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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Inspired by a conversation with a coworker who hasn’t spoke to his girlfriend for 2 days because she snapped at him. What is the longest you haven’t spoke to your other half? What was the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh... *maybe* 24 hours or something when I was travelling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

What did she snap at him for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inspired by a conversation with a coworker who hasn’t spoke to his girlfriend for 2 days because she snapped at him. What is the longest you haven’t spoke to your other half? What was the reason?"

My now ex husband, not spoken to him for 12 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Uh... *maybe* 24 hours or something when I was travelling?"

That’s not even that long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably like half hour after a row to cool off but talk about it fairly quickly like adults. Silent treatment is actually pretty abusive, I hate that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uh... *maybe* 24 hours or something when I was travelling?

That’s not even that long."

I never said it was

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids. "

I think the longest we’ve done is 2 days but we work opposite shifts so it’s easily done if we’re angry with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think we’ve ever went a day without talking to each other, even after an argument.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did she snap at him for? "

Had a bad day at work and took it out on him. He’s no angel so there’s probably more to it than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids. "

My ex never spoke to me for 12 years.. Married to him till this year. He lived in another country. Silence is golden at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Inspired by a conversation with a coworker who hasn’t spoke to his girlfriend for 2 days because she snapped at him. What is the longest you haven’t spoke to your other half? What was the reason?

My now ex husband, not spoken to him for 12 years. "

Remind me not to upset you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

I think the longest we’ve done is 2 days but we work opposite shifts so it’s easily done if we’re angry with each other."

We didn't do shifts. He just did the silent treatment because I hadn't agreed with him or some crap. It is a standard feature of emotional abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably like half hour after a row to cool off but talk about it fairly quickly like adults. Silent treatment is actually pretty abusive, I hate that shit. "

It depends what caused it. Sometimes people need space to get their head right.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"What did she snap at him for?

Had a bad day at work and took it out on him. He’s no angel so there’s probably more to it than that "

I don’t want to know any more, it sounds thoroughly deserved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think we’ve ever went a day without talking to each other, even after an argument.

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I assumed most couples had done at least a day. Especially in the early days before they live together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids. "

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.

Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…

Never.

We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I haven't ever.

I find the silent treatment stupid to be honest, if you can't talk out your issues then there's a lot of lacking communication.

If one needs a breather go get one then sort the shit out.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere "

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think we’ve ever went a day without talking to each other, even after an argument.

I assumed most couples had done at least a day. Especially in the early days before they live together."

We can definitely go hours without talking after, but it’s good to give each other the space to cool down before trying to fix it.

Silent treatment for days would drive me up the wall and probably make the situation a lot worse than it needs to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years. "

Did we have the same ex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.

Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…

Never.

We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out."

Not even for an hour or so after an argument?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't ever.

I find the silent treatment stupid to be honest, if you can't talk out your issues then there's a lot of lacking communication.

If one needs a breather go get one then sort the shit out.

Mrs

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I sometimes need my space. Go for a drive, go to the gym or whatever. I’m fine after that.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years. "

I'm the same with my ex, horrid memories! So glad you're out of that now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair. "

I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the length of a sleep

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

I think the longest we’ve done is 2 days but we work opposite shifts so it’s easily done if we’re angry with each other.

We didn't do shifts. He just did the silent treatment because I hadn't agreed with him or some crap. It is a standard feature of emotional abuse. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.

I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about."

It's ok, I've had rum, you can joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.

I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about."

This is the perfect one to make a joke with. And who cares if it's true? Maybe if she put out more....

(I'll take myself off to repent my sins)

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.

I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.

It's ok, I've had rum, you can joke. "

It’s not your reaction I’m afraid of

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.

Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…

Never.

We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out.

Not even for an hour or so after an argument?"

We just don’t leave arguments unfinished really.

Well stay pissed at each other for a period but never silent treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.

I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.

It's ok, I've had rum, you can joke.

It’s not your reaction I’m afraid of "

Ah,good memories.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.

Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…

Never.

We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out.

Not even for an hour or so after an argument?

We just don’t leave arguments unfinished really.

Well stay pissed at each other for a period but never silent treatment."

For us it’s more to avoid another argument until we’ve calmed down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.

I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.

This is the perfect one to make a joke with. And who cares if it's true? Maybe if she put out more....

(I'll take myself off to repent my sins)

F"

Mine was more body hair related

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.

Did we have the same ex? "

Narcissistic wanker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably the length of a sleep

F"

I've had too much wine. I read that as "sheep" and puzzled over it for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.

Did we have the same ex?

Narcissistic wanker? "

That's him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.

Did we have the same ex?

Narcissistic wanker?

That's him! "

A wanker but great taste in women, huh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.

This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere

Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.

Did we have the same ex?

Narcissistic wanker?

That's him!

A wanker but great taste in women, huh? "

50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't keep a grudge with Tom. If I get in a mood with him, he just comes up to me and tells me I look sexy when i'm in a mood..

We hardly ever argue, but when we do, it doesn't last long...

xx Jess

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'll take a breather, so an hour or so

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I can go quiet for extended periods apparently. But that's depression for you

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