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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever want to speak to someone that you can’t message because of filters?

Not necessarily to move to them just to chat because you think you’d get on etc?

My advice? Just lie about your age init. What do you suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend over in a short skirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just charm them in front off everyone in the forums if they a none forum member winks and fabs go though filters

Not go creep but maybe fab one or two pictures and a wink and hopefully they message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bend over in a short skirt"

Ooo your stealing my ticks now are you Jennie

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By *eductive_chaosWoman
over a year ago

Northumberland


"I just charm them in front off everyone in the forums if they a none forum member winks and fabs go though filters

Not go creep but maybe fab one or two pictures and a wink and hopefully they message me "

Simply adorable response

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Hold a paper with their name and a "hello" on it, take a knob pic. Get it onto page one and you're sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just charm them in front off everyone in the forums if they a none forum member winks and fabs go though filters

Not go creep but maybe fab one or two pictures and a wink and hopefully they message me

Simply adorable response "

Awww thank you so much

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

To circumvent someone's filters is not respecting their choices.

If you don't fit their criteria move on and leave alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever want to speak to someone that you can’t message because of filters?

Not necessarily to move to them just to chat because you think you’d get on etc?

My advice? Just lie about your age init. What do you suggest?"

I just ask in the forums. Worked on you

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you ever want to speak to someone that you can’t message because of filters?

Not necessarily to move to them just to chat because you think you’d get on etc?

My advice? Just lie about your age init. What do you suggest?

I just ask in the forums. Worked on you "

I do this. Use that brucey charm! Works -10 percent of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To circumvent someone's filters is not respecting their choices.

If you don't fit their criteria move on and leave alone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah men aren't that fussed about filters

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If I worried and lamented too much about the women I can't message because of their filters, then I would be wasting my time on here.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I look at their profile, fab a picture or two and then leave them to it. Curiosity often works wonders in the end.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Do you ever want to speak to someone that you can’t message because of filters?

Not necessarily to move to them just to chat because you think you’d get on etc?

My advice? Just lie about your age init. What do you suggest?"

Rapidly move on and forget.

Mostly here for sex rather than chatting/friendship and if outside filters chance of it happening are not great. Many moons ago when young and naive I think I did shave my short beard to send a pic to local lady who only liked smooth faces. That was a mistake Now if anybody says they don't like facial hair just rapidly move on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep. There are a few people I'd genuinely enjoy conversation with I think but I accept that it's not possible privately

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If I worried and lamented too much about the women I can't message because of their filters, then I would be wasting my time on here."

Kind of this. Just be yourself in the end.

Not filters I know but, there was a former forumite that had me blocked. So for the most part I respected that in the forum too. Didn't interact with them directly with maybe a couple of exceptions.

I did nothing different, just my usual self.

Then a while ago they messaged me, and we have been chatting since.

Obviously this is also limited to the forum.

If it's anyone else, I'll drop a fab or two. With zero expectations of it resulting in anything. Not a great deal you can do.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

The fact they don’t want to do anything with me because of my age/their preferences would be enough for me to leave them alone. I may be thinking that we’d get along well but they probably won’t.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I send a wink or if its one of my social friends, I pop a message on the social thread, for them to message me. If we were wanting to chat frequently, I think we would have already swopped details tbf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To circumvent someone's filters is not respecting their choices.

If you don't fit their criteria move on and leave alone."

Not everything is about sex.

I’ve made wonderful friends whom I am not in their age range or they’re not in mine.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich


"I just charm them in front off everyone in the forums if they a none forum member winks and fabs go though filters

Not go creep but maybe fab one or two pictures and a wink and hopefully they message me

Simply adorable response "

I want to be adorable too

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I just charm them in front off everyone in the forums if they a none forum member winks and fabs go though filters

Not go creep but maybe fab one or two pictures and a wink and hopefully they message me

Simply adorable response

I want to be adorable too "

You are

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