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By *yselfAndHer OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Mrs loves to dress really naughty when going out.

See through tops and short skirts.

What is the general view on when people are too old to do this?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When you feel too old.

I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.

It *shouldn't* matter but people judge.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When it comes to what I wear at home it's a different matter. Anything goes

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By *yselfAndHer OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coventry


"When you feel too old.

I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.

It *shouldn't* matter but people judge."

I am not quite ready yet!

Luckily time and some hard work has kept me in ok shape.

I love people looking, and so does hubby!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When you feel too old.

I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.

It *shouldn't* matter but people judge.

I am not quite ready yet!

Luckily time and some hard work has kept me in ok shape.

I love people looking, and so does hubby!!"

You're much younger than me .

I say as long as you're comfortable keep wearing what you want to wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs loves to dress really naughty when going out.

See through tops and short skirts.

What is the general view on when people are too old to do this?

"

When they are dead

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

So long as it makes you happy and feel sexy you are never too old

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Mrs loves to dress really naughty when going out.

See through tops and short skirts.

What is the general view on when people are too old to do this?

When they are dead"

Even then you could request to be dressed in your favourite mini skirt for your final journey

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So when I'm 85 if I get on the bus in a mini skirt and see through top with no bra? Nobody will stare or assume I'm in the early stages of dementia?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"So when I'm 85 if I get on the bus in a mini skirt and see through top with no bra? Nobody will stare or assume I'm in the early stages of dementia?"

Let ‘em stare, you’ll have forgotten by the time you get off the bus anyway, or where you were going in the first place.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So when I'm 85 if I get on the bus in a mini skirt and see through top with no bra? Nobody will stare or assume I'm in the early stages of dementia?

Let ‘em stare, you’ll have forgotten by the time you get off the bus anyway, or where you were going in the first place. "

very true

My dad got off the bus once to find a naked man standing at the bus stop. The police arrived in short order and took him back to hospital.

I do think society will judge a woman who dresses provocatively at any age and the judgement gets harsher the older you get.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Everyone is different. Dress to your strengths.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves. "

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter.""

My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden. "

Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.

Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes "

I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.

I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ into account

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.

Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes

I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.

I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think . "

I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."

My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old? "

Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume

And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.

Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes

I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.

I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .

I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways "

This has made me think actually.

In general I don't really care what people think or say about my personality or looks but the way I was brought up has made me quite conscious of how I dress. Even Mr N would tell me that I couldn't wear a particular outfit to visit my parents and he'd have me walking around in next to nothing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."

My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?

Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume

And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career"

Very true. Is a red hat compulsory with a purple dress though?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."

My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?

Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume

And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career

Very true. Is a red hat compulsory with a purple dress though? "

good god no

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."

My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?

Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume

And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career

Very true. Is a red hat compulsory with a purple dress though?

good god no "

Thank goodness.

I wore a red hat when we got married

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I love that my wife has begun dressing sexier again and now just turned 60.

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By *rLordMan
over a year ago

Swadlincote

I believe that the older generation can be as sexy as a nubile 20 year old. Old gal by me turns many a head in the pub, dress not to short , cleavage plentiful but not in your face. Hair always neat and tidy, and heels and lips to match bright red . My age looks twenty years younger, mind you make up less might be different. She is a becon of fun in the room , good on her. Her husband is always a busy man lol fending of others.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.

Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes

I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.

I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .

I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways

This has made me think actually.

In general I don't really care what people think or say about my personality or looks but the way I was brought up has made me quite conscious of how I dress. Even Mr N would tell me that I couldn't wear a particular outfit to visit my parents and he'd have me walking around in next to nothing "

Haha I definitely got that, I'm definitely the odd one out when I go out with my family. They're more jeans and a top kind of people. I never wear jeans except for football practice with the boys.

Got asked in work this week where I get my clothes from. And someone said you never wear trousers. And another colleague said she did once, when it was snowing. Which is true, was wearing hiking shoes the lot just in case I had to walk home. I just like looking different to everyone else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.

You could be right.

I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.

Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes

I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.

I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .

I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways

This has made me think actually.

In general I don't really care what people think or say about my personality or looks but the way I was brought up has made me quite conscious of how I dress. Even Mr N would tell me that I couldn't wear a particular outfit to visit my parents and he'd have me walking around in next to nothing

Haha I definitely got that, I'm definitely the odd one out when I go out with my family. They're more jeans and a top kind of people. I never wear jeans except for football practice with the boys.

Got asked in work this week where I get my clothes from. And someone said you never wear trousers. And another colleague said she did once, when it was snowing. Which is true, was wearing hiking shoes the lot just in case I had to walk home. I just like looking different to everyone else. "

I like looking different too. I try to wear what suits me . Someone described my dress sense as daring another told me that I came to work looking as if I was going out for dinner

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

In my opinion anyone can wear what they want in the right situation.

I wouldn't have my arse in knickers or a thong, or my nipples showing anywhere but in the bedroom.

I believe we shouldn't show nipples in public, regardless of age.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"When you feel too old.

I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.

It *shouldn't* matter but people judge."

As long as there's no nipplage it wouldn't matter to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the women have the legs for short skirts then I’d say go for it

The low cut top is either inviting men to ogle her or maybe she’s getting at her partner

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"If the women have the legs for short skirts then I’d say go for it

The low cut top is either inviting men to ogle her or maybe she’s getting at her partner "

But the "if they have the legs for it", is a different kind of judgement in itself though. Everyone judges in some form or another.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When you feel too old.

I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.

It *shouldn't* matter but people judge.

As long as there's no nipplage it wouldn't matter to me.

"

It's fine mine are tucked into my belt

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Op what do you think in general? Is the acceptability of sexy dressing such as you describe less to do with age and more with how you look?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm probably considered very conservative in my dress sense, in that I don't wear anything 'revealing '.

It does sadden me a little that being considered dressed sexy ( for a woman) usually involves showing either legs or cleavage

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm probably considered very conservative in my dress sense, in that I don't wear anything 'revealing '.

It does sadden me a little that being considered dressed sexy ( for a woman) usually involves showing either legs or cleavage "

I tend to agree. I think people can look sexy without wearing revealing clothes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ but the op did specify a certain look

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