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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone

Hello all,

Just looking for your opinions/views?

At 18 I identified as bisexual to my friends, having had the odd “experimental” times with guys sporadically in the past.

Quickly, I identified as gay, and whilst I had hook ups here and there, it never felt right.

Then, back in 2020, I had my first sexual experience with a woman and my sexuality was thrown into question, I now identify as bisexual and have had dalliances with other women since.

It left me questioning myself.

I am now happy engaging in sexual relationships with either sex.

My question is: is there a taboo with bi/gay guys that makes women/couples not interested and if there is, what exactly is it?

I’m 37 but aware of chaturbate, onlyfans etc which it seems the norm. Here and in life it seems unsuccessful though.

I’m just curious, as I’ve noticed minimal contact from couples/women, which ironically are whom I’m looking to meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will some will not just like anything

For woman it can be hard to find as there is no filter to tick to say they looking for bisexual guys

For couples it’s easier atvanced serch there a tick box

At the bottom

Only show profiles of members:

Who are bisexual (or bi-curious)

If you tick this box while searching it will filter out couples who aren’t both bi

So easy to find couples who are looking for bi guys

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s just a preference OP. Some will some won’t want Bi men. As a bi woman it’s all good by me but just keep on searching. Good luck

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Some will some will not just like anything

For woman it can be hard to find as there is no filter to tick to say they looking for bisexual guys

For couples it’s easier atvanced serch there a tick box

At the bottom

Only show profiles of members:

Who are bisexual (or bi-curious)

If you tick this box while searching it will filter out couples who aren’t both bi

So easy to find couples who are looking for bi guys "

Thank you for taking the time to respond, I appreciate it x

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"It’s just a preference OP. Some will some won’t want Bi men. As a bi woman it’s all good by me but just keep on searching. Good luck "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some will some will not just like anything

For woman it can be hard to find as there is no filter to tick to say they looking for bisexual guys

For couples it’s easier atvanced serch there a tick box

At the bottom

Only show profiles of members:

Who are bisexual (or bi-curious)

If you tick this box while searching it will filter out couples who aren’t both bi

So easy to find couples who are looking for bi guys

Thank you for taking the time to respond, I appreciate it x"

Your welcome anytime op

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP

Ironically I see plenty of ads from couples want specifically Bi-men.

As a white, cis-het, middle-aged bloke without a uniform I tend to find it very hard to stand out from the crowd. LOL

There are admittedly some women who seem to be entirely put off by the idea of Bi-men. Dunno why.

All I can say is that when it comes to 'getting attention' on here. Most couples and women get tonnes of messages so don't tend to go out looking.

Might be worth looking at some of the dedicated Bi nights at clubs

Hope you find plenty of fun

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Hello all,

Just looking for your opinions/views?

At 18 I identified as bisexual to my friends, having had the odd “experimental” times with guys sporadically in the past.

Quickly, I identified as gay, and whilst I had hook ups here and there, it never felt right.

Then, back in 2020, I had my first sexual experience with a woman and my sexuality was thrown into question, I now identify as bisexual and have had dalliances with other women since.

It left me questioning myself.

I am now happy engaging in sexual relationships with either sex.

My question is: is there a taboo with bi/gay guys that makes women/couples not interested and if there is, what exactly is it?

I’m 37 but aware of chaturbate, onlyfans etc which it seems the norm. Here and in life it seems unsuccessful though.

I’m just curious, as I’ve noticed minimal contact from couples/women, which ironically are whom I’m looking to meet lol "

So are you saying you identified as gay because the only experience you got to have was with men up until you had an experience with a woman ?

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By *pforanything121Man
over a year ago

castleford


"Hello all,

Just looking for your opinions/views?

At 18 I identified as bisexual to my friends, having had the odd “experimental” times with guys sporadically in the past.

Quickly, I identified as gay, and whilst I had hook ups here and there, it never felt right.

Then, back in 2020, I had my first sexual experience with a woman and my sexuality was thrown into question, I now identify as bisexual and have had dalliances with other women since.

It left me questioning myself.

I am now happy engaging in sexual relationships with either sex.

My question is: is there a taboo with bi/gay guys that makes women/couples not interested and if there is, what exactly is it?

I’m 37 but aware of chaturbate, onlyfans etc which it seems the norm. Here and in life it seems unsuccessful though.

I’m just curious, as I’ve noticed minimal contact from couples/women, which ironically are whom I’m looking to meet lol "

I’d say your BI, enjoying both sexes that’s all. It’ll be probably that’s with women it’s a pretty much new type of experience and that can be a bit mess with your head. I’m secretly BI well you wouldn’t think that with me on here etc.. but I love both also. In different ways, example I prefer a BJ from a guy nowadays but am same for both sexes about pretty much everything else. I knew always that I was a bit BI growing up etc.. maybe because me and 2 mates once sucked each other off and wanked together or that I love wanking over Thai ladyboys who look like they are women and you can’t tell if they are or not. Just be honest and be yourself. You can be happy being both ways

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Hello all,

Just looking for your opinions/views?

At 18 I identified as bisexual to my friends, having had the odd “experimental” times with guys sporadically in the past.

Quickly, I identified as gay, and whilst I had hook ups here and there, it never felt right.

Then, back in 2020, I had my first sexual experience with a woman and my sexuality was thrown into question, I now identify as bisexual and have had dalliances with other women since.

It left me questioning myself.

I am now happy engaging in sexual relationships with either sex.

My question is: is there a taboo with bi/gay guys that makes women/couples not interested and if there is, what exactly is it?

I’m 37 but aware of chaturbate, onlyfans etc which it seems the norm. Here and in life it seems unsuccessful though.

I’m just curious, as I’ve noticed minimal contact from couples/women, which ironically are whom I’m looking to meet lol

So are you saying you identified as gay because the only experience you got to have was with men up until you had an experience with a woman ?"

No, I worded it poorly. I identified as gay cause I love cock but had never been with a woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want and don't worry about labels

Worry about labels and you'll cause yourself unnecessary stress

As long as you're happy and you're not hurting anyone is non of anyone else business x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

There definitely is ,that's why you get so many men who lie about being bi on their profiles.Bi women are al lot more encouraged and supported on here ,probably because it's a male driven fantasy to see two women together.

I don't know what/why it is,it wouldn't bother me.

Jack can be orally bi in the right circumstances.

Just be you and the right people will come your way op.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman, a man being bi is neither here nor there to me. Why would it be?

However, if he wanted another bi man present that doesnt appeal but 1 on 1 I dont see why it would be an issue.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"My question is: is there a taboo with bi/gay guys that makes women/couples not interested and if there is, what exactly is it?"

Something to do with the general population being 95% straight, many of which uphold the hetero ideal of manly men and womanly women who are exclusively attracted to the opposite sex. And a persisting prejudice against MSM who are still viewed by many as degenerate STI spreaders. Let's not forget gay sex in the UK was officially decriminalised only in 1967, section 28 was passed in 1988 and only abolished into the 00s, and blood donor restrictions only lifted a couple years ago (still with conditions). These kinds of things tend to inform public opinion.

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