FabSwingers.com forum: Sexting? Opinion

By *ymphBooty OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Canada Water

Who loves it and who does it do nothing for?

I personally love it

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By *J JamesMan
over a year ago

Hull

I love sexting, just can't find any woman who does it!????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Usually predictable and unimaginative

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I don’t mind, but it can be an anti-climax.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends. If we’ve shagged and they’re top notch at it, great - crack on.

But a lot of folk sext like they’re awesome in bed and then when you meet it’s a bit “meh”.

So if you can walk the walk then yeah it’s great.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I echo what Fluffy said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be, and has been an amazing build up to the meet!

But I agree sometimes the sex is better via text than in reality!

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By *ymphBooty OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Canada Water

Depends on my availability- it’s help me if I’m stuck at home

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Usually descends into clichés and is more likely to make me laugh then get excited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind it. But I put it on the back burner unless I've got enough of a relationship to try it without blowing up in my face or the female enitiates it

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Nah not for me any of that cyber stuff

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"Nah. Usually predictable and unimaginative

Exactly this !

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I adore it… BUT only with the people I’m already connected to. It does absolutely nothing for me unless we’ve already got that sexual tension going on.

* that means DONT DM me asking to sext… thanks

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"* that means DONT DM me asking to sext… thanks

Oops, too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind it, but I have to be in the mood for it, i.e. not trying to sound like I'm horny when I actually just want to watch TV

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Nah. Usually predictable and unimaginative

I'm a bit of a broken record on this but, for it to work both sides need an imagination.

It also helps if both sides have excellent word usage, but as long as 1 person does it can work. The ability to describe and make you feel the words causing something, not just attempting to be sexy.

It is something closer to erotic literature than just sexting.

Obviously you need to be in the mood, or open to being turned on at the time. It won't so anything if you headspace is not there for it.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Sometimes yes if it’s spontaneous and both parties just go with the flow

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

No lady fancies a Chunky Special then?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't mind it as long as it's part of the overall getting-to-know-you process, building on any chemistry and mental connection, with the caveat that it's not prone to juvenile 'text speak' and with some reasonable expectation it's going to lead somewhere. I'm not looking for penpals. I have enough already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ever read the comments on these. Threads and wonder who is actually good at sexting and who isn't?

Nope? Just me then.

It's great when you're already in a lustful place with someone and already have the connection, after you've already got naked. Beforehand doesn't really work for me.

Outside of that it's boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. Usually predictable and unimaginative

I'm a bit of a broken record on this but, for it to work both sides need an imagination.

It also helps if both sides have excellent word usage, but as long as 1 person does it can work. The ability to describe and make you feel the words causing something, not just attempting to be sexy.

It is something closer to erotic literature than just sexting.

Obviously you need to be in the mood, or open to being turned on at the time. It won't so anything if you headspace is not there for it."

That's partly another reason why I'm not a huge fan of it. I'm just shit at saying anything remotely erotic or describing certain feelings and sensations because when they happen, they're just euphoric in the moment and don't really drill down enough to describe what makes it so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've both got to be in the mood for it I think. If one person's not really feeling it at the same time, it feels a little wooden. Otherwise, good fun

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"* that means DONT DM me asking to sext… thanks

Oops, too late

… still waiting

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I prefer voice notes. But I can do it and enjoy it too. But it probably matters more to men knowing a hot woman that could literally be spending her time messaging any other man is spending time solely on you and getting you hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not found the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it if I’m really into them. I’ve got to be in the mood for it though or it does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its with a FWB then this can really work for me and I'm totally engaged

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I don’t mind it if I’m really into them. I’ve got to be in the mood for it though or it does nothing for me. "

We totally did this once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it definitely

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By *orn_again_virginMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I love sexting ??

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

It does nothing for me most of the time.

You want to put what into where wow that is original.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Had loads of fun from this and nice to laugh about afterwards with each other and understand the effects it has had

Had some strange requests at times

all I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me any of that cyber stuff"

Whats not cyber,breatheing soon will be too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With someone I've met in person, it can be very horny. With a random person, doesn't do much for me.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Doesn't do anything for me sorry i laugh

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Does nothing for me unless it's with the Mr.

People on here seem to think your horny 24/7 and have zero life, random stranger sexting is a total turn off.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

Have to have the connection or be in the mood.

FaceTime or a video call is much better when you both saying & watching each other, much mood of turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like watching paint dry

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Personally if I don’t already have a sexual relationship with the person who I’m sexting it does nothing for me whatsoever.

Kink (fem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it with my fwb people. It's a great way to find out fantasies we can make a reality.

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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago

Caister

Its great if you in physical contact with the other person. To see them after a cyber or to be doing it with them and you can see them its awesome.

Long distance it has to be video chat other wise you may as well be talking to a bot x

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

It can be fun with a partner or FB, but with a stranger off the internet- massive cringe! Particularly when the very first message is extremely descriptive about what they want to do to you.

I am not a huge fan of the cyber thing, prefer real life.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Only if I Met them and we connected...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It frustrates me, I would rather just wait. But with the right person it’s enjoyable, if you’re both brave and creative you can really surprise yourselves but ultimately leaves me frustrated & wanting the real thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bored after a while.

Do like sending naughty pics and messages to my husband whiles he’s at work though

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Find it pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much prefer doing than talking

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Never done it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be fun and is a good way to find out what people like and don't though many women on here seem to use it as escapism. In my experience it tends to end up with the woman playing with herself (often a number of times), so don't start sexting me unless you have some time to spare, somewhere quite to go, or can turn off the camera in whatever work teams meeting you are supposed to be in (that seems to be a favourite bit of escapism).

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I found it funny as we'd be talking over the phone just normal chat with a twist and she'd start feeling horny. she found this difficult to control herself so we'd switch to texting (her suggestion). While she played I'd write a script

to help her through. We had a super senses of humour connection/chemistry was like we'd known each other most of our lives, but was only few months which became years we'd never met it's amazing what can be achieved when you're not a prick and we've become mutual best friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With someone I'm really in to who I know well and have actually experienced actual sex with then yes. It can be hot.

Anyone else, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the connection is intense and in the context of a conversation going that way it can engage the mind and build up the anticipation but that’s extremely rare .,.,

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes I enjoy it - if they're particularly skilled with words or know exactly how to press my buttons. Or if they can come on demand which I'll never get tired of seeing - he's got the perfect arms to watch as he wanks.

Generally no because I end up wanting the person even more; it's like a temporary scratch on an itch that needs so much more and I end up contemplating how quickly I can worship their cock in person.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

With someone I know, and have met and played with, I enjoy sexting when I know already what my partner enjoys, what my partner wants.

Words, when used well, can be incredibly hot and sexy, and they can help build the anticipation and excitement for the next time we meet.

It can be quite erotic, knowing beforehand, how things will pan out when we do next get together.

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Not into setting as such, but a bit of erotic chat in the build up to meet can help get the juices flowing. More so when you already know the people involved

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

This week chatted with a female from here. But on another app. Mostly was general chat finding out about each other . Photos exchanged , not many . Yes and some sexy chat. At end of chat . She made comment . Sent two photos. . From message thought was about how someone else turned her on. Her reply was look at photos. Both taken now. Realised yes was selfie she had sent earlier in chat . She said this was what our chat had done to her.

. She was very wet. Lol

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