FabSwingers.com forum: Shooting your shot.

By *atnip make me purr OP Woman
over a year ago

Reading

If you send a message or a wink and get blocked, do you regret it as you now have lost access to their profile or are you glad you now know you are not their tyoe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is at the end of the day. If she ain’t interested then there’s plenty more fish in the sea

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

I would say neither..

If it happens then it is clear, it is not meant to be

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Gosh. I'd probably say fuck it now. It's not really a rejection. When it happens I'll come back to the thread and update it.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

At least I know why I stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt trouble me as I see block as a function not a personal thing.

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By *romethiousMan
over a year ago

barkston ash

I agree think fab should have a button to say just not interested I’ve messaged ladies months after they replied no thanks and it like I’ve not messaged before so if they have changed there profile pic u then message again so blocking can be a good way of ensuring u don’t message again

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Not in the slightest, i use the block function for many reasons including just to stop seeing local updates

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By *atnip make me purr OP Woman
over a year ago

Reading

But if you previously enjoyed perving on their profile does this make a difference?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"But if you previously enjoyed perving on their profile does this make a difference?"

Plenty more to perv at.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't sent a first contact message since the beginning of 2020 but when I did, this only ever happened a couple of times and it never really bothered me.

I've never been one to send lots of messages and have always been very selective.

As a result in general I've mostly had a positive response.

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By *romethiousMan
over a year ago

barkston ash

"Wouldnt trouble me as I see block as a function not a personal thing."

If I message and there’s no connection I don’t get arsy that I get blocked I’ve heard some guys after told no can get more bitchy at a rejection than is needed so blocking stops that as much as a anything else

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By *romethiousMan
over a year ago

barkston ash

"But if you previously enjoyed perving on their profile does this make a difference?

Plenty more to perv at.

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so true

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"But if you previously enjoyed perving on their profile does this make a difference?"

No not really, id much rather spend my time perving my friends profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if you previously enjoyed perving on their profile does this make a difference?"

Printscreen your favourite pics first, then wink or message.

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"If you send a message or a wink and get blocked, do you regret it as you now have lost access to their profile or are you glad you now know you are not their tyoe?"

I'm glad. If they don't like the look or sound of me, then that is for the best.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

No regrets. Posibly a little dissapointment.

My view is I am no worse off as I had no contact previously.

If the door doesn't open, it's not your door.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I think a wink shows a lack of effort so you probably lose out before even getting started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never wink nor msg 1st so not an issue I’ve encountered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This shooting your shot language is exclusionary and inaccessible for average forum users.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

It’s more definite than being left on read so that’s a plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway to answer the OP just Charge it to the game

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I just assume I have misjudged them as someone i would like to meet possibly to someone who is obviously barking mad and probably a bloke with a fake profile because in all honesty what red blooded woman could resist….. this!!

and that includes gay ladies too… i bet they look and think oooh i might have been a bit hasty……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a wink shows a lack of effort so you probably lose out before even getting started. "

This

Messages please, chances are winks will get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a wink shows a lack of effort so you probably lose out before even getting started.

This

Messages please, chances are winks will get ignored."

There seems to be two schools on this: those that flat out hate them as "lazy", and those that use them as an "wink back if you like me too" and then send a message. Until you send it, you don't know whether you'll get blocked or not: Schrödinger's Wink

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Glad to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've offended someone enough to block me, I think it's for the best I'm outta their life and I'm good with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send a message or a wink and get blocked, do you regret it as you now have lost access to their profile or are you glad you now know you are not their tyoe?"

It is when you talk with them and they disappear AWOL. Yet profess they are genuine. How can that be allowed on here?

It is what it is op.

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"If you send a message or a wink and get blocked, do you regret it as you now have lost access to their profile or are you glad you now know you are not their tyoe?"

Getting blocked is never a good feeling, I get why people do it though. In answer to the question, it's a bit of both, my order of preference in an ideal world (that fab is clearly not) would be:

1. No response (as in them saying no)

2. No response (as in them not replying)

3. Getting blocked

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We dont block people unless they are rude or nasty.

I like the idea of people being able to see some pics or vids & enjoying themselves.

I know I do it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Well I’d probably feel a bit dejected at being blocked. I’d probably miss their collection of cock pics (they’d have cock pics) and probably tell myself off for being so silly. But I’d get over it. Eventually

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