FabSwingers.com forum: BSDM Equipment

By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A fellow fabster has started on her BSDM life as a 'miss dom'......can we make a list of equipment she needs?

1. Bucket of ice cubes......

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

bicep curls - for headlocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candles ... Big ones

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

boxing gloves - for them to pick chopsticks up with

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

a Mr Whippy - ice cream maker

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Bamboo cane - for those panda eyes

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock

tin opener

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

clover clamps - for wishing on a leprechaun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dremel multi tool

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

dart feathers - 180 always brings smiles around the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice kinky things to dress up in.

Cuffs

ropes.

wax candles.

whips.

strap on.

Butt plugs.

Miking anal vibe.

Lubs.

Rubber sheets.

Popping Candy.

Real Ginger cut into a long peace for play.

Blindfolded

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Vac bed - keeps lareg quantity sandwiches fresh all read round

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

10m rope - stops em getting too far down the street

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

a mouth gag - she could put her feet up when theyre bleeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wimp or two to practice on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wimp or two to practice on.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

'The One Show' on DVD on loop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some nice kinky things to dress up in.

Cuffs

ropes.

wax candles.

whips.

strap on.

Butt plugs.

Miking anal vibe.

Lubs.

Rubber sheets.

Popping Candy.

Real Ginger cut into a long peace for play.

Blindfolded"

Add

Hood

Pin wheel

nipple clamps

chastity device

ball stretchers or parchute

flogger x 2

vacuum pumps for nipples etc

collar

stretcher bar

the list goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steel toe cap boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wimp or two to practice on.

A wimp???? Why does she need a wimp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, Dave is very much his own man outside of our BDSM play. Wimp is the last word I'd use to describe him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wimp or two to practice on.

A wimp???? Why does she need a wimp?"

Subby men are the bottom of the food chain. Wimps. All of 'em.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"A wimp or two to practice on.

A wimp???? Why does she need a wimp?"

He means whip....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao , aye i have some these , in me suitcase of tricks, lol hmmmmm but more the welcome . let me tell you what i have .

Crop

ruler

blindfolds

clothes hanger creates pain

leash

collar

nipple clamps

pegs

candle

leather belt

cuffs

underbed restrainst

rice for kneeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ginger

deep heat

vapo rub

cock ring

ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strap on

double dildo

vibrators

tacks

lol more suggestions all expected

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"A wimp or two to practice on.

A wimp???? Why does she need a wimp?

Subby men are the bottom of the food chain. Wimps. All of 'em.

Shows how little you know about bdsm and submissive men

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

discount card for B&Q aka Bondage Quatermasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real Ginger cut into a long peace for play.

??????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

submissive men and not wimps. Wearing a collar is sign of strength not a weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long pins for hemming,a length of pipe insulation, an old fizzy pop bottle and a kids inflatable arm band.

PM. for details

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"submissive men and not wimps. Wearing a collar is sign of strength not a weakness "

Ah yes, an interesting philosophical note in that one could argue that the person in the apparent submissive role, is in fact, giving power to the 'dominant' one and so therefore, is really the dominant one by being submissive.

Reminds me of Laurel & Hardy in which people always thought Stan was the stupid one. It was Ollie - he thought he was intelligent, but wasn't. On screen, I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"submissive men and not wimps. Wearing a collar is sign of strength not a weakness

Reminds me of Laurel & Hardy in which people always thought Stan was the stupid one. It was Ollie - he thought he was intelligent, but wasn't. On screen, I mean. "

A Dominant cannot take anything which a sub does not give. Someone who uses force and holds someone under duress is a bully and not a Dominant.

I read that in one of the Grey books so it must be true.

Honest.

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By *f3_ladyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Teas maid and cuddly toy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Domme does not need to use force on a sub, It can be a give and take situation. It is done on trust, and respect for each other

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate fountain, marshmallows and skewers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real Ginger cut into a long peace for play.

??????????

I think it's for inserting somewhere as its hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A domme/dom should never use force, only coercion to get the best from the sub.

Its about trust and honesty..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real Ginger cut into a long peace for play.

??????????

I think it's for inserting somewhere as its hot

Its called figging. You cut it into the shape of a butt plug.

So I have been told.

*cough*

I prefer it in me tea.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"A domme/dom should never use force, only coercion to get the best from the sub.

Its about trust and honesty.........."

That's the corporate vision for Findus!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Wet celery and flying 'elmet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have done it with my sub, into his /hers arse. has a burning sensation, and increase as the person clenches his butt, as you spank the sub. It gets better if it is peeled and placed in the fridge for a few days. very intense

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