to me as an older woman who knows time is not on her side.

However, I have chatted at length with people I'll never ever meet, shared things we'd never share if it was just about sex.

Being older has also helped share some knowledge of what their partners are physically going through

So I see it as a support system, in a variety of ways now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started as a way to explore my sexuality and still hope to.

But also a place to chat support or get support and live vicariously through other people's adventures

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success

Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?

I don’t even know how to take this from you lol

Just as written Pickle. Just as read.

How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?"

So Pickle, no. I'm mainly here for friendship. Sex is great obviously but I place more value on friendship. I joined for sex. I stay around for friendship.

I really like this post GC.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

There's sex?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....

Oh back door action!

I think I may have just but DF off cakes for life... "

Still in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!

I knew I always liked you

That's good because my dad doesn't now!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Everything here is about one thing for me. Fun.

Whether that is naked fun with someone, fun in the forums, fun chatting to friends, fun feeding the trolls (yes I know I’m a terrible person), fun flirting, fun on socials/group socials… fun taking pictures

As soon as I stop having fun - I’m off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!

I knew I always liked you

That's good because my dad doesn't now!

I’m cooler anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!

I knew I always liked you

That's good because my dad doesn't now!

I’m cooler anyway

He's pretty bad for a 79yo Tbf

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"The sex?

No, people use fab for a variety of reasons.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....

Oh back door action! "

Chocolate fudge cake surely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her

Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out."

Boo this man!!!

Boooooooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!

I knew I always liked you

That's good because my dad doesn't now!

I’m cooler anyway

He's pretty bad for a 79yo Tbf

Now I want to go for a pint with your dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea all about the cake....

That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.

You know cake is code for vagina

Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie

Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....

Oh back door action!

Chocolate fudge cake surely

FFS don't make me associate the two things!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.

Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.

However with that said, anyone for the sex? "

Waves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The sex?

No, people use fab for a variety of reasons."

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her

Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.

Boo this man!!!

Boooooooooooooooo"

I’m a dad. This is my level of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!

I knew I always liked you

That's good because my dad doesn't now!

I’m cooler anyway

He's pretty bad for a 79yo Tbf

Now I want to go for a pint with your dad

Dunno if he'd speak to you as you persuaded me to support Newcastle!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.

You could if you liked pickles. Alas"

I love pickles

... could eat a whole jar of them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her

Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.

Boo this man!!!

Boooooooooooooooo

I’m a dad. This is my level of humour

I too am a dad. Obviously I’m a cool one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.

You could if you liked pickles. Alas

I love pickles

... could eat a whole jar of them lol"

They’re so juicy. Ooooft

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her

Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.

Boo this man!!!

Boooooooooooooooo

I’m a dad. This is my level of humour

I too am a dad. Obviously I’m a cool one "

My daughter in the bath the other day: ‘daddy, Look at all those chickens!’

That was my proudest moment in life.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.

You could if you liked pickles. Alas

I love pickles

... could eat a whole jar of them lol

They’re so juicy. Ooooft

They are, ooft

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'd expect most people join up because they want sex.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Came here to find a woman to join us and Help people interested in bdsm but due to maya's ill health sex went out the window .I still have to have to have a meeting minds first

But yes sex would be nice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.

Did you ever find a football team?

I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her

Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.

Boo this man!!!

Boooooooooooooooo

I’m a dad. This is my level of humour

I too am a dad. Obviously I’m a cool one

My daughter in the bath the other day: ‘daddy, Look at all those chickens!’

That was my proudest moment in life. "

Mine was when The Next Episode came on the radio and my son knew the words

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

There are plenty of non sex related forum topics. A good balance in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything here is about one thing for me. Fun.

As soon as I stop having fun - I’m off.

Wise words

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Nah. CBA to do teh sex.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"The sex?

Not (just that) for me. It's more about the experiences, the stories and the friendships

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.

You could if you liked pickles. Alas"

Ah but you're taken!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.

If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success

Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?

I don’t even know how to take this from you lol

Just as written Pickle. Just as read.

How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?

So Pickle, no. I'm mainly here for friendship. Sex is great obviously but I place more value on friendship. I joined for sex. I stay around for friendship.

I really like this post GC.

Twas a simple question,

so many on here say they are poly when it seems to them to mean they want non commital sex

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment for me it’s about the sex and getting to make new female friends as we meet and play or as and when I go to social events/party’s.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

Hope you find it

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It was to start with but now I spend most of my time mucking about in the forums, and hopefully making friends

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

Hope you find it

Thank you Pickle

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Ultimately? Yes, of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

Hope you find it

Thank you Pickle

I would but… Liverpool init

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I came here for the sex and, after a while, wasn't disappointed. I stay here mainly for the sex. However there are other benefits too. I think this is probably one of the few sites I've been on where there are so many people with different points of view on the same site. There's hard core BREXITers and rejouners on here (ok they spend a lot of their time knocking seven bells of shit out of each other in the politics forum but they're all here), Vaxers and anti-vaxers, gays, straights, bulls, subs, etc etc.

Even if/when the sex dries up completely I'd probably still stay around here just for the social variety and comedic value of the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I signed up for the sex.

The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope. "

Too picky?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

Hope you find it

Thank you Pickle

I would but… Liverpool init"

Don't worry Pickle , we've relaxed our standards to allow you to feel at home!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

Hope you find it

Thank you Pickle

I would but… Liverpool init

Don't worry Pickle , we've relaxed our standards to allow you to feel at home!

The roasting thread is not this one

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'

Hope you find it

Thank you Pickle

I would but… Liverpool init

Don't worry Pickle , we've relaxed our standards to allow you to feel at home!

The roasting thread is not this one

I'd never roast you Pickle. Seriously.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Came here for the sex, stayed for all the “why won’t anyone meet me” and “what’s wrong with my profile” threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Existentialism….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Came here for the sex, stayed for all the “why won’t anyone meet me” and “what’s wrong with my profile” threads

I may have done a few of those

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I doubt anyone joined because they thought they would be chatting on the forums for hours on end.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I doubt anyone joined because they thought they would be chatting on the forums for hours on end."

That's my kink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt anyone joined because they thought they would be chatting on the forums for hours on end."

And yet here we all are!

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By *adison12Woman
over a year ago

Nr Boston

Been here seven months and had some amazing meets , great sex and made some lovely like minded friends - winner winner

The time wasters normally get ed out at the messaging stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sex

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I doubt anyone joined because they thought they would be chatting on the forums for hours on end.

And yet here we all are!

Who'd have thought it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I doubt anyone joined because they thought they would be chatting on the forums for hours on end.

That's my kink! "

But did you know there was a forum before you joined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is about making friends and chatting.

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

What an awesome thread! One of the best ones I have read.

Sex, to be open and not judged, make new friends..so many great reasons...and so much humour.

Happy fabbing

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me nope it’s not as sex is easy to get

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

For me yes. For others definitely not

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Nope not really sex aint a motivation at all

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

The sex thing is all lies to lure you in, for sure!

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