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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Blimey. I give them away for free.

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By *wolf91Man
over a year ago

Rowley

Sounds like a lovely idea, I lo e cuddles for my other half.. especially when having a bad day...

But could others be trusted or expect more..

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I have seen them on TV in the past, often with people wearing pyjamas, snoozing and cuddling.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

This has been going on in Japan for a long time with little shops set up with cubicles and a bed. Just lay down, in clothes and hug and relax to relieve stresses of the day. Definitely nothing more. I can see why some people lacking any intimacy might pay for this and probably greatly relieves stress. On the other hand might just make them extra horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is cuddling therapy?

It is, pretty much, what it sounds like. You pay a cuddle therapist for a session which involves platonic touch, such as cuddling, stroking and hair-play. Sessions typically start with some relaxation exercises and breathing techniques.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Don’t think you can get that on the NHS just yet…

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Sounds like a good idea, loneliness affects some people very badly.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Lol I can get this free!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

What’s the going rate?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I want arms around me from someone who gives a shi though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lovely idea for people who are lonely and don’t get a lot of physical contact.

Wouldn’t be for me though.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I would certainly pay to have a woman sat on my lap for a cuddle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't because it would make me feel very uncomfortable if it was someone I didn't know. Being held, hugged and cuddled by someone you love is very different and something I enjoy very much

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Would be nice but know I'd get erection and leave frustrated lol

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Being held by a bunch of random strangers or one stranger wouldn't be for me, but I get that it would be hugely beneficial for some who feel bereft of physical touch.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Would be nice but know I'd get erection and leave frustrated lol"

You couldn't hold someone without being sexually aroused ?

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I wouldn’t. I don’t know why but I feel like it would make me feel even worse than I feel now, and trust me, I am starved of human touch on a cellular level.

I can’t help but thinking how artificial it would feel and no, it makes me sad even typing this.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

If she was fit yeah why not.

Lads lads lads.

Don't judge me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't pay me to have cuddles.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"You couldn't pay me to have cuddles."

I don't think that surprises many of us

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I like my money more

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Nope a cuddle Isn't a cuddle without intent or connection on some level - and how would i cope when the therapist became aroused and wanted more?? Its a minefield!!! Last

Thing I need is a cuddle therapist clinging onto my leg as i try and leave her office… be more stressed than when i went in…

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hair cut

Facial

Foot rub

Full body Massage

Turkish bath

Yada Yada Yada ..... but admit that you need a cuddle ?????

What is everyone so ashamed of ..... ?

I would NOT be going to a cuddle club or therapist though .... I need cuddles in the way I like to cuddle with the people I'd like to cuddle.

I don't want it prescribed by some hippy who read a wiki and hug the lonely local who is lonely because his feet stink!

Besides....... these things cost and they cost because they are a business venture not therapy given with the desire to heal.

What protection from assault or accusation would I get for my dollar ?

It's too fraught man ..... too fraught ....

What if 9 people turn up and one of us has to cuddle the cuddle teacher ...... do I pay half price if I get a boney one t cuddle...

Minefield......

Think I'll just slip them one

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No I'd rather pay for a full body massage, that's a better relaxing therapy for me, than paying for a cuddle off a stranger

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I couldn’t think of anything worse

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Hair cut

Facial

Foot rub

Full body Massage

Turkish bath

Yada Yada Yada ..... but admit that you need a cuddle ?????

What is everyone so ashamed of ..... ?

I would NOT be going to a cuddle club or therapist though .... I need cuddles in the way I like to cuddle with the people I'd like to cuddle.

I don't want it prescribed by some hippy who read a wiki and hug the lonely local who is lonely because his feet stink!

Besides....... these things cost and they cost because they are a business venture not therapy given with the desire to heal.

What protection from assault or accusation would I get for my dollar ?

It's too fraught man ..... too fraught ....

What if 9 people turn up and one of us has to cuddle the cuddle teacher ...... do I pay half price if I get a boney one t cuddle...

Minefield......

Think I'll just slip them one

"

^^ she said facial

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I agree that cuddles can help when your feeling down etc but I couldn’t think of anything worse than having a stranger cuddling me ..

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"No I'd rather pay for a full body massage, that's a better relaxing therapy for me, than paying for a cuddle off a stranger"

I only know in Japan from years back but this was very much for men wanting a cuddle off of a lady.

Also the advantage for those so inclined was that is very was very cheap and quick. You could have a 10 min cuddle for let's say £10 or 20 (can't remember exact numbers) so much cheaper and quicker than a full body massage. Not something that would ever interest me but it worked for many. I should say as well that it worked for many ladies offering the service who would be happy with a cuddle but would not do anything sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but understand why people do. I’m fortunate in my life to have lots of people to give me plenty of cuddles but if I had lost that intimacy and needed it you gotta get it somehow

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,I'm not a massive hugger anyway, so that doesn't sound good to me .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want arms around me from someone who gives a shi though.

"

Yup me too

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x"

It's been out for years really... seen documentary years ago.in Germany I think it was.

No..

I wouldn't pay...im just too stingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a opposite of lapdancing.

Lapdancing- lots of teasing, sexual arousal. But no contact or touching.

Cuddling- No teasing or sexual arousal, But lots of contact.

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By *cott14Man
over a year ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Cwtchs

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x"

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m now offering free cuddles …. For everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x"

Not me lol but floating the idea. My best cuddles and snuggles are from my grandson best ever x

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x

Not me lol but floating the idea. My best cuddles and snuggles are from my grandson best ever x"

He probably thinks yours are the best too

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x"

What does tantra holding involve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily pay for that , a cuddle does miracles when depressed

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x

What does tantra holding involve?"

There are variations. One is to exchange masculine vs feminine energy through breathing. That is regardless of your sex. One partner sits cross legged over the other.

The one below is the masculine energy in that position. The masculine breathes “out” through their groin “into” the groin of their partner who is breathing in from there. The female then channels that up and out through their heart to the heart space of their masculine partner.

Think of it as a circular form of energy passed between you both.

It’s incredibly attuned and comforting and can release some intense feelings in the process. Above all it leaves you feeling totally safe, held and secure. It isn’t for everyone.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x

What does tantra holding involve?

There are variations. One is to exchange masculine vs feminine energy through breathing. That is regardless of your sex. One partner sits cross legged over the other.

The one below is the masculine energy in that position. The masculine breathes “out” through their groin “into” the groin of their partner who is breathing in from there. The female then channels that up and out through their heart to the heart space of their masculine partner.

Think of it as a circular form of energy passed between you both.

It’s incredibly attuned and comforting and can release some intense feelings in the process. Above all it leaves you feeling totally safe, held and secure. It isn’t for everyone. "

I like the sound of this.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

This forum has had me spending my evening writing an entire business plan around hugging. I’ve come up with 15 or so positions to offer already. What a beautiful way to make a living if I could!

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x

What does tantra holding involve?

There are variations. One is to exchange masculine vs feminine energy through breathing. That is regardless of your sex. One partner sits cross legged over the other.

The one below is the masculine energy in that position. The masculine breathes “out” through their groin “into” the groin of their partner who is breathing in from there. The female then channels that up and out through their heart to the heart space of their masculine partner.

Think of it as a circular form of energy passed between you both.

It’s incredibly attuned and comforting and can release some intense feelings in the process. Above all it leaves you feeling totally safe, held and secure. It isn’t for everyone.

I like the sound of this."

It really is beautiful. But it matters who you do it with. I tried with one fellow and he was in a panic, his breath everywhere. Not everyone is ready for that level of intimacy. With the masseuse I see regularly it’s like our souls are in synch and we could stay there for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x

What does tantra holding involve?

There are variations. One is to exchange masculine vs feminine energy through breathing. That is regardless of your sex. One partner sits cross legged over the other.

The one below is the masculine energy in that position. The masculine breathes “out” through their groin “into” the groin of their partner who is breathing in from there. The female then channels that up and out through their heart to the heart space of their masculine partner.

Think of it as a circular form of energy passed between you both.

It’s incredibly attuned and comforting and can release some intense feelings in the process. Above all it leaves you feeling totally safe, held and secure. It isn’t for everyone.

I like the sound of this.

It really is beautiful. But it matters who you do it with. I tried with one fellow and he was in a panic, his breath everywhere. Not everyone is ready for that level of intimacy. With the masseuse I see regularly it’s like our souls are in synch and we could stay there for hours. "

That would be my guess exactly. Makes total sense.

Now I’m intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x"
Agreed. From a spirituality viewpoint it totally works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x

I think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me xAgreed. From a spirituality viewpoint it totally works "

Happy to be of service my lovely x

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Awwww I love cuddles. It's so lonely waking up with no one there to do a spoon cuddle

Second thoughts though. If the cuddle was so good and relaxing I'd either fall asleep again, or get aroused or be all emotional... rep to protect and all that jazz lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very selective about who I cuddle.

Not sure I'd be able to cuddle strangers without feeling weird. Wouldn't have the desired effect.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x"
i bet i can guess which bits of you will get the most cuddles,,, lol but the rest should get plenty too,, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a new business so would you pay for a cuddle session. No sex just lots of cuddles and hugs x"

Where is it advertised?

What skill level!

Not everyone knws how to hug. They all assume they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she was fit yeah why not.

Lads lads lads.

Don't judge me!"
.

They all say they are fit!!

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